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In this episode, we get real about why so many people aren’t having sex and why that doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you or your relationship. I break down five common reasons intimacy fades, including lack of communication, avoiding vulnerability, unspoken resentment, waiting to feel “in the mood,” and simply not prioritizing connection. This episode is honest, validating, and grounded in what I see every day as a sex and relationship therapist, with the goal of helping you better understand what’s actually getting in the way of desire and how to start rebuilding intimacy.   New episodes drop weekly!   Sign up for my online class here You can now watch the full video podcast on YouTube! Let's get social: Website / Instagram / YouTube Please make sure to subscribe and rate my podcast!

We are back! We are motivated! We are talking about Heated Rivalry! In this episode: - I will talk about my obsession with Heated Rivalry. - Explore why representation matters for athletes and queer folx. - Explore the sex, duh! - Explain why this kind of content resonates with women.  New episodes drop weekly!   Sign up for my online class here You can now watch the full video podcast on YouTube! Let's get social: Website / Instagram / YouTube Please make sure to subscribe and rate my podcast!

I wanted to talk a little bit about polyamory today specifically, why you don’t have to be afraid of it. We poly folx are not here to get you and turn your partners into poly monsters who crave multiple partners. Lol. Today I wanted to focus on a few reasons why people don't need to fear this perfectly health relationship style.  Website and Socials below: Website: www.clevelandsextherapy.com Instagram: @clevelandsextherapy YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@clevelandsextherapy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/clevelandsextherapy    Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

Emily Nagoski created an amazing analogy to describe how we learn our sexuality.    Website and Socials below: Website: www.clevelandsextherapy.com Instagram: @clevelandsextherapy YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@clevelandsextherapy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/clevelandsextherapy    Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

Today I wanted to talk about some of my favorite quotes from prolific sex therapists, educators, and researchers. So let’s dive in!    You are not promised time you are promised change  - Emily Nagoski    Emotional intimacy kills passion - Chris Donaghue   Consent changes from moment to moment. - Matt Lachman   Sexual creativity is blocked by social conditioning. - Melissa Walker   Vulnerability is having the courage to show up when you do not know the outcome. - Brene brown   Our partner's sexuality does not belong to us.  - Ester Perel   Anything that takes place between two or more consenting adults is their business - Various    Website and Socials below: Website: www.clevelandsextherapy.com Instagram: @clevelandsextherapy YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@clevelandsextherapy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/clevelandsextherapy    Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

It is really exciting to be back and providing the sex positive content that we all need. I am going to be doing things a little bit differently this time. These first few episodes will be coming straight from my Patreon. They are early access videos for my patrons turned into podcast episodes. After the first three or so, which I have already recorded, the episodes will be slightly more raw and unedited. I want you all to experience how my brain works on these specific topics so instead of spending hours and hours editing, I figured I would just speak truly and authentically from the heart. So here we go!  Today’s topic is a quick one. My top five tips as a sex therapist. What do I tell all my clients.The bread and butter of sex therapy.   Website and Socials below: Website: www.clevelandsextherapy.com Instagram: @clevelandsextherapy YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@clevelandsextherapy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/clevelandsextherapy    Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

And here we go again... I am so happy to be back and providing sex-positive content for all of you wonderful listeners. In this return episode, I thought I would demystify some popular myths regarding intimacy and sexuality. Enjoy! Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @ClevelandSexTherapy and check out my website, www.ClevelandSexTherapy.com for more content and information! Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

Hello Everything! I thought with all the talk of COVID-19, I would dedicate an episode to it! In this episode, I spend some time talking about what to do and not do when it comes to physical intimacy and sexuality, as well as general self-care strategies we can all incorporate! Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and look at my website, www.ClevelandSexTherapy.com for more information! Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

And we are back! This episode I talk about one of my favorite topics in the field of sex and relationship research, Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM). I explore the use of terms like "traditional" and "non-traditional" when we describe relationships, different forms of CNM, and finally barriers to the practice!  Also, stay tuned, as I will have my first interview coming in the next few weeks!  Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and look at my website, www.ClevelandSexTherapy.com for more information! Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

Sex, Here & Now is back! This season you can expect more "sexy" information, new interviews, and as always, more sex positivity!  Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and look at my website, www.ClevelandSexTherapy.com for more information! Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast! Stay tuned!

Hello Everyone! With this being my last episode of the year, I thought I would touch upon some techniques you can incorporate with your partner to help heat up this winter season!  As always, don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and my website, www.sexherenow.com.  Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast! Have a great holiday season and see you in 2020!

Greetings Listeners! This episode, I decided to tackle one of my favorite topics of conversation: Kink Play! I provide an explanation of what a kink is (and isn't), how to support someone who has a kink, and also how to open up to your partner if you have a kink. The world of Kink is fascinating and has many layers so do not expect to know everything about it when the episode is complete. But don't worry, I plan to do many more in the future!  As always, don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and my website, www.sexherenow.com.  Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

This episode is all about the issues surrounding the court cases that were heard by The Supreme Court on Tuesday, 10/8/19. I talk about how (of course) it impacts the members of my community, the LGBTQIA+ community, but also heterosexual individuals as well.  Also, I plan on doing a "Mailbag" episode and answering some questions that you all have! Feel free to direct message me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod. As always, don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and my website, www.sexherenow.com.  Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

This week, I tackle our society's need to degrade other individuals, and also pinpoint specific words and phrases that I think need to be taken back from the world of sex-negativity.  Also, I plan on doing a "Mailbag" episode and answering some questions that you all have! Feel free to direct message me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod. As always, don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and my website, www.sexherenow.com.  Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!

This week, I talk to you about the phenomenon known as Arousal Nonconcordance and the pioneer behind it. Also, a new mini-break about scheduling intimacy!  WARNING: This episode does talk about rape and sexual assault. As always, don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and my website, www.sexherenow.com.  Make sure you like, subscribe, and rate my podcast!