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Performing in front of a packed room of visitors from East Texas at Mesquite Street Comedy Club taught me some valuable lessons about the local stand-up scene. In this episode, I break down why slowing down to let your punchlines simmer is crucial, how internalizing a 5-minute set keeps you respectful of other comics' time, and why supporting the venue, staff, and host matters just as much as your material. I also dive into the realities of local comedy politics, why bombing in front of empty rooms builds resilience, and how staying clean helps you find your authentic voice on stage. Follow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

When you're debt-free and spending your own hard-earned money, your relationship with cash completely changes. In this episode, I share real-life experiences from Corpus Christi that highlight why your money has value and how you should treat it.    I break down why you should walk out on bad service and refuse to fund businesses that treat you poorly. I also walk through a recent trip to O'Reilly Auto Parts where I shifted my $100+ purchase to a helpful clerk instead of rewarding a rude one. Finally, we dive into the psychology of cash friction, why physical bills trigger pain receptors that stop impulsive spending, and how keeping physical bills in your wallet serves as a constant reminder of the hard work behind your money. Follow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode, I dive into what living with ADHD and neurodiversity actually feels like day-to-day, from internal brain energy battles to managing personal finances.   I talk about:   - The Neurodiverse Mind: Why overthinking simple decisions (like buying a toothbrush) drains our daily battery.   - Sleep & Dopamine: How fatigue triggers the search for dopamine hits and why choosing rest prevents unnecessary conflict at home.   - "The Train Keeps Moving": Overcoming self-pity, accepting reality, and choosing joy over anxiety and worry.   - Financial Accountability: Why being debt-free gives you peace and why staying on a budget requires looking in the mirror instead of blaming the economy.   Understanding how your brain works is key to building good habits, maintaining strong relationships, and achieving lasting financial independence.   Follow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

Stepping up to the mic tired after a long workday and being faced with a loud group right in the front row tests your focus fast. In this episode, I break down the key takeaways from open mic set number 24 and explain how driving an 18-wheeler taught me to stop rushing on stage and command space. I share how I flipped the script on an attention-seeking group by turning potential heckling into crowd work, how using deliberate silence can make the room wait for you, and why it is essential to ignore scene politics, protect your energy, and head home once your set is done. Follow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

What does it actually feel like to owe zero dollars to anyone? In this episode, I break down the exact path my wife and I took to pay off all our consumer debt—and eventually our home—in less than 10 years.   Taking a quick break in the Texas heat to share what worked for us:   - The Debt Snowball Method: Why quick psychological wins matter more than interest rates when getting started.   - Handling the Pushback: What to do when friends, family, and society try to tell you "debt is normal."   - The Real Emergency Fund Strategy: Starting with $1,000, then building up 3–6 months of living expenses.   - Life After Debt: How we invest in growth stock mutual funds (Roth IRAs), stop relying on Social Security, and build real wealth.   Getting out of debt isn't just about math; it’s about taking control of your life, going against the grain, and building long-term peace of mind.   Disclaimer: I’m sharing my personal experience and what worked for my family—not professional financial advice!   Follow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode, I open up about the daily reality of being "unboxable"—living with ADD/ADHD and navigating a society that constantly tries to box you in through social policing. I share the internal conflict between wanting to be social and protecting my limited energy, and how I finally found my happy medium through hosting the Corpus Christi Originals podcast. I dive into how growing up "weird" can be isolating, but also how it forced me to spend hours alone mastering the guitar, playing Nintendo, and developing creative tools that I now get to share with the world. I also offer practical advice for my fellow neurodivergent community on navigating the workplace. I talk about the absolute necessity of finding a highly marketable trade—like truck driving, plumbing, or electrical work—so that if you don't jive with a specific corporate culture, you always have the freedom to take your skills elsewhere. Grounded in my faith, I reflect on my accomplishments as a husband, father, college graduate, and professional driver to serve as a testimony and a reminder that we are called to be the salt and light of the earth. Chapters  (00:00:00) - Having ADD Adhd, I Want to Be Social but(00:08:26) - Autistic Comedian on Social Policing(00:17:05) - Addison's ADHD and Neurodiversity: How to WorkFollow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode, I share my personal insights and experiences on what it takes to set firm boundaries with narcissists and toxic people trying to overstep your bounds. I open up about the immense courage it takes to break old patterns and say "no," especially when you're used to having your boundaries constantly pushed back. From recognizing the uncomfortable cycle of being gaslit to utilizing practical tools like the "grey rock" method , I break down how a narcissist’s need for control has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Whether you are navigating toxic dynamics at work, in your creative scene, or within your family, I discuss facing the initial awkwardness head-on to find ultimate peace, build resilience, and claim a major win for your mental well-being. Chapters  (00:00:00) - How to Set Boundaries With a Narcissist(00:06:54) - How To Deal With a Narcissist(00:07:28) - How to Deal with a Narcissist(00:12:29) - Go No ContactFollow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode, I pull back the curtain on a recent TikTok comment challenging my debt-free lifestyle with the classic argument, "Be honest, nobody buys a car or house with cash". Well, I'm being completely honest: my wife and I do buy our cars with cash, and I dive into the exact discipline it took to make that happen—including the 3 to 6 months I spent taking the bus, walking, and hitching rides after wrecking my truck just to avoid a car loan. While the commenter was half right that we didn't buy our house with a massive lump sum of upfront cash, we didn't use a bank either; instead, we utilized a notarized, rent-to-own owner-finance agreement to pay it off completely in around 5 to 6 years. Inspired by a semi-modified version of Dave Ramsey's principles, I talk about going against the grain of normal society, navigating the critics who will always find something to say, and the immense mental freedom that comes from knowing a job layoff wouldn't cause a financial crisis because we don't owe a dime to anyone. Chapters (00:00:00) - I Didn't Buy My Car Cash or My House Cash(00:05:46) - A Little Money in the BankFollow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode, I share the personal journey of how my wife and I transformed our lives by tackling $50,000 in debt—including $46,000 in student loans—in less than two years. I dive into the "game-changing" shift from viewing ourselves as owners of money to becoming stewards of it, explaining how a disciplined budget and open communication in marriage helped us eliminate the stress and fighting that once plagued our home. By breaking down my Give, Save, and Spend framework, I explore why financial responsibility isn't about how much you make, but how you manage what you have to protect yourself against a fluctuating economy. From selling my instruments and cutting subscriptions to building an emergency fund, I discuss how living below your means provides the ultimate creative freedom and mental peace to face rising prices without fear. Chapters (00:00:00) - Having Control of Your Money(00:06:49) - Budgeting For Money(00:15:25) - Spending habits: Give, Save, and Spend(00:21:46) - Be Fair With Your Prices(00:25:46) - Be Careful With Money!Follow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode, I dive into the challenges of navigating a world built for the "norm" while living with ADHD and neurodiversity. I share a recent experience from a live stream where I had to handle social policing—those moments when critics try to put you in a box or tell you to "say it better". I explore the internal struggle of self-consciousness regarding speech and communication, the reality of being an "easy target" for bullies, and the bravery required to remain creative in front of naysayers. From learning to talk about the weather to finding the courage to take a "deep dive," this episode is about building character, setting boundaries, and celebrating the wins that come from simply being yourself. Whether you have ADD, OCD, or are just someone trying to find your voice, let's talk about why it’s essential to "do it in front of them" and embrace your unique brain wiring. Chapters (00:00:00) - Adhd Comedians: Social Policing(00:09:42) - Comments on AdhdFollow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m diving deep into my debt-free journey. It’s been about three years since my wife and I reached a point of having absolutely no debt—no house payments, no car payments, and no student loans. I discuss the intense "social policing" we faced from people telling us that staying in debt was the "normal" way to live, and how we pushed through with overtime, sacrifice, and a commitment to our future. If you’re feeling stuck in the cycle of credit cards and car notes, I’m sharing the practical steps we took to find true financial freedom. Chapters (00:00:00) - "I'm debt free..."(00:01:32) - How To Get Out Of Debt In 2 Years(00:08:13) - How to Live Debt-Free(00:14:34) - Getting Out of Debt(00:20:11) - How to Take a Picture Without Debt(00:20:34) - How to Get Out of Debt:(00:22:20) - Getting Out Of Debt: The TakeawaysFollow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m reflecting on what 12-plus years of marriage has taught me about faith, trust, and the reality of shared life. I dive into how our expectations often clash with reality, the importance of keeping the covenant we made at the altar, and how we’ve learned to navigate my ADHD within our relationship. Whether you are single and seeking a partner or have been married for decades, I’m sharing why marriage is the "next level" of human growth and why joy is more important than just being "happy". Chapters (00:00:00) - How to Get Married Again(00:06:29) - Understanding the Need for Trust in Marriage(00:13:33) - How ADHD affects your marriage(00:16:28) - Another topic for me to talk aboutFollow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Show, I’m talking about my recent journey rediscovering my passion for the guitar. From my early days learning metal music to earning a degree in classical guitar, I’ve realized how much I’ve missed the instrument. I dive into why I’m looking at eight-string electrics, why learning to read music is a complete game-changer, and how to ignore the "social policing" that tries to keep you from practicing your craft. Chapters (00:00:00) - Ibanez Guitar Back in the Studio(00:04:21) - Guitarist On Reading Music(00:11:10) - Contemporary Music: Social Policing(00:13:57) - Social PolicingFollow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode, I’m getting real about the hard lessons I’ve learned regarding "leeches" and the narcissistic people who use your kindness against you. I share my experience of trying to help family members with rental properties, only to face entitlement and manipulation. I also open up about my decision to go no-contact with my mother for seven years to protect my children and break the cycle of triangulation. Whether you're dealing with "social policing" in the comedy scene or critics in the back of the room, my message is simple: Stick to your guns, set your boundaries, and keep growing right in front of the people who want to see you fail. Follow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com

In this episode of "Real Talk," Jesus Hilario, host of the Corpus Christi Originals Podcast, pulls back the curtain on the local creator economy. From identifying toxic "triangulation" and narcissism in creative spaces to the exact gear setup (Sony ZV-E10 & DJI Mic) used to build the CCO Network, this is a masterclass in professional growth. Follow me: instagram.com/jesushilarioh facebook.com/jesushilarioh tiktok.com/@jesushilarioh youtube.com/@jesushilarioh jesushilarioh.com