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Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place. Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya. I'm Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school. When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks, what's age-appropriate, and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)! When it comes to communicating about all things related to sexuality, keeping it sex-positive, light, and fact-based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen. To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it's a stupid one), call 206-926-1522.* I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too. + IG @BirdsBeesKids + FB @BirdsBeesKids + BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com *In middle school, they talk about everything, so it's better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get so real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn't it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything? **Not a thing.

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Chirp: What a healthy vagina smells like (usually) -- Episode 175

2026/06/23

BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain how a vagina should smell. Great article on vaginal smells The Body Drama Book has great info about female bodies and more - including a bunch of photographs of different vulvas! Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US) Socials Facebook Instagram Website

How to talk to kids about sexual slang!

2026/06/11

Do you remember all those terms that got tossed about? Did you know what they meant? Your kids will hear sexual slang for private body parts and sex acts and you need to be ready to explain them, or, even better, tell them what they are before they ask. Autistic, ADHD, and other neurotypical kids need to know these words and phrases because they are more likely to be confused and say them at the wrong time. Check out my book, Sex Talks With Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It, for scripts on just about everything. You don't have to find the words because I've done it for you. Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected]

Girl won't talk about her period; kid won't stop telling everyone she's gay; explaining circumcision to a 5-year-old

2026/05/05

It's a tossed salad of questions from parents: periods, gayness, and circumcision. I was a little out of whack, so be patient as you listen/watch. Zoom changed something (where's the f-ing pause recording button?!!!), and I was malnourished. Stuff I mentioned: Celebrate Your Body (and Its Changes, Too!): The Ultimate Puberty Book for Girls Celebrate Your Body (Book Two) The Girl's Body Book Understanding and Supporting Puberty in Autistic Girls and Boys, Academic Video I mentioned. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Autistic, ADHD and other Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

REPLAY! How to explain intersex people to your kid!

2026/04/22

In this replay episode, I talk about how to explain intersex people to your kid. RESOURCES What is Intersex? What's it like to be intersex? Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Does letting your teen use birth control give them permission to have sex?

2026/04/08

Lots of parents wonder if they should put their teen on birth control. There are pros and cons, and in my mind, it's mainly pros. Teens have sex without planning for it all the time. It "just happens", remember? When your teen is on birth control before they need it, it's a good thing. It can make their periods easier and prevent an unplanned pregnancy. At the very least, they should have easy access to condoms and a clear understanding of how they work and why to use them. Vids for Kids (and you): Birth Control Basics How Do I Properly Put on a Condom Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Is it okay to put my autistic, ADHD, (neurodivergent) teen on birth control?

2026/04/08

Many parents of autistic, ADHD, and otherwise neurodivergent kids wonder if it's okay to put their kids on birth control. This is a "yes and maybe" for me. They often think their child is "too young" due to their developmental level, but their bodies can be ahead of their brains. This can put them at risk for being taken advantage of or making impulsive decisions. At the very least, they should have easy access to condoms and a clear understanding of how they work and why to use them. A very wordy, ND friendly description of birth control is here. Vids for Kids (and you) Birth Control Basics How Do I Properly Put on a Condom Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

How to explain crushes to your autistic, ADHD or neurodivergent kid!

2026/04/02

Crushes can be extra confusing for ND kids. There's physical, social, and emotional stuff that goes on that can be a bit mystifying. Feelings in their bodies, misunderstanding chatter about who's crushing on whom (#grammar police), and trying to figure out how they fit into all this can be tough. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.

How to talk to kids about crushes

2026/04/02

Crushes can be soooo painful! And fun! And confusing! All the things. I've been a terminal crusher my entire life, so, for better or worse, I'm kind of an expert. Explaining them can be a little tough because crushes are amorphous in just about every way. Hope this helps! Why your kid's crush should be taken seriously. I'm featured in this CNN article from 2022. I totally forgot about it. What Are The Differences Between Behavior And Attraction? Terrific video from Amaze.org Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

REPLAY! How to talk to kids about polyamory!

2026/03/25

In this replay episode, I give you scripts to explain polyamory to your kid. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

REPLAY! How to talk with kids about erections/boners/woodies

2026/03/06

In this replay episode, I explain how to talk to kids about erections. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] LEARN MORE BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

How to explain sex for pleasure to neurodivergent kids!

2026/02/10

Often, neurodivergent kids struggle to understand why people would have sex for pleasure. This may be due to sensory issues, disinterest, or the assumption by adults that they aren't (and won't ) be interested, so don't need to know this. It's best to assume your kid will be interested in sex and relationships so that they can have a healthy and fun sex life - if they want one. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com for tons of resources! 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

How to talk with kids about sex for pleasure!

2026/02/10

The main reason we have sex is for pleasure! Learn how to talk with kids about sex for pleasure so you don't freak out, and they don't either. Much. This is a tough one for most parents, so start small, keep it chill, and get it done. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com for tons of resources! 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

REPLAY: How to explain STIs to kids under 10

2026/02/05

How to talk to young kids about sexually transmitted infections without freaking them out. Or being crazy uncomfortable. What are STDs? From Planned Parenthood The Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids. Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn't have and your kids' go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources, and one Quickie Consultation is included! Use the coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals, BBKpros.com Other resources Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only) Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US) Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Question From a Parent: What are house rules for teen "romantic" sleepovers?

2026/01/28

Mom needs some guidance as her teen starts a relationship! She has questions about setting clear house rules around things like bedroom doors and sleepovers. Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Masturbation & Neurodivergent Kids: What's Normal and What to Say

2026/01/07

Worried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining. Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy. Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Read here. Got some thoughts or questions? [email protected] Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids. Other stuff Birds & Bees & Kids.com has tons of info and resources. Work with kids? Check out BBKPros.com. Socials: @birdsbeeskids Monitoring and filtering: BARK is robust and pretty easy to install. Do you have a neurodivergent kid? Grab 3 Key Things Your ND Kid Needs To Know (you'll get 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks, too) Want to stay on top of the talks? Grab 7 Simple Tips to Have Easy Birds & Bees Talks

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Ry&Sum 2025/04/05

Love it!

As a therapist I send parents to Amy Lang all the time. So, so helpful.

★★★★★

Erin Hearts 2022/12/30

Strong opinions- I love it!

I’m grateful for the strong opinions and topics on this podcast. Thank you for educating me so I can be communicative and open with my son and underst...

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Kfghgddx 2022/12/02

Necessary. And funny!

I love this podcast. I have 2 kids under 4. It’s helpful for parents of all ages. And I love Amy’s personality and humor. Just listen to this!

★★★★★

RDTay 2022/11/14

All parents need this education.

Thank you. ALL parents need this podcast.

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learningeachday 2021/10/25

Incredibly helpful!

I love Amy’s work, her approach and the way she makes her deep level of expertise accessible, simple and clear when it comes to a very complex subject...

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NatrLover 2021/10/20

Good podcast!

Great podcast for how to talk to kids about sex

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Quatzz 2021/10/20

I tell all my friends to listen

Love this podcast, love Amy, love the whole approach. Amy is so genuine and likable - I always feel like she is well-considered yet clearly uncensored...

★★★★★

Wookieefan 2021/08/27

Get the conversation started!

My comfort level talking to my boys about all things sex has skyrocketed since listening to this podcast, finally overcame my “embarrassed about sex” ...

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qwerasdfgytr 2021/08/18

I’m a huge fan of Amy’s and this podcast

This podcast is full of helpful information and scripts. Big fan!

★★★★★

Sherpa Mama 2021/06/16

Informative and Hilarious

Amy does an excellent job tackling all manner of topics related to kids and sexuality - I find myself chuckling at the same time that I’m receiving va...

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