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Date created
2015/07/27
Latest episode
2026/09/17
Average duration
49 min.
Release period
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We’re Cate and Darrell; an Aussie Swinger Podcast team & couple who share their journey into the Swinging Lifestyle. Join us as we talk through events, sex positive reviews, our journey and interview Swingers from all over the world. Previously called Swinging Downunder Podcast
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STI Testing for Swingers What “Recently Tested” Really Means
2026/09/17
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP224 – STI Testing for Swingers: What “Recently Tested” Really Means
What does “recently tested” actually mean when you’re a swinger, hotwife, single dater or practicing ethical non-monogamy? And does a negative STI test really tell you everything you think it does?
For Sexual Health Awareness Month, Cate is joined by Alan and Angela, founders of STD Hero, for a conversation about STI testing for swingers, MGen, oral gonorrhea, testing windows, site specific testing and the sexual health conversations we probably need to be having more often.
Did you know September is Sexual Health Awareness Month?!
Alan and Angela also share what they’re seeing through STD Hero’s own testing data, why they decided to include MGen in every STI panel, and why their positivity data has raised some interesting questions about infections such as oral gonorrhea.
And because sexual health is about far more than avoiding an infection, we get into communication, confidence, sexual wellness, talking openly about fantasies and desires, and why better sexual-health conversations can actually enable people to have more informed and pleasurable adventures.
Learn More About STI Testing for Swingers
The Ultimate Guide to STI Testing for Swingers
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/swingers-sti-testing/
MGen: The STI Swingers Should Watch Out For
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/m-genitalium-the-emerging-sti-for-swingers-to-watch/
STD Hero STI Statistics
https://mybls.com/pages/std-statistics
Useful Links
Join us at a Swingers Event OR Hotel Takeover
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Find swingers, clubs and events with SDC
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Support Our Sponsor
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Hotwife Solo in Cap D’Agde: What Happens When I Go Alone
2026/09/02
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP223 – Hotwife Solo in Cap D’Agde: What Happens When I Go Alone
What happens when a hotwife heads to Cap d’Agde alone? In this episode, Cate shares her wild solo trip to France’s famous swingers and naturist village, from f*****g at the foam party and partying naked to inviting a single guy to stay for two nights.
There are three-lady blowjobs on the dance floor, surprise friends from Toronto, stolen shoes, late-night chaos, plenty of fisting and some very sexy firsts. We also unpack the hotwife dynamic, compersion, sleeping beside another man for the first time, sending Darrell updates from afar and what happens when your partner isn’t there to share the experience.
Whether you're curious about Cap d’Agde, hotwifing, solo play or swingers travel, this is a very honest look at what can happen when one half of a couple goes off to play alone.
Watch the Cap d’Agde apartment tour https://youtu.be/tvMCUVv26aw?si=BU1fHdNUdPsrdcpP
See the behind-the-scenes photos https://www.patreon.com/c/swingingdownunder
Useful Links
Our Ultimate Swingers Guide to Cap d’Agde
https://wanderlustswingers.com/location-guides/cap-dagde-the-ultimate-swingers-guide/
Join us at a Swingers Event OR Hotel Takeover
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Find swingers, clubs and events with SDC
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Support Our Sponsor
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Hotwife Solo Date in Spain 3 Rounds & One BIG Surprise
2026/08/14
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP222 – Hotwife Solo Date in Spain: 3 Rounds & One BIG Surprise
What happens when a hotwife heads out on her first ever solo play date at a man's house? In this candid episode, we unpack one of Cate's hottest adventures yet, a solo date in Spain that started with a failed bartender flirtation, turned into a Feeld match, and ended with 3 unforgettable rounds and one very big surprise.
See the photos
https://www.patreon.com/cw/SwingingDownunder
We dive into what made this experience stand out: the thrill of solo play, the realities of safety and check-ins, filming for your partner, and why great chemistry can make all the difference. From first messages to post-date debriefs.
Whether you're exploring hotwifing, curious about solo dating in an open relationship, or just want a behind the scenes look at how couples navigate trust, communication, and independent play, we hope this episode offers a very honest and very sexy look at letting your partner have an adventure of their own
Useful Links
Join us at a Swingers Event OR Hotel Takeover
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Find swingers, clubs and events with SDC
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Support Our Sponsor
Comprehensive STI Testing (USA Only) – STD Hero
Use code LIBERTINE for 10% off
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Why We Schedule 3PM Orgies (And Why It Works)
2026/07/08
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP221 – Why We Schedule 3PM Orgies (And Why It Works)
What if scheduling sex actually made your swinger vacations better? In this candid episode, Cate sits down with her friend Firefly, an experienced hotwife and former unicorn who's spent more than 14 years exploring the swingers lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, and open relationships
Together, they dive into one of the biggest debates in the lifestyle: is spontaneous sex really better, or can planning your play create even hotter experiences? From the now famous "3PM orgy" tradition to dating solo while in a committed relationship, this conversation is packed with honest advice, plenty of laughs
• Why scheduling group play can actually reduce pressure and increase connection
• Hotwife dating and navigating open relationships
• How Firefly sorted through more than 200 messages on dating apps
• What actually makes a woman reply and the biggest mistakes single men make
• Why personality can beat looks
• European swingers clubs versus American lifestyle clubs
• How to introduce ethical non-monogamy to your partner
• Why rejection isn't as personal as you think
Whether you're a couple exploring the lifestyle, a single guy wondering why your messages get ignored, or simply curious about ethical non-monogamy, this episode offers a refreshingly honest look at dating, communication, and building genuine connections
Useful Links
Join us at a Swingers Event OR Hotel Takeover
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Find swingers, clubs and events with SDC
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Our review of Fun4Two
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-club-review/fun4two-swingers-club-review
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Bliss Cruise Review Part 2: Is a Swingers Cruise Actually Worth It?
2026/07/01
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP220 – Bliss Cruise Review Part 2: Is a Swingers Cruise Actually Worth It?
After six nights aboard the Bliss Cruise, Cate and Mallory wrap up their honest, unfiltered review of one of the world's biggest lifestyle cruises
In Part 2, they dive into what really happened behind the scenes, from navigating playrooms and missed opportunities to hilarious encounters with "Contrary George," unforgettable characters, and the lessons they wish they'd known before stepping onboard
Is the Bliss Cruise worth the money?
Is it better for experienced swingers or complete beginners?
Who should absolutely book a swingers cruise... and who probably shouldn't?
Plus, Cate sits down with Bliss Cruise CEO Russell Stephens for a candid interview covering the famous Dance & Play events, how Bliss designs each sailing, the enormous Wonder of the Seas November 2027 cruise, entertainment, host couples, and a rapid-fire game of True or Trope featuring some of the biggest myths about swingers cruises
Whether you're curious about ethical nonmonogamy, planning your first lifestyle cruise, or deciding between a hotel takeover and a swingers cruise, this episode gives you a genuine look at what the experience is really like
Join Us On The November 2027 Cruise
Join Wanderlust Swingers & Libertine Events on our hosted November 2027 Bliss Cruise and receive over US$500 in exclusive bonuses, private meetups, community access, and hosted events
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Useful Links
Join us at a Swingers Event OR Hotel Takeover
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Find swingers, clubs and events with SDC
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Support Our Sponsor
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Bliss Cruise Review Part 1: What Really Happens on a Swingers Cruise?
2026/06/24
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP219 – Bliss Cruise Review Part 1: What Really Happens on a Swingers Cruise?
After 11 years in the lifestyle, countless resorts, takeovers, and events around the world, Cate finally checked one item off the swinger bucket list: the Bliss Cruise.
Joined by Mallory, the pair share their honest first impressions of their first-ever swingers cruise experience, from cruise culture surprises and unexpected friendships to hilarious onboard characters, hotwife adventures, and a few moments of complete chaos.
In Part 1, we cover boarding day, the crowd demographics, theme parties, nightlife, the Jamaica and Cozumel beach events, and whether a swingers cruise lives up to the hype.
Plus: a wife offering her husband to us before breakfast, a self-proclaimed meteorologist, a man with superhuman stamina in the next cabin, and the best compliment we've ever received: "You're attractive, but you're weird."
Planning a Bliss Cruise? Join us on our hosted Wanderlust Swingers & Libertine Events group sailing aboard the November 2027 Bliss Cruise.
https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise/
Useful Links From This Episode
Join us at a Swingers Event
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Support Our Amazing Sponsors
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Hotwife Session Live From Hedonism Resort
2026/04/15
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP218 – Hotwife Session LIVE from Hedonism Resort
What does a live hotwifing conversation at Hedonism II Resort actually sound like?
In this special episode recorded LIVE at Hedonism Resort during Casual Swinger Week, Cate and Mallory host an open group session exploring real lifestyle experiences around hotwifing, safety, fantasy play, and navigating attention from single men
From conversations about vetting single guys and setting boundaries, to playful audience participation through Two Truths & a Lie, this session captures the energy, curiosity, and honesty that happens when swingers gather together in person to talk openly about desire and connection
Links Mentioned
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Useful Links from this Episode
Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Support Our Amazing Sponsors
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Inside Hedonism: Real Swingers Resort Stories, First-Timer Tips & Casual Swinger Week Takeover Interviews
2026/03/27
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP217 – Inside Hedonism: Real Swingers Resort Stories, First-Timer Tips & Casual Swinger Week Takeover Interviews
What really happens during a week at Hedonism II Resort?
In this episode, Cate shares a full recap of 7 nights at Hedonism during Casual Swinger Week, featuring four real interviews with guests from across the lifestyle, couples, women, returning attendees, and second-time visitors navigating confidence, connection, play spaces, and first-timer nerves at one of the world’s most iconic swingers resorts.
See BTS photos from the event on our Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
From nude pool parties and playroom firsts to breakfast-table friendships and group-play breakthroughs, this episode explores what actually happens on a lifestyle resort takeover week and what guests wish they’d known before arriving.
Whether you're curious about Hedonism, planning your first swingers resort trip, or wondering what takeover weeks feel like compared to regular resort stays, this episode gives you real stories from inside the experience.
New Blogs Mentioned
The Ultimate Guide to STi Testing in the swingers lifestyle
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Useful Links from this Episode
Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Support Our Amazing Sponsors
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Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama
2026/03/04
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP216 – Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama
After 11 years on Apple Podcasts, we’ve suddenly been removed from the US Apple directory and we’re still trying to figure out why
We also share a real update on shooting our shot in the lifestyle after sending 13 messages to potential matches on SDC. We break down the results (including ghosting statistics), and debate whether people actually owe a “no thank you” response on dating sites
Plus, a kink guessing game based on Cosmopolitan’s list of 55 kinks, and a fascinating story out of Nevada where workers at a legal brothel are attempting to unionize over controversial contract terms involving likeness and content rights
Rate our dating profile photos on Patreon!
https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Links
Cosmo Kink List
https://sex.cosmopolitan.com/pleasure/a24481923/kinks-fetish-list/
Join us at a Swingers Event
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
The Ultimate Guide to STI Testing For Swingers
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/swingers-sti-testing/
Support Our Amazing Sponsors
Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero
Get 10% off use code Libertine
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Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise
2026/02/18
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP215 – Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise
In this episode, we dive into a lifestyle topic that sparks massive debate: playroom etiquette and the “grey areas” that aren’t written in the rules.
We share a real experience from Fata Morgana (Netherlands) where another couple began having sex very close to us (around 20cm) in a small open playroom. No rules were broken, nobody touched anyone… but the vibe shifted fast, mainly due to proximity and intense watching.
That led to the real question:
When something is technically allowed, can it still be socially tone-deaf?
We also share highlights from the Reddit discussion (yes, some people roasted us), unpack the difference between rules vs social awareness, and give practical advice for navigating open play spaces when everyone’s boundaries are different.
Plus: Cate’s upcoming Bliss Cruise hotwife adventure, and our latest attempt at making new local lifestyle friends (with very Dutch planning timelines).
In This Episode
- Playroom etiquette vs “grey area” social awareness
- Parallel play, proximity, and when it feels invasive
- Why eye contact can change the dynamic fast
- Reddit reactions: “technically allowed but socially tone-deaf” vs “open room means accept it”
- Newbie advice: you can’t control others, only your response
- Cate’s Bliss Cruise plans with Mallory (two hotwives on the loose)
- Unicorn/hotwife dynamics + messages on the Bliss app
- Seasickness tips wanted + the drink package debate
- Finding new swinger friends: Cate sent 13 local messages and is tracking replies
Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026
Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel.
Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/
- $750 cashback for international guests
- $300 cashback for North American guests
Useful Links
Join us at a Swingers Event:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Wanderlust Swingers Website:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content:
https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events:
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Sponsors
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Swinger Cruises - Inside Bliss Cruise with CEO Russell Stephens
2026/02/02
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP214 – Swinger Cruises: Inside Bliss Cruise with CEO Russell Stephens
In this episode, we’re joined by Russell Stephens, CEO and part owner of Bliss Cruise, the world’s largest and most influential lifestyle cruise brand, for an unfiltered conversation about the past, present, and future of Bliss Cruise.
Russell shares how Bliss Cruise was acquired, why the ownership structure changed, and how decisions are actually made behind the scenes. We talk candidly about community concerns, guest privacy, pricing, drink packages, sponsorships, and the realities of working with major cruise lines while protecting a sex-positive lifestyle experience.
Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026
Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel.
Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/
- $750 cashback for international guests
- $300 cashback for North American guests
We also dive deep into what most guests never see, the logistics, planning, staffing, and production required to transform a “vanilla” cruise ship into a full-scale lifestyle event with thousands of guests.
If you’ve ever wondered:
- Who actually owns Bliss Cruise and how decisions are made
- How a cruise ship is converted into a swinger cruise in under 24 hours
- Why drink packages cost what they do
- What happened with cameras, videography, and privacy concerns
- How Bliss balances legacy guests with modernizing the experience
- Whether West Coast Bliss cruises are ever coming
- What goes into playrooms, music programming, and themed cruises
In This Episode
- Why Bliss Cruise was acquired and what changed with new ownership
- Russell’s personal history in the lifestyle and why that matters
- How guest feedback and surveys directly shape future cruises
- Privacy, consent, videography, and lessons learned
- Drink packages, pricing realities, and why sneaking alcohol hurts the community
- Sponsorship decisions and why some partnerships won’t happen again
- Behind-the-scenes logistics: staffing, playrooms, AV, decor, and scheduling
- How Royal Caribbean crews actually feel about Bliss sailings
- What makes Bliss Cruise different from resorts, clubs, and land-based events
Useful Links
Join us at a Swingers Event:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Wanderlust Swingers Website:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content:
https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events:
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Sponsors
Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero
Get 10% off, use code Libertine
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Get 15% off using code wanderlust26
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Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)
2026/01/26
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP213 – Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)
Sex toys, delay sprays, arousal gels, performance anxiety, libido, orgasms, and why using sexual wellness products does not mean you’re “bad in bed.”
In this episode, we’re joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, one of the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brands, to talk about the real science, real psychology, and real-world use of pleasure products — especially in the swinger and non-monogamous lifestyle.
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We dive deep into premature ejaculation, the arousal gap, performance pressure, female pleasure, and why the best lovers in the world use tools.
We also explore the incredible backstory of Promescent, including clinical trials, urologists, turning down a $30M pharma buyout, and why Jeff was determined to keep these products available next to condoms, not behind a prescription counter.
If you’ve ever wondered:
- Is using a delay spray cheating?
- Is performance anxiety mental or physical?
- Do arousal gels actually work?
- What should be in a swinger’s hoe-on-the-go bag?
- How do you last longer with multiple partners?
In This Episode
- The biggest myths about sexual wellness products and what they really mean
- Why the best lovers in the world use performance and pleasure aids
- The real science behind premature ejaculation (and why it’s mostly physiological)
- The “arousal gap” and why most women need more time than most men
- Performance anxiety vs physical dysfunction — which is more common?
- The true story of turning down a $30M pharma acquisition
- How Promescent went from one product to 20,000+ retail stores (Target, Walgreens, CVS, etc.)
- Spray vs wipes: which works best and when to use each
- How long delay spray lasts and how to reapply in multi-partner scenarios
- What swingers should actually carry in their hoe-on-the-go bag
- Female pleasure, arousal gels, blood flow, and why warming/buzzing gels work
Useful Links from This Episode:
Join us at a Swingers Event:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Wanderlust Swingers Website:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content:
https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events:
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Sponsors
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Get 10% off, use code Libertine
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HOTTAKES - The Hotwife Boom, Trend, Evoluation or Opportunism
2026/01/19
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP212 – Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode)
Hotwife is everywhere right now, searches are rising, events are multiplying, creators are rebranding, and porn studios are showing up in lifestyle spaces looking for “talent.” So is this a genuine shift in the lifestyle… or is porn culture and trend chasing bleeding into swinging?
Our Hottakes bonus episode, we unpack what hotwifing actually is (and isn’t), why the label is suddenly trending, and whether separate play dynamics are becoming more normal at couples events, or if it’s mostly just branding and algorithms.
In this Episode:
What hotwifing means (and how it’s different from cuckolding and “just separate play”)
Why “hotwife” searches spiked in 2024–2025 (Google Trends nerd moment)
The rise of hotwife-specific events, hall passes, and separate-play meetups
Are we seeing more hotwifing in real life — or just more people using the label?
Porn studios entering lifestyle spaces (including a couples-only cruise sponsor)
Content ownership + why “signing talent releases” can follow you forever
Our 10-year hotwife journey and whether we’re “missing opportunities”
Why hunting hall-pass husbands at couples events makes zero sense (and feels messy)
The big question: authentic evolution… or opportunistic trend
Useful Links from this Episode:
Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Wanderlust Swingers Website:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content:
https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events:
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Sponsors
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Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club
2026/01/12
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP211 – Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club
What happens when you get rejected from a swingers club, have an MFM at home that doesn’t quite land, and then walk into one of the most chaotic club nights you’ve had in 10 years?
In this episode, we kick off 2026 by unpacking getting denied entry to a Belgium club, lessons from a recent MFM, and a wild swingers club night that included a consent violation, staff intervention, and a serious conversation about safety and responsibility in lifestyle spaces.
And wrap up with a quick 2025 recap, 2026 goals, and why “approaching the unapproachable” (and being the ugliest one in the orgy) might be the new vibe.
In this Episode:
Getting rejected from a swingers club (and what photos clubs actually want)
MFM lessons & why home play can be harder than hotels
Condom fit issues & why your hoe bag needs options
Dressing down at clubs without killing the vibe
A consent violation and how quickly things escalated
What responsibility club owners have for creating safer spaces
2025 recap + 2026 goals and lifestyle plans
Useful Links from this Episode:
Club Eroxx Review (Belgium):
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-club-review/club-eroxx-review/
Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/
Wanderlust Swingers Website:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content:
https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events:
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Sponsors
Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine
Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26
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Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips
2025/12/03
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP210 – Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips
What really happens inside a swingers hotel takeover?
In this episode, Cate sits down with multiple attendees from our recent Libertine Events takeover to share raw, funny, and deeply honest stories from inside a lifestyle weekend.
You’ll hear from brand-new swingers, long-term lifestyle couples, empty nesters, solo explorers, and couples still finding their dynamic — all discussing their playroom experiences, nerves, sexy wins, confidence breakthroughs, and what they wish they’d known before their first event.
Expect heartfelt conversations, hilarious confessions (including an accidental c**k-block and a 12-hand massage), and genuinely useful advice for navigating hotel takeovers with confidence, clarity, and connection.
In this Episode:
Real-life swinger stories from a full hotel takeover
Relationship dynamics & long-term lifestyle journeys
Playrooms vs private rooms
Lingerie catwalk moments
Introverts in the lifestyle
Handling mismatched attraction & veto moments
Host vibes, accidental interruptions & how to speak up
Open-door hotel rooms
Useful Links from this Episode
Libertine Events – swingers hotel takeovers & parties: https://libertineevents.com/
Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & lingerie content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
Rob and Linz https://www.instagram.com/anything.but.vani11a/
Hot Couple Chronicles Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/0egGy8ukwpdUVfUAndCV2V
Sponsors
Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine
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Podcast reviews
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hatchet jack007 2026/04/23
Great podcast!
They do a great job making the content feel both educational and entertaining, creating a space where you can learn and enjoy the conversation at the ...
TimW63 2026/04/23
The best swinger podcast for experienced or those just getting started
Some swinger podcasts are funny and irreverent, others take themselves way too seriously. Cate and Darrell hit the perfect balance. Plus I just love l...
pbghost04 2026/04/23
Great entertaining and informative pod!
I’ve been listening to Cate and Darrell for a few years now. I really enjoy their content.
ABVWuzHere 2026/04/23
Informative and Relevant
An engaging, well thought out show with guests that make the topics more real for those in the LifeStyle. 10/10 every time.
work_phone123321 2026/03/25
Unethical hosts and disappointing to work with.
Unprofessional experience where communication was lacking all around. For a show centered around sex workers, I expected more genuine support and inte...
Hdukvfjj 2026/03/09
Podcast hosts unresponsive
I’ve sent countless emails and DMs to cate and Darrel about my episode with no reply. Feeling very discouraged, unsupportive, and used.
DonDubEight 2025/09/27
Episode 205
Thank you, Cate, for a really informative and helpful episode on STIs and safer sex. There was no judgment or bias, just a clear and realistic convers...
mgd1961 2023/12/03
Entertain but!!!
Darrell, are so condescending and argumentative in real life? I don’t like you very much. I enjoy a good debate but in this context it’s uncalled for...
EugeneGuy 2023/09/25
Well Done
Really enjoy this podcast. Love the banter between the hosts and the way they openly and honestly discuss the lifestyle. For newbies or experts, there...
Jsquance 2022/09/11
Speak up
The guy is a mumbling d-bag and often condescending to his wife. You are doing a podcast dude. Speak up.
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