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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2891: Reid Peterson offers a compassionate take on why traditional SMART goals often fall short during the grieving process. Instead of pushing for progress, he encourages a more intuitive approach, like creating a personal sanctuary, to allow emotions to be safely processed without pressure or timelines. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://griefrefuge.medium.com/how-goals-and-intentions-help-with-grief-81abeafd805d Quotes to ponder: "Most people impacted by grief say that Smart goals don't work so well. They feel so much pressure to move on too quickly." "Your grief process is unique and the last thing you want to do is put more pressure on yourself, feel overwhelmed, and then feel stuck in your grief." "Essentially, you're dosing your grief. It's a focused time to grieve and mourn. It's also limited."

Introducing Sales Expert Shelby Sapp: The Simple Sales Framework You Can Use in Work, Money, and Relationships (Follow THIS Method to FINALLY Get The Life You Deserve) from On Purpose with Jay Shetty. Follow the show: On Purpose with Jay Shetty We’re not failing at life. We were just never taught how to speak up, handle rejection, and confidently ask for what we want. Today, Jay sits down with sales leader and entrepreneur Shelby Sapp to unpack why sales isn’t about convincing others, but about understanding people, building trust, and believing in yourself. Shelby shares how the skills that helped her go from door-to-door sales to building a thriving business are the same skills we use every day: advocating for ourselves, navigating rejection, and communicating our value. She reframes sales as a mindset shift, from seeing “no” as failure to seeing it as feedback, explaining why learning how to sell is really about learning how to think, speak, and lead with confidence. Jay and Shelby break down the core principles that make sales applicable to every area of life: identifying leverage, creating real value, keeping things simple, and having the courage to ask for what you want. Shelby explains why people don’t buy products, they buy solutions, outcomes, and relief and how rejection becomes easier when you stop taking it personally. They also dive into the deeper mindset shifts that separate those who stay stuck from those who grow. Shelby challenges the idea that confidence comes before action, revealing instead that confidence is built by doing uncomfortable things repeatedly and overcoming rejection. Jay reflects on how sales skills teach resilience, the ability to keep showing up with belief even after setbacks, and why handling rejection well can unlock opportunities in every part of life. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Sell Without Feeling Manipulative How to Communicate Your Value Clearly How to Handle “No” Without Taking It Personally How to Ask for What You Want (and Get It) How to Identify What Truly Motivates People How to Stop Overexplaining and Keep It Simple How to Create Momentum When You Feel Stuck Progress isn’t about perfection, it’s about momentum. Trust yourself enough to ask, to act, and to keep going. The skills you build today will shape the confidence, freedom, and purpose you step into tomorrow.  With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.  Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:23 You’re Already Using Sales in Your Every Day Life  02:53 The Power of the Reframe  04:42 The Core Sales Skills Everyone Needs 08:03 Sales Isn’t Manipulation, It’s Emotional Leadership 12:59 One Connection Can Change Everything 17:41 Building a High-Income Skill is Essential  19:51 Why Mindset Is the Real Advantage 21:35 A Simple Sales Process That Actually Works 27:31 The Most Memorable Thing You’ve Ever Been Sold 30:55 How to Spend Money More Mindfully 34:44 How to Get Started in Sales (Even If You’re Scared) 35:42 Are Networking Events Worth Your Time? 39:39 There’s No Limit to What You Can Earn 43:15 How to Create a Major Salary Jump 46:19 Jobs That Sharpen Your Sales Skills 47:49 The Mindset That Keeps People Stuck 49:35 The Power of Believing in Yourself  51:59 How to Sell Any Product Effectively 56:44 Sell Me This Pen 01:02:41 Why Assumptions Kill Sales 01:04:09 How to Handle Rejection Without Losing Momentum 01:07:27 How to Reframe Any Objection 01:12:07 The Right Way to Ask for a Raise 01:15:44 What Employers Are Really Looking For 01:20:06 It’s Not a No, It’s a Lesson 01:21:22 How to Talk About Your Wins Without Ego 01:23:24 The Most Challenging Deal of All 01:25:29 Why the Best Sellers Preempt Objections 01:27:12 Why We Struggle to Invest in Ourselves 01:30:57 Shelby on Final Five  Episode Resources: Shelby Sapp | https://shelbysapp.com/  Shelby Sapp | https://www.instagram.com/shelby.sapp/  Shelby Sapp | https://www.youtube.com/@Shelbysappyt  She Sells | https://shesellsremote.com/  She Sells | https://www.instagram.com/shesellsacademy See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to [email protected].

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2890: Tonya Lester challenges the common misconception that intense emotional entanglement equals love, revealing how unhealthy attachments and trauma bonds can masquerade as romantic connection. She outlines clear signs of emotional maturity versus toxic cycles, encouraging listeners to choose relationships that support well-being over those rooted in fear and dysfunction. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.tonyalester.com/blog/love-vs-attachment Quotes to ponder: "Unhealthy attachments are based on fear, not emotional generosity." "Trauma bonds masquerade as love, but they are not the same thing." "Love sometimes involves seeing each other at our worst, but it does not mean bringing out the worst in each other."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2889: Janet Anthony unpacks three common misconceptions that introverts often face: being mislabeled as shy, seen as antisocial, or assumed to dislike talking. Her reflections challenge stereotypes and invite extroverts to better understand the nuanced inner world of introversion,  where solitude, depth, and meaningful conversations thrive. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/introvert-people-often-misunderstand/ Quotes to ponder: "Shyness is the fear of negative judgment, and introversion is a preference for quiet, minimally stimulating environments." "I do more listening than talking, which is one characteristic you'll find in most (if not all) introverts." "We introverts may shock others with our quality content and amazing presentations." Episode references: Quiet by Susan Cain: https://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352153

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2888: Jay and Heather Harrington reveal how embracing novelty and creating "first moments" can help slow the perceived passage of time and make life feel fuller. Drawing on neuroscience and personal stories, they show that by intentionally breaking routines and seeking new experiences, we can deepen our memories and enrich our everyday lives. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.lifeandwhim.com/first-moments-blog/slow-life-magic-first-moments Quotes to ponder: "There's no reason that the majority of our first moments need to take place during our teens and twenties." "Do something new every day. Look forward to something every day." "Time is this rubbery thing…it stretches out when you really turn your brain resources on, and when you say, Episode references: The Possibilian (The New Yorker article on David Eagleman): https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2011/04/25/the-possibilian Moonwalking With Einstein: https://www.amazon.com/Moonwalking-Einstein-Science-Remembering-Everything/dp/0143120530

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2887: Allison Carmen reflects on how early experiences with bullies can shape a child's self-perception and future confidence, revealing that true strength lies in compassion, not control. By teaching children to recognize the fear behind cruelty, they can reclaim their inner power, avoid intimidation, and build a foundation for lasting success grounded in empathy and self-assurance. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/can-our-childrens-view-of-the-bully-be-tied-to-their-future-success/ Quotes to ponder: "Real strength does not need to prove anything. It can stand on its own without a word spoken and that is the real power." "It takes more strength to be peaceful, loving and kind in the face of adversity than to yell and scream and hurt the ones around you." "My hope is that true strength will follow them through life so their success won't be determined by the bully in the room."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2886: Adina Soclof offers a compassionate and practical guide for parents struggling with anger and frustration. By learning new communication strategies, recognizing emotional triggers, and using mindful self-talk, parents can strengthen their relationships with their children and reduce guilt-driven blowups. Her tools empower families to build emotional awareness, resilience, and healthier daily dynamics. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/5-surefire-ways-to-stop-losing-it-with-your-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "Positive, neutral self-talk is calming and will motivate you to think of solutions." "When we say we are sorry to our children we are role modeling for them what to do when they mess up and hurt someone's feelings." "Once I was able to give my children a way to read my moods, they became more respectful of my feelings. In turn, I became more aware of what they needed when they were in their own 'red zones.' When I gave myself permission to talk about my moods with my children we started working as a team."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2885: Jenny Lee reflects on the first real parenting break in years, as her kids finally entertain themselves, thanks to Minecraft and a finished basement. In this honest and humorous piece, she explores the balance between tech-fueled quiet and human connection, reminding us that even in the digital age, what kids truly crave is time with us. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.hellobrio.com/blog/video-games Quotes to ponder: "Toddlers' life energy comes to a peak and it shoots out of their eyes and greasy fingers every waking minute of every day. They demand attention at every moment." "In nurturing them back from robot children to human children with eye-to-eye communication and interaction, they seek more tickles and wrestling matches and hugs." "We realize that all they really want is us." Episode references: Trader Joe's: https://www.traderjoes.com

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2884: Dr. Diana Kirschner offers a compassionate and practical guide to establishing healthy boundaries that strengthen relationships and preserve individuality. By learning to say no, claim personal space, and communicate needs with love, you'll reduce conflict, avoid co-dependence, and create deeper intimacy and mutual respect. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/what-are-healthy-relationship-boundaries/ Quotes to ponder: "You don't need to go on and on justifying why you are saying no. Justifications often give your partner the sense that your 'no' is negotiable." "You don't have open up or to ask your partner about every little thought or feeling you have." "Focus on yourself and feel and think about what you need to happen in your relationship."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2883: Eddie Corbano shares the powerful final chapter of his breakup recovery, a bold decision to attend his ex's wedding as a way to test his emotional freedom. His story illustrates the true meaning of letting go, offering insight into how reclaiming your power and facing your fears can mark the beginning of genuine healing and freedom from past attachments. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/how-i-finally-let-go-of-my-ex-the-last-step/ Quotes to ponder: "Whether it's time or not to face your Ex solely depends on your progress in your recovery." "Consciously letting go means saying goodbye to that limiting belief that only your Ex means happiness and no one else." "There is a technique where you consciously expose yourself to your memories with your Ex in order to 'desensitize.'"

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2882: Eddie Corbano shares the unexpected emotional breakdown he experienced long after a breakup he believed he'd moved past, triggered by a random love song. Through this moment, he uncovers the hidden belief still tying him to his ex and offers a powerful tool that helped him truly release the past and open up to new love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/how-i-finally-let-go-of-my-ex-the-last-step/ Quotes to ponder: "Never underestimate the power of a single belief." "Break-up recovery essentially boils down to one thing, changing a set of dominant beliefs." "You're NOT over your Ex and you haven't let go until you can do this ONE thing: Stand in front of them, talk to them and feel NOTHING." Episode references: Viktor E. Frankl quote from Man's Search for Meaning: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/080701429X

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2881: The Live Happy Team explores how small, thoughtful acts can deeply enrich your most important relationships, whether with a partner, child, or friend. With expert-backed insights and fun, meaningful tips like journaling with your spouse or planning a family fun day, you'll learn simple ways to create lasting connection, joy, and emotional resilience in everyday life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.livehappy.com/relationships/all-you-need-is-love/ Quotes to ponder: "Food brings the family to the table, but it is the conversation and the connection that keeps the family at the table and provides the emotional benefits." "Our relationships with our children improve the most when we work on our relationships with ourselves." "Relationships thrive when there is an investment in an emotional piggy bank." Episode references: The 5 Love Languages: https://www.amazon.com/Five-Love-Languages-Secret-Lasts/dp/080241270X

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2880: Doug Spencer offers a clear, practical guide for parents on how to ensure their children are protected both emotionally and financially in the event of their passing. From choosing the right guardian to structuring a testamentary trust, he breaks down the key decisions every parent must make to avoid letting the state determine their children's future. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialfinesse.com/2019/01/14/what-every-parent-needs-to-know-about-creating-a-will/ Quotes to ponder: "You have to make a will! Your will is your directions to the probate court, telling them who gets to care for your kids, who gets to handle the money for them, how that money can be used and when your kids can get it." "You are using your will to create a trust that only goes into effect when you die. It determines who manages the money, what it can be used for and when your kids actually get the money." "You can choose a person or a corporation, e.g. a bank or trust company, to be in charge of the trust (aka the trustee)."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2879: Dr. Lisa Firestone explores why breakups can feel emotionally devastating, even in relationships that were already distant or unsatisfying, by uncovering the hidden role of the "fantasy bond." She explains how we often mourn the illusion of safety and identity we built within the relationship rather than the actual connection, and how facing this truth can help us heal, grow, and find real intimacy. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/why-break-ups-hurt-so-much/ Quotes to ponder: "A fantasy bond is a term developed by my father, psychologist Robert Firestone, to describe an imagined connection a person develops to another person, thereby creating an illusion of security or false sense of safety." "When we break up with someone, and we are willing to let go of this illusion of connection, we might find that we are far less devastated by the separation." "You're not losing your identity by losing your relationship. You may even be opening up a door to get to know yourself better."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2878: Susanne von Borcke reflects on how a simple, honest comment from her son sparked a deeper realization about her own need for control, and how it was harming her relationships, health, and happiness. Through personal struggle, self-awareness, and a commitment to change, she discovers the power of surrender, trust, and creating space for joy and unpredictability in daily life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/control-less-trust-more/ Quotes to ponder: "I thought control equals security equals happiness, up until the day when I took a close look at my life and found that nobody around me was smiling anymore." "My mantra, therefore, is simple: Let go, have trust, and everything will be just right." "I don't want my children to grow up in an environment where things don't flow, where creativity doesn't get sparked often, and where the predominant facial expression is a frown."