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This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we start things off light with a “hydration station” cocktail (because apparently water is the drink of the day 😭) before spiraling into a conversation that goes everywhere — and we mean everywhere. From reflections on Harriet Tubman’s no-nonsense leadership to debates about whether we’d survive the apocalypse, the girls get into family compounds, doomsday prepper plans, and what skills actually matter when everything falls apart. Let’s just say… not everyone is making the cut. Somehow, we also find time to debate fast food favorites, question what’s really in our food, and discuss helping others versus minding your business when life choices get questionable. And of course, the advice segment does not disappoint: – One listener wants to surprise her husband with anal sex but is TERRIFIED 😅 – Another shares a church story that took a turn she absolutely did not see coming… It’s unhinged, it’s hilarious, it’s a little deep, and it’s very much CockTales. Grab your drink (or your water, apparently) and tune in. 🧠 Key Topics Covered “Hydration Station” aka… just drink waterHarriet Tubman & standing on businessFood cravings, fast food confessions, and conspiracy rabbit holesFamily compounds & end-of-the-world planningSurvival skills: what actually matters?Helping others vs. minding your businessListener advice: trying anal for the first timeChurch heartbreak & unexpected plot twists Offers From Our Sponsors: BROOKLYN BEDDING Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. Go to BrelloHealth.com to see if you qualify and explore their GLP-1 plans, starting at $133 per month for your first three months, plus access to their app, community, and wellness classes.  IndaCloud If you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES! #indacloudpod Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Soaking Wet- VB Health Visit soakingwet.com and use code CockTales for 10% off or click the link in the episode description Contact us! Advice: [email protected] CockTales: [email protected] You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!!  404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.com DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donations MOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1 Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week, Kiki and Medinah get real about the fine line between being a good friend and doing way too much. From unsolicited advice to judging your friend’s relationship choices, they break down when to speak up—and when to mind your business. Plus, a wild advice letter about dating a “good man” with not-so-good bedroom performance sparks an honest conversation about compatibility, sex, and what really matters in relationships. Offers From Our Sponsors: IndaCloud If you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES! #indacloudpod Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Soaking Wet- VB Health Visit soakingwet.com and use code CockTales for 10% off or click the link in the episode description Contact us! Advice: [email protected] CockTales: [email protected] You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!!  404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.com DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donations MOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1 Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week, we’re outside (literally) with a real Atlanta insider. We’re joined by Shanita, the woman behind @blackgirlsguideatl, and she came through with the blueprint for actually enjoying this city—whether you’re dating, solo, or outside with your girls. We kick things off with a round of I’m Curious to Know that gets a little personal (as usual), then get into everything Atlanta: where to go, what to do, and how to stop defaulting to the same tired dinner + drinks routine. From Beltline staples and hidden gems to interactive date ideas, museums, wine tastings, and even where to meet quality men (yes… she gave real strategy), this episode is basically your Atlanta starter pack. We’re talking daytime vibes, girl dates, family-friendly options, and experiences that actually make dating fun again. We also get into real conversation about confidence, self-worth, and dating from a place of abundance—not desperation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure where to start, this part is for you. Plus, we highlight some incredible Black-owned businesses, local experiences, and upcoming events you need to add to your list ASAP. Save this episode, share it with your group chat, and take notes—because Shanita did not come to play.  Cocktail of the Week: “Sweet, But Don’t Play With Me” 2 oz vodka 1 oz triple sec ½ oz fresh lemon juice Splash of soda water Add ingredients over ice, top with soda water, and stir gently. Offers From Our Sponsors: Erika Lust Get 45% off with code COCKTALES at Erikalust.com Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Follow Our Guest Instagram: @blackgirlsguideatl Contact us! Advice: [email protected] CockTales: [email protected] You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!!  404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.com DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donations MOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1 Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions,the conversation gets real about effort, expectations, and the ongoing struggle of trying to meet people halfway… when they’re barely stepping forward. We’re joined by publicist and conflict coach, Adrienne, of the IPY Agency.  We unpack the imbalance that shows up in dating and relationships — from emotional labor to planning, communication, and consistency — and ask: are we asking for too much, or are people just doing too little? The episode dives into what “meeting in the middle” actually looks like, how compromise gets misunderstood, and why so many situationships feel one-sided. Of course, we keep it honest, a little petty, and very relatable.Topics Covered: What “meeting in the middle” really means in datingFeeling like you’re always the one putting in effortUnrealistic expectations vs. bare minimum behaviorWhy compromise shouldn’t feel like sacrificeSituationship dynamics and uneven energyEmotional labor and communication gapsKnowing when to adjust… and when to walk away Offers From Our Sponsors: DRIVE BOOST BY VB HEALTH Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.  Follow Our Guest Instagram: @impromotingyou Adrienne’s Site: Public Relations | The IPY Agency | United States Purchase Meet Me In the Middle https://ipyagency.myshopify.com/ Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club March Book of the Month “Confessions of Hustla’s Housekeeper”  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations MOWA TASTE  May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1 Dear Lover Girl :  https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week, we’re joined by comedian Keysha E for a fun, slightly chaotic, and very honest conversation about dating, attraction, and figuring out what we actually want. From celebrity crush debates to whether chemistry is just a toxic addiction (yes, we said it), we get into the difference between a good partner and a good time. We also talk about pretty privilege in comedy, dating in Atlanta vs. LA, finances in relationships, and why “safe” might not be as boring as it sounds. Plus, we answer a listener question about feeling lost in life and share a CockTales story that involves a FaceTime mishap you absolutely don’t want to experience 😭 We kick things off getting to know Keysha—from her journey into comedy to what it’s like being an attractive woman in a space where people don’t always expect you to be funny . The conversation quickly turns into dating (of course), where we unpack everything from celebrity crushes and short king debates to the reality of dating in Atlanta versus Los Angeles. We get into a deeper conversation about chemistry vs. compatibility—are we chasing that instant spark because it feels good, or because we’ve been conditioned to? And are we overlooking genuinely good partners because they don’t give us that “high”? We also talk about marriage, financial conversations in relationships, independence, and what it looks like to build with someone instead of waiting until everything is perfect. In this week’s advice segment, we respond to a listener who’s questioning the point of life and whether everything feels like a performance. It turns into a real conversation about purpose, slowing down, and figuring out what actually brings you joy. And of course, we wrap things up with CockTales—where Keysha shares a story involving FaceTime that goes very, very left. Offers From Our Sponsors: Erika Lust Get 45% off with code COCKTALES at Erikalust.com Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.  Brello Go to BrelloHealth.com to see if you qualify and explore their GLP-1 plans, starting at $133 per month for your first three months, plus access to their app, community, and wellness classes. IndaCloud If you’re 21 or older, get 35% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES #indacloudpod Follow Our Guest! Instagram: @itskeysha.e Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Show Sponsorship: [email protected] General Inquiries [email protected] Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club March Book of the Month “Confessions of Hustla’s Housekeeper”  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with LaToya Shambo, founder and CEO of Black Girl Digital and creator of Creator Palooza. From building a platform that celebrates Black creators to negotiating million-dollar brand deals, LaToya breaks down what it really takes to build influence into a real business. The conversation dives into entrepreneurship, imposter syndrome, and the realities of the creator economy—plus how to determine your value and confidently negotiate what you’re worth. LaToya shares the lessons she learned from working in advertising and media before launching her own company and explains why learning on someone else’s dime can be one of the smartest moves future entrepreneurs make. They also talk about growth, letting go of old situations, the importance of forgiveness, and why knowing your value—whether in business, relationships, or life—is a practice. If you’ve ever wondered how creators turn content into careers, this episode is packed with insight, honesty, and real talk. Follow Our Guest @latoyashambo @blackgirldigital SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads SOAKING WET Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  SUPER.COM Try out Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Show Sponsorship: [email protected] General Inquiries [email protected] Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

Kiki and Medinah kick off Women’s History Month reflecting on their own journeys through womanhood — though, as usual, the conversation takes a few hilarious detours. From friendship with exes and the realities of modern dating to motherhood fears, sex, passion, and personal independence, this episode dives into the messy, honest, and sometimes funny realities of being a woman today. Cocktail of the Week Tamarind Tease Ingredients • 1.5 oz vodka • 2 oz tamarind concentrate • 1 oz St. Germain • 1.5 oz agave • 3–4 drops blood orange bitters • Thai chili peppers • Ginger • Fresh mint or basil • Chili lime salt rim A spicy-sweet cocktail with tropical vibes and a little kick. Perfect for romanticizing life at home. SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads ERIKALUST Check out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off! http://erikalust.com/ DRIVE BOOST Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Show Sponsorship: [email protected] General Inquiries [email protected] Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we sit down with comedian Trey Moe for a conversation that’s equal parts chaotic and grown. From going through phones and finding out you’re not the only one, to standing firm on financial standards in relationships, Trey explains why he’s quick to say, “You do that again, I’m gone.” But is that emotional maturity… or just control in a cardigan? We also get into: • Open relationships and “roster” culture • Financial responsibility and relationship expectations • Why some women hear “comedian” and think “struggling artist” • Celibacy, discipline, and personal growth • Is it hard to date someone who actually holds you accountable? • Older women, social media posting, and modern dating dynamics Trey shares how growing up fast shaped the man he is today and why growth in relationships isn’t always soft and gentle. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable. Drop a comment below: Is “you do that again, I’m gone” a healthy boundary or a red flag? SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads SOAKING WET- Try Soaking Wet from VB Health by visiting soakingwet.com and using promo code COCKTALES Follow Our Guest! Trey Moe https://www.instagram.com/treymoe/ Contact Us! Advice: [email protected]  Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Show Sponsorship: [email protected] General Inquiries [email protected] Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)  Instagram: @kikisaidso  TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: https://forms.gle/czoa6u7wmmiYif7Z6 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

BEDUCATED: Kick off your journey by taking the Quiz! https://beducate.me/pd2608-cocktales This week we’re joined by producer and BET host Brian “B-Mac” McIntosh for an honest conversation about modern dating, boundaries, emotional growth, and what healthy relationships actually look like. We talk about how dating changes in your 30s, why moving too fast in relationships can create chaos, and how men and women often misunderstand each other when it comes to vulnerability and emotional needs. The conversation dives into casual dating vs commitment, love languages, communication, and the importance of boundaries in modern relationships. B-Mac opens up about fatherhood, co-parenting, career growth, and learning how to be emotionally available in a world where social media and public opinion never stop talking. We also discuss the pressure to share your life online, handling criticism, and the reality of building relationships while still healing. If you’ve ever struggled with situationships, dating boundaries, emotional attachment, or figuring out what healthy dating looks like, this episode is for you. In this episode we discuss:  • Dating in your 30s vs your 20s  • Boundaries in relationships  • Casual dating vs commitment  • Emotional maturity and vulnerability  • Love languages and communication  • Co-parenting and modern fatherhood  • Healing while dating  • Social media and relationships Follow Our Guest! Brian "B-Mac" McIntosh Instagram @_iambmac Watch For The Fellas! on Watch Here on YouTube or Find it One Bet+ SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads ERIKALUST Check out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off! http://erikalust.com/ BROOKLYN BEDDING: Go to brooklynbedding.com and use OUR promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.  BEDUCATED: Kick off your journey by taking the Quiz! https://beducate.me/pd2608-cocktales Follow Our Guest! Brian "B-Mac" McIntosh https://www.instagram.com/_iambmac/ Watch For The Fellas! on  @BETNetworks  https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJHDZGUl8Ilq6qOqxdBP84d7i012RIwFp&si=Puaspv6kCmZDphDN Contact Us! Advice: [email protected]  Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Show Sponsorship: [email protected] General Inquiries [email protected] Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)  Instagram: @kikisaidso  TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: https://forms.gle/czoa6u7wmmiYif7Z6 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re asking the real question: Who has shut-up money?! We kick things off with travel nostalgia and vacation dreams before running straight into the hilarious reality of adulthood. We dive into the chaos of planning family vacations, organizing group trips, setting budgets, and why everyone wants a luxury trip until it’s time to pay the deposit. In this episode, we talk about: • The stress of planning trips with friends and family • Budget conversations nobody wants to have • The difference between work travel vs real vacations • Why group chats can’t plan trips to save their lives • Dream destinations vs real-life responsibilities Then it’s time for Weird Sex, and this story is truly unforgettable. A shocking medical discovery sparks a conversation about embarrassment, health, and the wild things people do in relationships. We wrap things up with Valentine’s Day vibes, listener advice, and plenty of laughs along the way. Cocktail of the Week 🍸The Emotional Intelligence Smoky, sweet, spicy, and perfectly balanced — just like the conversations.Ingredients • 2 oz mezcal • 2 oz pineapple juice • ¾ oz fresh lime juice • ½ oz agave syrup (adjust to taste) • Tajín for rim (optional) • Ice • Pineapple wedge or lime wheel for garnishDirections Lightly rim a rocks glass with Tajín (optional). Add mezcal, pineapple juice, lime juice, and agave to a shaker with ice. Shake well until chilled. Strain over fresh ice in the prepared glass. Garnish with a pineapple wedge or lime wheel. Cheers 🥂SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERSFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads DRIVE BOOST  FROM VBHEALTHVisit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Chapters 00:00:00 - Introduction and Cocktail Recipe 00:00:49 - Reminiscing Past Experiences 00:04:25 - Planning for Family Vacations 00:13:51 - Weird Sex Segment 00:15:17 - Bizarre Medical Story 00:17:56 - Sponsor Message: BB Health 00:20:26 - Valentine's Day and Relationships 00:31:33 - Valentine's Day Survival Guide 00:33:47 - TV Show Recommendations 00:44:07 - Advice Segment: Long Distance Relationship 00:46:57 - Long Distance Relationship Breakdown 00:50:47 - Advice and Reflections Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

February looks a little different this year… because we are letting men take the mic. To kick off our February Men’s Series, we are joined by actor, producer, veteran and content creator Mike Bless aka Michael Anthony. This conversation dives deep into dating, emotional healing, masculinity and the realities of modern relationships from a male perspective. We talk about how men process heartbreak, the role of honesty in dating, why communication looks different for men, and the idea that many men heal quietly instead of publicly. Mike opens up about accountability, emotional vulnerability, dating expectations and the importance of being honest about intentions early. Of course, we also get into power dynamics in relationships, monogamy vs honesty, the Atlanta dating scene, men wearing purses (yes, we went there), and why giving space in early dating might actually be healthy. This episode kicks off a full month of real conversations with men about love, growth, healing and relationships — and we are listening. Cocktail of the Week: The Leading Man Ingredients 2 oz bourbon  1 oz blood orange juice  ½ oz simple or honey syrup  2 dashes Angostura bitters  Orange peel garnish InstructionsAdd bourbon, blood orange juice, syrup and bitters to a mixing glass with ice.Stir for about 20–25 seconds until well chilled.Strain over a large ice cube in a rocks glass.Express the oils from an orange peel over the drink and drop it in. Sip, stare dramatically into the distance, and pretend you’re the main character. 🥃🍊 SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads ERIKALUST Check out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off! http://erikalust.com/ SOAKING WET FROM VBHEALTH Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off!  Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

Are you getting a good Relationship ROI, or are you just operating in chaos? This week, Kiki and Medinah discuss the importance of intentionality—from your wellness routine to your brunch dates. We’re diving into why separated checks at a bottomless mimosa brunch might actually be the ultimate green flag for clarity. In This Episode: The ladies discuss the transition from "brunch friends" to "real life" support and why Medinah appreciated a guy friend being 100% upfront about financial boundaries. We also get into the "weird sex" story of the week: a romantic shower that turned into an Olympic sport when the curtain rod gave up. Plus, Kiki talks about the struggle of people always "outsourcing" their work to her—from party planning to free makeup sessions. We also cover: Intentional Health: Why your "Relationship ROI" starts with your own rest and wellness. The "Ghost" Eyebrow Incident: Why you should always have a backup makeup artist. Advice: Navigating a friendship that went cold during a season of grief and new motherhood. This Week's Cocktail: The Calm but Curious Mule A refreshing, spicy mocktail (with an optional kick). Ingredients:Ginger BeerPear Juice or NectarFresh Lemon JuiceGarnish: Cinnamon stick or Star AniseInstructions:Fill a copper mug or rocks glass with ice.Add the pear juice and fresh lemon.Top with ginger beer.Garnish with a cinnamon stick or star anise and enjoy!Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALESfor 10% off  Try Brello! Go to brellohealth.com and use code COCKTALES For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird S*x: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

What’s Your Superpower? In this episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah tap into reflection, purpose, and grown-woman clarity as they unpack the question: what’s your real superpower? From unexpected “God wink” moments to conversations about confidence, imposter syndrome, and walking into rooms knowing you belong, this episode is about recognizing your value without needing permission. The ladies open up about how their strengths show up in work, relationships, and community — and why sometimes it takes a stranger, a producer, or a quiet moment to remind you that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. They also talk about commitment in this season of life, learning how to say no without guilt, setting boundaries that actually protect your peace, and why burnout isn’t a badge of honor. In Weird Sex, the conversation turns to curiosity, threesomes, and ethical non-monogamy — breaking down how to talk about fantasies honestly, why curiosity doesn’t equal dissatisfaction, and how consent and communication make all the difference. As always, things take a turn into real life: fostering chaotic cats, stepping back from dating, learning new skills, choosing rest, and staying grounded when life feels overwhelming. If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling stuck, or wondering whether you’re doing enough, this episode is a reminder that your presence, your voice, and your energy matter more than you think. Sometimes your superpower isn’t loud — it’s just consistent. 🍹 This Week’s Cocktail: The Soft Launch Spritz (Mocktail) A fresh, light mocktail perfect for Dry January — or spike it if you’re feeling spicy. Ingredients 3 oz fresh grapefruit juice (use less if you’re not a grapefruit girl)Splash of fresh lime juice1 oz agave or honeySparkling waterFresh rosemary sprig How to Make Shake the grapefruit juice, lime juice, and agave (or honey) with ice.Strain into a wine glass over ice, top with sparkling water, and garnish with a rosemary sprig.Before adding the rosemary, gently slap it between your palms to release the oils — pretty and aromatic. Check Out Erika Lust and use Promo code "COCKTALES" for a 45% discount erikalust.com Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird S*x: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

SPECIAL OFFER! Beducated is offering our listeners 50% off an annual membership when you click the link iand use code COCKTALES. https://beducate.me/pd2603-cocktales Last week we kicked off our “Who Said That?” recap, and this week we’re back with Part 2 — more wild clips, iconic one-liners, and a few moments that reminded us why CockTales is funny and deep when it wants to be. This episode is a continuation of last week’s trip down memory lane, pulling standout moments from different years of the show. Some clips had us crying laughing, some had us side-eyeing ourselves, and others took a surprisingly thoughtful turn — because if we’re gonna reflect, we might as well do it honestly. We talk fashion eras (yes, the Martha Stewart linen phase still stands), dating boundaries, bad decisions we didn’t make, and the difference between being open-minded and being open to everything (spoiler: not the same). We also get into why “sex is a skill,” why everybody with a microphone is not a licensed expert, and why sometimes the real growth is knowing when to stop, sit still, and get yourself together. As always, there’s plenty of foolishness, a little ministry, and a lot of “did she really say that?” energy. If you haven’t listened to Part 1, go run that back first — then come join us here. 🍹 Cocktail of the Episode French 75… But Make It Therapy You’ll need: Sparkling wineVanilla vodkaSimple syrupBailey’s (or RumChata) foamLemon twistHow to make it: Shake Bailey’s with a small splash of simple syrup until frothy. Pour vanilla vodka into a flute, top with sparkling wine, gently spoon the foam on top, and garnish with a lemon twist. Do not rush the foam unless you want chaos in a glass. 🗣 Topics We Get Into: Recapping iconic CockTales quotes and moments from past yearsThe Martha Stewart / Ina Garten aesthetic debate (still unresolved)Dating boundaries, self-control, and learning when to say noWhy being open-minded doesn’t mean being open to everythingThe difference between licensed professionals and internet “experts”Taking breaks from dating without guiltWhy sex, intimacy, and communication are skills you can actually learnFree and low-cost resources people sleep on (libraries, schools, clinics, and more)Growth, reflection, and recognizing patterns in yourselfVB Health – Soaking Wet Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts. 📺 Watch the full episode on YouTube. 💬 Tell us which quote took you OUT Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

It’s time to look back… and immediately ask ourselves, “Wait—who said that?!” In Part 1 of this two-part recap episode, Kiki and Medinah revisit some of the wildest, funniest, most unhinged moments from 2025 (with a few older classics sprinkled in), reacting to past clips in real time and reliving everything from comedian guests and dating rants to weird sex stories, hair debates, pop culture takes, and those signature CockTales side quests that somehow always lead back to food. This episode is pure commentary chaos: – Comedians we loved (and clips that still hold up… mostly) – Dating opinions that aged interestingly – Hair, weaves, man-weaves, and why honesty matters – Weird sex facts that somehow turn into social commentary – Pop culture deep dives (yes, including Game of Thrones) – Rants that start one place and end somewhere completely different Think of this as a highlight reel with commentary, context, and a little “wow… we really said that” energy. And don’t worry — this is just Part 1. There’s plenty more where this came from. 🎧 Listen, laugh, argue with us in your head, and let us know in the comments which clips took you OUT. 🍸 Today’s Cocktail: The Velvet Revolution Smooth, cozy, and perfect for a recap episode. Ingredients 1.5 oz Baileys 1 oz vanilla vodka or dark rum 1 oz cold brew coffee or espresso (optional, but highly encouraged) Ice Nutmeg or cinnamon (for garnish) How to Make It Add Baileys, vodka or rum, and cold brew to a shaker filled with ice. Shake well until chilled and silky. Strain into a coupe or rocks glass. Sprinkle nutmeg or cinnamon on top and enjoy. Cheers to closing out 2025 and easing into 2026 — raspy voices, hot takes, and all. 🥂 Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off  Interested in being a guest?  Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected] Cocktales: [email protected] Weird Sex: [email protected] Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form