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In this episode of the Healthy Love Healing Podcast, Niajae shares vulnerably about her fears around ruffling feathers when speaking openly about the abuse women have endured and how to recognize misogyny. After a series of difficult dating experiences, she attends a Tantra Speed Dating event that genuinely impressed her, and shares her honest reflections and takeaways from the experience. This episode explores discernment, self-trust, and what it looks like to stay open while honoring your boundaries and values. The Healthy Love Healing Method™ is rooted in cultivating deeper self-love and connection through emotional intelligence, because we are worthy of healthy love. Follow the podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healthylovehealingpodcast Download the Healthy Love Healing App: Available in your app store or visit https://healthylovehealing.com

What is misogyny, and how is it silently shaping modern dating and relationships? In this episode, Niajae breaks down the three layers of misogyny (subtle, benevolent, and overt), how they impact women's nervous systems, boundaries, and ability to experience Healthy Love. She shares the signs every woman must know to protect her emotional, physical, and energetic safety. This conversation also explores internalized misogyny, how patriarchal conditioning shows up in relationships, and what emotionally mature, safe men actually look like. Because we cannot create Healthy Love when misogyny is present. In This Episode, We Cover: The three layers of misogyny and how to recognize them Why subtle and benevolent misogyny are the most dangerous Signs to watch for in dating and relationships How internalized misogyny shows up in women What emotionally safe, regulated men actually embody Things mentioned: •Book Mentioned: Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them •Instagram Post Referenced: Man who put money in his wifes personal savings account https://www.instagram.com/reel/DP4ohmXjPRW/?igsh=OWZ2OGZiNHVxMjJ4 •Take the Quiz: Have You Internalized Misogyny?  healthylovehealing.com

Shame is one of the biggest barriers to connection, intimacy, and emotional safety. In this episode, Niajae explores how shame distorts the way we show up in relationships, causing us to shrink, overcompensate, hide parts of ourselves, or avoid vulnerability, and how releasing shame creates more space for honesty, openness, and genuine closeness. You'll learn why facing your own shame is essential before holding space for a partner, how shame creates cycles of disconnection, and what becomes possible when shame no longer drives the dynamic. This episode covers: How shame activates the ego and blocks intimacy The ways shame causes us to hide desires, needs, and insecurities What shifts when shame dies in a relationship Why self-acceptance reduces judgment toward your partner How to create a relationship environment where shame cannot thrive This episode is for anyone who wants a deeper, more conscious relationship built on emotional safety, compassion, and true intimacy. You'll walk away with insight into how releasing shame opens the door to healthier love. Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/niajae https://www.instagram.com/healthylovehealingpodcast Download the Healthy Love Healing App in the iOS or Google Play store or visit https://healthylovehealing.com

Conflict doesn't mean a relationship is unhealthy. What matters is how we navigate the conflict and how we repair. In this episode, Niajae breaks down the art of repair by exploring the language that disconnects versus the language that deepens connection. You'll hear a step-by-step process for navigating conflict with self-awareness, as well as practical examples of what to say and what not to say when tensions arise. This episode covers: Language that disconnects partners How to check your nervous system before responding A step-by-step process for grounding, curiosity, and compassion A mirror list of language that cultivates connection Why repair is less about agreement and more about understanding Topics Covered 1. Check Your Nervous System First Repair starts with self-awareness. If you notice defensiveness, frustration, disappointment, or reactivity, pause before engaging. 2. Get Curious Curiosity creates space for understanding rather than defensiveness. Asking questions helps partners feel seen and heard. 3. Have Compassion Compassion allows space for both experiences to be valid. You don't have to agree to acknowledge how someone feels. 4. Cultivate Connection When we combine self-awareness, curiosity, and compassion, we create the environment for repair. Connection leads to healthy love. This episode is a guide for anyone wanting to communicate more consciously and repair more effectively during conflict. You'll walk away with practical language tools that create connection instead of disconnection, and a deeper understanding of what healthy repair looks like. Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/niajae https://www.instagram.com/healthylovehealingpodcast Download the Healthy Love Healing App in the iOS or GooglePlay store or for more information go to https://healthylovehealing.com

Do you find yourself in relationships where you give everything and still feel unseen or unfulfilled? Or maybe you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, no matter how much healing you've done. In this episode of The Healthy Love Healing Podcast, Niajae dives into how the mother wound can quietly shape who we choose, how we love, and what we tolerate in relationships. You'll learn what a mother wound really is (it's not just about having an absent mom), how it manifests in your love life, and what it takes to heal those early attachment patterns so you can finally experience healthy, mutual, nourishing love. In This Episode, We Explore: •What the "mother wound" really means — and how it can exist even if your mom was present. •The subtle ways the mother wound shows up in romantic connections. •Why we're often attracted to people who don't choose or nurture us. •How emotional unavailability, criticism, or neglect in childhood become familiar templates for love. •The link between the mother wound and people-pleasing, overgiving, or staying in painful relationships. •How to start healing your mother wound through awareness, reparenting, and nervous system regulation. Key Takeaways: The need to be chosen often stems from not feeling emotionally chosen by your mother. We unconsciously recreate familiar dynamics, even painful ones, because they feel safe to our nervous system. Healing means learning to nurture yourself the way you always needed to be nurtured. Healthy love requires emotional safety, reciprocity, and self-worth, not performance or perfection.   Let's Connect: Healing Love Healing Instagram https://www.instagram.com/healthylovehealing Download the Healthy Love Healing App in Google Play or iOS or go here for more information https://healthylovehealing.com

In order to understand what healthy love is, we first have to identify what it is not. In this episode of the Healthy Love Healing Podcast, Niajae breaks down the red flags and subtle signs of toxic relationships, and more importantly, why we stay even when we know it's not healthy. You'll learn: •The difference between clear red flags and subtle emotional toxicity •The five core reasons people stay in toxic relationships •How regulating your nervous system helps you build the strength to leave •Steps to reconnect with your body, set boundaries, and rebuild your self-worth This episode is an invitation to stop abandoning your peace and wellbeing for connection and start cultivating Healthy Love. Reflection Prompts: After spending time with this person, do I feel safe, seen, and supported? Or small, anxious, and confused? Am I loving this person for who they are, or for who I hope they'll become? Mentioned Tools: Somatic practices: sound baths, journaling, meditation, grounding Nervous system regulation and embodiment Therapy and trauma-informed healing spaces Download the Healthy Love Healing App in the Google Play or iOS store, or find more information here https://healthylovehealing.com/ Follow me on Instagram @Niajae @HealthyLoveHealing  For Self-Love Journal Prompts follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@niajaewallace

Season 6 Premiere | Formerly The Abundance Hack Podcast Welcome to Season 6, and welcome to the Healthy Love Healing Podcast! 💜 In this episode, I'm celebrating a new chapter and sharing the foundation of everything we'll explore this season: The 4 Pillars of the Healthy Love Healing Method™. This method was born from years of personal healing, research, and working with clients through emotional intelligence, communication, and somatic practices. These 4 pillars are the roadmap to creating healthy connections, within ourselves and with others. In this episode, we'll explore: The inspiration behind the rebrand from Abundance Hack to Healthy Love Healing The 4 Pillars of the Healthy Love Healing Method™ and how they support your transformation What to expect this season, from healing conversations to embodied practices Whether you've been part of the community for years or you're joining for the first time, this episode will help you reconnect with your purpose, deepen your self-awareness, and remember that you are worthy of healthy love. Mentioned in this episode: Download the Healthy Love Healing App on iOS or Google Play for exclusive meditations, journal prompts, and healing tools Follow along on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/healthylovehealingpodcast for updates and inspiration

The Final Episode of The Abundance Hack Podcast — Season 5 Finale This episode marks the end of an era and the beginning of a new one. After 249 episodes, The Abundance Hack Podcast is coming to a close, but the message, the mission, and the evolution continue. In this deeply personal and reflective episode, I speak from the heart about the last 6–7 years of my life, the highs, the heartbreaks, and the moments that shaped me. Through loss, challenges, and deep healing, I found something priceless: myself. Authenticity has a cost. It asks you to shed illusions, release what no longer aligns, and stand rooted in your truth, even when it means standing alone. But the reward is freedom, peace, and alignment with your purpose. This is my goodbye (for now) to The Abundance Hack Podcast as I prepare to step into a new chapter, one that reflects the woman, teacher, and healer I've become. Season 6 will be reborn under a new name, a new energy, and a deeper embodiment of everything I've learned on this journey. Thank you for walking this path with me, for growing, healing, and expanding together. Here's to what's next. 💜 In this epsiode I dive into: ✨ The truth about what authenticity really costs ✨ How loss and hardship led me home to myself ✨ The behind-the-scenes of my healing and evolution ✨ What's next for the podcast and this next chapter Connect with me and my businesses: 💜 Instagram: @niajae https://www.instagram.com/niajae 💜 Explore the Healthy Love Healing App: https://healthylovehealing.com 💜 Learn more about Somatic Sound Therapy™: https://soundtherapynetwork.com  

Our teenage years were the bridge between innocence and identity, the time we began to discover who we are, what we believe, and how we express ourselves. For many of us, our teenage self still carries pain, shame, rebellion, or unmet needs that quietly shape how we show up in love, confidence, and emotional regulation today. In this episode of AbundanceHack, we dive deep into healing our inner teenager, the version of us who wanted to be seen, accepted, and free to express our truth. I share eight powerful reasons why healing our inner teenager is one of the most transformational things we can do for our emotional and relational wellbeing. Together, we explore how this healing work helps us: Stop abandoning ourselves when we feel misunderstood Reclaim our authentic voice Soften rebellion into grounded self-trust Release shame Improve relationships and emotional regulation Reconnect with passion, creativity, and joy Break generational patterns of silencing Make peace with both our sensitivity and our strength This is an episode to feel, not just listen to. Niajae shares stories, reflections, and gentle reminders that we are allowed to take up space, to feel deeply, and to express our truth without fear. If this topic resonates with you, there's a mini course inside the Healthy Love Healing App that guides us through a full Healing Our Inner Teenager journey, with journal prompts, somatic practices, and sound meditations to support our integration process. Mentioned in This Episode Mini Course: Healing Our Inner Teenager in the Healthy Love Healing App App Download: Download the Healthy Love Healing App Follow Niajae on Instagram: @Niajae | @HealthyLoveHealing More About My Work: www.blisswellnesstampa.com Key Themes Inner child vs. inner teenager healing Emotional integration and authenticity Somatic and sound-based healing tools Reclaiming our confidence, voice, and identity

In this episode of the Abundance Hack Podcast, I share how my nervous system found deeper regulation when I started distancing myself from ambivalent relationships and connections. When you're in connections where you have to walk on eggshells, shrink yourself, or perform just to feel safe, your body lives in fight, flight, freeze, or more often, fawn. Fawning is when we shrink, shift, and appease to be liked, accepted or to avoid rejection. I'll share my personal journey of realizing how these dynamics kept me in hypervigilance, how I learned to recognize ambivalence in relationships (when words and actions don't align, or when "support" feels condescending or competitive), and how choosing distance created space for my intuition, authenticity, and nervous system healing. You'll also hear why inner work alone isn't enough if you're still in environments that keep you on edge, and how grounding relationships, the ones where you can be fully yourself, messy and all, are essential for nervous system safety and true abundance. Mentions in the episode-  •Inner Alarm Podcast Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/1gqQbQr3V76fbMuJzdi73w?si=ChpZltQrT-G4UDRmnosLgQ •Inner Circle Journal Prompts Want to go deeper? Inside the Healthy Love Healing App, you'll find Inner Circle Journal Prompts designed to help you get intentional about who you surround yourself with and where you invest your time and energy. The people closest to us shape our future. Download the app, enroll in the EMPOWER membership, and look for the section called Inner Circle to start aligning with connections that feel safe, supported, and authentic. Follow me on Instagram @Niajae https://www.instagram.com/niajae/  

Welcome to Abundance Hack, the podcast where we dive deep into alchemy, embodiment, and navigating life's challenges to create gold. In this powerful episode, host Niajae explores why dating has become more challenging as we've become more empowered and embodied, and what it truly takes to love an empowered woman in today's shifting landscape. As traditional relationship paradigms crumble, women are reclaiming their autonomy and men are recalibrating their roles. Niajae breaks down six transformative ways to cultivate healthy love with an empowered partner, from doing inner work and redefining masculinity to embracing vulnerability, deep listening, and building your partner up. If you're ready for honest, actionable insights on love, relationships, and self-growth, you won't want to miss this inspiring conversation. Tune in to discover how empowerment, curiosity, compassion, and emotional safety set the stage for the most powerful and magnetic relationships.   Loving an empowered woman starts with doing the inner work. The Healthy Love Healing App™ offers shadow work for both men and women, helping you build self-awareness, release old patterns, and cultivate the foundation for healthy, lasting love. Download it in your app store or learn more here: https://healthylovehealing.com Let's stay connected! Follow me on Instagram @Niajae for daily insights and inspiration on healing, embodiment, and creating healthy love. https://instagram.com/niajae  

Episode 245 – What Does Having It All Mean to You? When we peel back the layers of what we've been told we should want, from our parents, society, and even what we think we're worthy of, what do we truly desire? And do we actually believe it's possible to 'have it all'? In this episode, I explore what "having it all" really means, why our definition of success may not actually be ours, and how to reconnect with what feels aligned for you. I also share some life updates and open up about what having it all looks like in my own life right now. You'll hear about: ✨ How to strip away outside influence to discover your true desires ✨ Why redefining "having it all" is essential for fulfillment ✨ My personal reflections and life updates on creating a life that feels good inside and out ✨ Questions to help you uncover what you really want, and give yourself permission to claim it This is your reminder that having it all is subjective, and you get to define what it means for you. Download the Healthy Love Healing App in you app store. For more information go to https://healthylovehealing.com Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/niajae  

Episode 244 – Having It All with Kaley Gay Eckersdorff Can you really have it all? A thriving business, a passionate marriage, motherhood, and still show up bold, radiant, and fully YOU? In this episode, I'm joined by the magnetic Kaley Gay Eckersdorff, one of the powerhouse owners behind Aerial Dragons, a dynamic aerial studio and performance company. Kaley shares how she gracefully (and hilariously) navigates entrepreneurship, marriage, and motherhood, all while staying deeply embodied and unapologetically fabulous. We talk about: What "having it all" looks like on your own terms Balancing business, babies, and bold self-expression Kaley's enchanting love story (you'll be laughing and swooning!) The importance of staying true to yourself, even if it makes others uncomfortable Kaley is a force. She's a storyteller, a truth-teller, and a reminder that women don't have to shrink to fit in. You're going to walk away from this episode inspired, uplifted, and more confident in your ability to design a life that lights you up. This is your permission slip to have it all, and enjoy every minute of it.   Follow Aerial Dragons on Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/aerialdragons   Ready to attract healthy love and deepen your connection to yourself?  Download the Healthy Love Healing App and receive a free guided meditation + journal prompts to support your journey into confidence, courage, and embodiment. This app is designed to help you: 💗 Build unshakable self-love 💗 Heal emotional wounds at the root 💗 Step into the most empowered version of yourself 💗 Attract aligned, healthy relationships You deserve love that feels safe, fulfilling, and true, starting with the love you give yourself. Available now on Google Play & the App Store Search: Healthy Love Healing

We always hear "live intentionally", but what does that really mean in a world filled with distractions, expectations, and burnout? In this solo episode, Niajae revisits the concept of Life Buckets from Episode 10 (way back in 2019!) and shares a powerful update on how this framework has evolved with her personal growth and the changing times. She walks through her current life buckets, what's full, what's empty, and how she's redistributing her energy now that she's accepted the possibility that marriage and children may or may not be part of her journey. It's an honest, grounded look at how we can design a fulfilling life based on our values, not society's expectations. In this episode, you'll learn: What life buckets are and how to use them for intentional living How to assess and redistribute your energy when buckets are empty Why journaling and mindfulness are key to fulfillment How to deal with energy vampires that deplete your self-bucket Why it's okay for your version of a full life to look different from others' Resources Mentioned: Healthy Love Healing App – https://healthylovehealing.com 7-day free trial with meditations, shadow work, and journal prompts Connect with Niajae: Instagram: @niajae - https://instagram.com/niajae Send her a DM with your life buckets or one you're adding to your own list 💜

Welcome back to the Abundance Hack Podcast, where we dive deep into the alchemy of turning life's challenges into gold and the magic of true embodiment. In this follow-up to a previous, thought-provoking episode, host Niajae sits down once again with sacred intimacy coach Cheri' Calico to explore the nuanced layers of modern relationships. After stirring up some intense reactions last time, they're here to go even deeper, unpacking topics like the resurgence of traditionalism, the real meaning behind the "soft life" trend, and the disconnects that arise between men's and women's expectations in relationships. Through candid conversations, Niajae and Cheri' tackle everything from emotional safety, the survival-based dynamics many couples unconsciously operate in, to the ways unchecked childhood wounds, especially around the mother archetype, can impact partnership today. They also discuss powerful tools like relationship agreements, inspired by practices in the kink and non-monogamy communities, and highlight the importance of clarity, healthy conflict resolution, and upholding authenticity on both sides. Whether you're curious about reparenting your inner child, identifying dysfunction loops, or learning how to create a sacred union, this episode is packed with insights, actionable advice, and plenty of soul. Get ready to challenge old beliefs and open your mind to healthier, more connected ways of loving. Get in touch with Cheri' https://bit.ly/ConnectwithCheri Follow her on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/chericalico   Ready to reparent your inner child and become an emotionally safe partner? The Healthy Love Healing App offers guided meditations, journal prompts, inner child healing, shadow work, and so much more to support your emotional growth and healing journey. 💜 Start your 7-day free trial today at https://healthylovehealing.com/