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We welcome Debi Walter of The Romantic Vineyard to discuss date nights with your husband—why they matter, how to overcome obstacles, and specific ideas. Sponsor Every Love Intimates has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out! From the Bible If a man has recently married, he must not be sent to war or have any other duty laid on him. For one year he is to be free to stay at home and bring happiness to the wife he has married. Deuteronomy 24:5 Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside,  let us spend the night in the villages. Song of Songs 7:11 Resources  The Romantic Vineyard | A Rich Harvest of Ideas to Help Your Marriage Grow The Romantic Vineyard | Substack (be sure to subscribe!) TableTopics Couples Conversation Starter Cards for Romantic Partners | Amazon Cherish: The One Word That Changes Everything for Your Marriage by Gary Thomas Friendship Builds Sexual Interest • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Recreational Enjoyment Inventory (activity interest inventory Bonny mentions) Episode 148: Sex Scheduling 101 Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection That Stands the Test of Time by by Dan Drake and Joanna and Matthew Raabsmith Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Date Night, Anywhere | The Forgiven Wife Take Charge of Date Night | The Forgiven Wife Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about how often you should have sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Our trio takes on the most common questions we receive from listeners, including whether you should do what he wants in bed, what happens to sexual desire after betrayal, and how to get your spouse to do what you need/want. Sponsor Check out our webinars and masterclass at Webinars - For Christian Wives! We've covered Understanding Your Sex Drive, Foreplay, Understanding Her Sex Drive (for husbands!), Getting in the Mood, Oral Sex, Orgasm, and Sexual Desire Differences. Each installment ranges from $10 to $25, and discounts are available for bundles. Don't miss these value-priced resources for your marital intimacy! From the Bible "'This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.' Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together." Mark 10:7–9 (NLT) Resources Do I Have To? | The Forgiven Wife When She Says No to Sex | Knowing Her Sexually Podcast Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Q&A with J: Top 5 Questions Readers Ask about Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about being responsive and engaged in both your marriage and in bed. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

You want to get help, but you don't know how to, or if you should, reveal stuff about your husband to others. We discuss how to talk about your husband in a way that honors him as a person but also gets you the help you need. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health professional, and provides a platform for professional counseling done securely online. Use our link to get 10% off your first month. From the Bible So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29 Resources Episode 269: Talking About Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 21: Help with Boundaries and Why do I stay? - HopeForWives: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal Episode 117: Prayer and Sex Episode 182: Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie) Episode 238: Getting Started Praying About Your Sex Life (Quickie) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with three ways you can fan the flame of sexual interest. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We all want to be wanted, and our husbands are no exception. Initiating sex is a great way to communicate "I want you" to your husband, but it isn't always easy. Why do wives sometimes find it difficult to even try to initiate sex? Some wives report that they do try to initiate sex but their husbands don't seem to pick up on the signals. What is going on? What are some things wives can do to initiate sex and get things rolling? Sponsor Click Here to Learn More This episode was also sponsored in part by Honoring Intimates, lingerie & more! From the Bible Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:11-13 Resources You're Not Kissing Enough – Hot, Holy & Humorous 40 Ways to Initiate Sex with Your Husband – Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Ways to Initiate Sex with Your Spouse – Hot, Holy & Humorous Flip the Switch from Initiation to Availability – Hot, Holy & Humorous How Do You Initiate Sex ? – The Forgiven Wife When You Initiate, Do This – The Forgiven Wife 10 Ideas You Can Use to Initiate Sex – The Forgiven Wife He Wants a Wild-Cat in Bed. That's Not Me. - Bonny's OysterBed7 Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns on how pressure can dampen the flame of desire. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We discuss health challenges, family activities, work, etc. that can disrupt sexual intimacy in your marriage and how  to address it. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health professional, and provides a platform for professional counseling done securely online. Use our link to get 10% off your first month. From the Bible "I have the right to do anything," you say—but not everything is beneficial. "I have the right to do anything"—but not everything is constructive. 1 Corinthians 10:23 Resources Episode 155: Sex for Busy Moms Struggling with Sex in Marriage? Here's What To Do First. - Hot, Holy & Humorous (about seeing a healthcare provider) It's Hard to Write About Sex When You're Not Having Any - Hot, Holy & Humorous (w/ideas of what to do instead) How Do You Manage Sex When Your Schedules Are Different? | The Forgiven Wife Episode 212: What About Masturbation? Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns on how gratitude can soften our hearts and lead to improved sexual connection.. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Through the years, we've encouraged wives to grow in the area of sexual intimacy. But how can we support our husbands to mature in their understanding and experience? We discuss. Sponsor Everylove Intimates has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out! From the Bible You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered 1 Peter 3:7 (NASB) Proverbs 5–6 Song of Songs Resources 3 Things Your Wife Wants You to Know About Her Sex Drive - Knowing Her Sexually What Else Does Your Wife Want You to Know About Her Sex Drive? - Knowing Her Sexually Why I Sometimes Don't Care about the Orgasm - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 182: Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie) Episode 117: Prayer and Sex Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker I Worked on Sex, and Then He Got Angry | The Forgiven Wife The Respect Dare: 40 Days to a Deeper Connection with God and Your Husband by Nina Roesner Episode 127: Flirting with Your Husband, with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer Home - Knowing Her Sexually Knowing Her Sexually | Podcast on Spotify Jimmy on Relationships - YouTube Java with Juli Podcast - Authentic Intimacy Home - Intimate Covenant Knowing Her Sexually Episode 71: Sexual Trauma, the Goal of Sex, and the Value of Afterglow, with Matt Schmidt Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference by Shaunti Feldhahn & Dr. Michael Sytsma Episode 92: What Research Tells Wives About Sex, with Shaunti Feldhahn Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10! Understanding Her Sex Drive – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10! Helping Your Wife Want to Have Sex - Webinar Replay - Knowing Her Sexually ($10) Increasing Your Wife's Sexual Pleasure - Webinar Replay - Knowing Her Sexually ($10) Spicing Up Your Bedroom - Webinar Replay - Knowing Her Sexually ($10) Unwanted Sexual Behaviors Coaching - Aldrich Ministries Knowing Her Sexually Episode 66: How to Really Connect with Your Wife, with Brad Aldrich, LMFT Episode 241: How Our Story Affects Our Sexuality, with Kate Aldrich Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about penis size. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We discuss what sexual confidence is, what influences it, and how to have the confidence God wants you to have in your marriage. Sponsor Better Help assesses your needs, matches you to a licensed mental health professional, and provides a platform for professional counseling done securely online. Use our link to get 10% off your first month. From the Bible But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23 Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame. Genesis 2:25 "'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh." Mark 10:7–8 As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our wrongdoings from us. Psalm 103:12 (NASB) Resources Episode 243: Sex Is For You Too, Two Episode 114: Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy Am I Obsessed with Sex? No. Are You? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Sexual Healing and Wholeness – Introduction to My Story | The Forgiven Wife Sexual Disintegrity – My Journey Toward Sexual Wholeness #1 | The Forgiven Wife Sexual Stewardship – My Journey Toward Sexual Wholeness #2 | The Forgiven Wife Sexual Invocation – My Journey Toward Sexual Wholeness #3 | The Forgiven Wife Webinars - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Masterclass: Sexual Desire Differences - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with ways to help your body feel peace in order to create space for pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! **Note: This episode was previously released but with audio problems. Those issues have been corrected.**

We address the messiness of sex—what contributes to it, what's normal (and what's not), and how to deal with the mess. Sponsors Join podcast co-host J. Parker and Brad & Kate Aldrich of Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network for a 7-day cruise starting Valentine's Day 2027! Click HERE to learn more about this opportunity to sail to better intimacy. Married Dance is a Christian-friendly sex toy store, with a nudity-free, marriage-focused environment and discreet billing and shipping. Check them out HERE. From the Bible Husband I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride. I gather my myrrh with my spices. I eat my honeycomb with my honey. I drink my wine with my milk. Narrator Eat, friends! Drink, be intoxicated with love! Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB) Resources Why Are You Leaking After Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Spiritual Fulfillment by Clifford & Joyce Penner Episode 101: Enjoying Sex, with Joyce Penner Female Ejaculation: Is It Real? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Sexual Intimacy & Your Period: Tips for Wives - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 202: What Women Ask Us (In Person) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (we address anal sex in this episode) Episode 184: The Power of a Shower (Quickie) Love Mop Premium Cotton After Care Towel | Amazon Liberator Fascinator Throw | Married Dance Dental Dam Cunnilingus Barrier | Married Dance goodwipes pH Balanced for Feminine Hygiene | Amazon healthy hoohoo Feminine Wipes, Individually Wrapped | Amazon Sliquid Splash Gentle Feminine Wash | Married Dance Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker