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Two cities, two lifestyle venues, and plenty of stories to tell! This week on By the Bi, Bradford and Angela take you along for a little adventure as they share their experiences visiting Flamingo Penrith and Pineapples Lifestyle Bar in Melbourne. From first impressions and the atmosphere to the people, the spaces, and everything in between, we're giving you our take on what it's like to visit these two different lifestyle venues. Whether you're a seasoned lifestyle explorer or just curious about what these venues have to offer, join us for an honest, cheeky chat about our adventures on the Australian lifestyle scene. Grab a drink, get comfortable, and come along for the ride! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Bisexual+ people are often overlooked in research, so what happens when a study focuses entirely on us? This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the groundbreaking BiSHH (Bi+ Sexual Health and HIV) Study from UNSW. As a member of the study’s advisory panel, Angela shares what makes this research so important and why it’s a milestone for the bi+ community. We unpack some of the study’s most interesting findings, challenge long-held myths about bisexuality, discuss what the research reveals about sexual health, HIV, healthcare experiences, and community, and finish with a few surprising statistics that caught us completely off guard. Whether you’re bi+, an ally, a healthcare professional, or just curious about what the latest research says, this episode explores how better data can lead to better health, better representation, and better outcomes for the bi+ community. https://bishhstudy.com/ Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Every June, the world turns rainbow. Companies update their logos, Pride festivals fill city streets, and social media overflows with messages of support. For many LGBTQ+ people, it's a celebration of how far we've come. For others, it raises some uncomfortable questions. Has Pride become too commercial? Has it become less political? Has it become more inclusive—or less? And where do bisexual, kinky, non-monogamous, and other often-overlooked communities fit into modern Pride? In this Pride Month episode, Bradford and Angela explore the evolution of Pride from protest to party, discuss the rise of rainbow capitalism, tackle the perennial kink-at-Pride debate, and examine why bisexual people can still feel invisible in spaces that are supposed to celebrate the entire LGBTQ+ community. Whether you see Pride as a protest, a celebration, a memorial, or simply an excuse to wear too much glitter, join us as we ask: has Pride lost its edge, or is this simply what progress looks like? As always, expect thoughtful discussion, a few strong opinions, and probably at least one tangent. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Angela and Bradford get delightfully real (and a little spicy) about The Bonding Project (https://www.bondingproject.com/) from the Center for Positive Sexuality; a research-driven relationship quiz that’s basically Myers-Briggs for intimacy, mapping how you bond across dimensions like stability vs exploration, independence vs togetherness, and structure vs flexibility. They tease apart the 16 relationship archetypes, then reveal their own results: Bradford as a Villager and Angela as a... well you'll have to listen and see! Using their dynamic as an example, they talk compatibility, friction points, and how shared rituals can keep love connected without feeling trapped. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of By the Bi, we’re diving into the importance of community within bisexual, non-monogamous, and kink spaces. We talk about why having a sense of belonging matters so much, especially when your identity or lifestyle sits outside the mainstream and how the right community can provide support, validation, and genuine connection. We also get real about the challenges: showing up alone, navigating cliques, dealing with rejection, and figuring out where you actually fit. Plus, we share personal experiences from building our own community through events and Discord chats to those small moments that turn strangers into friends. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite belong, or you’re still looking for your people, this episode is for you. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of By the Bi, we sit down for our annual relationship check-in and we decided to invite you along. This is an unscripted, intimate conversation about love, desire, communication, and the life we’re actively building together. We talk about what feels good, what feels stuck, and what’s quietly evolving—from emotional connection and long-term satisfaction to sex, intimacy, boundaries, and how desire changes over time. There’s tenderness, there’s friction, and there’s that charged in-between space where real connection lives. This episode isn’t advice or a relationship blueprint. It’s a candid look at what it takes to keep choosing each other (especially in non-monogamous, bisexual, and sex-positive relationships) when growth, pleasure, and practicality all collide. Listen with curiosity. Take what resonates. Leave the rest. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

NOTE: THIS IS NOT A RE-RELEASE! THIS IS NEW!!!!! (And you're gonna love it!) You ask for it… again and again. This week on By the Bi, things get steamy, sticky, and just a little bit stripped down as we revisit one of our most unforgettable indulgences with The Gentleman. There’s heat, there’s tension, and yes—plenty of smooth, satisfying moments where everything is laid bare. Angela brings the precision, Bradford brings the chaos, and The Gentleman? Well… let’s just say he takes it like a champ. If you thought the last session was slick, wait until you hear what happens when the temperature rises again. Get ready for the return of the drip, the tug, and the irresistible urge to shout “just one more strip!” You know you’re curious. Go on… hit play. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on By the Bi, Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn’t see coming—and now he can’t stop thinking about it. Angela digs into the juicy details as the two unpack what it’s like to unexpectedly discover a new layer of your sexuality, how it feels to lean into the unknown, and why staying curious is one of the sexiest things you can do. Tune in for a spicy, surprising episode that proves the right hookup can do more than just hit the spot—it can change the game. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on By the Bi, we’re coming to you live from the sun-drenched, pleasure-filled playground of Xcape to the Tropics 2025! Join Angela and Bradford as they soak up the vibes, connect with the community, and dive into the sexy, adventurous, and sometimes downright outrageous moments that make this event one of the lifestyle calendar’s most anticipated highlights. From themed parties and poolside flirtation to meaningful conversations and unforgettable play, this episode captures the essence of what it means to explore connection, freedom, and fun in a space built for expression and excitement. Plus, you’ll hear from a few familiar voices and maybe even some new ones as we bring the spirit of Xcape straight to your ears. Whether you were there or wish you had been, this episode is your all-access pass to the energy, intimacy, and joy of Xcape to the Tropics. Tune in, get turned on, and travel with us—no passport required. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello all… it’s been a minute, but we are back! This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive deep into a topic that underpins everything in the lifestyle — authenticity. Whether you’re navigating polyamory, kink, or just trying to show up as your whole self in everyday life, authenticity can be both empowering and terrifying. So what does it really mean to be authentic? And how do you maintain that honesty with yourself and others when vulnerability feels risky? We unpack our own journeys with embracing authenticity — the struggles, the breakthroughs, and the unexpected freedom that comes with being unapologetically real. From lifestyle events to everyday relationships, we explore how authenticity shapes connection, community, and confidence. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Due to travel schedules, this week’s episode is a rerelease. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aiming to foster a more understanding and informed conversation. Join us as we discuss the importance of education in STI management. We’ll also share personal stories of the social and emotional aspects of an STI diagnosis, offering insights on coping with stigma and maintaining a healthy sexual life. Tune into By the Bi for this enlightening discussion and remember to subscribe for more episodes that challenge misconceptions and celebrate the diversity of human sexuality. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From the sugared thighs of Ancient Egypt to the shimmering vajazzles of the 2000s, this solo episode dives deep into the sensual, political, and power-laden history of pubic hair removal. Bradford takes Angela on an intimate journey through time—where grooming rituals weren’t just about beauty, but about gender, class, control, and desire. We trace how hairlessness became sacred, sinful, scandalous, and—eventually—optional. Along the way, we explore sugaring, topiary, pubic contouring, and the commodification of the vulva in porn and pop culture. This is a history of bodies shaped by others—and what it means when we take that shape back. Because hair has never just been hair. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford take you inside their cheeky adventure at Melbourne’s Museum of Desire — an immersive playground of sensuality, art, and introspection. While wandering through this unique space, we found ourselves face-to-face with a Never Have I Ever game built for two. As we reveal our own risqué answers, we also disclose how our experiences compared to the percentages of other museum-goers who had played before us. From surprising admissions to hilarious “of course we have” moments, we break down the questions, the stats, and what these collective confessions say about curiosity, kink, and the universality of desire. Tune in for an intimate yet insightful episode where it’s just the two of us… and a room full of anonymous secrets. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this solo episode, Angela opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of body image in non-monogamous and kink spaces. From first-party nerves to reclaiming confidence at every age and size, she shares personal stories, practical tips, and empowering insights on navigating body shame and embracing desire without apology. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned player, this is your reminder: your body is worthy of pleasure. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

RERELEASE: Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a tantalizing shock from the Neon Wand, and each miss bringing a painful zap. This electrifying game will reveal just how much they know about sex, kink, and everything in between. Angela guides the game with her usual flair, providing laughter, suspense, and a few educational tidbits along the way. Will Bradford and The Gentleman survive the shocks and awe of Angela’s devious quiz? Tune in to By the Bi for this zappy, zany episode and find out who will scream for the right reasons! Subscribe now for more unconventional fun and games with Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.