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One “bad” meal. One skipped workout. One night of doom scrolling. Then the familiar thought hits: I blew it, so why bother? That is not a personality flaw. It is black-and-white thinking, a common cognitive bias that kills more progress than failure ever could. We walk through how all-or-nothing mindset shows up in dieting, intermittent fasting, exercise routines, reading goals, and even work habits. You will learn 3 practical tools you can use immediately.   If you want a stronger growth mindset, better follow-through, and sustainable behavior change, press play. After you listen, share it with a friend who gets stuck in all-or-nothing thinking, and please subscribe, rate, and review so more people can keep growing. Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

Stress is going to show up if you are doing anything that matters. The real question is whether it turns you into a sharper, healthier version of yourself or whether it drags you into dread, overthinking, and burnout. You will leave today's podcast episode with a 5-step emotional regulation and stress management toolkit to become more resilient, improve your performance under stress, and recover better while you climb. Subscribe to Change Wired Podcast, share this with someone who needs steadier nerves, and leave a review if it helps. What is one stress trigger you want to turn into a challenge you handle well this week? Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

Monday motivation is one of the most expensive lies we buy. It feels like a reset, a clean slate, a brand new you, but nothing about your skills, schedule, or stress load upgrades overnight. So when reality hits, the plan collapses and we wonder what is wrong with us. I walk through the behavioral science behind the fresh start effect and explain the missing piece: psychology can spark action, but it does not create capacity. We get practical about what actually works for sustainable behavior change and habit formation. Then we zoom in on sleep. As an executive coach and certified sleep coach, I see the same three mistakes again and again with leaders and high performers: they never make a real decision to prioritize sleep, they do not create systems that protect bedtime, and they unknowingly work against their biology. We talk about sleep hygiene and circadian rhythm basics that change everything, including bright light at night and melatonin suppression, late meals, alcohol close to bedtime, caffeine timing, bedroom temperature, late workouts, and stressful tasks that keep your brain switched on. If you want better sleep quality, stronger recovery, and high performance that does not burn you out, hit play. Subscribe, share this with someone who keeps “starting over,” and leave a quick review if it helps. What is the one habit you keep restarting every Monday? Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

That quiet, persistent thought, “My life is pretty good, but something is missing,” can be one of the most useful signals you get. I’m unpacking why that feeling so often comes from a values gap: what you truly care about versus what your days repeatedly look like. When our priorities shift over the years, we can keep living by an old internal scorecard without realizing it, then wonder why motivation drops and dissatisfaction creeps in. I share a personal story about growing up in Russia celebrating Space Day, and why mission and impact resonate more deeply for me than belonging or tradition. From there, I walk through a values bridge assessment I used after reading Becoming You and how it clarifies both conflicts and harmonies in your values. To make this real in daily life, I also give you a structured weekly reflection you can do in about 20 minutes. You’ll review wins and gratitude, extract lessons from setbacks, identify the 20% that drives results, name distractions, check health and autonomy, and plan a week that better matches your long-term goals. If you want more meaning, fulfillment, and alignment without copying someone else’s happiness formula, listen now, share it with a friend who feels stuck, and subscribe and leave a review so more people can find the show. The Values-Bridge Assessment The Weekly Reflection Template Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

Fulfillment is not a prize you earn by checking the right boxes. It is a feeling that shows up when your life matches who you actually are. We use a simple idea to guide the whole conversation: imagine a Venn diagram where one circle is your values and the other circle is how you live day to day. The overlap is peace, meaning, and that grounded sense of “my life fits me.” We walk through practical values discovery exercises you can do with a notebook in under an hour.  When you know your highest values, your decisions get simpler, your goals get cleaner, and the way you spend your time starts supporting the life you want to live. Listen, do the exercises, and share this with someone you care about. The Values Bridge Test Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

Your aspirations to wake up or go to bed on time aren’t failing because you’re “undisciplined” or broken. Most of the time, your attention is simply getting pulled by whatever is loudest in the moment - the real engine behind the intention-action gap and the knowing-doing gap. You'll learn about practical, behavior change tools used in coaching and backed by behavioral science, including motivational salience: you don’t do what’s most important to you, you do what you pay attention to. We talk about designing cues and triggers that make good habits memorable and important enough for you to actually do them. If you’re trying to improve sleep quality, build a morning routine, stay consistent with mindfulness, or finally become the person who writes and journals, this is a simple framework that will help. Subscribe for more tools like this, share this with one person who needs it, and leave a review so more people can close the gap and follow through. Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

AI keeps promising to save us time, but a funny thing happens when our tools get faster: our lives often get busier, not freer. We start with a simple idea: without intention, extra capacity doesn’t become rest, health, better relationships, or meaningful hobbies. It turns into more output and more complexity. The heart of sustainable success, fulfillment, and burnout prevention: designing your life on purpose instead of defaulting into what technology, culture, and convenience push you toward. Then we get practical with 2 tools I use in coaching: Time Budgeting and Focus Filter. If you’re ready for clearer priorities, stronger boundaries, and better time management in an AI productivity era, press play and do the exercise with us. Subscribe for more, share this with someone who’s been running on “more,” and leave a review so more listeners can find Change Wired Podcast. Time Budgeting Worksheet to copy Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

Most people fail to achieve long-term goals because their goals stay foggy, vague, not deconstructed, sequenced, selected and kept accountable. Achievement that lasts has very little to do with talent and everything to do with the process. When “get healthy,” “become a better leader,” or “grow my business” is still a blurry vision, it’s almost impossible to know what to do on any day, let alone what to track, what to practice, and what to improve. And how to put the whole thing together. I walk you through one of the most fundamental coaching skills I use with clients: deconstruction (goal decomposition). We take any complex goal and break it into smaller, defined milestones and trainable subskills you can act on today. I ground it with a practical health example using the big four pillars of well-being: sleep, nutrition, exercise, and stress management, plus the real subskills inside nutrition like meal planning, protein, hydration, and emotion regulation. Then I bring in Tim Ferriss’s DISSS learning framework: Deconstruction, Selection, Sequencing, and Stakes. We talk about the 80/20 rule (Pareto principle) so you focus on the few actions that create the biggest return, how to sequence skills so you’re not “building a tabletop with no legs,” and why stakes and accountability are the difference between ideas and results. I also share how to use AI tools like ChatGPT or Claude to identify components, prioritize the high-leverage pieces, and draft a plan you can schedule and measure. If you want better goal setting, skill building, and a simple system for personal growth that actually works in real life, hit play and share it with someone who needs it.   Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

If you’ve ever said “I eat pretty healthy, so why isn’t this working?” this one is for you. But it also goes a lot beyond weight loss attacking unhelpful beliefs that keep you stuck in other areas of your life.  I’m pulling back the curtain on the hidden reason so many nutrition plans fall apart: not a lack of willpower, but a handful of beliefs that quietly sabotage consistency, calorie balance, and long-term results. I walk through my own winding health journey, years of experimenting with vegan, low carb, keto, carnivore, juice cleanses, fasting, and other popular protocols. Some of it worked briefly, then something would break: energy, mood, sleep, or sustainability. The turning point came when I stopped chasing gurus and started leaning into science-based nutrition, the boring but powerful fundamentals that stay consistent across time. We talk energy balance, how calories actually drive weight trends, and why food quality still matters through essential nutrients like protein, fiber, fats, vitamins, and minerals. Then we get tactical with 3 common calorie beliefs I see in coaching again and again that keep my clients stuck on their health and fitness journey. The goal is sustainable health, better body composition, and a calmer relationship with food built on scientific research, not hope, gurus and "magical approaches". If this helps, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s stuck, and leave a review so more people can find a practical path to lasting change. Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

Balance isn’t the goal. Integration is. Not Either/Or but Both/And. If you’ve ever gone all in on hustle and deep work only to feel isolated, or filled your calendar with people and meetings only to feel scattered and behind - you’re not broken, you are human. You’re living inside a polarity and treating it like a problem to solve instead of a tension to manage. We walk through Polarity Mapping (also known as polarity management, based on Barry Johnson’s method) and show how “both and” thinking creates a more sustainable way to work, lead, and live. Using deep work and solitude versus social connection as the main example, we map the upsides of each side, the unintended negative consequences of overdoing either one, and the warning signs that tell you you’re drifting. Then we get concrete: time blocks, batching meetings, proactive relationship touch points, low effort ways to connect, and simple weekly reflection check ins that prevent burnout and resentment before they build. I also invite you to a free live online session called Beyond Balance on Thursday, April 2. It’s interactive, not recorded, and you’ll get assessments and worksheets so you can build your own polarity map and reuse it for work life integration, leadership, self development, and relationships. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s feeling stuck, trying to navigate competing priorities that are impossible to balance. Join the Workshop - go Beyond Balance - https://untitled-7pu3yin.gamma.site/ Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

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A whole pineapple can ruin a perfectly good habit.  Today we start with a real coaching case study on nutrition habits and why “I’ll just do it” collapses under real life.   Then we translate the same systems thinking into workplace transformation and leadership: why telling a team to “use AI” or “give better feedback” rarely works, and what does work instead. Think: clear playbooks, tiny recipes, calendar time to practice, and scripts that remove hesitation so people can act without second guessing.   We also unpack the psychology behind stalled action, including choice overload and why too many options can lead to no choice at all, plus the neuroscience of habits and automatic behavior. You’ll leave with practical habit building and productivity tools you can apply to health routines, time management, feedback culture, and change management, especially when you have a busy schedule and zero extra bandwidth.   If this helps, subscribe to Change Wired Podcast, share it with a leader or teammate who’s trying to drive change, and leave a review so more people can learn how to cut the pineapple and make the right thing the easy thing.   Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

Quitting isn’t always a character flaw. A lot of the time it’s a belief problem. When I see people stall on a healthier diet, regular exercise, better sleep, a bold career move, or the messy work of improving relationships, the pattern is the same: they stop when they no longer believe their effort will pay off. Today I share a practical framework inspired by Nir Eyal’s work, the book Beyond Belief: a 3-part motivation triangle. Remove any side and consistency collapses. If you want more discipline  -this episode will help you get it. Subscribe for more conversations on motivation and human potential, and if this helps, share it with one person and leave a rating or review. Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

What does it truly take to change what we do — for yourself and at scale, sustainably in the real world? In this episode, Angela sits down with Hengchen Dai, Associate Professor at UCLA Anderson and co-director of the UCLA Nudge Unit, to explore the science behind why people do what they do, and what it takes to shift it. Hengchen brings rigorous academic research published in Nature and other notable publications, and field experiments run inside hospitals, university health systems, and national pharmacy chains with millions of participants. What emerges is a practical toolkit for anyone trying to create lasting change — whether you're a leader, a clinician, a policymaker, or just someone trying to get better at your own habits. Key Takeaways   -  Behaviour change is not one-size-fits-all — someone who skipped their flu shot this year (but got it last year) has a completely different barrier (forgetting, procrastination) than someone who has never been vaccinated (belief, scepticism). Targeting interventions based on past behaviour dramatically improves results.   🗓 The Fresh Start Effect — people are more motivated at temporal landmarks: New Year, birthdays, work anniversaries, the start of a new quarter. Framing a retirement savings sign-up as "after your birthday" vs "in five months" increased sign-up rates — same date, different psychology. Time your change to ride this wave and boost motivation.   ⛰️ Friction kills adoption — a 2-click detour in a patient portal was enough to reduce cancer screening rates. If your process, tool, or habit requires even slightly more steps than what people already do, most people won't follow through.   ⏱ Timing beats content — a voter registration pop-up immediately after a charitable donation had near-perfect engagement. A text sent two minutes later, after people left the platform, had virtually zero. Meet people where their attention already is.   🎉 Find the short-term fun — long-term benefits rarely motivate day-to-day action. Help people identify immediate enjoyment in the behaviour (learning a new skill, the satisfaction of progress) and sustain engagement far better than selling abstract future outcomes.   👥 Social accountability works — people were more likely to go to the gym when the incentive required bringing a friend, even though that made it harder to earn. Build buddy systems into any change you start.   📢 Close the communication gap — managers assume employees notice what's changed. They don't. When UCLA Health explicitly told physicians "we changed X because you said Y in the 2024 survey," attitudes and participation improved significantly. Don't assume people will notice. Tell them. ... and so much more! __________ Links 🌐 Hengchen's website: www.hengchendai.com BIO About Hengchen Dai Hengchen Dai is an Associate Professor of Organizational Behaviour and Behavioural Decision Making at UCLA Anderson School of Management and co-director of the UCLA Nudge Unit. Her research on motivation and behaviour change has appeared in Nature, PNAS, and Management Science, and been featured by the NYT, WSJ, Harvard Business Review, and Freakonomics. She received the 2026 Early Career Impact Award from the Federation of Associations in Behavioral & Brain Sciences and has been named one of the World's 40 Best Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant  

Proof changes everything.   When the world serves you endless "hot takes" about health, habits, and mindset, we need to slow down and build on what actually holds up—methods that work across people and across time.   Today we unpack why evidence-backed tools make personal growth more predictable, less stressful, and far more sustainable, and we put 3 practical techniques in your hands so you can start reshaping your limiting thinking and story-telling right away.   You’ll learn how to build a confidence stock—an ongoing log of small wins and improvements that counters your brain’s negativity bias and grows self-efficacy. We then pressure-test the stories you tell yourself with a clean filter: does this belief serve you? If holding it for a year shrinks your action and your world, it’s time to rewrite it toward utility, practice, and progress.   Finally, we explore self-distancing—third-person self-talk that lowers emotional heat and boosts clarity. This simple shift moves decision-making into a calmer part of your brain, so you can see options, choose a next step, and act with less friction.   Along the way, we highlight how modern, science-backed approaches deliver the predictability you need to navigate fast change without drowning in noise. The result: fewer yo-yo fixes, more consistent outcomes, and a sturdier path to the future self you’re building.   If this resonates, share the episode with one friend who’s stuck in a limiting story, then subscribe and leave a quick review to help others find us.   Text Me Your Thoughts and Ideas Support the show Brought to you by Angela Shurina   Behavior-First, Executive, Leadership and Optimal Performance Coach 360, Change Leadership & Culture Transformation Consultant