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In this episode, Shena explores what it looks like to navigate your healing journey without the support system you wish you had. If you’re in a season where you’ve outgrown certain relationships but haven’t yet found your tribe, this conversation will meet you right where you are. This episode is a reminder that even if you’re healing alone, you’re not stuck but you’re creating space for the relationships and life you truly desire. Resources mentioned in the episode: BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodThe 4 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction: https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap Connect with us: Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don’t forget to come back next week for the new episode. Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Your feelings are powerful but they aren’t always telling you the truth. In this episode, I explore why intense emotions can keep you stuck in unhealthy patterns and how giving your feelings structure can help you reclaim your power. Drawing from my work on the No Contact process, I broke down how emotional overwhelm, trauma bonds, and familiar patterns can make it difficult to walk away from relationships that no longer serve you. You’ll learn how to shift from being led by your feelings to creating balance between your emotional and logical mind so you can make decisions rooted in your highest good. Whether you’re navigating no contact, healing inner child wounds, or setting boundaries, this episode will help you reframe your relationship with your emotions and move forward with clarity and intention. Special Offer: Use code FEELINGS to get $97 off the BGH Method. This discount applies to both pay-in-full and payment plans. Resources mentioned in the episode: BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodThe 4 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction: https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap Connect with us: Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don’t forget to come back next week for the new episode. Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Shena discussed 3 powerful strengths you gain by taking your power back in no contact. Free No Contact Cheat Sheets: Click here to download Resources mentioned in the episode: BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodThe 4 Step Roadmap to Heal Love Addiction: https://www.blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap Connect with us: Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don’t forget to come back next week for the new episode. Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Shena takes you behind the scenes on writing her latest book on her signature 90 Day No Contact healing process. Pre-Order the No Contact Book Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Shena shares a powerful live discussion on what it really means to pursue love when life feels overwhelmingly busy, especially if your schedule, past heartbreak, or emotional patterns are holding you back from meaningful connection. She breaks down the deeper reasons behind “being too busy” for love and offers three transformative mindset shifts - helping you prioritize your emotional well-being, let people in, and redefine relationships as nourishing rather than draining while sharing practical insights you can apply right away to build self-worth and healthier connections. Join me in the BGH Method Get our free 5 step roadmap to heal from love addiction Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I go over why your breakup pain hits differently than others, describe the process named "withdrawal," and what you can do about it. Join me in the BGH Method Get our free 5 step roadmap to heal from love addiction Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Breakups are painful. But when you struggle with love addiction, trauma bonding, or unresolved childhood wounds, breakups can feel devastating, consuming, and nearly impossible to move through. In this episode, I break down how to navigate heartbreak when your nervous system is deeply activated and your attachment patterns are involved. This conversation is about compassion and not criticism. Awareness and not shame. And breaking generational patterns, not repeating them. If you relate to symptoms of love addiction, love avoidance, or love deprivation, download our free roadmap. Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Let's talk about how you can be both a love addict and love avoidant at the same time. Join me in the BGH Method to break the cycle of love addiction: Click here to join Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to this if you feel you lost time in your previous relationship Join me in the BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/method Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Break the cycle with the BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/method Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Shena concludes her examination of how to put yourself first using the Loved Woman Checklist. Click here to download the checklist Resources Mentioned: How to Pick Partners for Love Addicts by Shena Lashey The BGH Method Private Coaching Options Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Shena continues the How To Put Yourself First Series with the Loved Woman Checklist review, Part 3. Click here to download the checklist Resources Mentioned: How to Pick Partners for Love Addicts by Shena Lashey The BGH Method Private Coaching Options Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I continue into the next set of the foundational steps of learning how to truly put yourself first without guilt, fear, or feeling like you’re letting others down. Resources mentioned: The Loved Woman Checklist: https://blackgirlsheal.org/checklist The BGH Method: https://blackgirlsheal.org/method Connect with us: Website: Blackgirlsheal.org Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal TikTok: @blackgirlsheal Facebook: Black Girls Heal Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I dive into the foundational steps of learning how to truly put yourself first without guilt, fear, or feeling like you’re letting others down. Resources mentioned: The Loved Woman Checklist: https://blackgirlsheal.org/checklist The BGH Method: https://blackgirlsheal.org/method Connect with us: Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls Heal Our Sponsors: * Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGH * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy