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2019/03/13
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2026/04/20
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9 min.
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This podcast is here to help inspire you in your life and better understand your relationships so you can maximize the potential of your love life along with your personal life. What you will find here is dating, relationship, and life advice from your host along with some amazing interviews with some pretty amazing experts!
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Entitled Woman Does This! (And How to Know if Your Dating One!)
2026/04/20
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
Entitled Woman Does This! (And How to Know if You're Dating One!)
In this podcast episode with Apollonia Ponti, we break down entitled behavior in modern dating — and how to recognize if you're dealing with it! From the difference between healthy standards and a sense of superiority to how entitlement shows up in real-life dating scenarios, this podcast dives into what these behaviors actually mean.
You'll learn the subtle signs many men overlook, how online dating can reinforce certain mindsets, and why recognizing entitlement early can save you time and energy. Apollonia also explains how to respond without losing your confidence, and why setting boundaries is key to maintaining respect.
If you want to better understand dating dynamics, avoid one-sided situations, and approach relationships with clarity and confidence, this episode gives you the insight and mindset shifts you need!
Key points in this episode!
0:37 — Men Need to Hear This—Clearing the Confusion 1:13 — Standards vs. Superiority—What's the Difference? 2:36 — Why Some Women Come Off as Superior 3:37 — Online Dating Example—How It Shows Up 4:32 — Entitlement Signs Men Often Ignore 5:00 — Sign #2—A Subtle but Important Clue 5:42 — Sign #4—What It Really Reveals 6:49 — What To Do When You Notice the Attitude Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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Why Women Test Men — and What They're Really Looking For!
2026/04/13
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
In this episode with Apollonia Ponti, we break down Why Women Test Men — and What They're Really Looking For! From subtle, unplanned emotional tests to early relationship thinking, this podcast dives into the real reasons behind these behaviors and what they actually mean.
You'll learn how respect is built through consistency and boundaries, why love bombing can backfire, and how handling emotional tension without reacting is a true sign of leadership. Apollonia also explains how developing emotional control builds integrity over time—and why that's key to long-term attraction.
If you want to better understand relationship dynamics, stop seeking validation, and show up with confidence and purpose, this episode gives you the insight and practical mindset shifts you need.
Key points in this episode!
0:34 – Why Women Test Men 1:07 – Unplanned Emotional Tests 2:04 – Thinking About Relationships Early 3:27 – How to Earn Respect 4:14 – Love Bombing & Emotional Fixing 5:18 – Handling Tension = Leadership 6:01 – Building Integrity Through Control 7:03 – Secret Tip #2 Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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The Truth About What Women Say vs. What They Actually Choose (THE GOOD MAN TRAP)
2026/04/06
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
The Truth About What Women Say vs. What They Actually Choose (THE GOOD MAN TRAP)
In this podcast episode, we dive into a conversation that challenges a common belief: if you're a good man, things should naturally work out. But what happens when the traits that define a "good man" aren't always what create attraction?
Apollonia Ponti explores the disconnect between what women say they want and what they emotionally choose. She breaks down how trauma bonding, validation-seeking, and emotional familiarity can shape relationship decisions, even when a stable and grounded partner is present. Many men find themselves confused when their consistency and kindness don't lead to deeper connection, and this episode examines why that happens.
This discussion also covers the validation addiction that can be mistaken for love, what often occurs when a genuinely good man enters the picture, and why rejection doesn't always mean you weren't enough. Apollonia explains how to interpret statements like "I just want peace," and what a grounded response looks like without over-pursuing or losing self-respect.
The conversation offers a clearer perspective on the "good man trap," helping men understand attraction dynamics, avoid emotional overinvestment, and focus on building healthier, more balanced relationships!
Key points in this episode!
0:32 — Why Women Think They Want a Good Man 1:18 — What Makes a Man "Good"? 2:17 — Trauma Bonding in Relationships 3:46 — The Validation Addiction 4:32 — When a Good Man Shows Up 5:30 — It's Not Always That You Weren't Enough 6:07 — When a Woman Says She Wants Peace. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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How To Spot An Avoidant Woman! (How A Grounded Man Should Respond)
2026/03/30
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
How To Spot An Avoidant Woman! (How A Grounded Man Should Respond)
In this podcast episode, we dive into a conversation many men quietly struggle with: how to recognize an avoidant woman and respond without losing your confidence or emotional stability.
Apollonia Ponti explores the subtle behaviors that often signal avoidant attachment, including mixed signals, emotional distance, and inconsistency. She explains how independence can sometimes be confused with emotional unavailability, and why many men end up chasing harder when they feel a woman pulling away.
This episode breaks down the common mistakes men make when dealing with avoidant behavior, why over-pursuing creates more distance, and how a grounded man maintains boundaries while staying calm and self-assured. Apollonia also discusses the importance of emotional pacing, recognizing red flags early, and understanding when to lean in versus when to step back.
The conversation offers a balanced perspective on navigating avoidant dynamics, encouraging men to stay centered, communicate clearly, and build healthier connections instead of reacting emotionally to uncertainty.
Key points in this episode!
0:33 — Why High Standards Are Attractive. How strong standards signal confidence and self-respect. 1:25 — What High Standards Look Like. A quick example of standards in behavior and boundaries. 2:07 — Why Some Women Act Above You. Apollonia explains the psychology behind this perception. 3:14 — The Misuse of Content. How online content consumption hurts your dating mindset. 4:41 — Weaponizing Status and Money. Why leading with money or status backfires. 6:11 — The Hard Truth Men Need to Hear. A direct message about growth and responsibility Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach
Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/
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Men Are Being Lied To About Women! "The Advice Making Men Bitter (Not Better)"
2026/03/23
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
Men Are Being Lied To About Women! "The Advice Making Men Bitter (Not Better)"
In this podcast episode, we dive into a conversation that's gaining attention: are men actually improving themselves, or are they being misled by dating advice that's making them more bitter instead of better?
Apollonia Ponti explores the contradictions men hear when trying to level up and how unrealistic examples can create confusion, frustration, and resentment. From the belief that money automatically improves dating outcomes to the pressure to gain endless experience, many men are following advice that doesn't lead to healthier relationships.
This episode breaks down the flawed logic behind misleading dating narratives, why some men online feel increasingly angry toward women, and whether relationship experience truly matters. Apollonia also discusses how abundance can become addictive, why financial success alone doesn't guarantee connection, and why feelings don't always follow agreement.
The conversation offers a more balanced perspective on modern dating, encouraging men to rethink what growth actually looks like and how to build better relationship mindsets — not just chase surface-level improvements.
Key points in this episode!
0:33 — This segment is for men focused on leveling up and improving themselves. 1:28 — One of the biggest contradictions men hear in dating, and an explanation of what it really means. 2:15 — What happens when men take advice from false or unrealistic examples. 3:02 — The key idea men need to understand about relationships. 4:23 — The logic behind misleading dating advice. 5:01 — The "money piece": why financial success doesn't automatically lead to better relationship outcomes 6:08 — Why many men online seem frustrated or angry toward women. 7:08 — Whether relationship experience is actually important. 8:44 — How abundance can lead to addiction-like behavior. 9:41 — Why feelings don't always follow agreement. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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Why Men Don't Feel Safe to Love Women Anymore. Men Aren't Cold… They're Guarded!
2026/03/16
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
Why Men Don't Feel Safe to Love Women Anymore. Men Aren't Cold… They're Guarded!
In this episode, we dive into a conversation that's becoming more common but rarely discussed openly: why many men say they no longer feel safe to love. Are men becoming cold, or have they simply become more guarded?
Apollonia Pont will explore how modern dating culture, emotional vulnerability, and the pressure to perform in relationships have shaped how men approach love today. From the fear of weaponized vulnerability to the "option mindset" created by dating apps and social media, many men feel that opening up emotionally can backfire.
This episode breaks down why some men hold back, how good men can become guarded over time, and what it really means when a man says he doesn't feel emotionally safe. More importantly, we talk about what healthy vulnerability and stronger mindsets can look like in modern relationships.
Men aren't cold — they're protecting themselves. Let's talk about why!
Key points in this episode!
0:34 — Are men really afraid of love? Let's talk about what's actually going on. 1:08 — When a man says "I don't feel safe," here's what he might really mean. 2:10 — Weaponized vulnerability: what it is and how it shows up in relationships. 4:01 — Why modern dating can start to feel like a performance. 5:13 — The "option mindset" and how it's changing the dating scene. 6:11 — Why good men sometimes become guarded over time. 7:22 — What men can do to build a stronger mindset in dating and relationships. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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Masculine vs Feminine Energy! (Why this is So Important to get the Woman You Want!)
2026/03/09
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
In this podcast episode, we explore the deeper truth behind why so many modern relationships struggle to last. Apollonia ponti will break down the hidden dynamic that often goes unnoticed: the loss of balance between masculine and feminine energy.
You'll learn how modern dating culture, emotional safety, and the "option mindset" can slowly erode trust, connection, and attraction. We also discuss why many good men become guarded over time, why relationships today can feel more like a performance, and how mismatched expectations between partners create distance rather than intimacy.
Most importantly, we uncover the #1 reason modern relationships fail—and what both partners can do to restore polarity, emotional security, and genuine connection. If you've ever wondered why dating feels more complicated today, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and practical perspective for building a stronger, more conscious partnership.
Key points in this episode!
0:34 — Why Men Aren't Actually Afraid of Love 1:11 — What It Really Means When a Man Says He Doesn't Feel Safe 2:07 — The Biggest Reasons Men Don't Feel Emotionally Safe With Women 3:21 — Coach Call Advertisement: Book a Call with Apollonia 4:05 — How Modern Dating Has Turned Into a Performance 5:16 — The "Option Mindset" and How It Affects Relationships 6:40 — Why Good Men Become Guarded Over Time (And How to Unlearn It) 7:03 — Why Looking for the Right Traits in a Partner Matters Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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#1 Reason Why Modern Relationships FAIL! (Don't Let this happen to You!)
2026/02/09
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
#1 Reason Why Modern Relationships FAIL! (Don't Let this happen to You!)
In this episode, we explore the deeper truth behind why so many modern relationships struggle to last. Inspired by the teachings of Apollonia Ponti, we break down the hidden dynamic that often goes unnoticed: the loss of masculine vs. feminine energy polarity.
You'll learn how shifting social roles, emotional disconnection, and mismatched life vision can quietly weaken attraction and connection over time. Most importantly, we uncover the #1 reason modern relationships fail—and what both partners can do to restore balance, chemistry, and emotional harmony.
If you've ever wondered why relationships feel different today, or how to bring back natural attraction and alignment, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and practical perspective for building a stronger, more conscious partnership!
Key points in this episode!
0:00 – Introduction 0:35 – Why Modern Relationships Are Failing 1:11 – What Happens When Polarity Disappears 2:01 – Why Many Women Feel Pushed Into the Masculine Role 3:15 – Masculine vs. Feminine Energy Explained 4:10 – Common Misunderstandings About Polarity 5:12 – How to Restore Polarity in a Relationship 6:04 – The Power of Sharing the Same Life Vision 6:50 – Closing Reflection Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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5 Reasons Why Men Are Happy Single In 2026!
2026/01/26
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
5 Reasons Why Men Are Happy Single In 2026!
In this podcast episode, we dive into a powerful conversation about modern dating, independence, and why more men are choosing—and thriving—while staying single in 2026.
We explore the deeper psychology behind this shift, including how men are prioritizing mental health, peace, and self-respect over traditional relationship expectations. From the realities of dating apps to the growing expectancy gap, this episode breaks down what's driving men to step back from dating—and why it's not about bitterness, but clarity.
We also unpack the new "mode" men are entering, where personal fulfillment, boundaries, and intentional living take center stage. This conversation sheds light on how modern dynamics are changing and what it really means to be happy, grounded, and fulfilled without forcing relationships!
Key points in this episode!
0:30 – Why men are choosing to stay single in 2026?
1:17 – The five reasons men want to stay single!
2:12 – Reason #2: Men's mental health and protecting their peace!
3:48 – Reason #3: The dating app reality?
4:44 – Reason #4: The expectancy gap?
6:01 – The mode men are entering into?
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When To Walk Away! (This will Lead you to the Right Woman!)
2026/01/12
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
When To Walk Away! (This will lead you to the Right Woman!)
In this podcast episode of the Elevated Man Podcast, Apollonia Ponti dives into a powerful conversation around attraction, communication, and masculine leadership in modern dating.
Apollonia explores the deeper psychology behind how women respond emotionally, why intention and direction matter in communication, and how men often lose attraction without realizing it. She breaks down common mistakes, explains what creates emotional engagement, and shares practical insights on how to show up confidently without forcing outcomes or playing games.
This episode is for men who want clarity, confidence, and a grounded understanding of how attraction actually works—so conversations flow naturally and connection feels effortless!
Key points in this episode!
0:00 — Episode introduction & setting the context 1:10 — Why most men misunderstand attraction and communication 2:45 — The psychology behind emotional engagement 4:20 — Common communication mistakes that lower attraction 6:05 — How intention and leadership change the dynamic 8:10 — Creating confidence without chasing or forcing outcomes 10:00 — Key takeaways and final thoughts Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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3 Texting Formulas To Make Her Chase You Version!
2026/01/05
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
3 Texting Formulas To Make Her Chase You Version!
In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down 3 Texting Formulas To Make Her Chase You and explains why most men unknowingly text in ways that lower attraction. Apollonia reveals what's really happening psychologically when you send her a message—and why her responses are never random.
We explore why texting is a formula, how specific messages influence her emotional engagement, and what a callback text is and why it works so powerfully. Apollonia also explains advanced variation, how to avoid predictable texting patterns, and why leading in conversation creates confidence, direction, and desire.
If you've ever felt stuck overthinking your texts, confused by mixed signals, or frustrated when conversations fade, this episode gives you clarity and proven strategies to text with confidence—without chasing, forcing attraction, or playing games.
Key points in this episode!
0:33 — What it means when you send her a text and she responds this way 1:03 — Why texting follows a formula — Apollonia explains 2:11 — How these messages influence her response and attraction 3:34 — What a callback text is and why it works 5:00 — Advanced variation: what it is and how to use it 6:25 — How leading in texting impacts attraction — Apollonia breaks it down Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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Use this Method of Push and Pull to Get the Woman you WANT! (why this works!)
2025/12/29
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
Use this Method of Push and Pull to Get the Woman you WANT! (why this works!)
In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down what push and pull really means in dating and why this method works so powerfully when done correctly. Apollonia explains the core dynamics behind push and pull and how emotional balance—not chasing or withdrawing—creates attraction.
We explore the five upgraded formulas of high-value push and pull, how to properly compliment and disqualify a woman without lowering your value, and why many men fail by focusing on words instead of energy. Apollonia also explains what happens when push and pull is missing, and how that leads to loss of attraction and emotional disconnection.
Finally, we discuss why push and pull is about emotional presence, confidence, and self-control rather than manipulation or games. Apollonia shares real-life examples you can apply immediately to create attraction naturally and consistently.
If you've ever felt confused about when to lean in or pull back, this episode gives you clarity, confidence, and a healthier understanding of how attraction truly works.
Key points in this episode!
0:43 — What really happens when you don't use push and pull in dating
1:42 — What is the push-and-pull dynamic? Apollonia breaks it down
2:35 — The five upgraded formulas of high-value push and pull
3:26 — How to properly compliment and disqualify her (without losing attraction)
5:00 — Real-life examples of how to apply push and pull correctly
6:35 — Why push and pull is about energy, not words — Apollonia explains
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Understanding Dark Psychology of Women! (How to get any woman you want using this!)
2025/12/22
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
Understanding Dark Psychology of Women! (How to get any woman you want using this!)
In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down what dark psychology really means in dating and how subtle psychological triggers influence attraction. Apollonia explains the core dynamics behind emotional variability and why understanding these patterns can completely change the way women respond to you.
We explore why men who have female friends and strong social circles often appear more attractive, how mixed-gender environments elevate perceived value, and the powerful role emotional variability plays in maintaining interest. Apollonia also contrasts healthy push-and-pull with flatline behavior, helping you recognize what builds attraction versus what quietly kills it.
Finally, we discuss scarcity in dating, the Laws of Vision, and what actually happens when you become emotionally and energetically scarce in the right way. Apollonia shares how to apply these concepts without manipulation—so attraction grows naturally through confidence, clarity, and self-respect.
If you've ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure why attraction fades, this episode offers insight, strategy, and a deeper understanding of the psychology that drives modern dating!
Key points in this episode!
1:15 – What is Dark Psychology? Apollonia breaks down the core psychological triggers. 2:17 – Why women are often more attracted to men who have female friends. 3:33 – How mixed-gender social groups positively influence men's perceived value. 4:17 – Emotional Variability: what it is and why it matters in attraction. 5:36 – A real client example of Emotional Variability in action. 6:48 – What healthy push-and-pull actually looks like. 7:21 – Emotional Variability vs. Flatline behavior: key differences explained. 8:22 – The scarcity mindset in dating—and how it affects attraction. 9:26 – The Laws of Vision: why this principle is so powerful. 10:37 – What really happens when you become scarce. 11:16 – How to apply scarcity the right way. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
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The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!)
2025/12/15
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!)
In this episode Apollonia Ponti , we break down the painful emotional experiences many men face in dating—and how to ensure it doesn't happen to you. Apollonia explains why women pull away and what's truly happening beneath the surface when emotional distance appears.
We explore the difference between low-value and high-value responses, highlighting why chasing, overreacting, or losing focus often pushes women further away. You'll learn what a high-value man does when she pulls away, why keeping your purpose first is essential, and how emotional control strengthens attraction.
Finally, we discuss what happens when a high-value man pulls away and later returns—and why this shift often leads to greater respect, confidence, and stronger connection.
If you've ever felt confused or hurt when someone you care about suddenly becomes distant, this episode offers clarity, direction, and a healthier mindset for navigating modern dating.
Key points in this episode!
0:33 - The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!) 1:22 - Why do women pull away? Apollonia explains why. 2:12 - How most men respond to these situations. Low vs High value men. 3:03 - What high-value man does when she pulls away? 4:27 - They keep their purpose first. 5:16 - Why happens when a high-value man pulls away and comes back? Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.
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5 Phrases That Make You Look Desperate! (She STOPPED Texting)
2025/12/08
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti
5 Phrases That Make You Look Desperate! (She STOPPED texting)
In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down five subtle phrases that instantly kill attraction, even when your intentions are good. From comments that create pressure to lines that reveal hidden insecurity, these phrases explain why women pull back, act distant, or stop responding altogether. Apollonia helps you understand how certain words shift the dynamic, signal neediness, and lower a woman's interest without you realizing it.
Apollonia explains why each phrase damages the connection, what it triggers emotionally in women, and how small adjustments in communication can completely change the way women respond to you. With clear guidance and real-world examples, this episode shows you how to communicate from a place of confidence, value, and grounded masculine energy.
If you want women to respect you more, stay attracted, and feel safe leaning into their feminine energy—rather than pulling away—this episode is for you!
Key points in this episode!
0:31 - She passes the soft no test, but you texted her, and she stops texting. What happened?!
1:08 - Why specific phrases kill attraction for women! Apollonia will break down which ones
1:31 - The first phrase.
2:22 - The second phrase
3:47 - The third phrase
4:22 - The fourth phase.
5:15 - The fifth phase. Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!
"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.
Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:
Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en
Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach
Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/
Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
dating with intention, high value man, masculine energy, men's dating advice, confidence in dating, emotional control, Apollonia Ponti, The Elevated Man Podcast, dating tips for men, relationship coaching
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ralphvange 2024/04/24
Worth listening to
I enjoy listening to Apo’s pod cast as they tend to be on point with advice and suggestions.
Taraoke9876543 2024/02/29
Keep up the great work!
I love the intro music and intro vocals!! Ponti’s voice — both her literal voice and her figurative voice — is clear, warm and real. Keep up the great...
JeepinDon 2023/10/25
Truly A Game Changer
I’m a thankful that I found Apollonia’s podcast. I can tell from the information presented in this podcast she cares for men, our personal relationsh...
Quiet Storm @ Julian 2023/09/16
AP is the truth!
AP is honest, sincere, & passionate. I look forward to her new material. It’s always refreshing and humbling.
Plus she and her female host are hot.
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Steve joy and success 2023/09/03
The best
Of all the dating and relationships coaches, Apollonia is one of the best and most thorough.
J. Ibarra 2023/08/22
If you’re a man, listen to this podcast
So many valuable gems found in Apollonia’s content. I wish I would’ve known this stuff 20 years ago! It’s ok, because Im learning it now. Listen and L...
flipco homes 2023/08/21
Amazing podcast
Love to hear all the amazing advice each week when a new podcast is released. Definitely a podcast worth listening to!
cbc273 2021/11/30
Great Podcast
Love this podcast. Great to hear a podcast directed towards men about dating and relationships. My favorite part is realizing I did all the things you...
tslyjr 2021/06/01
Motivational!
Excellent podcast. Always a great topic with information and lessons to be learned and internally reflected.
dannyalane 2021/06/05
Questionable advice
She talks about a man who was insecure with a woman who didn’t text him back for 2 days. Lol…umm who wouldn’t be insecure about that?? Yes he made mis...
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