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💡 Is the substance that “helps you relax” quietly making your ADHD worse?  Today’s guest stresses: this isn’t about moralizing the issue, it’s about what the science says. In this episode, hosts Stephen Tonti and Aaron Smith welcome back returning guest, clinical psychologist, and Harvard Medical School lecturer Dr. Roberto Olivardia, to unpack one of the most critical topics for today’s ADHDers: cannabis and the ADHD brain. Diving deep into the sobering research, Dr. Olivardia breaks down how modern THC levels and the unique brain chemistry of ADHDers interact in ways most people never consider. From executive function decline to increased addiction risk and even links to psychosis, this episode challenges the all-too-pervasive belief that cannabis is a harmless or helpful tool for managing ADHD.  ☀️ If you or someone you know is struggling with cannabis or substance dependency, help is available. The SAMHSA National Helpline (1-800-662-4357) offers free, confidential support 24/7 and can connect you with local treatment options. You can also visit FindTreatment.gov to search for licensed providers in your area. ✨ Highlights ✨ ✔️ Why today’s cannabis is not the same as it was decades ago ✔️ The difference between self-medication and actual treatment ✔️ How THC impacts executive function and brain structure over time ✔️ Why ADHD brains are more vulnerable to addiction and dependency ✔️ The genetic link that may increase risk for cannabis-related psychosis in ADHDers ✔️ The “dimmer switch” effect of cannabis and why it feels helpful in the moment ✔️ What’s really happening when cannabis starts shrinking your world 🧠 “Self-medication is not the same as treatment, and what feels helpful can still be harmful.”  —Dr. Roberto Olivardia This episode is for anyone who has ever thought: “Is this actually helping me, or just numbing something deeper?” If you’ve used cannabis to manage stress, anxiety, sleep, or focus, this conversation offers a clearer, science-backed perspective on what’s really happening, and what your brain might truly need instead. Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

What happens when a Navy pilot builds her life on discipline and pressure, and it finally stops working? In this episode of Attention Different, hosts Stephen Tonti and Aaron Smith sit down with ADHD coach and former U.S. Navy helicopter pilot 𝗧𝗼𝗿𝗶 𝗧𝗵𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗸𝗺𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗼𝗻 to unpack why so many ADHD adults rely on stress, fear, and urgency just to function. From a high-achieving military career to burnout and a late diagnosis, Tori reveals why “push harder” strategies eventually fail and what actually works. Drawing from her lived experience and coaching work, Tori introduces a powerful reframe: ADHD is not a lack of ability, it’s a different kind of nervous system. Through her concept of the 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘵-𝘣𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘴𝘺𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘮, she explains why some tasks feel effortless while others feel impossible, and how working with your brain, not against it, can change everything. ✨ Highlights ✨ ✔️ Why stress, fear, and deadlines lead to burnout ✔️ What an “interest-based nervous system” really means ✔️ The difference between negative vs. positive activation ✔️ How anxiety can mask ADHD for years ✔️ Why you can succeed outwardly but still feel exhausted inside ✔️ The moment everything clicked after a late ADHD diagnosis  “𝐼𝑓 𝐼 𝑐𝑎𝑛’𝑡 𝑑𝑜 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑝𝑜𝑠𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛, 𝐼’𝑚 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑑𝑜 𝑖𝑡.” — 𝐓𝐨𝐫𝐢 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐨𝐧 💬 If you’ve ever felt like you can perform at a high level, but only at the cost of your energy, mental health, or sense of self, this conversation will hit home. It’s a deep dive into why that pattern happens and how to start building motivation that lasts. Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

💡 You know exactly what you need to do, but you still can’t make yourself do it. Sound familiar? You keep telling yourself “just start”, but your brain won’t cooperate. Why does this happen? In this episode of Attention Different, hosts Stephen Tonti and Aaron Smith sit down with executive function coach and former special education teacher Sean McCormick to unpack what’s actually behind the daily struggles of ADHD. From missed deadlines to emotional overwhelm, Sean shares how the system often overlooks the skills people need to function in real life, and what to do about it. Sean, founder of Executive Function Specialists, has trained hundreds of coaches worldwide and built his work around helping people organize their thinking, take action, and follow through. Drawing from both his professional experience and his own ADHD journey, he breaks down why ADHD isn’t a character flaw, but a skills gap.  ✨ Highlights✨ ✔️ What executive functioning actually means (and why it matters) ✔️ Why ADHD struggles are about execution, not intelligence ✔️ How rejection sensitivity (RSD) can derail your life decisions ✔️ The “POSITIVE” framework for building real-life skills ✔️ A step-by-step system (PEMDAS) to turn overwhelm into action ✔️ Your brain is a pattern-recognition supercomputer; use it ✔️ You can develop skills to compensate for how your brain works “Oftentimes your greatest skill is your unfair advantage, something you’re so good at, you don’t even notice it.” — Sean McCormick This episode is for anyone who’s ever thought, “Why can’t I just do the things I know I need to do?” and is ready for a more honest, actionable answer. This will help you understand why and what to do differently for anyone who’s been trying harder but still feeling stuck. Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

💡 What if your “anxiety” was never anxiety at all? What if the real story was missed for years? In this episode, Heather DeAngelis, ADHD specialist and Columbia-trained therapist, sits down with hosts Stephen Tonti and Aaron Smith to unpack the reality of late-diagnosed ADHD in women. Drawing from both her clinical work and personal experience, Heather shares how high-functioning women are often misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression, and why many spend years trying treatments that never truly work. Together, they explore how ADHD can hide behind perfectionism, emotional intensity, and “doing everything right” on the outside while struggling internally. Heather breaks down the connection between untreated ADHD and secondary conditions like anxiety and depression, and why treating the root cause changes everything. ✨Highlights✨ ✔️ Why ADHD in women is often overlooked or misdiagnosed ✔️ How “treatment-resistant depression” may actually be undiagnosed ADHD ✔️ Why action comes before motivation for ADHD brains ✔️ The difference between talking about feelings and actually feeling them ✔️ How to regulate emotional overwhelm instead of avoiding it ✔️ Why self-trust is often the biggest missing piece in late diagnosis “If the treatment that you're seeking for depression is not working, you may not be depressed.” —Heather DeAngelis Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

🔥 What if ADHD treatment isn’t just about the right medication… but a completely different approach to care?In this episode of the Attention Different podcast, hosts Stephen Tonti and Aaron Smith sit down with ADHD clinician and pediatrician Scott Keel to unpack what’s broken in traditional ADHD care and what it actually looks like to treat the whole person. Building a practice rooted in lived experience, Scott shares how his own ADHD journey reshaped the way he approaches care. Through his work at Even Keel Health Partners, he’s creating a model that goes beyond quick 15-minute “med checks” and instead focuses on whole-person care, combining lifestyle, sleep, nutrition, emotional health, and practical execution strategies. Because as he explains, it’s not about what you know… it’s about what you can actually follow through on.  This conversation goes deep into the realities ADHD adults face daily. Medication challenges, misdiagnosis, burnout, emotional regulation, relationships, and the hidden systems that either support or sabotage your brain. ✨Highlights✨ ✔️ Why ADHD treatment often fails when it focuses only on medication ✔️ The real difference between “feeling” medication vs. it actually working ✔️ How to find your personal ADHD “set point” and avoid overmedication ✔️ Why sleep, nutrition, and movement matter more than most people think ✔️ How ADHD brains fall into cycles of self-medication and burnout ✔️ The power of lowering the “bar of initiation” to finally get things done ✔️ How ADHD impacts relationships, emotional regulation, and connection ✔️ What a true “whole health” ADHD approach looks like in practice “It’s not the knowledge… it’s the doing. It’s the execution of what I know.” — Scott Keel 𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗨𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗺: Scott Keel                                    https://www.instagram.com/doctorkeel/ Stephen Tonti                             https://www.instagram.com/adhdtonti/ Aaron Smith                                https://www.instagram.com/potentialwithinreach/ New Merch - https://www.redbubble.com/people/attndifferent/shop Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

Why do ADHD brains feel like they’re running 47 emotional tabs at once? And what happens when empathy, nonstop information, and a chaotic world collide? In this episode of the Attention Different Podcast, Stephen and Aaron unpack an important topic that many ADHD adults experience but rarely hear explained clearly: hypersensitivity, trauma, and emotional flooding in a chaotic world. Aaron and Stephen explore how common ADHD traits like strong pattern recognition, emotional intensity, and empathy can make people more sensitive to what’s happening around them. When difficult events and overwhelming information circulate constantly, neurodivergent folks can feel the emotional impact deeply, even when they're not directly involved. But this episode isn’t only about feeling overwhelmed. It’s also about what to do with those experiences: practical ways to channel emotional intensity into something healthier through community, creativity, movement, and connection.  ✨Highlights✨ 🧠 Why ADHD brains often feel hypersensitive to injustice  ⚡ How constant news exposure creates vicarious trauma  🔍 Why gaslighting can feel especially triggering for ADHD  🤝 How community and connection help regulate emotions  🎨 Why creativity and movement help process overwhelm  🌎 How ADHD empathy can become a real strength  Sometimes the healthiest response isn’t numbing out. It’s finding ways to stay grounded, stay connected, and stay human in the middle of chaos. And always remember: Breathe. You got this. Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

Why do so many adults with ADHD grow up believing they’re just lazy or unmotivated? Meredith Carder—ADHD coach, writer, and author of It All Makes Sense Now— joins Late, Not Less host Devin Pitts-Rogers to unpack the moment when ADHD finally clicks into place in adulthood. Meredith shares how recognizing ADHD while evaluating her child felt like “someone turning on the lights in an old house.” Suddenly, years of struggles with motivation, organization, and shame began to make sense. Together, Devin and Meredith explore how late diagnosis reshapes the way ADHD adults understand their past, their relationships, and the way their brains actually work. The conversation dives into the realities of ADHD motivation, dopamine-seeking behaviors, hyperfocus, and why so many ADHD adults feel like they’re constantly trying to “try harder” when the real solution is learning how their brains operate. ✨ Highlights ✨ ✔️ Why ADHD adults often grow up believing they’re “lazy” or “unmotivated” ✔️ How masking begins in childhood and follows many people into adulthood ✔️ How dopamine drives distractions like social media, shopping, and sugar ✔️ Why transitions and stopping points are so difficult for ADHD brains ✔️ Simple strategies like walking meetings and environment changes to boost focus ✔️ How ADHD impacts relationships, self-confidence, and identity Along the way, Devin and Meredith also share practical strategies and tools that help ADHD adults manage focus and impulsivity, including using YouTube playlists for background focus, blocking social media with apps like Opal, creating transition routines with phone alarms and reminders, and adding friction to impulsive habits like online shopping by disabling tools like Apple Pay. This episode is a reminder that understanding your brain can change everything. What once looked like character flaws may actually be signs of a brain wired differently. Learning how it works can open the door to a more compassionate and sustainable way of living. 🎧 Watch more ADHD conversations and Late, Not Less episodes on the Attention Different YouTube channel. Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

“Self-care stops being self-care when you’re doing it to prove you’re good enough.” In this episode of the Attention Different podcast, co-founders Aaron Smith and Stephen Tonti explore a surprising question: Can self-care actually become toxic? Drawing from Aaron’s work as a therapist and ADHD coach and Stephen’s storytelling perspective, the conversation unpacks how modern productivity culture has reshaped the idea of rest. What started as a movement toward wellness has, in many cases, become another pressure-filled performance, complete with rigid routines, influencer checklists, and productivity-driven “optimization.” For many ADHD and neurodivergent adults, this creates a confusing paradox: the very tools meant to help you feel better can start to feel like another system you’re failing at. Together, Aaron and Stephen explore the deeper roots of toxic productivity, from childhood conditioning and achievement-based validation to the ways capitalism has commodified wellness itself. Along the way, they offer a reframing of what healthy self-care actually looks like: flexible, compassionate, and aligned with your real emotional needs. ✨Highlights✨ ✔️ The difference between healthy self-care and toxic self-care 🧠 ✔️ How productivity culture turns rest into another performance metric ⚠️ ✔️ Why do many adults internalize the belief: “I’m only enough when I’m productive.” 💬 ✔️ How childhood conditioning can shape burnout patterns later in life 🔄 ✔️ Practical ways to reconnect self-care with your actual needs and values 🌱 “Healthy self-care is done to care for yourself. Toxic self-care is done to manage how you feel about yourself.” –Aaron Smith “Self-care won’t always be fun, but it will always be fulfilling.” – Stephen Tonti If self-care feels exhausting or like something you have to earn, this conversation may help you rethink what it’s really for, and ask yourself whether you’re caring for yourself or just trying to keep up. 🎧 Watch more ADHD conversations, tools, and real stories on the Attention Different YouTube channel. : www.youtube.com/@attentiondifferent 🎥 Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

What does it mean to be diagnosed with "anything but ADHD?” How many times do you have to be dismissed before someone finally listens? If you've ever left a doctor's office feeling unheard, unseen, or handed the wrong label, you're not alone. For Jessi Sorensen — TV producer, documentary filmmaker, and late-diagnosed ADHD adult — that question became the foundation for her feature documentary. Anything But ADHD follows a group of women navigating a medical system that consistently misses, dismisses, or misdiagnoses them. In this episode of Late, Not Less, host Devin Pitts-Rogers sits down with Jessi to unpack her journey: from a childhood of overachieving through burnout to avoid punishment, to a career in reality TV that was accidentally ADHD-friendly, to finally getting diagnosed after visiting six different doctors. ✨Highlights ✨ ✔️ Why so many adults have to fight and pay out of pocket just to get a diagnosis ✔️ The brain science that finally makes ADHD make sense ✔️ How ADHD in girls gets socialized out of sight before anyone thinks to look ✔️ The misdiagnosis pipeline and why the wrong label can follow you for decades ✔️ What hyperactivity actually looks like when it doesn't fit the stereotype ✔️ The unexpected ways treatment can help beyond just focus ✔️ The connection between ADHD, physical health, and symptoms we're taught to ignore ✔️ How ADHD traits that feel like liabilities can become unexpected strengths ✔️ The workarounds, systems, and adaptations that actually make life work ✔️ Why community, not gatekeepers, is the future of ADHD awareness "I could not have done this three years ago. I would cry immediately just thinking about all this shame. But I think that's been it, it's just meeting other people, learning from each other, supporting each other. That's been the best unexpected part of this whole thing." — Jessi Sorensen 💬 Were you ever dismissed, misdiagnosed, or told it was "anything but ADHD"? Drop your story in the comments, your experience might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today. -------------------------------------------------------------------- 𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗨𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗺: Jessi Sorensen: https://www.instagram.com/jessi_sorensen/ Devin Pitts-Rogers: https://www.instagram.com/p0weredbyd0nuts/?hl=en New Merch - https://www.redbubble.com/people/attndifferent/shop Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

Your relationship with food and your ADHD brain are more connected than you think. 🧠🍽️ Nicole DeMasi Malcher is a Registered Dietitian, Diabetes Educator, and founder of Damasi Nutrition and Eating with ADHD, a virtual nutrition practice helping neurodivergent people stop dieting, heal binge eating, and rebuild their relationship with food and body image. She discovered her own ADHD at 33, after nearly a decade as a practicing dietitian, and that diagnosis changed everything. In this episode, Nicole joins Stephen and Aaron to explore the under-discussed connection between ADHD and disordered eating, from dopamine-driven cravings and missed hunger cues to the shame cycles that diet culture makes worse. 🔄 ✨Highlights✨ ✔️ The "gremlin hormone" and how ADHD affects hunger signals ✔️ Why labeling food as good vs. bad makes bingeing worse ✔️ The late-night compensatory eating cycle (and how to break it) ✔️ How diet culture fails neurodivergent people ✔️ Why your body is the least interesting thing about you ✔️ Where to start if you feel overwhelmed by all of this This conversation could genuinely change the way you think about food, your body, and your ADHD brain. Nicole makes a compelling case for intuitive eating as an ADHD-friendly approach that works with your neurology instead of against it, no guilt, no rigid rules, just a better understanding of what your brain actually needs. #AttentionDifferent #ADHD #ADHDNutrition #IntuitiveEating #BingeEating #ADHDFood #NeurodivergentHealth #EatingWithADHD #ADHDPodcast #ADHDWomen #DistractedEating #FoodFreedom #ADHD2025 Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

Ever wish you had a personal assistant who actually gets your ADHD brain? Sharon Pope built one. In this episode, Sharon Pope—founder of Shelpful, an AI-powered task manager designed specifically for ADHD, joins Aaron and Stephen to talk about entrepreneurship, automations, and why "stumbling to arrival" is the most honest way to describe the ADHD experience. Shelpful is an AI task management app built by and for people with ADHD. She's also the co-host of the ADHD Founders podcast (alongside Jesse J. Anderson and Marie Nguyen), where startup founders with ADHD share the messy reality of building companies while navigating their neurodivergent brains. ✨Highlights✨ ✔️ How Sharon accidentally built the perfect ADHD tool while trying to help everyone else ✔️ Why "bi-directional empathy" is an ADHD superpower (and how it drives innovation) ✔️ The secret survival strategies we're no longer embarrassed about (hello, online booking) ✔️ Why a messy kitchen is a sign of a delicious meal, and what that means for ADHD life ✔️ Breaking free from shame around the workarounds that actually help you function ✔️ The magic of ADHD conferences: interruptions welcomed and returned "A messy kitchen is a sign of a delicious meal. It means you did the work. It means you got here somehow." — Sharon Pope This conversation is equal parts inspiration and validation. Sharon's journey from struggling entrepreneur to trailblazing founder proves that building for your ADHD brain, not against it, is where the magic happens. Stumble and arrive, because that's exactly how we're doing this thing called life. 💙 #ADHD #ADHDEntrepreneur #Shelffull #ADHDFounders #TaskManagement #ProductivityTools #Neurodiversity #AttentionDifferent #ADHDPodcast #StartupLife #ADHDSup Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

This is about redefining what success means for your ADHD brain and building a life that works with you, not against you. Join Attention Different co-founders Aaron Smith, LCSW, and Stephen Tonti, MFA, for this dynamic panel discussion from the International Conference on ADHD 2025: Connect Learn Thrive (November 2025). In this panel discussion, Aaron and Stephen bring together some of the brightest voices in the ADHD community to tackle the patterns that keep us stuck, toxic productivity, languishing, and burnout, and explore what it actually looks like to flourish with ADHD. Featured Panelists: Jesse J. Anderson - Author of Extra Focus: The Quick Start Guide to Adult ADHD and creator of ADHD contentDevin Pitts-Rogers - Attention Different team member and host of Late Not LessChris Wang (Shimmer) - ADHD coach and CEO of ShimmerTrina Haynes - writer and ADHD Advocate✨Highlights✨ ✔️ The 5 characteristics of toxic productivity and why they resonate so deeply with ADHDers  ✔️ Why typical productivity advice doesn't work for ADHD brains (and what to do instead) ✔️ Understanding languishing vs. burnout, and how to recognize the warning signs  ✔️ The myth of consistency and the power of persistence  ✔️ How to build sustainable routines that honor your ADHD neurodiversity  ✔️ Practical takeaways: habit stacking, energy management, reset points, and values-based living "We are human beings, not human doings." — Rick Warren Remember: What we lack in consistency, we make up for in persistence. 💙 #ADHD #ADHDConference #ToxicProductivity #Burnout #ADHDSupport #Neurodiversity #AttentionDifferent #ADHDCoach #MentalHealth #ADHDAwareness Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

🔥 Why do ADHD brains thrive with movement, structure, and shared space, but stall in isolation? In this episode of Attention Different, we sit down with Elan Marko, founder of Deep Work Sprints, to unpack why so many ADHD entrepreneurs struggle to follow through, not because they lack motivation, but because they’re working against their own nature. Elan shares insights from his in-depth research on ADHD entrepreneurs and his lived experience as someone diagnosed later in life. Together, we explore why goal obsession can backfire, how momentum fuels focus, and why consistency comes from designing the right systems, not forcing willpower. The conversation moves beyond productivity hacks and into something deeper: alignment, self-acceptance, and building environments that actually support how ADHD brains work. ✨ Highlights ✨ ✔️ Why focusing on process beats obsessing over outcomes ✔️ How momentum and movement unlock focus and reduce anxiety ✔️ The “rose garden” metaphor for environmental design and ADHD success ✔️ How 7-day sprints and experiments build real consistency ✔️ Why body doubling and connection matter more than motivation ✔️ How sleep, energy, and context shape follow-through This episode is for you if you’re worn down by the expectation to do more and ready to build a way of working that fits your brain. 🎧 Watch the full episode on YouTube @attentiondifferent and join the conversation.   💬 What environment helps you focus best? Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

What if ADHD isn’t something you “outgrow,” fix, or hide, but something you learn to work with? In this episode of the Attention Different Podcast, we sit down with Diann Wingert—former psychotherapist, entrepreneur coach, and host of the ADHD-ish podcast—for a deeply human conversation about adult ADHD, late diagnosis, masking, and radical self-acceptance. Drawing from decades of clinical work, research, and lived experience, Diann reflects on why ADHD doesn’t disappear with age and why some adults struggle while others thrive. Together, we explore what happens when women are diagnosed later in life, how hormones and perimenopause can intensify ADHD traits, and why so many adults are misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression instead of being properly identified with ADHD. Diann also shares powerful insights on masking: what it protects us from, what it costs us, and how unmasking (safely) can lead to deeper connection and belonging. This conversation is about understanding your brain, questioning outdated labels, and learning how to build a life that works with the mind you have, not the one you were told you should have. ✨ Highlights ✨ ✔️ Why ADHD is not outgrown, and what actually differentiates adults who struggle from those who thrive ✔️ The hidden link between perimenopause, hormones, and worsening ADHD symptoms ✔️ Masking vs. safety: when hiding helps, when it harms, and how to begin unmasking responsibly ✔️ Why late diagnosis often brings relief first… and grief second ✔️ How ADHD is frequently mistaken for anxiety or depression, especially in women ✔️ Why “disorder” and “deficit” language can quietly lower expectations and reinforce shame ✔️ What radical self-acceptance really looks like for ADHD adults in real life 🎙️ This episode is for anyone who’s ever wondered: – “Why do I still struggle as an adult?” – “What if I was diagnosed later than everyone else?” – “Who am I without the mask?” 📺 Watch the Full Episode  👉 YouTube: @attentiondifferent Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

💡 What happens when you keep moving forward… but never stop to notice how far you’ve come? In this episode of the Attention Different Podcast, we sit down with Rachel Ambrose for a deeply grounding conversation about progress, self-trust, and why so many ADHD adults struggle to recognize their own wins. Rachel shares how ADHD brains are often wired to chase the next goal, raise the bar, and dismiss effort the moment it happens. Even real growth can feel invisible when you’re constantly measuring yourself against unrealistic expectations, productivity myths, or an imagined version of who you “should” be by now. We unpack how burnout, perfectionism, and internalized pressure can keep us stuck in a loop of trying harder without ever feeling successful—and why learning to pause, reflect, and acknowledge progress is not self-indulgent, but necessary. ✨ 𝗛𝗶𝗴𝗵𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 ✔️ Why progress often goes unrecognized by ADHDers, even by ourselves ✔️ How constantly “raising the bar” disconnects us from growth ✔️ Why effort matters just as much as outcomes ✔️ How burnout changes our ability to perceive success ✔️ Learning to build self-trust instead of self-pressure ✔️ What it looks like to slow down without giving up 📺 Watch the Full Episode 👉 YouTube: @attentiondifferent Find out more about Rachel and Porch Light Coaching: [email protected] (Instagram)Send us Fan Mail We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community. If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe! -------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1 -------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey •  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com •  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different • Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent • X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent