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Date created
2019/02/11
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2026/03/04
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The Relationship Status Podcast hosted by CL, Fraronda, Vanetta & Yusuf, takes you on a random journey through the different issues that come up in relationships. Needless to say, the crew will give their honest take on things.
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265th Date: “Men Are the Problem in Relationships? Our FIRST Podcast Episode Gets Heated”
2026/03/04
Seven years. Yup… SEVEN. Somehow we’ve been doing this long enough to qualify as a long-term relationship.
Welcome back to the Relationship Status Podcast. V is out today, but this episode is special. Like digging through the archives and finding something you forgot existed special.
To celebrate our anniversary, we’re taking y’all all the way back to the beginning—before the podcast had a name, before we knew what we were doing (arguably we still don’t), and before the many debates that would come over the years.
What you’re about to hear is the very first recording of the Relationship Status Podcast.
And here’s the crazy part:
This episode has never been heard before. Not by the listeners… not by Nique… not by CL… nobody.
So yes, we’re basically exposing our podcast baby pictures to the world.
Inside this throwback conversation, we somehow jump into topics like:
Why men might actually be the problem in relationships (depending on who you ask )
Whether men are allowed to cry or if society still says “man up”
Why women always want “just a little more” (their words, not ours… kinda)
If men and women can really be just friends after seeing each other naked
Why people date someone thinking “I can change them”
And the real question… who’s actually responsible when relationships fail?
It’s raw, unfiltered, hilarious, and honestly… it might still be one of the most honest conversations we’ve ever had.
Thank you to everyone who has supported us through seven years of wild conversations, real talk, and relationship debates. We appreciate every listener who has rocked with us along the way.
If you want bonus content, exclusive episodes, and behind-the-scenes conversations, join the Patreon family:
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Happy Anniversary to the Relationship Status Podcast. Now sit back and enjoy where it all started. ️
Chapters
(00:00:00) - relationship status podcast: 7 years(00:01:15) - She Said Men Are At Fault When Their Relationships Fails(00:05:39) - Married Women Want More Attention(00:09:04) - What Is The Problem With Men Being Greedy Over Money?(00:11:47) - How Money Divides Men(00:15:40) - In Touch With His Ex-Girlfriend(00:19:16) - "A lot of Women Try to Change Their Guy"(00:23:00) - "Your Standards Are Too High"(00:26:24) - I Wouldn't Assist My Friend In Cheating(00:29:18) - Cheating Man: Don't Question My Wife(00:32:16) - How To Be Exclusively With Your Lover(00:34:21) - Are You Being Exclusive With Your Guy?(00:38:08) - Do Men Attract A Woman Who Does Drugs?(00:39:15) - A Very Special Goodbye To "
264th Date: Valentine’s Day Truths: Do Men Even Care?! (This Debate Got REAL)
2026/02/20
Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta
This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yousef recaps his appearance on the Very Necessary Podcast and dives deep into a spirited Valentine’s Day debate that turned into a bigger conversation about expectations, effort, comparison, and communication in relationships.
Do men really care about Valentine’s Day — or do they just care that their partner cares? The crew unpacks whether the holiday is truly “for women,” if men secretly want gifts too, and why some people feel like they’re in the doghouse if they don’t show up the “right” way on February 14th.
The conversation gets real when they tackle:
Is it about money… or is it about thought?
Can creativity beat a five-star dinner?
Are cliche gifts lazy — or just misunderstood?
When does a high standard become comparison?
Is “comparison the thief of joy” in dating after a great past relationship?
Should a father set the romantic standard for his daughter’s future partners?
Do expectations build love — or break it?
From orchestra-by-candlelight date ideas to homemade cards, from social media aesthetics to real-life effort, this episode challenges listeners to examine whether they’re appreciating what’s being given — or measuring it against what once was.
And the big question:
Are you truly being loved… or are you waiting for someone to recreate a love you already experienced?
Tap in for laughs, honesty, accountability, and a whole lot of perspective.
Send advice letters to: [email protected]
Follow on all platforms: @RSTATPodcast
Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more
Chapters
(00:00:00) - Relationship Status Podcast(00:00:25) - Valentine's Day Conversation(00:04:19) - Valentine's Day Advice From Men(00:07:48) - Adam Levine: It's Both Responsible For Not Being In Tune(00:13:02) - Valentine's Day Is All Right(00:16:44) - "Don't Expect Too Much From Your Boyfriend"(00:22:39) - Yolanda on Expecting Valentine's Day From Your Partner(00:27:42) - Relationship Status Podcast
152nd Lunch Date: "The System Was Designed to Fail Us… And This Is How the Right Woman Changes Everything"
2025/11/05
Welcome back to Relationship Status with your host, Yousef, joined by the always-insightful Georgia Miller! In this episode, we dive deep into the realities of government aid, voting, and societal systems, uncovering how policies historically set up certain communities to fail—and why understanding these systems is crucial for everyone. Georgia breaks down the history of welfare in the U.S., highlighting how it was originally designed to benefit white families while creating barriers for Black families. We explore the challenges of navigating government assistance, the intricacies of child support, and the critical role of local elections in shaping policy.
The conversation then transitions into relationships, love, and growth. Yousef and Georgia discuss what it means to be the “right partner” and the impact of effort dynamics in relationships. From understanding change partners versus acceptance partners to supporting each other’s goals, this episode is packed with practical insights and honest takes. They also react to thought-provoking clips on what makes a woman truly “multiply” her partner, emphasizing the importance of mutual growth, peace, and realistic expectations in relationships.
Whether you’re navigating government systems, reflecting on personal growth, or learning how to cultivate healthier relationships, this episode is full of eye-opening perspectives and actionable advice. Don’t miss it!
Connect with Georgia Miller:
Facebook: Georgia Miller
Twitter: Not recommended
Chapters
(00:00:00) - Potential in People(00:00:35) - Georgia Miller Is Back(00:02:20) - Prospects of Fame Book Club Podcast(00:03:43) - Crux Media: Vision and Work(00:04:01) - Charlotte on Welfare(00:09:51) - Black People on Why They Didn't Vote(00:13:15) - SNAP Benefits Reciprocity(00:18:12) - President Trump's election victory(00:18:59) - "The Right Woman Will Not Just Give You Peace"(00:22:47) - Derwin on Melanie's Insecurities(00:26:00) - The Change Partner and the Acceptance Partner(00:30:45) - Georgia Miller On Why She Left Her Relationship
263rd Date: She Said Setting His Grandma’s Yard on Fire Was Justified?!
2025/11/03
Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta
In this hilarious and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status, Yusuf is joined by the always-unfiltered Niana Renee for a wild ride through the complexities of modern relationships.
The duo kicks things off with the Question of the Week: “What toxic advice would you give your younger self?” — and things get spicy fast. From setting grandma’s yard on fire to declaring “these hoes ain’t loyal,” nothing is off-limits.
Yusuf and Niana dive deep into what loyalty really means, whether cheating is just a “renegotiation of terms,” and how “Do Not Disturb” settings have become the new relationship battlefield. The two also tackle love bombing, walls in dating, and the fine line between privacy and secrecy in relationships.
And just when you think it can’t get any wilder — they end with an unfiltered (and hilarious) debate.
Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a few uncomfortable truths — only on Relationship Status Podcast.
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:02:55) - What Toxic Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self?(00:05:39) - "Re-negotiating the Terms of a Relationship"(00:09:29) - How To Re-negotiate When You're Cheating On(00:12:44) - "I Have A Wall Up"(00:16:45) - Do Not Disturb(00:20:59) - Is It Okay To Post Selfies On Facebook?
151st Lunch Date: My Boyfriend is Hiding a Secret That Could Ruin Everything!
2025/10/29
Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta
In this episode of Relationship Status, Yusuf is back and special guest Ashley Martin to unpack a truly intense listener letter. When a relationship secret comes to light—one that involves a boyfriend, a best friend, and a younger brother—the stakes are high, emotions are raw, and questions about trust, loyalty, and timing dominate the conversation.
Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into the chaos, analyzing the complicated dynamics of secrecy, sexual identity, and the pressure of an impending proposal. With perspectives from listeners, practical advice, and candid reflections, they explore how to confront difficult truths head-on while protecting your peace.
Follow Ashley Martin and her platform Becoming Her:
Instagram & TikTok: @becomingherwithashley
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Tune in for a heartfelt, no-holds-barred discussion about love, transparency, and navigating life-altering secrets in relationships.
Chapters
(00:00:00) - How Can My Man Be Secretly Bi(00:00:48) - Ashley Martin on Becoming Her Is Amazing(00:02:40) - I Should've Confront My Brother(00:06:16) - Sean Tells Detective Jericho About My Girl(00:08:08) - He's Keeping Secret From His Girlfriend(00:11:10) - Katie Says There Shouldn't Be Any Secrets In The Marriage(00:15:08) - How To Confront Your Brother About His Gay Sexual Past(00:18:59) - Dear Relationship Status: I wrote a letter about my bi boyfriend
262nd Date: 14 Years Married—And She Never Stepped Out ✅
2025/10/27
Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta
In this deeply personal and insightful episode of Relationship Status, Yusuf sits down with Ashley Martin of Becoming Her to discuss the realities of marriage, personal growth, and maintaining your identity within a committed relationship. Vanetta is out this week due to an event at Eat My Biscuits in East Point, Atlanta, so Ashley steps in for an honest and heartfelt conversation.
Ashley and Yusuf dive into divorce statistics, the importance of intentions in marriage, and how couples can navigate challenges while growing together. Ashley shares her experiences caring for her husband during a life-altering health crisis and how she applies the principles of Becoming Her to continuously evolve while staying grounded. Topics include communication, therapy as a tool for growth, love languages, maintaining individuality, and staying faithful in a modern relationship.
The conversation also explores updating traditional marriage vows for today, emotional transparency, and real-life surprises that tested their commitment. Quick-fire questions on separate bank accounts, social media, and premarital counseling provide candid and relatable perspectives.
Whether you're married, dating, or thinking about your future in a relationship, this episode is full of actionable insights, real talk, and encouragement for anyone seeking a thriving partnership while staying true to themselves.
Connect with Ashley Martin:
Facebook & TikTok: Becoming Her with Ashley Martin
Instagram: @becomingherwithashley
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Patreon Book Club: patreon.com/relationshipstatus – Discussing Prospects of Fame by Grant Michaels
Chapters
(00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:01:07) - Ashley Martin on Becoming Her With Ashley Martin(00:03:53) - Is Your Relationship Happy?(00:07:04) - The Motivation Behind Marrying(00:11:11) - George Martin on Sexual Harassment(00:11:58) - Titus on Whether Marriage Is Decaying(00:15:16) - Marriage Is Harder for Women(00:17:51) - Should You Stay In A Marriage With an Abusive Partner?(00:21:18) - Marriage and the Divorce Rate(00:24:08) - "Sick and In Health"(00:28:41) - Counseling For Married People(00:31:05) - Married Couples Talk About Therapy(00:33:36) - "The Notebook" In My Marriage(00:37:57) - "Becoming Her Her Principles"(00:41:46) - Ashley On Staying Real With Her Husband(00:44:55) - Marriage Is Overrated(00:49:23) - What Would You Change About Your Wedding Vows?(00:51:39) - The Vow to Meet My Partner's Emotional Needs(00:53:57) - Question of the Week(00:54:27) - Best and Worst Surprises From Your Significant Other(00:57:36) - How to edit a post-(00:57:54) - Becoming Her With Ashley Martin
261st Date: Do Women Even Care If Men Are Happy?
2025/09/08
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf
In this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, V Live and Yusuf ask the question nobody seems to ask men: Are you even happy, bruh? Society loves to preach “happy wife, happy life,” but where does that leave husbands, boyfriends, and partners? Apparently somewhere between paying bills, ignoring red flags, and being told they don’t deserve privacy because, well… “love.”
V and Yusuf keep it all the way real as they break down why men’s happiness is rarely prioritized—especially Black men’s—and why so many end up stuck in relationships that look good on Instagram but feel miserable in real life. They debate whether it’s okay to admit other people are attractive, why checking your partner’s phone is a walking red flag , and how “safe flirting” might just save your relationship (or start a new argument).
Plus, V drops a jaw-dropping personal story about choosing peace and happiness over six bedrooms, designer bags, and luxury cars. Spoiler alert: a Gucci purse can’t cuddle you at night.
With plenty of laughs, playful shots fired, and a few gems that might just shift your perspective, this episode is a reminder that love should be about connection—not keeping score, not control, and definitely not just financial security.
Tune in, laugh with us, and maybe ask your man if he’s happy for once. He might surprise you.
Follow Vanetta @vlive_baby and Yusuf @daninthwonder, and catch exclusive content on Patreon: patreon.com/relationshipstatus.
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:01:20) - OBLIVA ON FLASHING(00:05:43) - Couples Talk About Privacy(00:08:38) - Trump on Reminding Others Of Their Actions(00:11:09) - Black Women Don't Expect Their Men To Be Happy(00:17:38) - Married Women Are Complacent With Their Husbands(00:21:11) - Mariah Duggan on Living On A Luxury Home(00:25:42) - The List of Things A Dude Has To Have For Her To Get(00:26:51) - Relationship Status Podcast
260th Date: I’m Not Having a Baby with Chris Brown, Drake, or Bezos!
2025/09/01
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf
In this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Vanetta and Yusuf explore the realities of modern dating and relationships. They discuss compassion, boundaries, deal breakers, and personal turn-offs, sharing insights from their own experiences and professional lives.
They also respond to a listener’s question about navigating a relationship moving too quickly, providing practical advice on how to communicate clearly and respectfully when deciding to end things.
Tune in for honest conversations about self-awareness, compatibility, and maintaining healthy relationships.
Follow Vanetta @vlive_underscore_baby and Yusuf @the9thwonder, and catch exclusive content on Patreon: patreon.com/relationshipstatus.
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - Relationship Status Podcast(00:01:23) - Bob Dylan on His Friendships With Older People(00:05:16) - Guys Get Beaten Up For Drinking Too Much(00:08:15) - How to Have A Good Time In Atlanta(00:11:22) - Black People's Birthday Celebrations(00:13:05) - Favorite Lie Telled As A Kid(00:16:41) - Vanessa on Santa Claus(00:20:34) - What Is The Turn Off?(00:23:36) - Married People Who Were Abused Are Also Abusers(00:28:09) - "I lack a lot of compassion for my patients"(00:32:20) - The Coach on His Student Suspension(00:33:56) - Deals Breakers and Red Flags(00:37:01) - Turning Down Girls' Clothes(00:40:27) - "I Don't Need A Mustache"(00:43:15) - What My Ex-Husband Told Me(00:47:19) - "What Does It Taste Like?"(00:48:43) - Turn Offs(00:49:11) - Dear Yusuf and Vanetta(00:53:04) - He Should Tell Her He Doesn't Want Kids(00:56:22) - Do You Want to Have Kids With Your Partner?(00:58:54) - Relationship Status: Why I Wouldn't Want You Back(01:01:32) - Relationship Status: The New Normal
259th Date: We Gonna Get You A Date!
2025/08/18
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf
Hold onto your headphones—this episode is pure chaos in the best way possible! Yusuf and Vanetta are joined again by TikTok Influencer Sha (@KayBee312404). They get hilariously real about the trials and tribulations of dating in 2025: from guarding yourself on social media to deciphering if that “super duper nice-looking dude” is genuinely interested or just flirting with everybody. Expect laugh-out-loud stories, awkward dating moments, and honest takes on why sometimes your Amazon delivery guy is the most faithful man in your life.
But it doesn’t stop there...things take a wild turn when the crew decides to set up a real-life dating adventure for Sha! That’s right: they’re calling on listeners to step up, fill out a Google form, and compete for a chance to go on a fully sponsored date with Sha, all while being recorded for posterity (and maximum hilarity). There’s a chaperone, there’s video, there’s humor, and there’s a lot of “what did I just agree to?” energy.
If you’ve ever wondered what happens when friendship, love, and podcast antics collide, this episode delivers in spades. Warning: you may laugh, cringe, and immediately want to sign up for Shay’s dating adventure yourself.
To compete for a chance to go on a date with Sha, fill out this form: https://forms.gle/RfvSFhBvuJjv6Hq2A
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - "I Put On White Lace Lingerie"(00:00:45) - Relationship Status(00:01:17) - Jimmy Kimmel on His Period(00:03:44) - Johnny Gill on The Great Food Truck Race (Season 18)(00:06:47) - B. Simone on Her Week(00:09:21) - The Dentist Who Rescheduled His Appointment Due to a(00:12:47) - What Is A Love Story's Movie Genre?(00:14:37) - Doc Gets Married(00:17:26) - Do You Want Your Wedding To Be A Courtroom?(00:19:18) - V and Her(00:23:10) - Married People Talk About Infidelity(00:26:33) - On Advice For Marriage(00:29:52) - Shay Factor: Choosing Your Mate vs Falling in Love(00:31:44) - Is Marcus Good Enough For You? vs. Julius(00:35:26) - "A lot of Women Marry For Security"(00:37:47) - How Many Men Would You Have Chopped?(00:42:05) - "A Marriage Is About Serving The Other Person"(00:42:46) - "I Don't Want A watered-down Version Of My Love(00:46:33) - "I Won't Conform To My Man"(00:48:34) - "It's Your Relationship"(00:52:20) - "No Long Text, No Fake Braids"(00:53:37) - Guys Put On Lingerie For Their Women(00:56:59) - "Baby" Is Ridiculous(00:57:50) - How Many Women Have You Loved?(01:01:05) - Are You Open To Meeting The Right Guy?(01:05:35) - I Think We Should Do This... In Dating My Girl Shay(01:08:52) - How To Win The 9th Wonder Scholarship(01:09:30) - Relationship Status Podcast
258th Date: Flying Out To Sit On Wood
2025/08/11
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf
Today the team is joined by Sha who bringa very fresh perspective so, buckle up for this wild ride! Our listener’s been chillin’ in a 3-year relationship — got a pet, future talks, the whole vibe — then outta nowhere, his girl hits him with “I feel free,” starts packing like she’s moving out for real, and wants to block him… but claims she ain’t leaving? Say what now?! Our crew dives in, dropping savage truths, calling out the obvious “she’s got somebody else” vibes, and giving zero chill about those disappearing clothes. We keep it 100 — sometimes you gotta tell your boo, “Pack up, bye!” but also throw in some real talk about heartbreak and spotting those sneaky signs. It’s got jokes, it’s got feels, and yeah, a little Cosby Show nostalgia for flavor. Whether you’re here for the laughs or the messy relationship tea, we got you. Hit play and let’s get into it!
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257th Date: I Know Exactly What I Want.......And I Ain’t Settling!
2025/08/04
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf
Get ready to laugh, relate, and maybe even say, “Yup, same!” in this episode of Relationship Status with Yousef and Vanetta. Vanetta drops truth bombs about dating (or not dating) in her 40s — spoiler alert: she’s not out here swiping right on just anybody, even if there are “too many m***********s interested.” She’s got standards, prayer, and a healthy dose of “nah, that ain’t me” vibes.
They also break down the wild world of social media — Snapchat vs. Instagram drama included — because who knew posting memes and ignoring people’s lives could be a full-time job? Plus, Vanetta gets real about how Kevin Samuels’ no-nonsense takes might just be the tough love we all need, even if it stings a little.
If you’re single, dating, or just tired of people telling you to “settle down already,” this episode’s for you. Expect real talk, belly laughs, and a fresh perspective on relationships served with a side of sass. Oh, and don’t forget to follow Vanetta on Insta @vlive_baby — because you definitely want to see what she’s really saying when the mics are off.
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - Tell Me The Truth(00:00:49) - Yousef Announces His Love Interest(00:01:13) - A New Co-Host on The Ellen(00:01:32) - Meet Single Oprah: What's Your Relationship Status?(00:02:23) - What's A Non-Negotiable In A Relationship? Abuse(00:06:09) - 7 Rules For A Good Relationship(00:07:59) - What's Your Communication Style When You're Upset?(00:10:03) - "My Man, My Man, my Man"(00:11:36) - Chris Brown On His Best Relationship Advice(00:12:19) - What Does Being Seen In A Relationship Mean To You?(00:13:14) - Can a Relationship Survive Without Verbal Remarks?(00:16:46) - How To Love Your Partner (Love Languages Quiz(00:19:02) - What Is It That People Would Be Surprised To Know About(00:22:24) - Tell Me The Truth(00:23:53) - Be loved MORE Than You Love(00:24:05) - Is It Either Or With A Relationship?(00:26:41) - Stay for the Kids or Leave(00:29:36) - Is It Bad if Your Partner Is Best Friends With His Ex-(00:33:45) - "Stop Taking Me For Granted"(00:37:46) - Don't Take Advantage of Your Relationships(00:42:07) - "Don't Take People For Granted"(00:42:59) - What Is Intimacy?(00:44:21) - Marriage 1, Emotional Intimacy(00:47:39) - "I don't know why women do this"(00:48:01) - What Do You Want To Do About An Argument?(00:51:04) - "If I'm Happy, Does He Feel Happy?"(00:54:02) - What I Learned From A Friend's Death(00:58:38) - Joey on Being Too Emotional For Relationships(01:01:39) - How To Heal From A Relationship(01:05:44) - What It's Like To Date After Your Marriage(01:08:50) - V LiveBaby Is Here!!(01:11:22) - Relationship Status: Holding Women Accountable
256th Date: Date Your Wife and Forget She Almost Cheated
2025/07/28
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, & Yusuf
In this spicy and slightly messy episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf and Fraronda unpack a letter from a listener who’s got way more than just marital drama.....think emotional cheating, overbearing in-laws, and a 19-year-old co-worker who apparently gives out hugs with a little too much eye contact.
Is emotional cheating still cheating? Did she actually sleep with the dude? And why are her parents living in the house, running the marriage like it’s their own reality show?
Yusuf's ready to call in Judge Judy, while Fraronda’s all about therapy and deep convos — if the couple can ever get five minutes alone without Mom and Dad chiming in from the other room. The hosts don’t hold back as they debate emotional boundaries, romantic rebounds, and whether "almost cheating" is just cheating with extra steps.
Throw in some hilarious listener advice (shoutout to Aunt Pat, who’s ready to hand over the house and dip) and you've got a wild ride through the world of love, mistakes, and parents who don’t know when to butt out.
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - "Women Depreciate In Value"(00:01:29) - Relationship Status(00:02:24) - Men Describe Their Relationships Using Sports Terms(00:05:34) - His Wife Is Clutch(00:07:26) - Domestic Violence 1(00:11:16) - Married Men Talk About Women(00:14:46) - "You Laugh At Women Gaining Weight!"(00:15:01) - How To Talk To Your Girlfriend About Her Weight(00:19:38) - In Which I Think He Thought About Cheating(00:20:36) - I Would Eat My Own Body For Your Number(00:25:02) - Megan's Look Before She Married Jonathan Majors(00:26:36) - How To Process A 29 Year Old Wife's Confession(00:31:55) - He Should Have Just Left The Marriage In The Trash(00:34:43) - What's Worse Than Cheating?(00:39:22) - Should Parents Be Involved In My Marriage?(00:41:28) - Relationship Status Podcast
255th Date: Therapy, Tears, and Netflix Binge
2025/07/21
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, & Yusuf
Grab your tissues, and maybe some popcorn, because this episode of Relationship Status Podcast is a wild ride through the chaos of first loves! Yusuf and Fraronda get real about those awkward, messy, and sometimes downright ridiculous moments that come with young relationships. From prom drama (who forgets to return a $300 dress?!) to unprotected poolside adventures that definitely weren’t planned traps, they unpack all the cringe and confusion with plenty of laughs.
Ever felt like you lost yourself in a relationship? Yeah, they’ve been there, abandoning goals, ghosting friends, and adopting weird hobbies just to keep the peace. And don’t worry, Yusuf’s got his classic “man up” takes ready to roast everyone.
So buckle up for honest talks, gaslighting confessions, and some brutally funny insights on what your first love really taught you (besides how to dodge heartbreak). Plus, a sneak peek at Patreon swag, shoutouts that might or might not embarrass some folks, and enough sass to keep you hooked.
Warning: Listening might cause nostalgia, secondhand embarrassment, and sudden urges to text your ex. Tune in!
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - Andy Byron And Kristen Cabot Get Caught Cheating(00:01:51) - Relationship Status(00:02:08) - He Accidentally Sent A Good Night Baby Text To Someone Else(00:05:05) - Relationship Status: My New York Trip(00:08:03) - Married Man Plans to Visit New York for Surgery(00:11:38) - Walk The Brooklyn Bridge In NYC(00:14:07) - Chinatown Food Tour(00:17:00) - "I Can't Ride An Uber For Hours"(00:17:20) - Netflix Drama: 10 Out of 10(00:21:08) - The Real Story Of First Love(00:27:11) - How I Learned From My First Love Experience(00:32:37) - What Shamika Did For Me(00:37:59) - Justin and Keisha's Relationship(00:40:21) - Justin In 'Coming soon': The Drama(00:44:15) - "Don't Get In A Relationship in High School"(00:48:51) - The Real Story Behind Keisha's Story(00:52:23) - He Tried To Trap The Girl(00:55:04) - What Did He Do To Her?(00:57:20) - Keisha On Codependency(01:01:56) - He Said She Should've Been Blocked(01:05:07) - What Did Your First Love Teach You?
254th Date: Karma Moves Faster Than FedEx
2025/07/15
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Khori, & Yusuf
This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Gaylord Fockerer (yes, that Gaylord) break down one of the wildest relationship stories to ever hit the group chat. A woman asks for a “break” to fight temptation, gets dumped, walks into a spider web, quits her job, and is SHOCKED when her man moves on. Girl, is it crack?!
We’re talking:
The difference between a break and a breakup (spoiler: one ends in a gas bill).
Why comparing yourself to Instagram models is hazardous to your healing.
“Rich Zaddy” and the dangers of transactional love.
The horizontal hokey pokey and its lasting consequences.
Spider Gwen, Charlotte’s Web, and how NOT to quit your job.
Plus, we crown some of the most savage listener comments, including the now-iconic: “A wet coochie and an empty purse don’t make no sense.”
And don’t forget: first person to email us where the name Gaylord Focker comes from wins a free t-shirt AND a gas card—because we support good decisions and full tanks.
Email: [email protected]
Follow us @relstatpodcast everywhere your toxic ex still lurks.
Tune in, laugh hard, and remember: karma moves faster than FedEx.
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Chapters
(00:00:01) - Ben Stiller on The Devil's Tomb(00:01:46) - Faronda Gaylord Focker On Relationship Status(00:04:39) - Allergic To Fruit? By Growing Your Own(00:08:01) - Shop Your Own Wardrobe(00:08:15) - Forgiveness Does Not Mean Access To My Phone(00:11:44) - Forgiveness Is Not Access(00:14:35) - I Found My 38-Year-Old Husband On Tinder(00:16:48) - He Did This(00:19:45) - Married Woman on Her Ex-husband's Cheating(00:22:37) - Is It Okay For You To Set Your Age On Tinder?(00:24:12) - He Already Was Cheating On Her(00:27:23) - I Asked My Man To Break Up With Me(00:31:19) - He Said You Were Sauteed Once(00:34:09) - Relationship Status: When Charlotte Went Blind
253rd Date: When Your Life is a Domino Effect of Bad Decisions
2025/06/27
Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Khori, & Yusuf
Yusuf and Fraronda are back with another episode packed with real talk, deep feels, and just enough laughs to keep you from ugly crying (well, maybe). Inspired by a poem that basically says “we’re all just five bucks away from asking for fries,” they get into how life can flip on a dime — and how mental health, bad days, and tough choices sneak up on everyone.
They break down the movie Straw (spoiler: it’s heavy), but don’t worry, they sprinkle in some jokes about being totally done with school drama and daycare nonsense. Then they jump into The Pursuit of Happyness, because who doesn’t love a dad trying to keep his kid safe while living like it’s an episode of Survivor? Bonus points for the heartbreaking lipstick moment that got them all choked up.
If you thought this was just a serious vibe, nah — these two keep it real with some hilarious “what I would’ve done” moments (spoiler: probably more yelling and a lot less patience). And heads up — next episode they’re diving into Forever, so buckle up for more feels, laughs, and probably some more weird analogies.
So grab your favorite drink (fries optional) and join Yusuf and Fraronda for the kind of chat that makes you think, cry, and laugh all at once.
Don’t forget to follow us on all social platforms @relstatpodcast and join the Relationship Status Advice Group on Facebook!
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Chapters
(00:00:00) - DRAMA: We're Back(00:01:47) - Ladies Describe Their Relationships Using Self-Care Terms(00:05:21) - "I gotta Get With The Men..."(00:06:02) - Tyler Perry On The Madea Drama(00:09:58) - Deval Ellis on His Comedian Face(00:10:29) - Spoilers for 'The Dark Knight'(00:13:07) - Tyler Perry's '(00:16:25) - Teacher on 'Sergeant Whatever'(00:20:01) - Child Abuse Case: Colonel Taylor Was Also a Pimp(00:23:54) - She gets in a car accident(00:25:58) - How A Racist Got Out Of Jail(00:29:02) - They Came to Rob the Grocery Store(00:30:34) - Colonel Taylor Blames The Bank Teller For Not Cashing(00:34:28) - Robber Uses a Gun to Pass a Check(00:35:42) - Immobilization of Threatened People(00:38:44) - What Happens When a Strong Black Woman Crumbles?(00:43:04) - Janaya On The Need For Help(00:46:51) - Black Women on Being Independent(00:52:12) - Invisible Systems of Our Country(00:58:39) - Everyone Is Only $5 Away From Saying, Hey, Brother,(01:04:41) - What Part of Forever Made Me Cry?(01:07:32) - Will Smith in 'Took Your Boy Out'(01:10:55) - Relationship Status: When You Should Have Called the Police
Podcast reviews
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P. Haze 2021/10/28
Keeps me laughing and smh lol
I enjoy the podcast, everyone’s perspective and personality. It’s one host, I think it’s CL that I can always count on to go left when everyone’s goin...
thediaryofkey 2021/02/28
🔑
I look forward to hearing CL have a totally different opinion week to week from his cohosts . lol extremely entertaining and I find myself yelling b...
Kantoinette_theblogger 2020/09/24
Topics and energy
This show never fails to zone in on not only relatable topics but relatable perspectives as well. You can’t go wrong with becoming a listener of this ...
PerfectlyFlawed0109 2020/09/18
Love the show!!
I enjoy the perspective of daily relationship issues from females and males. It’s gives insight from both sides and throws in some comedy.
Black Golden Girls 2020/07/16
Great Content
I Enjoy The Conversation! One Of The Guys Get On My Nerves! Lol I’m Always Arguing Back With Him But I Haven’t Learned The Different Voices 😩😂 Keep ...
Blac Brother 2020/06/02
Expectations
Very entertaining! Very enlightening! Very informative!
Scholar212 2020/05/17
Raw, Real and Relevant
Each episode I’ve listened to has delivered relevant content that most anyone can relate to, real issues that everyone can talk about, and raw dialogu...
B Pearson 2020/04/14
So entertaining
I always catch myself talking back to the hosts. Very engaging. Keep em coming..
HelloandNo 2020/01/20
Excellent
Love this show. Always keeps me interested and always look forward to new episodes.
-Tabby from Your New Best Friends podcast
neneterri 2020/01/01
Great Show
I heard about Defy Life through Thomas Stephens at the school we both taught in and I saw that Alana was on the show so I HAD to listen in again! Grea...
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