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The Chapmans are out of the Bat Cave and want to tell you all about it. In this episode they discuss Randie’s revelation, Mikey’s heart felt intentions, and the thing that finally made them realize they need to QUIT the house buying process (for now). Later, the couple gives out Patreon Superlatives to their most engaged Patrons of 2023. The Superlatives range from the most delulu to the one most likely to be Robin Hood. Then, Randie brings a fight or flight that asks Mikey why he is always throwing away her shit. But it’s all love as you know when they end the show with some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. View their registry here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/24UJLF8RYINYR Items Mentioned: * BMM 023 It’s a Hard Knock Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/id1363790050?i=1000419418837 * To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. 
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Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are sick right now, but would never leave you hanging. So tune in for a raw and unedited version of "Plastic Off the Sofa". These kinds of episodes don't have any music or any edits, and they are a favorite of those on Patreon because listeners get a BTS look into what crafting an episode is like. This episode in particular was a very popular episode last year, downloaded over 4k times and so they wanted to share the original and uncut version with y'all. They'll see y'all next week when they get their voices back. About this episode: Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Like Saturn, the sisters have returned to one another. Tune in for this extra special Indie where Randie interviews her baby sister, Bri. In this episode they discuss their childhoods, and Bri reveals what little Bri wants from Little Ran. Later, Bri talks about what going no contact with certain family members has taught her, what she does to take care of herself, and what being a sister means to her. This indie is full of warm hugs, apologies, love and laughter, and the girls hope you enjoy. Items Mentioned: **As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you.** BMM Indie 064: https://redcircle.com/shows/18770380-ea84-4e44-99ce-d28b950cf790/episodes/1335aa42-cc0e-4907-bb05-acc303d98506 Ho'oponopono Prayer: https://www.google.com/search?q=ho%27oponopono+prayer&rlz=1C5CHFA_enUS1082US1082&oq=ho%27oponopono+PRAYER&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyBwgBEAAYgAQyBwgCEAAYgAQyBwgDEAAYgAQyBwgEEAAYgAQyBwgFEAAYgAQyBwgGEAAYgAQyBwgHEAAYgAQyBwgIEAAYgAQyBwgJEAAYgATSAQgxOTQ1ajBqN6gCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#ip=1 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y’all! With just a few more episodes left for this season, Mikey and Randie are back with an update. In this episode, they detail what’s been going on with them. They shed light on weight loss and gain, new projects, layoffs, and more. But what they also really want is for you to tell them what YOU have been up to. It’s getting closer and closer to the end of the year and they need your reviews, feedback, emails, and all that jazz. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight about Randie’s “ways,” and after fighting, the Mrs. decides to fly. But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. Items Mentioned: Try Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm with code BMM20 BMM 023 It’s a Hard Knock Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/id1363790050?i=1000419418837 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletter Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 **Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

So what had happened was…Randie’s mom heard her Indie episode, Mothering Myself. And like, duh right? That was always a possibility. And still..Randie was scared shitless. Tune in to hear about the creative block Randie's been experiencing, her thoughts on her own cowardice behavior, and what finally accepting her safety means for her. She wonders…what will it look like now for her to create solely for her and solely out of love for her inner child and adult self? Well, we’ll all find out together and it'll start with this episode. Items Mentioned: **As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. You get the exact same products and service you'd get from Amazon already and you'll be supporting our podcast.** Try Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm with code BMM20 BMM Indie 136: Bad Trip: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-136-bad-trip/id1363790050?i=1000550704964 BMM Indie 141: Mothering Myself: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-141-mothering-myself/id1363790050?i=1000555955894 BMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. Ft. Randy H: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-149-big-ran-little-ran-ft-randy-h/id1363790050?i=1000588049011 DECK: African Goddess Rising Oracle Deck by Abiola Abrams: https://amzn.to/3FTFHhX What is the Mother Wound, Bethany Webster: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/59779f182e69cffa18f2305c/t/601a1cae705c9530fa1ab810/1612324022651/Bethany+Webster+-+What+is+The+Mother+Wound.pdf BOOK: Discovering the Inner Mother, Bethany Webster: https://amzn.to/47lRC44 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all, Hey! It's a good day for a throwback. And in this episode the Chapmans highlight BMM EP 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love? Do you remember that episode? It was a lot of fun and Mikey and Randie wanted to share the unedited version of that episode with you. In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they believe millennials are shying away from the commitment. Before the episode’s end, the Chapmans hypothetically renegotiate terms of their relationship and engage in a fight or flight that gets deeper than expected. However, as always Mikey and Randie reel it in with some always appreciated PDA and they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. NOTE: The unedited versions of the episodes are episodes without any editing. It is raw audio from the recording session before the public gets the cleaned up version. Normally, the couple only share these versions of the podcast with their Patreon, but a rabbit hole gave the Mrs. the idea to share this particular episode. Let the couple know if you like these kind of episodes and walks down memory lane. We hope you enjoy! . Items Mentioned: Grab some Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm and use our code BMM20 for 50% off a subscription or 20% off your first order. Hurry! The 50% discount only lasts for 10 days from our episode airing date. To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Tune in for the Chapman’s first mini episode this season. As a reminder, Minis are all about their experiences as parents and in this episode Mikey and Randie reveal what parenting Drew has made them realize about their childhoods. The list ranges from being hit a lot to, in some cases, wishing they had the parents they wanted. It’s a fun episode in that Randie and Mikey really enjoyed recording it and chatting about this wild ride called parenthood. Later, the couple end the episode with some PDA to Drew and to each other in their roles as parents. And just so you know, you don’t have to be a parent to relate to this episode. In fact reach out to the Chapmans if you’re a parent, aunt, uncle, guardian, friend of a friend who’s a parent and tell them what the children around you make you remember about your childhood. The answers may surprise you. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. Items Mentioned: * To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. * Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ * BMM Mini: Let’s Not Fight: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-mini-lets-not-fight/id1363790050?i=1000487751107 * BMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. Ft. Randy H: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-149-big-ran-little-ran-ft-randy-h/id1363790050?i=1000588049011 Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y’all! Was a pastor featured on the BMM podcast on your Bingo card for 2023? It certainly wasn’t on Mikey and Randie’s, but seeing as this season’s theme is “Lemonade” the Chapmans are committed to acknowledging the nourishment all around them. Enter Kristian A. Smith, a man who wears many hats, and is also the host of the Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars podcast. In this episode, the couple interview Kristian and discuss the first time they all broke an unspoken spoken rule, his ministry, how he and his wife, Pamela, are deconstructing marriage, how his relationship changed his faith and more. Kristian even shares a hack to how you can ensure the church you’re visiting (if you still visit churches) believes in inclusive and humane theology. Later, Randie and Mikey chat with Kristian about how cigars bring people closer and after the interview the Chapmans shower each other in some PDA. This episode will surprise you in the best way, and your hosts hope you enjoy. Items Mentioned: * Kristian’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/thekristianasmith/ * The Holy Smokes Spirituality & Cigars Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holy-smokes-cigars-and-spirituality/id1504148872 * Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars IG: https://www.instagram.com/holysmokesmovement/ * Pamela Merritt, TherapyNTheology: https://www.therapyntheology.com/bio * The Faith Community: https://thefaithcommunity.org/home1 * Breaking All the Rules: An Ancient Framework for Modern Faith, Kristian A. Smith https://amzn.to/3PHe2qi * BMM Indie 157 I Can Fix That: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-157-i-can-fix-that/id1363790050?i=1000626113405 * Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7 **Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, (in our best Mikey voice), he’s back. It’s been over a year since Mikey dropped an indie and in this episode he reveals where he’s been and how working on his latest project— his 1978 Monte Carlo Landau—is healing him. Tune in as Mikey nerds out with some history about the car, details the story of his cousin Quacy a.k.a. Chess gifting him the Monte Carlo, and discusses the three things re-building his dream car has taught him. Later, Mikey gives a head nod to a cousin who is really like a brother and ends the episode with some words of encouragement for anyone realizing that life will life. We hope you enjoy. Happy Listening. Items Mentioned: To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae: https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ BMM Indie 139: It’s Hard to Talk About Noble: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-139-its-hard-to-talk-about-noble/id1363790050?i=1000552394875 Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y’all!
 In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail their most recent relationship breakthrough.

It started with an argument and turned into a moment of vulnerability. And it’s all thanks to that damn word chart. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about therapy. But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. Items Mentioned: * Join Our Patreon http://bit.ly/JOINBMM * Buy Into-Me-See: https://rb.gy/rwhox * Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae * https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode Randie interviews her sex and intimacy doula, Yanitza. Together they droid out over their pleasure muse THE Janelle Monáe, discuss the shame surrounding sex, pleasure, and intimacy and what this work has taught Yanitza about herself and about people. Later they talk about how grief affects our capacity to receive, and what working with a sex and intimacy doula looks like. It’s a fun episode and Randie’s first in-person interview with a listener, turned Patron, turned friend, turned doula ever in the history of BMM. And it’s only up from here. So tune in and come as you are. Items Mentioned: * Listen to Ad-Free Episodes http://bit.ly/JOINBMM * BMM Indie 151: Honey & Self-Sabotage : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-151-honey-self-sabotage-bonus-ep/id1363790050?i=1000615916050 * Connect with Yanitza * IG: https://www.instagram.com/yanitzamarcel/ * IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecyanmango/ * Contact: https://calendly.com/cyanm/one-on-one?month=2023-07 * Book: Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life, by Emily Nagoski Ph.D : https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090 Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter
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Hey y’all! In this episode Mikey and Randie interview Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad on her latest book Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted and there’s so much to say. Before beginning the interview, The Chapmans and Dr. Jeannelle share their first memories of feeling safe. Later, the duo learn that finding out she was married to a narcissist inspired Dr. Jeannelle to write this book and more. Together, they discuss the infamous emotions chart that everybody in the world needs to print and hang up in their house, activities couples can do to draw them closer and ensure their needs are being met, HBNS (Hot Butt-Naked Sex), and how the brain remembers trauma even when you’re no longer in danger. To end, the couple show each other some love in their PDA segment because you know that’s how they do. In all, nothing but playing the episode can do justice to the gems Dr. Jeannelle shared in her book and on the show. So tune in and grab the book. Randie finished it in one day! As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Connect with Dr. Jeannelle! IG: https://www.instagram.com/Tmi.counseling/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/drjeannelle/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.jeannellelmft Buy Into-Me-See: https://rb.gy/rwhox Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy