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🎟️ THE TURN 2027 — REGISTER NOW:The Turn - One room. Two days. Four cities.   Join Brian Buffini for two days of live coaching in San Diego, Bethesda, Dallas, or Nashville. Get practical strategies and personalized coaching to help you build a stronger business.   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━   Winning isn't about outperforming everyone around you. It's about mastering the fundamentals, staying consistent, and becoming better than you were yesterday.   In this episode of The Brian Buffini Show, Brian reveals what it really takes to compete and win in business and life. From the power of dependability to the dangers of complacency, he shares why your greatest competition should always be yourself.   Then, Brian and Ethan Beute explore how discipline, personal growth, and getting just 1% better can lead to lasting success.   In this episode, you'll discover:   • Why dependability is the foundation of trust and long-term success. • How comparing yourself to others can hold you back. • Why discipline and consistency can outperform natural talent. • How getting 1% better can transform your results over time. • Why personal growth isn't always reflected in immediate results. • How success can lead to complacency—and what to do about it. • Why embracing challenges brings out your best. • How to find greater purpose and fulfillment in the pursuit of success.   Whether you're a business owner, real estate professional, leader, or simply working toward personal goals, this conversation will challenge the way you think about competition, growth, and what it really means to win.   Brian's challenge: What's one thing you can improve by just 1% this week?   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━   LINKS & RESOURCES   🎟️ THE TURN 2027 — REGISTER NOW:The Turn - One room. Two days. Four cities.   Ready to take your business to the next level? Schedule a free Business Consultation:The Brian Buffini Show | Business, Personal Growth & Success   SUBSCRIBE TO THE BRIAN BUFFINI SHOW:The Brian Buffini Show   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━   CONNECT WITH THE BRIAN BUFFINI SHOW: 🌐 Website: https://www.thebrianbuffinishow.com 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/buffiniandcompany 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buffiniandco ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheBrianBuffiniShow   #BrianBuffini #PersonalGrowth #SuccessMindset #SelfImprovement #Leadership

Ready to build your business around the strengths that make you uniquely effective? Get a FREE 30-minute Business Consultation:The Brian Buffini Show | Business, Personal Growth & Success   Discover your natural gifts with the FREE Real Strengths Assessment:The Brian Buffini Show | Business, Personal Growth & Success   Most people say they have untapped potential. Brian Buffini sees that very differently.   In this episode of The Brian Buffini Show, Brian explains why your natural gifts are meant to be discovered, developed and given away — and why leaving them unused may be one of life's greatest regrets.   Brian breaks down three essential steps: learn your gifts, honor your gifts and master your gifts. He shares how preparation transformed his own gift for public speaking, why working outside your strengths can drain you, how your natural communication and selling styles affect the way you operate, and why building your life and business around what you do best can change everything.   Ethan joins Brian to explore purpose, ikigai, flow state, self-awareness, relationships and the power of understanding how you're naturally wired. You'll also hear how Brian's own gifts shaped Buffini & Company, why Real Strengths became such an important part of the company's coaching methodology and what decades of deliberate practice taught him about mastery. NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “Talent is what you're naturally good at. Skill is what you've learned through practice.” – Brian Buffini “You have to learn about your gifts. You have to honor your gifts, and then you master your gifts.” – Brian Buffini “Build your business and life around what you're great at.” – Brian Buffini “Rather than do more and be more, it's like I can give more. I can gift more.” – Brian Buffini

Click here to watch on YouTube A full life can be a great life, but only if you learn how to manage it well. In this episode, Brian shares the lessons he has learned from decades of building a business, raising a family and pursuing a life of purpose. He explains how to identify what matters most, understand the difference between your load and capacity and recognize what truly rewards you. Brian also shares the powerful story of one of the lowest points of his life and how it continues to give him perspective today. YOU WILL LEARN: • How to identify what matters most and align your time with your priorities.• Why understanding your load and capacity is essential to managing a full life.• How your experiences, strengths and struggles can help reveal your purpose. NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “Success is the quality of your problems improving.” – Brian Buffini “Will it matter in five years?” – Brian Buffini “You can people-please yourself to death. You can react your way into bankruptcy. But you have to lead yourself into success.” – Brian Buffini “Out of your pain comes your purpose.” – Brian Buffini “If you’re not willing to suffer for it, it sure as hell isn’t your purpose.” – Brian Buffini “The truth of the matter is, every day since then has been easy. I just didn’t know it.” – Brian Buffini Thebrianbuffinishow.com

Click here to watch on YouTube Being great at sales doesn’t automatically make you a great CEO. Making the jump from salesperson to business leader requires a completely different set of skills.   In this episode of The Brian Buffini Show, Brian shares five lessons he learned while making that transition himself — from becoming a strategic thinker and understanding the financial language of business to developing leadership skills, driving the vision and building a network of other leaders.   Brian also gets candid about the mistakes he made along the way, including why he was a “terrible boss” to his first assistant, the systems he had to build and how he eventually went from salesperson to leading a company with hundreds of employees.   You’ll learn why strong sales skills alone aren’t enough to lead a growing business, how to think longer-term, why every business owner needs to understand P&L and cash flow, and what it really takes to start thinking like a CEO.   Ready to take your business to the next level? Schedule a free Business Consultation:The Brian Buffini Show | Business, Personal Growth & Success   Subscribe to The Brian Buffini Show The Brian Buffini Show

Click here to watch on YouTube Brian Buffini sits down with Tom Ziglar, son of legendary speaker Zig Ziglar, for a deeply personal conversation about success, service, trust, belief and the principles that continue to change lives decades later.   Tom breaks down five powerful questions hidden inside one of Zig Ziglar’s most famous ideas: “You can have everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”   What do you want? Why do you want it? Who do you want to help? What do they want? And how can you help them get it?   Brian and Tom also explore why discouragement can keep us from doing what we already know we should do, what younger generations really need from leaders, why trust remains at the center of business and relationships, and why the action that makes you most uncomfortable may be the action you need to take next.   And as artificial intelligence transforms the way we work, Tom shares one distinction that technology may never overcome: AI can give you answers, but it can’t believe in you.   In this episode:   • The five questions behind Zig Ziglar’s philosophy of success • What Zig Ziglar was really like away from the stage • Why hope and encouragement matter when times get difficult • How helping others creates lasting success • Why trust is still one of the most valuable things you can build • What younger generations need from leaders • How AI can make us more effective without replacing human connection • Why belief can move people when information alone cannot • How to recognize the uncomfortable action you need to take • Tom Ziglar’s own philosophy of belief, mindset and legacy   Brian and Tom also look ahead to the Ziglar 100 celebration on October 16, honoring what would have been Zig Ziglar’s 100th birthday and the principles that continue to impact generations.   LEARN MORE ABOUT ZIGLAR 100:The Ziglar 100 Transformation Experience

Click here to watch on YouTube AI is changing how business gets done, but technology alone isn’t enough. In this episode, Brian shares his vision for the future of coaching and explains how Buffini & Company is combining 30 years of proven training, coaching and Working by Referral with powerful new technology. He breaks down how Ask Buffini will help members simplify their businesses, increase productivity and spend more time doing what matters most: connecting with and serving people. YOU WILL LEARN: • How AI can help small businesses operate with greater productivity and leverage.• Why the future of business is a combination of high tech and high touch.• How Ask Buffini will combine coaching, accountability, community and business support. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Business Consultation NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “AI is only as good as the information that it draws from.” – Brian Buffini “We’ve always been a high-touch company that had supporting tech. And now we will be a high-tech company with high touch layered throughout.” – Brian Buffini “The future is high tech, high touch, more specialization and personalization.” – Brian Buffini “If you have the desire to serve, a willingness to grow and the determination to not only do the fundamentals but eventually master the fundamentals, I can take anybody and make them a millionaire.” – Brian Buffini “Our job is to help you get better at what you do, face to face, voice to voice, with more customers, to do more business and have an even better business and better quality of life.” – Brian Buffini Thebrianbuffinishow.com

Click here to watch on YouTube The housing market you’re waiting for isn’t coming back. For years, buyers, sellers and real estate professionals have been waiting for housing to return to “normal.” Brian Buffini says that’s the wrong way to look at what’s happening. In this episode of The Brian Buffini Show, Brian explains why the real estate market is still digesting the extraordinary conditions created during COVID—and why that process could continue for years. He breaks down the major demographic shifts reshaping housing, including the enormous influence of baby boomers, the rising age of first-time buyers, the growth of multigenerational households and the increasing importance of the Gen X “sandwich generation.” Brian also explains why he doesn’t expect either a massive housing crash or another COVID-style boom, what improving affordability could actually look like, and how real estate professionals can gain market share by adapting to the market that exists today instead of waiting for the old one to return. YOU WILL LEARN: • Why the real estate market is not returning to pre-COVID conditions. • How demographic shifts are creating new opportunities for buyers, sellers and agents. • Why success in today’s market requires patience, creativity and a focus on relationships. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Free Business Consultation NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “The real estate market is the anaconda that ate the meal called the COVID real estate market. And it will take years to digest.” – Brian Buffini “The market you have is the market you’re going to have.” – Brian Buffini “Affordability will improve over time. Inventory will release over time.” – Brian Buffini “It’s the people who build trust and who were there for people when the market was down. Those are the people who will benefit when the market goes back up.” – Brian Buffini “The first-time buyer has to be more disciplined, more long term and more creative.” – Brian Buffini Thebrianbuffinishow.com

Click here to watch on youtube The real estate industry is changing fast, but change creates opportunity for professionals who know how to adapt. In this episode, Brian Buffini breaks down the state of real estate today, from shifting agent demographics and brokerage consolidation to declining production and rising expenses. He also explains why the agents who focus on relationships, productivity and serving their clients at the highest level will be positioned to capture greater market share in the years ahead. YOU WILL LEARN: How the demographics and structure of the real estate industry are changing.Why more agents are moving toward independent brokerages.Why relationships, referrals and client conversations remain the foundation of a successful real estate business.NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “Markets change, technology changes, the rules will continue to change. But trust never goes out of style.” – Brian Buffini “You better not get into this business until you freaking love it, and you're willing to work at it.” – Brian Buffini “The majority of transactions were repeat and referral customers.” – Brian Buffini “If you don't have an assistant, you are an assistant.” – Brian Buffini “All real estate is local and all real estate is personal.” – Brian Buffini Thebrianbuffinishow.com

Click here to watch on YouTube Artificial intelligence is changing the way we work, create and do business at extraordinary speed. In this episode, Brian shares why the real AI boom is only beginning and explains how those who learn to leverage it will have a major advantage in the years ahead. He explores the downside of innovation, the productivity gains AI will create and the new opportunities available to businesses of every size. He also shares how AI is shaping the future of Buffini & Company and why adaptability, continued learning and a long-term approach to investing will be more important than ever. YOU WILL LEARN: Why every major innovation creates disruption and opportunity.How AI will dramatically increase productivity and allow small businesses to operate like much larger companies.Why adaptability and continued learning will be essential in the AI economy.NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “History rewards the people who adapt. The AI boom will be no different.” – Brian Buffini “You can be its master and not its servant. You have to learn how to manage the AI and not have it manage you.” – Brian Buffini “The AI boom is the productivity boom.” – Brian Buffini “The more of you you put into it, the more of you it’ll give you back.” – Brian Buffini “It’s the ultimate leverage technology.” – Brian Buffini “There’s nothing to be afraid of, if you’re growing. There’s a lot to be afraid of if you’re waiting for things to stay the same.” – Brian Buffini TheBrianBuffiniShow.com

Click here to watch on YouTube Trust isn't built with one impressive moment. It's built by what you do over and over again.   In this episode of The Brian Buffini Show, Brian shares his blueprint for becoming a trusted advisor through three essential qualities: consistency, communication and conscientiousness.   You'll learn why reliability matters more than occasional brilliance, why listening may be the most valuable communication skill you can develop, how overcommunication reduces your clients' anxiety, and why taking care of the smallest details can separate a good professional from someone people trust for years.   Brian also explains why meeting someone's transactional needs might earn you a check, but meeting their emotional needs can create an advocate for life.   NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “People don't stay loyal because you know the answers. They stay loyal because they know you'll show up, tell them the truth and always have their best interests at heart.” – Brian Buffini “Trust is built with consistency.” – Brian Buffini “The only way that I have been able to be consistent in my life is an absolute maniacal commitment to routine.” – Brian Buffini “If you want to be a great communicator, you have to be a great listener.” – Brian Buffini “If you meet somebody's transactional needs, you get a check. If you meet their emotional needs, you create an advocate.” – Brian Buffini “You have to be faithful with a little to be given much.” – Brian Buffini “Trust is gained in ounces and lost in pounds.” – Brian Buffini “You don't have to be great to be great. You have to be consistent.” – Brian Buffini The Brian Buffini Show  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Click here to watch on YouTube You know you’re capable of more. But what happens when you don’t use the potential you’ve been given? In this episode of The Brian Buffini Show, Brian explains why untapped potential isn’t harmless. When your natural gifts and abilities go unused, they can eventually become a source of frustration, self-doubt, fear and mediocrity. Click here to get your free RealStrengths Assessment   Brian shares the three elements that can help you become more of who you were designed to be: embrace your gifts, leverage your skills and lean into your design. He explains how to recognize abilities that may come so naturally you don’t even realize they’re strengths, why your greatest gift can also become a blind spot and why talent alone will never replace developing your craft.   Then, in Ask Brian, Brian and Ethan explore the “tuning fork moments” that can reveal what you’re naturally built to do, why some extraordinarily talented people never fulfill their potential and how fear causes people to bury the very gifts they’ve been given.   You’ll also hear how coaches, mentors and the people around you can help reveal strengths you may not see in yourself—and Brian shares practical advice for young adults who feel stuck trying to choose a career or direction in a rapidly changing world. NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “We all know we're made for more. Are we willing to pay the price?” – Brian Buffini “When you take the gift and then go hone it, now you got something.” – Brian Buffini “The path of least resistance is a default position for humankind, and it also leads to a life of frustration and mediocrity.” – Brian Buffini “When you don't lean into your gifts, your gifts go to work against you.” – Brian Buffini “We've never put greatness into anybody, but we sure have pulled greatness out of a lot of people.” – Brian Buffini “Once you become a doer and not a watcher, the game changes.” – Brian Buffini The Brian Buffini Show  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Click here to watch on YouTube Parenting is not about controlling every outcome or protecting your children from every setback. It is about preparing them to make wise decisions, overcome adversity and become confident, independent adults. In this episode, Brian shares lessons from raising six children and explains how to parent from love instead of fear. He also outlines the three stages of parenting, moving from controller to coach to confidant. Later, Brian answers questions about standards, accountability and leadership before coaching a real estate professional on how to scale exceptional service without losing the personal touch. YOU WILL LEARN: • How to help your children become strong decision makers. • Why safe setbacks and consequences are essential for growth. • How to transition from controller to coach to confidant. NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “Don’t parent from fear. Parent from love.” – Brian Buffini “The adversity they faced and overcame in their life was the making of them.” – Brian Buffini “Love is a four-letter word spelled T-I-M-E.” – Brian Buffini “The evidence of your parenting is how well they leave and how well they grow.” – Brian Buffini “If you try to control a kid, you will drive them away.” – Brian Buffini “The quality of the service will improve as your systems improve.” – Brian Buffini The Brian Buffini Show  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Click here to watch on YouTube You do not need another hour in your day. You need to decide what deserves the hours you already have. Brian Buffini was not naturally good at managing his time. In fact, he was constantly late until a mentor helped him understand that being late was not simply a bad habit—it was breaking trust. That lesson changed how Brian approached his calendar, his business and his life.   In this episode, Brian shares how he lays out his year, plans his month, schedules his week and prioritizes his day. He explains why personal commitments must go on the calendar first, why the most important work cannot be treated as optional and why successful people protect their time as carefully as they protect their money. The goal is not to fill every minute. It is to make sure your time reflects the life, relationships and business you truly want to build. In Coach ’Em Up, Brian also helps a mother-daughter real estate team create clearer roles, healthier boundaries and individual goals as they build a successful family business together. YOU WILL LEARN: • How your use of time builds or breaks trust. • How to organize your year, month, week and day around your priorities. • Why boundaries and non-negotiable activities help you achieve more without sacrificing your life.   NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “Time management is a skill.” - Brian Buffini “I lay out my year. I plan my month. I schedule the week, and I prioritize the day.” - Brian Buffini “To consistently show up late is the greatest form of disrespect, because the only thing in this world that matters is time.” - Brian Buffini “You can get more money. You’ll never get more time.” - Brian Buffini   The Brian Buffini Show  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Click here to watch on YouTube Most people think spending money is a math problem. But what we buy is often shaped by our childhood experiences, family history, insecurities, identity and expectations about what success should look like.   Drawing on ideas from Morgan Housel’s book The Art of Spending Money, Brian breaks down the psychology behind spending, the status trap that keeps people chasing approval and a powerful formula for understanding happiness.   Brian also shares the painful childhood experience that helped shape his drive, how money can mean completely different things to two people and why wealth is most valuable when it buys time, freedom, simplicity and peace of mind.   Then, Brian coaches a highly successful business owner who is confronting an important question: What happens when the business you built begins competing with the life and relationships you value most?   Register free for Buffini Coaching Live on July 30 at 9:00 a.m. Pacific and hear Brian Buffini and Morgan Housel live: https://www.thebrianbuffinishow.com/bcl NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “People spend a lot of money on things we don't need to impress people we don't know.” – Brian Buffini “Happiness equals circumstances minus expectations.” – Morgan Housel “Money can buy you happiness. But it won't be the stuff and it won't be the status.” – Brian Buffini “The psychology of money and the psychology of success are about finding out what matters most, understanding that’s where your treasure lies, and then building a life that supports that.” – Brian Buffini “The same thing that got me here isn’t going to get me there.” – Brian Buffini The Brian Buffini Show Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Click here to watch on YouTube When the market slows down, most people focus on what they can't control. The professionals who continue to grow focus on what they can. In this episode of The Brian Buffini Show, Brian shares a practical blueprint for staying positive, building resilience, and growing your business even when the market feels uncertain. Learn why some agents are having record years while others are leaving the industry, how to control the influences shaping your mindset, and why your habits, relationships, and self-talk matter more than ever. Whether you're in real estate, sales, business, or simply navigating a challenging season, these timeless principles will help you stay focused, confident, and ready for the opportunities others miss. YOU WILL LEARN: How to protect your attitude by managing your intake, associations and affirmations.Why difficult markets create opportunities for skilled professionals to gain market share.How positive self-talk and intentional encouragement can improve your performance and relationships. NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: “You can be a positive agent in a negative real estate market.” – Brian Buffini “When somebody’s nervous and scared, that’s when a pro gets to shine.” – Brian Buffini “The most negative person in your life will always be you.” – Brian Buffini "It’s impossible to shine a light on someone else’s path without lighting up your own.” – Brian Buffini “If you are willing to be an encourager, you’ll find out that it not only impacts those around you, but it impacts you.” – Brian Buffini The Brian Buffini Show Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.