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2017/06/13
Latest episode
2026/10/23
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33 min.
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Hey y’all! We are a husband and wife team from Louisiana that discuss murder, mystery, and mayhem with a southern twist! We cover true crime throughout the South, so pull up a rocking chair, grab your mason jar full of sweet tea, and sit for a spell while we chit chat, and laugh some about this crazy world we live in. If you are ok with some banter and a few well placed f-bombs, you are in the right place and we are glad you are here! Now if banter and cussing are not for you and you just want us to get to the point, check out our weekly release ”A Little Less Mess” where we cover the same stories but with no added chit chat or humor.
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[Florida] The Gainesville Ripper
2026/10/23
In August 1990, the return of students to the University of Florida in Gainesville turned into a nightmare. Over a terrifying four-day span, drifter and serial killer Danny Rolling murdered five college students in their off-campus apartments, leaving the community paralyzed by fear.
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A Little Less Mess: The Halloween Murder of Rebekah Gay [Michigan]
2026/10/20
When Rebekah Gay didn’t arrive at work on Halloween in 2012, a coworker went to her Michigan home to check on her. Cara follows the search, the investigation, and the confession that resolved the case.
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Wilson Miller Funeral Home, obituary for Rebekah Jane Gay.
Oxygen, “Minister Murdered Single Mom on Halloween to Live Out His Necrophiliac Fantasy,” October 17, 2022.
Associated Press via NBC News, “Police: Mich. pastor killed fiancee’s daughter to fulfill fantasy,” November 3, 2012.
Isabella County Prosecuting Attorney, “John Douglas White Pled Guilty to Second Degree Murder,” March 2013.
FOX 17, “Man Sentenced for Killing His Neighbor Last Halloween,” April 19, 2013.CBS News, “John White Update: Mich. minister convicted in sex slaying commits suicide in prison, authorities say,” August 29, 2013.
[Georgia] The Deadly Delivery to Lita McClinton
2026/10/15
On a bitterly cold January morning in 1987, thirty-five-year-old Lita McClinton was inside her Buckhead townhouse in Atlanta, getting dressed for a critical eleven o'clock court hearing to challenge a prenuptial agreement with her estranged husband, multimillionaire beverage heir James Sullivan. When her doorbell rang, an apparent deliveryman handed her a long white floral box tied with a pink ribbon. Beneath the tissue paper and roses was a nine-millimeter pistol. What followed was an agonizing, nineteen-year fight for justice that spanned interstate payphone trails along I-85, a four-year international manhunt ending in a luxury seaside villa in Thailand, and a high-stakes Fulton County murder trial. Grab your mason jars and join Cara and Stew on the porch for the complete investigative breakdown of one of Georgia's most calculated crimes.
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Sources:
Supreme Court of Georgia En Banc Decision (Sullivan v. State, 284 Ga. 358, 667 S.E.2d 32, 2008)
Georgia Court of Appeals Judicial Records (Harwood v. State, 303 Ga. App. 434, 693 S.E.2d 589, 2010)
Fulton County Superior Court Indictment, Trial & Penalty Phase Transcripts (State of Georgia v. James Vincent Sullivan, 2006)
Bilateral Treaty on Extradition Between the United States and the Kingdom of Thailand (Treaty Doc. 98-16, Article 6, 1991)
Contemporary investigative coverage and trial reporting by The Atlanta Journal-Constitution and The Associated Press
A Little Less Mess: The Murder of Ellen Sherman [Connecticut]
2026/10/14
When a friend went to check on Ellen Sherman in 1985, the discovery inside her Connecticut home launched a years-long murder investigation. Cara follows the disputed timeline and unexpected testimony that helped bring the case to trial.
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State v. Sherman, Connecticut Appellate Court, 1995.
Hartford Courant, “Man Who Killed Wife Dies of Heart Attack,” 1996.
Luanne Rice, “Four Murders and a Missing Woman in the Nutmeg State,” Criminal Element, 2020.
Rebecca Reisner, “Ellen and Ed Sherman: Cold End to a Marriage,” Forensic Files Now, 2025.
[Georgia] The Fire on Fawn Drive
2026/10/09
In January 2001, firefighters responding to an off-campus house fire on Fawn Drive in Athens, Georgia, discovered the body of twenty-three-year-old UGA law student Tara Louise Baker . When investigators determined the fire had been deliberately set to cover up a violent homicide, it launched a twenty-three-year search for answers.
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Sources • Georgia Bureau of Investigation (GBI) Cold Case Investigative Division Case File • Athens-Clarke County Police Department & Fire Rescue Incident Reports (160 Fawn Drive) • State of Georgia Legislative Archives: The Coleman-Baker Act (HB 88) • Western Judicial Circuit District Attorney’s Office Records: State of Georgia v. Edrick Lamont Faust (Clarke County Superior Court) • Athens Banner-Herald, The Atlanta Journal-Constitution, and The Red & Black Court Archives
A Little Less Mess: The Vanishing at Eilean Mòr [Scotland]
2026/10/06
In December 1900, three lighthouse keepers vanished from a remote island off the coast of Scotland. When the relief crew arrived at Eilean Mòr, the lighthouse was empty, the fire was cold, the beds were unmade, and one raincoat still hung by the door.
This week on A Little Less Mess, Cara heads across the ocean to explore the eerie disappearance at the Flannan Isles Lighthouse—and the ghost stories that have followed those three missing men for more than a century.
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National Lighthouse Board
National Records of Scotland
BBC
[Florida] Mother Knows Best
2026/10/02
Grab your mason jars and pull up a rocker as Cara and Stew head to South Florida to unpack the wild true story behind the 1997 movie Mother Knows Best. When Lauderhill retiree Lee Goldsmith secretly placed a classified ad to find her daughter a wealthy bachelor, she never imagined her daughter would fall for David Brownstein, a hardworking, blue-collar air-conditioning repairman. Consumed by spite and years of family estrangement, Lee took matters into her own hands by trying to hire a hitman straight from her living room—sparking an undercover Broward County Sheriff’s sting inside a luxury Cadillac and a sensational trial that stunned the nation.
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Tampa Bay Times Archives (1990): "Murder-for-hire case opens: Woman accused of trying to have son-in-law killed" (Jan 23, 1990).South Florida Sun Sentinel Archives (1989–1995): "The Old Lady and the Hit Man" (May 1990); "Grandma in Murder Plot to Be Freed" (June 1995); trial coverage by regional correspondents.Orlando Sentinel Archives (1990–1993): "Lee Goldsmith, In Jail for Hiring a Hit Man" (Jan 1993); "Shoot My Son-In-Law, Please!" (July 1990).Broward County Circuit Court Records (1989–1990): State of Florida v. Lee Goldsmith, Case No. 89-003661CF10A (Solicitation to Commit First-Degree Murder).
A Little Less Mess: The Murder of Maria Ridulph [Illinois]
2026/09/29
On a freezing December evening in 1957, seven-year-old Maria Ridulph was playing under the streetlights of Sycamore, Illinois, when a friendly young man offering piggyback rides vanished with her into the winter dark. The disappearance triggered an unprecedented nationwide manhunt that drew personal attention from J. Edgar Hoover and President Dwight D. Eisenhower, only to end months later when Maria’s remains were discovered deep in a rural wooded ravine.
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The National Registry of Exonerations: Jack McCullough Case Summary & Exoneration Record
The Innocence Project: llinois Prosecutor Seeks Justice Amid Decades-Old Wrongful Conviction (DeKalb County Review)
CNN Special Investigative Series: Taken: Coldest Case Ever Solved (Reporting by David Fitzpatrick & Drew Griffin)
The Chicago Tribune / Associated Press Archives: Sycamore Community Coverage, 1957 Abduction Searches, and 2012 Trial Records
DeKalb County Circuit Court: State of Illinois v. Jack McCullough (2016 Conviction Vacatur & 2017 Certificate of Innocence Filings)
[North Carolina] Bitter Blood Murders
2026/09/24
Grab your mason jars and pull up a rocker as Cara and Stew unpack one of the most chilling multi-generational tragedies in Southern history. What began as a contentious custody battle between a prominent Winston-Salem socialite and her dentist ex-husband spiraled into an apocalyptic nightmare when she fell under the spell of her first cousin—a survivalist masquerading as a CIA operative and medical doctor.
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Sources
Bledsoe, Jerry. Bitter Blood: A True Story of Southern Family Pride, Madness, and Multiple Murder (Onyx / Dutton, 1988)
North Carolina Department of Natural and Cultural Resources, Historical Crime Archives: The Bizarre "Bitter Blood" Murders
Greensboro News & Record, Investigative Archives & Highway 150 Incident Reports (1984–1985) Winston-Salem Journal, Valley Road Homicide Files & SBI Case Summaries
Kentucky State Police, Oldham County / Prospect Double Homicide Investigative Files
A Little Less Mess: Blood Under the Crabapple Tree [New Jersey]
2026/09/22
Grab your mason jars and pull up a rocker as Cara steps outside the South for a solo trip back to the autumn of 1922. In an overgrown lovers’ lane outside New Brunswick, New Jersey, the bodies of an aristocratic Episcopal priest and his married choir leader were found staged beneath a crabapple tree, surrounded by their torn-up secret love letters and a grotesque calling card.
What followed became the country's first true media circus. From a high-society widow with millions on the line to an eccentric witness known as the "Pig Woman" testifying from a hospital bed wheeled into the courtroom, this century-old double homicide remains one of the most scandalous, theatrical, and baffling unsolved mysteries in American history.
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- The Hall-Mills Murder Case (Historical Trial Transcripts & New Jersey State Police Archives)
- The New York Times, Contemporary Investigative Archives (1922–1926)
- New York Daily Mirror, Grand Jury & Somerville Court Coverage
- William Kunstler, *The Minister and the Choir Singer: The Hall-Mills Murder Case (William Morrow & Co.)
[Georgia] The Body in the Burn Pile
2026/09/17
In July 2018, prominent 58-year-old corporate attorney Gary Farris vanished from his family’s ten-acre farm on Purcell Lane in Cherokee County, Georgia. Days later, his charred remains were discovered in an outdoor burn pile near the house. While initial explanations suggested Gary had suffered a dizzy spell and accidentally collapsed into the flames, the case turned into a homicide investigation when pathologists discovered a .38-caliber bullet lodged inside his rib.
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Sources:- Cherokee County District Attorney's Office (Case Records & Conviction Release, November 2024) - Cherokee County Sheriff's Office Incident & Investigation Files - Georgia Bureau of Investigation (GBI) Forensic Ballistics & Crime Lab Reports - Court TV: GA v. Melody Walker Farris (Full 18-Day Trial Coverage, Testimony & Exhibits) - CBS News 48 Hours: Investigative Coverage on the Gary Farris Case
A Little Less Mess: The Circleville Letters [Ohio]
2026/09/14
Beginning in 1977, anonymous letters terrorized Circleville, Ohio, accusing residents of affairs, crimes, and private secrets. School-bus driver Mary Gillispie and her family became the main targets. After her husband died in a mysterious crash, the threats escalated—and a booby-trapped sign with a loaded gun led to her brother-in-law’s conviction. But the letters continued after he went to prison. In this A Little Less Mess minisode, Cara follows one of America’s strangest unsolved anonymous-letter mysteries.
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CBS News 48 Hours: The Circleville Letters: You’ve Got Hate Mail
48 Hours: The Circleville Letters reporting and document-analysis coverage
[Alabama] The Murder of Charlotte Waites
2026/09/11
In August 1998, beloved teacher Charlotte Waites was found brutally murdered inside her Lanett, Alabama home, with the crime scene staged to look like a robbery gone wrong. Her husband, the town’s interim mayor, claimed to be devastated—but behind closed doors lay a dark trail of secret debts, control, and betrayal. Nearly a decade passed before the couple’s own daughters came forward to help finally bring their father to justice.
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Sources
Oxygen True Crime: “An Unexpected Killer: Inside the Murder Case of Charlotte Waites” (Season 2, Episode 12)
WSFA 12 News (Alabama): “Jury Finds Former Lanett City Councilman Guilty of Murder” (November 20, 2006)
NBC News / Associated Press Archives: “Visions of Victim Inspire Murder Accusation in Lanett Case” (February 10, 2006)
Chambers County District Attorney’s Office: Trial Transcripts, Evidence Filings, and Sentencing Records: State of Alabama v. Barry Waites (2006)
The Valley Times-News (Lanett, AL): Local reporting and archives on the 1998 investigation and 2006 conviction of Barry Waites
A Little Less Mess: The Unsolved Murder of Lisa Pruett [Ohio]
2026/09/08
In this week's Monday minisode of A Little Less Mess, Cara travels outside the South to the upscale community of Shaker Heights, Ohio.
In September 1990, sixteen-year-old Lisa Pruett left home to meet her boyfriend in Shaker Heights, Ohio. Minutes later, she was attacked and killed in a yard just steps from his house. A classmate, Kevin Young, was charged after two people said he confessed while in psychiatric treatment, but no physical evidence tied him to the crime. He was acquitted in 1993, and Lisa’s murder remains unsolved.
Support the showListen to our Monday minisode A Little Less Mess right here on the main feed. Hang out with us on Patreon for The Weekly Pour on the Porch and Sittin’, Sippin’, & Bullshittin’.Please rate and review, subscribe, and follow us on social media for case updates, what's in our mason jars, true crime documentary recommendations, and Southern suppers. Search @blessthismesspodcast on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.Sources for this episode
Cleveland.com, “Kevin Young, accused in 1990 fatal stabbing of Shaker Heights teen, dies at 44”Cleveland Scene, “I See the Truth,” a long-form review of the Lisa Pruett investigation and Kevin Young trialShaker Heights Police / Cuyahoga County court reporting and contemporaneous local coverage
[Texas] The All-American Family — The Murder of Belinda Temple
2026/09/04
Grab your mason jar and pull up a rocking chair—this week on Bless This Mess, Cara and Stew are heading down to Katy, Texas.
On a January evening in 1999, thirty-year-old special education teacher Belinda Temple—eight months pregnant with her second child—was found shot execution-style inside her master bedroom closet. Her husband, David Temple, a prominent local high school football coach and hometown gridiron star, claimed he was running errands with their young son during a staged home invasion. But when famed prosecutor Kelly Siegler took over the case, a secret affair and a grocery store alibi timed down to the exact second unraveled a facade of suburban perfection into one of the most contentious legal battles in Texas history.
Support the showListen to our Monday minisode A Little Less Mess right here on the main feed. Hang out with us on Patreon for The Weekly Pour on the Porch and Sittin’, Sippin’, & Bullshittin’.Please rate and review, subscribe, and follow us on social media for case updates, what's in our mason jars, true crime documentary recommendations, and Southern suppers. Search @blessthismesspodcast on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.Sources for this episodeCBS News (48 Hours): The Guessing Game: The Murder of Belinda Temple (2010).ABC News (20/20): Shattered Love: The Trials of David Temple (2019).Oxygen / NBC Universal: Prosecuting Evil with Kelly Siegler: The Belinda Temple Case.Harris County District Court Records: The State of Texas v. David Temple (2007, 2019, 2023).Texas Court of Criminal Appeals: David Temple Appeals & Overturned Proceedings (2016, 2025).The Houston Chronicle & Katy Magazine: Archival investigative reporting and trial transcripts (1999–2025).
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Christina J from Cali 2026/10/02
Ugh
Can we please get rid of Cara and get a Stew only podcast??? Cara’s smarter than everyone attitude is annoying…especially for someone who doesn’t even...
Ash Stephens 2026/09/30
Five stars only!!!!
Absolutely love this podcast!!!! Reviewing out of Oklahoma ❤️
Ladygjm 2026/09/19
Happy News
I so happy you are back I listened to you way back. I just added you back to my daily listens. Congratulations on expanding your family. Mahoney423
Christie in Tennessee 2026/08/27
My favorite
Best podcast and best hosts ever. I look forward to every episode because it’s like sittin down with a couple of friends. It’s a heavy subject and Car...
JoJo4214 2026/01/25
ABSOLUTELY NOT
True Crime is a serious topic. I listen to a LOT of podcasts and have heard some great ones. These podcasters laugh way too much and tell jokes while ...
sonofanutracker 2025/12/10
Tickled
Love it when Cara gets tickled 😂😂
MJcolors 2025/12/05
Definitely recommend
I love this podcast and have for years. I like their banter and laughter and I think it’s not done with disrespect to the victims. It’s a hard balance...
Jenifer30_ 2025/11/28
Disrespectful
Hate that the hosts keep breaking into laughter so much when talking about such sensitive matters. Its so disrespectful. Really disappointed :( couldn...
allieisme76 2025/09/11
Terrible
I’ve tried a few times to listen to this podcast. Honestly I don’t know how there’s such a high rating. The banter is terrible & it just seems like an...
Esbjmoran 2025/09/05
It’s like listening to friends
Love their banter. Cara seems like a girls, girl. Can’t get enough of these two. Really enjoy hearing about their day to day and especially Cara’s Bra...
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