What We Said

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2018/06/04
Latest episode
2026/04/23
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65 min.
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Intended to inspire and entertain, best friends Jaci Marie & Chelsey Jade talk candidly about health, business, relationships, life, etc. You can expect the girls to be joined by occasional guests, reading friends' & fans' stories, & offering unsolicited but heartfelt advice. | Introduction music by Lowercase Committee | Cover art by Chloe Bruderer.

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WOULD YOU RATHER
2026/04/23
Would you rather tune in to this week’s episode of What We Said… or—actually, that’s your only option. Jaci and Chelsey are reading through some of the most impossible questions from the classic two-option game, and things get tricky fast. Some start easy, like flying private alone or first class with your friends (What good is first class if my sistas can't sit? - J. Cole I think), but then it escalates to dilemmas like choosing one permanent vacation spot forever or traveling the world in luxury but never returning to the same place twice. Some questions require real thought, most lead to overthinking, and every single one is likely something we’ll never have to deal with. Yay for fake scenarios!! !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 WOULD YOU RATHER: 36:39 *TIMECODES MAY VARY BY PLATFORM*  // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // FP Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear and workout gear. Thrive Market: Join Thrive Market with my link thrivemarket.com/WHATWESAID for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift!! Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelman.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/WHATWESAID.  Ross: Find your nearest Ross at RossStores.com Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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I BLOCKED HIM IMMEDIATELY
2026/04/21
This week’s topic is dating nightmares — and it might be the most relatable episode yet for women. You know those moments that immediately make you rethink dating entirely? Like showing your date a picture of your best friend and him casually responding with “she’s hot.” How about waiting until ~ spicy ~ time for a confession that he maybe should’ve cleaned up a little better… And of course, it wouldn’t be an episode about men being horrifying without one casually reminding you on the drive home that he could, in fact, unalive you — just a completely normal thing to say, right? If there’s one thing about boys, it’s that they truly cannot keep thoughts to themselves, and this episode is full of the kind of stories that make you question why we ever give them a chance in the first place. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 DATING NIGHTMARES: 26:13 *TIMECODES MAY VARY BY PLATFORM*  // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelmandot.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Quince: Go to quince.com/whatwesaid for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.  Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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WHAT DO YOU REALLY VALUE?
2026/04/16
This week Jaci and Chelsey are joined by special guest Dr. Suzy Welch, creator of The Values Bridge, to dive into what really drives us at our core. The girls both took the assessment (you should too!) and break down their results with Suzy’s help — from the values they naturally prioritize to the ones they wish they were living out more fully. The test goes beyond surface-level personality traits, giving a deeper look at how your values show up in real life, where you might feel out of alignment, and how that impacts your decisions, relationships, and overall sense of fulfillment. It even highlights where your values work together — or clash — and why that tension can feel so confusing. Whether you’re feeling stuck, curious about your patterns, or just love a good self-discovery moment, this episode is packed with insights you can actually apply. Try it out for yourself with our exclusive discount code WHATWESAID for 15% off. https://thevaluesbridge.com // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // FP Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear and workout gear. Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelmandot.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. Nuuly: Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up with the code whatwesaid at nuuly.com.   O Positiv: Head to opositiv.com/WHATWESAID or enter WHATWESAID at checkout for 25% off your first purchase.  Storyworth: This year, give Mom a gift that helps her reflect on her life with a fresh perspective–and gives your whole family the gift of her stories. Mother's Day is Sunday, May 10th, order RIGHT NOW and save up to $20 at storyworth.com/whatwesaid.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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THINGS WE FIND CHIC
2026/04/14
What could possibly be more chic than listening to the What We Said Podcast? Nothing obv, but Jaci and Chelsey are breaking down a few things that might come close. From analog baskets and paperback books to customized jewelry and… being ugly? The girls explore what “chic” actually means right now. One thing’s for sure: no one’s getting torn down for their preferences. Just because something isn’t your vibe doesn’t make it not chic. If you’re looking for your lifestyle choices to be judged, maybe go read a Substack. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 TOPIC: 38:17 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelmandot.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at www.skims.com/whatwesaid. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Ross: Find your nearest Ross at RossStores.com Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at rocketmoney.com/WHATWESAID.  Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/WHATWESAID.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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I LIED TO MY THERAPIST
2026/04/09
Jaci and Chelsey have returned from some very fun trips and have some insane stories to share, with some high highs and very low lows. After recapping their travels and touching on the awe inspiring Artemis II mission, they jump right into this month’s advice column, breaking down submissions from What We Said listeners. Valley Girls are struggling across the world with inconsiderate friends asking fertility questions, navigating birth trauma, admitting to lighthearted therapist lies, and more! !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 ADVICE: 37:16 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Osea: Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code whatwesaid at OSEAMalibu.com. FP Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear and workout gear. NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/WHATWESAID.  Whatnot: Download the Whatnot app today and get free shipping on your first order.  Nuuly: Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up with the code whatwesaid at nuuly.com.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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ARE WELLNESS TREATMENTS A SCAM?
2026/04/07
We’re a few months into 2026, which makes it the perfect time to check in on your health + wellness New Year’s resolutions… and whether you’ve been wasting your energy the whole time. Jaci and Chelsey are deciding which popular health trends are actually worth it — and which might be total scams. From red light therapy, beef tallow, mindfulness practice, and protein in EVERYTHING to more niche picks like vibration plates, ear seeds, and IV clinics. This episode is not medical advice, just very strong Valley girl opinions. Let us know in the comments if you agree, or if we gave one of the treatments you swear by a bad wrap! !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 TOPIC: 8:18 *TIMECODES MAY VARY BY PLATFORM*  // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order. Chewy: Right now you can save $20 on your first order and get free shipping by going to chewy.com/whatwesaid. Ross: Find your nearest Ross at RossStores.com Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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THE SECRET I’M TAKING TO MY GRAVE
2026/03/31
Forgive us, Mother Jaci and Mother Chelsey… it’s been way too long since our last confession. This week, you wrote in your nastiest, vilest, most shocking secrets — the ones you’ve never admitted out loud — and the What We Said Podcast is bringing them to light. We’re not talking about a harmless white lie or swiping a stick of gum here… these confessions go way deeper. From unintentional shoplifting to untimely bathroom situations, unending fake identities, and unfortunately more poop stories. Consider this your penance. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 CONFESSIONS: 26:42 *TIMECODES MAY VARY BY PLATFORM*  // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, our listeners can get free steak in every box for a year PLUS $20 off your first box when you go to ButcherBox.com/whatwesaid.   Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID.  Rhoback: Use code WHATWESAID on rhoback.com for a generous 20% off your first order through the end of this week!  Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelman.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. Warby Parker: Our listeners get 15% off plus free shipping when they buy two or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/WHATWESAID — using our link helps support the show. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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MARCH ROUND-UP
2026/03/26
Continuing the spring reset from last week, our What We Said girls are back with all the recommendations you need to fully step into the season. They kick things off very Martha Stewart-coded with elevated bouquet tips and simple handwriting tricks to make your everyday life more classy, then pivot into the digital world with a game-changing app duo that makes graphic design (because it’s somehow a part of everyone’s job now?) way easier for the creative girls. There are also lip product recs, a matcha recipe you’ll immediately want to try, and a little rant about Timothée Chalamet’s recent media moment involving ballet and opera. March favorites, now playing!! !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 OUR FAVS: 18:46 *TIMECODES MAY VARY BY PLATFORM*  // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelman.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. Ross: Find your nearest Ross at RossStores.com FP Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear and workout gear. Nuuly: Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up with the code whatwesaid. Just go to nuuly.com.   NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/WHATWESAID.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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SPRING RESET
2026/03/24
Spring has officially sprung, and the Valley girls are ready to clean more than just their closets. This week, Jaci and Chelsey share their top spring cleaning tips — and it goes way beyond dusting and reorganizing your sock drawer. They focus on clearing out digital clutter like spam texts and emails, overflowing camera rolls, and the apps that quietly waste your time. Of course, there’s still a place for the classic refresh, but this episode is really about resetting your mindset, stepping out of winter mode, and opening your eyes to everything the new season has to offer; sunshine, fresh energy, and a chance to start again. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Quince: Go to quince.com/whatwesaid for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.  Thrive Market: Join Thrive Market with my link thrivemarket.com/WHATWESAID for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift!! Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelman.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15. Super: Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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COWORKER FROM HELL
2026/03/17
Clock in, because this week’s episode is all about coworker drama. The girls jump right into your submissions, with nurses getting on each other’s nerves, one man getting caught (again!?) drinking breast milk, and some tyrannical teacher’s assistant deciding they’re suddenly in charge of the entire classroom. We all know going into work can be rough, but after hearing these stories, you might just start thanking your lucky stars for your own job situation. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 STORIES: 8:09 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at www.skims.com/whatwesaid. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID.  Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at rocketmoney.com/WHATWESAID.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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CAUGHT MY HUSBAND WITH MY BFF
2026/03/12
The What We Said girls are March-ing into another month’s advice column, and your submissions delivered! They kick things off with a rogue husband confiding in a Valley girl’s best friend, unpack an awkward situation involving an ex-relationship step cousin, and share some helpful tips for moms-to-be entering their nesting era. Whether you’re navigating messy relationships, family dynamics, or a brand-new phase of life, there’s something in this episode for everyone. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 ADVICE: 15:47 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Super: Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/WHATWESAID.  O Positiv: Head to opositiv.com/WHATWESAID or enter WHATWESAID at checkout for 25% off your first purchase.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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MAJOR DIVORCE TEA
2026/03/10
You’ve all been asking for Jaci and Chelsey’s thoughts on the latest season of The Traitors, and the moment has finally arrived. After kicking things off with reactions to Rob Rausch and Maura Higgins’ wild season finale, the girls shift into a very different kind of traitor — the kind who signs a lifelong contract to love someone forever and then completely throws it out the window. Listeners submitted their most shocking divorce stories, and they have the What We Said girls absolutely shaken. From husbands cheating with their sisters-in-law to secret second homes and people packing up and disappearing without a shred of regret. This episode proves people have no problem hiding behind a mask of lies — and will make you want to keep your eyes peeled on those close to you… !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 DIVORCE STORIES: 43:26 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/WHATWESAID.  DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order. Chewy: Right now you can save $20 on your first order and get free shipping by going to Chewy.com/whatwesaid.  Leesa: Go to leesa.com for 20% off mattresses PLUS get an extra $50 off with promo code WHATWESAID. Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, our listeners can get free steak in every box for a year PLUS $20 off your first box when you go to ButcherBox.com/whatwesaid.   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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SELF SABOTAGE
2026/03/03
February is over — love is out, and self-sabotage is in. This week, the girls are diving into the art of ruining your own life for absolutely no reason. And we’re not talking about basic bad time management — we mean ignoring the love of your life just because, ghosting a potential employer after landing your dream job, and suddenly deciding to “work on yourself” by not replying to friends for three months. Tune in this week to commiserate and maybe walk away feeling slightly less called out — or at least knowing you’re not the only one sabotaging your own happiness. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 SELF SABATOGE: 15:26 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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FEBRUARY FAVORITES
2026/02/26
Welcome to the second installment of the What We Said Podcast’s monthly favorites. Jaci and Chelsey’s February roundup truly has something for every niche in your life. Chelsey, fresh off feeling sick, introduces her go-to sinus rinse (a superior upgrade to the classic neti pot), plus the Substack articles she’s been loving — and yes, she released her own. She also shares the ultra-hydrating face mask that saved her skin during a dry Utah trip and tips for keeping your carefully curated wardrobe looking elevated instead of landfill-bound. Jaci brings the heat (literally) with a hot cacao drink that’s been helping clear her hormonal acne, a genius iMessage scheduling hack, and thoughts on Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie in Wuthering Heights. February may be the month of love, but this episode proves there’s plenty more to obsess over than a silly boy. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 OUR FAVS: 11:05 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Activations: Motivational audios to shift your mindset – in minutes. Head to our link activations.com/podcast/whatwesaid and get our an exclusive offer: enjoy 14 days free and 69% off (plus, lock in this discounted rate forever!) NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/WHATWESAID.  Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/WHATWESAID.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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SECONDHAND EMBARRASSMENT
2026/02/24
We’ve all been there — witnessing a painfully awkward moment that wasn’t technically yours, but somehow you still felt the full-body cringe. This week on the What We Said Podcast, you submitted your best secondhand embarrassment stories, and the girls are breaking them down. From a rogue husband inviting another couple to sit with them in an otherwise empty restaurant, to a bold “three finger combo” comment made to a father-in-law that absolutely was not necessary. If you’re not already cringing, just wait — this episode is equal parts painful and hilarious. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 STORIES: 16:18 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Warby Parker: Our listeners get 15% off plus free shipping when they buy two or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/WHATWESAID — using our link helps support the show. DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order. Wayfair: Head to wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. SuperRX: Stop overpaying for your prescriptions. Go to super.com/rx right now to see how much you can save.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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4.7 out of 5
9709 reviews
Bethany Berlin 2026/04/20
My best friends fr
Jaci and Chelsey are so entertaining and fun to listen to. I’ve been around since day 1 and seriously need this podcast to continue forever. Love you...
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Sarah Rylee 2026/04/15
Love!!
My favorite podcast ever, i’m always listening!! Recommend it to everyone!
nail tech girlie 2026/03/30
i am legit obsessed with this podcast.
one of my favorite pastimes is listening to this podcast…actually it’s now engraved in my schedule! i am yet to be featured for one of my stories…but ...
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fanngirll 2026/04/10
Like, pretty valley girl
The number of times I heard the word “like” made my head spin.
Macknc8 2026/03/07
Can we have daily episodes?! 🤪
Podcasts are funny because Jace and Chels have been a consistent part of my life since 2019 but they have no clue who I am. We have inside jokes and m...
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67387373838cat 2026/03/11
Long time listener left disappointed
WWS used to be my favorite podcast but I’m finding myself quite bored with all the reality tv talk. I don’t watch reality tv at all and there is a 15-...
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duansokd 2026/03/05
Fav podcast <3
I’ve been listening since 2020 And I’ve loved the evolution of the podcast. Keep it coming queens, thanks for making me not feel so alone!!
elliee_valleygirl 2026/03/02
my HOLY GRAIL
Everyone in the reviews is talking about how “this podcast has gone down hill” or “not the same girlies they used to be” but i completely disagree, th...
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sweaterstobed 2026/03/03
Editing
I love this podcast and have been listening for years but whoever is editing the episodes is not listening to the whole thing! Chelsey coughed and tha...
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Gigglechick1 2026/02/26
Please LENGTHEN the life updates!!
Idk why people are so mad about the life updates!! They are my fav parts of the episodes!! This is my favorite podcast and I honestly wish they came o...
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