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Scar Tissue

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147 episodes
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English
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Date created
2019/01/12
Latest episode
2026/05/19
Average duration
46 min.
Release period
17 days

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Welcome to Scar Tissue the podcast. Here we understand the power that lies within our pain. We have real, raw, and relatable conversations on so many topics of life that will show you that there is not 1 way to live that the word 'should' doesn't exist and doesn't serve us. I will show you that you are meant to live and create your most authentic self and that you are worthy of everything but entitled to nothing. From business, to health, to relationships, to grief - we're going to uncover it all through the stories of the amazing humans that I will interview on the show and through my own stories of experience. Thank you for being here on Season 4!

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Episode 17: Cancer, a Ponzi Scheme, and a Six-Year-Old's Drawing: Mel Abraham on Grief, Grit, and Building a Life That's Actually Rich
2026/05/19
In this deeply honest conversation, Melissa sits down with entrepreneur, CPA, and author Mel Abraham to talk about the connection between grief, wealth, purpose, resilience, and the moments that actually define a meaningful life. What starts as a conversation about money quickly becomes something much deeper. Mel shares the life-changing moments that completely reshaped his perspective—from becoming a single father while $300,000 in debt… to surviving cancer… to rebuilding after losing millions in a Ponzi scheme. Together, Melissa and Mel unpack the emotional side of wealth, the grief hidden inside identity shifts, and why true richness has far more to do with moments than money. This episode is for anyone navigating loss, rebuilding after adversity, questioning the path they’re on, or trying to create a life that feels aligned instead of performative. Topics Discussed: • Why most people don’t actually have a “money problem” • The difference between leaving a legacy vs living one • Work-life harmony vs work-life balance • How grief reshapes identity and priorities • Why wealth creation is mostly behavioral • Healing through purpose after loss and adversity • Rebuilding after financial betrayal and hardship • The power of intentional living and choosing what matters HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 – Why making more money alone will never create freedom 01:27 – Mel explains the “money machine” concept 02:16 – Entrepreneurs stuck on the treadmill of earning 03:51 – Becoming a single dad while $300K in debt 05:32 – The drawing from his son that changed everything 06:35 – Why work-life balance doesn’t work long term 06:40 – The concept of work-life harmony 09:41 – “You don’t want to leave a legacy. You want to live one.” 10:14 – What legacy actually means 11:16 – How intentional scheduling changed his relationship with his son 13:22 – Melissa shares her perspective on grief beyond death 14:38 – Identity loss, reinvention, and entrepreneurship 15:22 – Mel’s cancer diagnosis and everything changing overnight 17:20 – The dangerous spiral of asking “Why me?” 17:44 – “What if cancer happened because of what you were meant to do?” 18:50 – How cancer led Mel to write his book and serve others 19:32 – Finding meaning inside devastating experiences 20:20 – Melissa shares the moment that transformed her grief into purpose 21:25 – Living with the fear of cancer recurrence 22:48 – Why moments matter more than certainty 23:00 – Losing his mother and the regret she carried 24:15 – Wealth vs richness in life 26:50 – Losing millions in a Ponzi scheme 28:18 – Ignoring intuition and emotional financial decisions 30:29 – The moment he realized his son was watching how he handled adversity 31:32 – Rebuilding after betrayal and financial devastation 32:47 – Melissa reflects on how children become mirrors and teachers 35:02 – Every hardship becomes a choice point 36:24 – Focusing only on what you can control 39:18 – The biggest mistakes people make financially 40:13 – Why “money problems” are actually behavioral problems 41:33 – Why no amount is too small to start building wealth 42:42 – The power of getting in the game financially 43:16 – Final reflections on empowerment, grief, and choice 44:07 – Where to connect with Mel Abraham If this conversation resonated with you, make sure to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs this reminder: You are not powerless. Your pain does not disqualify you from building a meaningful, rich, and intentional life. 🤍 Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 16: How to Have Hard Conversations Without Making Everything a Fight with Kyle Depiesse
2026/04/28
In this episode, we explore: • Why most conflict is really unspoken expectations colliding • How isolation is impacting men’s mental health and relationships • The difference between confrontation and healthy communication • Why avoiding hard conversations creates long-term resentment • How to create safe environments for honest dialogue • The role of overcommunication vs undercommunication in relationships • Why community and connection are essential, not optional • How to navigate difficult conversations without escalating into conflict • The impact of prioritizing work over relationships, and how to shift it • What it really means to take responsibility in your relationships Connect with Me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 15: You Are 100% Responsible for Your 50%: Meg Tuohey on Relationships, Heartprint, and Inner Wisdom
2026/04/14
In this episode, we explore: • What it really means to be 100% responsible for your 50% in relationships • Why your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship • The concept of a heartprint and how it shapes your purpose and direction • How to access your inner wisdom (wise woman / good man) in everyday life • The difference between reacting from your human self and responding with awareness • Why triggers, conflict, and discomfort are part of growth, not signs you’re failing • How “away moves” like blame, shutdown, and criticism keep you stuck • What “toward moves” look like and how they create real change • The power of perspective and learning to witness your patterns • Why emotional responsibility is the key to deeper, healthier connection     Highlights + Timestamps:   • 00:00 — The truth about your heartprint What if your goals were always meant for you, and your job is to align with them? • 02:00 — What is a heartprint, really? Understanding your unique blueprint and why no two people are the same • 06:30 — Your inner wisdom: wise woman / good man How to access the voice that actually knows your next step • 12:00 — Why most people feel disconnected from themselves And how that disconnect shows up in your life and decisions • 20:30 — 100% responsible for your 50% The relationship principle that changes everything • 24:00 — Why relationships feel hard Two imperfect humans with two different histories trying to build one shared space • 30:00 — Away moves vs toward moves Blame versus ownership and how to shift in real time • 33:30 — The power of perspective How to stop reacting and start witnessing what’s really happening • 36:30 — Why your brain wants to escape discomfort And how to build the capacity to stay with it • 40:00 — The real work: your relationship with yourself Why self-trust changes everything   This one might challenge you in the best way.   So let me ask you this. Where are you giving away responsibility, and what could change if you took it back? Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 14: If You Don't Repair It, You Repeat It: Tracy O'Malley on Enneagram, Recovery, and Radical Honesty
2026/03/31
In this honest, no-fluff conversation, Tracy and I dive into trauma, self-awareness, and what it really takes to transform. We explore how the traits that once protected you can quietly become armor, and how to shift them into something that actually serves your growth. Tracy shares how her past shaped her ability to read people, and how she turned that from survival into purpose. We also get real about healing: you don’t outgrow your patterns by avoiding them, you meet them, feel them, and move through them. At the core of this episode is one powerful reframe: your triggers aren’t problems, they’re mirrors. If you’re willing to stay present, they can become your greatest tool for growth. Because real change doesn’t happen from the neck up, it happens when you’re willing to feel. This is for you if you know you’re meant for more… and you’re ready to stop circling the same patterns and actually step into it. In this episode, we explore: What toxic positivity is and how it shows up in everyday conversations Why society often encourages us to suppress uncomfortable emotions The difference between unpleasant emotions and “bad” emotions Why unresolved grief and trauma often resurface years later How toxic positivity can appear in well-meaning support The role of emotional awareness in personal growth The difference between willingness and ability in support systems Common phrases that unintentionally dismiss pain Three ways to respond to toxic positivity in real life How boundaries can protect your healing process Why teaching people how to support you can deepen connection The concept of “scar tissue” and the growth that can come from it Connect with Me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 13: Toxic Positivity: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Shut It Down
2026/03/17
In this short but powerful episode, I explore why toxic positivity has become so common in our culture and why it often prevents real healing. Many of us were raised in environments where sadness, anger, grief, or overwhelm were quickly shut down with phrases meant to “fix” the moment. Over time, this conditioning teaches us to suppress emotions rather than understand them. But emotions that are pushed down don’t disappear. They resurface later, sometimes years later, in ways that feel even harder to process. In this conversation, I explain how toxic positivity differs from a true growth mindset and why acknowledging difficult emotions is an essential part of moving forward. I also share three response strategies that can help you navigate moments when someone says something unhelpful. These tools allow you to protect your emotional space while also maintaining a connection with people who genuinely want to support you but may not know how. This episode is a reminder that healing is not about pretending everything is positive. It’s about learning how to move through pain with awareness, courage, and intention. In this episode, we explore: • What toxic positivity is and how it shows up in everyday conversations • Why society often encourages us to suppress uncomfortable emotions • The difference between unpleasant emotions and “bad” emotions • Why unresolved grief and trauma often resurface years later • How toxic positivity can appear in well-meaning support • The role of emotional awareness in personal growth • The difference between willingness and ability in support systems • Common phrases that unintentionally dismiss pain • Three ways to respond to toxic positivity in real life • How boundaries can protect your healing process • Why teaching people how to support you can deepen the connection • The concept of “scar tissue” and the growth that can come from it   Connect with Me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 12: 98% of Your Website Visitors Will NEVER Come Back w/ Marketing + Operations Expert Nick Harder
2026/03/03
In this honest and strategic conversation, Nick and I pull back the curtain on what’s really happening behind most online businesses.   We talk about why marketing is not just social media, why operations matter more than you think, and how entrepreneurs unintentionally light money on fire by skipping foundational steps.   Nick shares what he’s learned from 15+ years behind the scenes of major brands, events, and digital products. We break down the simple but powerful marketing flow most businesses are missing, and why driving traffic without capturing it is one of the most expensive mistakes you can make.   We also explore the emotional side of entrepreneurship. The loneliness. The ego. The pride that says “I can do it alone.” And why the most successful entrepreneurs rise together, not in isolation.   This episode is an invitation to stop guessing, stop reacting, and start building with strategy.     In this episode, we explore: • Why 90 to 98% of website visitors never come back • The biggest mistake entrepreneurs make with social media • What a lead magnet actually needs to do to convert • Why long, overwhelming freebies hurt your credibility • The psychology behind quick wins and buyer trust • The difference between brand marketing and operational marketing • Why driving traffic to your homepage is usually a mistake • The purpose of a low-ticket offer and how it builds momentum • How to increase lifetime customer value through ascension and add-ons • Why most entrepreneurs feel alone and how to fix it • The common trait Nick sees in top-performing founders • How mentorship shortens the learning curve and prevents costly mistakes • Why transparency and integrity win in the long game Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 11: Why High-achieving Women Struggle in Relationships (and how to fix it)
2026/02/17
In this deeply honest conversation, we explore what truly creates or destroys intimacy.   I share pieces of my own journey re-entering relationships after years alone, and Melissa brings the research, the neuroscience, and the lived experience of going on over 125 first dates before meeting her husband.   We talk about why most relationships don’t end because of one catastrophic event, but because of small unspoken resentments that stack over time. We unpack the four types of relational courage and why avoiding hard conversations is the fastest way to lose peace.   We also explore how chemistry can be built, why alignment cannot be manufactured, and how the honeymoon phase can actually last if you understand what’s happening in the brain.   This episode is an invitation to take radical ownership in your relationships... to stop expecting mind-reading, stop avoiding discomfort, and start acting from courage instead of fear.   In this episode, we explore: • What “energy leaks” are and how unresolved issues quietly drain connection • Why most relationships end from death by 1,000 paper cuts, not betrayal • The four types of relational courage and how to practice them • Why your partner cannot read your mind and why they shouldn’t have to • How expectations and internal “stories” create friction • The power of saying, “The story I’m telling myself is…” • Why emotions only last 90 seconds if you don’t cling to them • Tools to regulate your nervous system in the heat of conflict • How fear acts as a compass toward growth in relationships • The importance of value alignment over initial chemistry • Why chemistry can be built but alignment cannot be manufactured • The neuroscience behind dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin in long-term love • How to keep the honeymoon phase alive through novelty and play • The role of masculine and feminine balance in high-performing partnerships • Three practical ways to invest in your relationship immediately • Why radical ownership applies to love just as much as grief   Connect with Me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 10: How to Find Relief from the Pain of Your Emotional Wounds Without Toxic Positivity
2025/12/23
Wounds Without Toxic Positivity In this episode of The More Live Podcast, I sit down with my dear friend to talk about my book Scar Tissue: How to Find Relief from the Pain of Your Emotional Wounds Without Toxic Positivity and the deeper truths about grief, healing, and personal power. We explore grief beyond death, why toxic positivity can actually delay healing, and how language, responsibility, and choice shape our emotional freedom. I share the story behind why this book exists, how losing my daughter Leyden reshaped every part of my life, and why grief is not something to get over but something to integrate. This conversation is for anyone navigating loss, identity shifts, heartbreak, or the quiet griefs we don’t always name. If you’ve ever felt stuck between honoring your pain and wanting to move forward without betraying your love, this episode will meet you exactly where you are. Show Notes:   In this deeply honest conversation, I share the journey behind Scar Tissue and the lessons grief has taught me about power, responsibility, and freedom. We talk about redefining grief beyond death, dismantling entitlement disguised as worthiness, and why eliminating the word “should” changed my entire life. We also explore how grief can become a source of connection rather than something that isolates us, how to work with emotional energy instead of numbing or bypassing it, and why healing is not about moving on but moving forward with love. This episode is an invitation to stop outsourcing your worth, reclaim your agency, and become a conscious co-creator with your pain instead of a victim to it. In this episode, we explore: • Why grief is more than death and how it shows up in everyday life • The difference between toxic positivity and empowered healing • How language like “should” creates guilt, shame, and disempowerment • The concept of grief as energy and how to transmute it • Why you are worthy but not entitled and how that distinction creates freedom • How to integrate loss without losing connection • The role of radical responsibility in healing emotional wounds • Why grief is not a blank check to be an a*****e • How nervous system regulation plays a key role in long-term healing • What it really means to move forward without betraying love   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 9: Scar Tissue Uncut: The Strategy Every Founder Needs in 2026
2025/12/09
In this raw and honest conversation, I’m breaking down what it really takes to grow and succeed in business today. The conversation includes essential insights on branding, consistency, and how to manage your emotional landscape as a leader. Whether you're grappling with how to scale, building a personal brand, or wondering how to show up authentically, this episode is packed with actionable advice. I also touch on why grief and entrepreneurship are intertwined, and how facing the tough moments of life can be the catalyst for the next level of success. If you’re ready to take your brand to the next level in 2026, this episode is for you. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: The importance of consistency in branding (and why it’s about more than just colors and fonts)Why relationships are a major catalyst for growth in businessHow to create a brand that’s trustworthy and reliable for the long-termWhy every founder needs to go “all in” — even when it’s uncomfortableHow to navigate the emotional ups and downs that come with building a businessThe secret to mastering your brand’s message — and the content that drives itWhy you can't wait for the "perfect" moment to build your businessHow to lead yourself through growth — and why seeking out the "burn" is essential for progressThe difference between boundaries and avoidance, and how to set them without weaponizing them Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 8: Scar Tissue Uncut: BTS, Belly Laughs, and Big Lessons
2025/11/25
This conversation takes you behind the curtain of Scar Tissue, the creative process, the vulnerability, the strategy, and the soul work. We break down what makes a launch successful, why your “triggers are your teachers,” and how to stop taking everything so personally (especially in business). From ghosting to growth, this is an honest look at what it means to build, lead, and love in real time. In this episode, you’ll learn: What it’s really like to publish a deeply personal bookHow to move through fear, resistance, and vulnerabilityThe business side of a launch and what most people get wrongWhy your triggers are your teachers and how to use them for growthThe relationship between leadership, ego, and worthinessThe difference between people-pleasing and authentic compassionHow to balance masculine and feminine energy in business and relationshipsWhy creativity requires space  and how to actually make itConnect with Me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki If you loved this episode, share it with someone who needs a reminder that business, relationships, and healing are all connected. And don’t forget to rate and review Scar Tissue, it helps us reach more people who need these conversations.   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 7: When success isn’t enough with Gary Kadi
2025/11/11
This conversation is a masterclass in reshaping your inner operating system so health, wealth, and connection become your lifestyle, not another to-do. Gary shares how childhood coping patterns fueled success and burnout, why you can never have your way into being, and the simple reframes that brought his family closer than ever. We walk through his three pillars, the mentors who changed his life, and the prompt that can unlock your deepest relationship patterns in minutes. If you have ever felt stuck between ambition and intimacy, this is your invitation to build both.   In this episode, you’ll learn: How to stop “shoulding” on yourself and shift from external validation to inner alignmentThe being, doing, having sequence and why most entrepreneurs run it backwardHealth as a lifestyle: metabolism reset, sleep quality, and energy that powers your businessWealth that runs on rails: what a virtual family office is and how it simplifies decisionsConnection beyond gifts and getaways: practices that create safety, intimacy, and funA two-question writing exercise that reveals your core relationship blueprintWhy "what" is in the way is the way, and how to use resistance as your teacher  Connect with Gary Kadi: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gary.kadi/   If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who needs to hear it and take a moment to rate and review the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Your support helps us reach more listeners and continue creating meaningful content.   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 6: Ego, Death, Reinvention & Chosen Endings with Mike Michalowicz
2025/10/28
In this heartfelt and deeply honest conversation, Mike and I unpack the layers of grief, identity, and ego that come with reinvention. We explore how grief isn’t just about death; it’s about every place in life where expectation and reality don’t align. From navigating a major career pivot to learning how to release control, this conversation is about the power of witnessing your own transformation without bypassing the pain that comes with it. In this episode, you’ll learn: What “chosen grief” really means and why we all experience itHow to let go of who you thought you’d be and make space for who you’re becomingThe difference between toxic positivity and true emotional supportWhy grief can exist even when we “get what we want”How to find purpose and peace after endings in business or lifeThe link between ego death, humility, and sustainable growth  Connect with Mike Michalowicz: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikemichalowicz/       If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who needs to hear it and take a moment to rate and review the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Your support helps us reach more listeners and continue creating meaningful content.   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 5: Business After Breakdown with Angie Lee
2025/10/14
In this episode, you’ll hear: How grief has influenced my business and life in unexpected waysThe truth behind the "soft girl era" and how to show up authentically without pressureNavigating the balance between masculine and feminine energy in business and lifeThe importance of embracing discomfort and being true to yourselfWhy you shouldn’t put your joy on pause, no matter where you’re at in lifeThis episode is packed with insights about being unapologetically you, navigating life’s hardest moments, and how to continue building something powerful even when things feel uncertain. This conversation with Angie Lee is incredibly special to me. We dive deep into the impact of grief and how it’s led both of us to transform in ways we never expected. I open up about my own journey of personal and professional growth, the importance of doing the work, and how I finally started to embrace my authentic self. Together, we explore the messy middle, the space between where we were and where we’re going and how to navigate that discomfort.   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
Episode 4: Flow Over Force: Jilly Torrez on Feminine Leadership and Wealth
2025/09/30
In this conversation, Jilly and I dive deep into how the energy of water mirrors so much of our inner wisdom in business and life. Jilly shares her experience of building a seven-figure business, healing from trauma, and stepping into her feminine power while navigating the world of high-performing entrepreneurship. We talk about the importance of boundaries, the energy of the sacral chakra, and why truly understanding your body is key to finding alignment and success in everything you do. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to embrace your feminine energy while leading in businessThe concept of “water codes” and how water holds memory in our bodiesHow Jilly’s journey of celibacy helped her tap into deeper creative energyThe power of vulnerability and how it fuels personal and professional growthWhy slowing down can actually speed up your successHow to stay in alignment with your values and discern when to push forward or restConnect with Jilly: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/waterheiress/?hl=en • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/waterheiress/ • Website: https://msha.ke/waterheiress If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who needs to hear it and take a moment to rate and review the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Your support helps us reach more listeners and continue creating meaningful content. Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki
From Scarcity to Possibility: Coaching, Masterminds & Growth
2025/09/24
Show Notes: In this conversation, you’ll hear how four business owners went from struggling to scale to becoming leaders who now help others grow inside MCM. Whether you’re a gym owner, a lawyer, a coach, or any entrepreneur ready to level up, you’ll find practical strategies here to increase revenue, build trust with clients, and create an environment that supports your growth.   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki   Connect with the Speakers:   • Chris Harder: @chriswharder   • Andrea Sager: @andreasagerlaw   • Matt Aruda: @benchmarkburlington   Learn more about MCM: 👉 https://speakingofmelissa.com/mcm   Catch up with me on socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissadlugolecki/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.dlugolecki LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-dlugolecki-b24988141/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadlugolecki YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaDlugolecki

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4.6 out of 5
65 reviews
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Eva41881 2023/03/19
113 episode
mel thanks for this episode great reframe for letting go of love for me. worthy of love but not entitled to someone if they cannot meet me the same w...
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Goode Clean Living 2020/07/25
Mel epitomizes the coach I’ve always needed
I just can’t get enough of Mels guidance wisdom. I could listen to this podcast on repeat every day and I just so appreciate her consistent sharing. I...
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roryelizabeth 2020/07/06
This podcast saved me!
Melissa speaks to me. I took her yoga class once and had such a powerful experience. I’ve been following her ever since. She has gotten me through the...
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dkcanada 2020/01/09
Inspiring!!
I connected with Mel on social media first and then started listening to her podcast. Each week I listen and become more and more inspired by her vuln...
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marma0210 2019/12/01
I look forward to each episode
This podcast is by far my favorite. Mel does such a great job sharing her story about grief but also applying it to any challenges that we might encou...
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Go After It Fitness 2019/11/25
Anticipatory grief
Melissa, thank you so much for recommending this for me, and letting me know it’s ok to feel the way you feel. I recommend her podcasts to anyone who ...
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spelledgeary 2019/10/29
You are not alone in your grief
Melissa's perspective on grief and health will speak to so many people. Her episodes are split into helpful tips, refreshing interviews, and comfortin...
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TwinMomBr 2019/10/04
Raw, real, honest talk
This podcast is so real, raw, and honest. It’s my absolute favorite and it’s taught me so much about myself.
★★★★★
In Gratitude at LPY 2019/09/13
Look forward to every episode!
I love the honesty, heart and grit Melissa shares. This podcast is smart, real and ultimately enlightening. Melissa can share and tease apart things t...
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VictoriaFromAZ 2019/06/30
Not alone
This podcast has helped me so much, every listen reminds me that I am not alone and that there is hope for a brighter day tomorrow. Thank you from the...
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