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In this episode, Kim White talks about a certain kind of behavior most entrepreneurs have experienced but rarely name: stage busters with elbows to the front. Stage busters are the people who aggressively push themselves into the spotlight, crowding others out so they can be seen, heard, and praised first. Instead of sharing space, collaborating, or elevating the group, they lead with ego and urgency. They use their “elbows” to claim attention and control, often at the expense of trust, safety, and genuine connection. Kim unpacks how this shows up in small business settings and how to stay visible and strong as a leader without becoming a stage buster yourself. In this episode, you’ll hear: What “stage busters with elbows to the front” look like in real business situations How elbowing your way into the spotlight erodes trust, safety, and collaboration Subtle ways entrepreneurs accidentally crowd others out of the room or the conversation Practical shifts to share the stage, invite voices in, and still lead powerfully A gentle challenge to change how you show up in your next meeting or live session Key takeaways for small business owners & entrepreneurs: There’s a difference between showing up and shoving in Leadership that uses “elbows” to take space costs you ideas, honesty, and long-term trust The strongest leaders share the stage on purpose and anchor to the outcome, not their image When people feel safe and seen around you, they bring better ideas, feedback, and commitment Action step: Think of one upcoming situation where you’d normally rush to the front (a team meeting, a live, a collaboration, a networking call). Instead of leading with your elbows, ask: “How can I make this space safer and more collaborative for everyone here?” Then adjust how you show up and notice how the room changes. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White talks about a subtle habit that can quietly harm your business relationships, collaborations, and team culture: showboating. Showboating isn’t about being visible as a leader or owning your expertise. It’s when you draw attention to yourself with exaggerated displays of confidence, stories, or success mainly to impress, not to serve. For small business owners and entrepreneurs, this can quietly erode trust with clients, partners, and your own team. Kim breaks down what showboating looks like in everyday business situations and how to stay visible and credible without making it all about you. In this episode, you’ll hear: What “showboating” really is and how it shows up in small business How ego shifts the focus from the work, the client, and the mission to “look at me” Common ways entrepreneurs accidentally showboat in meetings, content, and sales Simple shifts to stay confident and visible while still serving your people A practical challenge to move from proving yourself to genuinely helping Key takeaways for entrepreneurs: Visibility is an asset, but the motive behind it matters You build stronger brands and teams when you share the spotlight Letting your results and client wins speak is more powerful than over-selling yourself When you stay anchored to the mission, your clients and team feel included, seen, and inspired Action step: Think of one scenario in your business where you feel pressure to prove yourself (sales call, social media, networking, team meeting). Instead of turning up the highlight reel, ask: “How can I really help here?” and respond from that place. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White talks about “focus face” – the expression you unconsciously make when you’re deeply concentrating. Even though you’re simply absorbed in the task or conversation, your face can look serious, intense, or even unfriendly, which can lead people to think you’re upset, checked out, or disapproving. Kim shows how to stay fully focused while also being intentional about the signals you send. Key points: What “focus face” is and why it shows up when you’re concentrating How your serious or intense expression can be misread by team members, clients, or your audience Situations where focus face matters most: meetings, coaching calls, sales conversations, and video Simple ways to balance deep focus with visible warmth and engagement How a bit of awareness and communication can prevent unnecessary misunderstandings Action step for listeners: During your next call or meeting, notice when you slip into focus face. Briefly name it (“If I look serious, it’s just me thinking hard”) and add one visible signal of engagement, like a nod, a small smile, or a quick “I’m with you, keep going.” If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White unpacks “Red Carpet Feedback” – feedback that looks helpful on the surface, but actually shows up at the wrong time, for the wrong reasons, and does more harm than good. She explains how this kind of opinion is really about the giver, not the receiver, and how it can quietly drain confidence and escalate vulnerability if you don’t learn to filter it. Key points: What Red Carpet Feedback is and how it differs from true, helpful feedback How bad timing and ego-driven opinions make feedback about the giver, not you The ways Red Carpet Feedback creates insecurity, fear, and confidence leaks Questions to ask when feedback lands so you can filter what’s useful and release the rest How to protect your “runway” before big moments by choosing when and from whom you invite feedback Action step for listeners: Think of one piece of feedback that rattled you more than it helped. Ask: “Was this really for me, or was it about them?” Keep any tiny piece that’s truly useful, and release the rest from having authority over your confidence. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White shines a light on a common trap for entrepreneurs: majoring on the minors. She unpacks what it means to pour most of your time and energy into small details or low‑impact tasks while neglecting the big, important things that actually drive results, and shows you how to shift your focus back to what truly matters. Key points: What “majoring on the minors” really means in day‑to‑day business life How low‑impact tasks and easy work quietly replace high‑impact priorities Signs you’re choosing what’s comfortable or controllable over what matters One simple daily question to identify your real “majors” How to reorder your time so your best energy goes to your most important work Action step for listeners: Ask yourself, “If I could only get one thing done today, what would actually move the needle?” Do that first, and consciously let at least one minor task wait. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White tackles “armchair quarterbacking” in business: criticizing or second‑guessing decisions from a safe distance, after the fact, without carrying the responsibility or pressure of the person who had to make the call. She unpacks how this shows up in teams, partnerships, and even in how we talk to ourselves, and offers a healthier, more helpful way to respond. Key points: What armchair quarterbacking really is and why it’s so easy to slip into How hindsight-based judgment overlooks context, pressure, and complexity The hidden ways we armchair‑quarterback our own past decisions Better questions to ask after a decision instead of “I would’ve done it better” How to build a culture of brave decision‑making and learning instead of cheap criticism Action step for listeners: Think of one decision (yours or someone else’s) you’ve been judging from the sidelines. Ask, “What information, pressure, and constraints were present in that moment?” Then replace criticism with one learning you can carry into the next decision. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White talks about the power of bootstrapping your business. Instead of waiting for investors, loans, or “someday,” she shows you what it looks like to start lean, fund growth from your own revenue, and make scrappy, strategic decisions so every dollar and every hour works hard for you. Key points: What bootstrapping really is (and what it’s not) Why starting lean can actually make you a stronger, wiser business owner How to be scrappy with both your time and your money Questions to ask before you spend, subscribe, or add one more tool How to let customer revenue, not outside validation, fund your next step Action step for listeners: Pick one expense or time-drain in your business and ask, “Would I still choose this if I were bootstrapping from zero?” Then either cut it, simplify it, or make it earn its keep. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White gets honest about a trap most entrepreneurs fall into: staying busy while ignoring the few things that actually move the needle. She breaks down what it really means to focus on the real priorities, how to spot when you’re majoring on the minors, and how to shift your time, energy, and attention to what truly matters in your business. Key points: The difference between being busy and being focused on real priorities What “focusing on the real priorities” looks like in a normal week Signs you’re majoring on the minors (and why it feels so productive) How to regularly ask, “What actually matters most right now?” and act on it Practical ways to align your calendar, decisions, and energy with your true priorities Action step for listeners: Write down the top one or two priorities that would truly move the needle in your business, block time for them in the next 24 hours, and protect that time like a non‑negotiable meeting. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). To get more done in less time, discover Sticky Note Time, the process Kim used to create My Sexy Business. Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White reframes rejection in business. Instead of treating “no” as final and personal, she shows you how to hear “not yet” and use every rejection as feedback about timing, fit, and readiness. You’ll learn how to stay in relationship, keep serving, and adjust your offer or message so today’s “no” has a real chance to become tomorrow’s “yes.” Key points: Why most entrepreneurs quietly treat “no” like a verdict on their worth The power of seeing “no” as temporary and informational instead of final How “no” can reveal issues with timing, fit, clarity, or readiness Practical ways to stay in relationship and keep serving people who aren’t ready yet What it really looks like to “practice for the yes’s” instead of bracing for the no’s Action step for listeners: Think of one recent “no” in your business. Rename it as a “not yet,” ask what timing, fit, or clarity feedback it might be giving you, and choose one small adjustment to your offer, message, or follow-up instead of quitting. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode, Kim White digs into a quiet trap that takes out a lot of smart entrepreneurs: throwing the baby out with the bath water. Instead of fixing what’s broken, we burn the whole thing down and lose what was actually working. Kim walks through simple ways to spot where you’re overreacting and how to protect the real value in your business. Key points: What “throwing the baby out with the bath water” looks like in real business decisions Common overreactions around offers, marketing, and relationships How to tell the difference between the “baby” (your real value) and the “bath water” (broken systems and habits) Questions to ask before you quit, scrap, or burn anything down One small, practical action you can take today to course-correct without starting over Call to action: After you listen, choose one area where you were ready to throw everything out and decide on one small thing you can remove or improve instead. Then share this episode with another entrepreneur who might be overreacting and needs this reminder. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode of the My Sexy Business Podcast, Kim White names a feeling most entrepreneurs know too well: Ugly Baby Syndrome. It’s that moment when you finally release your book, course, offer, or project into the world… and instead of feeling proud, you suddenly feel exposed, embarrassed, and convinced everyone thinks it’s awful. Kim walks through what’s really happening in that moment and how to move from shame and hiding into growth and ownership. In this episode, you’ll learn: What “Ugly Baby Syndrome” is and why it shows up after you publish or launch Why your brain turns a real achievement into a source of shame and self-judgment Signs you might be secretly treating your project like an “ugly baby” How to reframe your work as a meaningful step in your growth rather than a final verdict on your worth A simple way to bring a hidden project back into the light and let it keep working for you Key idea from Kim: Your first version isn’t supposed to be your final version. It’s your starting version. Ugly Baby Syndrome lies and says, “Because it’s imperfect, it’s unworthy.” The truth is: you can’t improve what you never release. Reflective question: Do YOU think your “baby” (your book, course, offer, or project) is ugly… or are you just scared of being seen at the beginning? If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode of the My Sexy Business Podcast, Kim White breaks down the powerful difference between “messy” and “sloppy” in business. You’ll see why messy is often a sign of growth, experimentation, and real progress, while sloppy quietly erodes trust because it comes from carelessness, not creativity. This is a practical check-in for how you’re really showing up for your clients. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why messy and sloppy are not the same at all How messy work can reflect effort, intention, and learning in motion How sloppy work shows up as neglect, inconsistency, and lack of care 3–5 simple ways to tell if a project is messy (in a good way) or sloppy (in a damaging way) How your clients likely experience the difference, whether you realize it or not Key idea from Kim: Messy says, “I’m in motion and improving.” Sloppy says, “I don’t care enough to do this well.” Reflective question: If your clients looked behind the scenes of your business today, would they see messy and growing… or sloppy and not really cared for? If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode of the My Sexy Business Podcast, Kim White introduces the “Hard Spaghetti Test” as a picture of flexibility in business. You’ll discover how to keep a clear structure and vision while becoming flexible enough to bend with changes, instead of snapping every time things don’t go as planned. In this episode, you’ll learn: What the Hard Spaghetti Test is and why it matters for entrepreneurs The difference between having structure and being rigid 3–5 signs you might be snapping instead of flexing in your business How to adjust your approach, timeline, or tactics without losing your core vision and values Why uncomfortable seasons might actually be your flexibility growing Key idea from Kim: The Hard Spaghetti Test isn’t about breaking you. It’s about “cooking” your spaghetti so you become more flexible, resilient, and able to handle change without losing who you are. Reflective question: Where in your business are you insisting things go exactly as planned instead of adjusting wisely as conditions change? If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode of the My Sexy Business Podcast, Kim White introduces the idea of “listening reps” – intentionally listening to the same story, statement, or feedback more than once so you can hear beyond the surface. You’ll learn how to slow down, notice deeper layers in what people share, and become the kind of leader, partner, and friend who truly listens before responding. In this episode, you’ll learn: What listening repetitions (listening reps) are and why they matter How listening to something more than once helps you catch words, tone, emotion, and what’s not being said 5 signs you may not be really listening, even if you think you are A simple way to practice listening reps in your everyday conversations A key question you can use to check whether you’re reacting or truly relating Key idea from Kim: Listening reps don’t take extra talent, they take intentional attention. They move you from reacting to really relating. Try this: The next time someone shares something important, mentally commit to listening to it at least twice. First for the content, then for the layers beneath it. If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME). Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us. To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com. Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform! And our favorite for streaming live is this!

In this episode of the My Sexy Business Podcast, Kim White unpacks the hidden habit of being a “Right Fighter” – the person who always has to be right, win every argument, and protect their position at all costs. You’ll discover how this pattern quietly damages trust, communication, and connection in your relationships and business, and you’ll get a simple, practical way to start shifting out of it. In this episode, you’ll learn: What a “Right Fighter” is and how it shows up in everyday conversations 5 common signs you might be a Right Fighter (even if you don’t think you are) Why the need to be right is usually about ego and control, not confidence How Right Fighting erodes trust, collaboration, and genuine connection One powerful question and sentence you can use to start changing this pattern today Key challenge from Kim: The next time you feel yourself gearing up to “win” an argument, pause and ask: “Do I want to be right, or do I want to be in real relationship here?” If you realize you’ve been a Right Fighter with someone, try saying: “I’ve been more focused on being right than really hearing you. I’m listening now.”   If you’re looking for more entrepreneurial fun, tune into to our weekly livestream of Good Morning Entrepreneurs (GME).  Looking for a Community?We believe business is better together! The My Sexy Business Community has many facets so we encourage you to explore the different creative solutions we offer for business owners and entrepreneurs ... like support, accountability, strategy, and so much more. We hope to see you on the inside! Click here to join us.  To connect and find out more about Kim or how to create a sexy business for a sexy life, you can reach her and the My Sexy Business Team at www.mysexybusiness.com.  Our one & only choice for us & all our clients to build our online brands and presence is this all-in-one platform!  And our favorite for streaming live is this!