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If you're asking this, it's because something isn't working. Maybe you're arguing more and you're doing your best but you can't figure out the source of the problem. Maybe your partner (or now, ex) has accused you of being toxic and you're racking your brain trying to figure out what you did wrong. In this episode, I take you through what toxic means, and how to identify it (in yourself, and other people). Book a free consult Watch on YouTube Support the show

Friendly reminder here that unsatisfying and boring sex is NOT the norm. Did you know that 10-15% of women have NEVER had an orgasm? 😱 That has to stop.  Today I spoke with Aware Moma, a sex, love, and embodiment coach about why so many of us are settling for lame sex lives. Many of us have what she calls negative sex stories, or assumptions and beliefs that we were taught about sex that aren't healthy, true, and lead us to accept a life without pleasure. We talk about what some of these misconceptions are, how we can change our mindset around sex because unless you have a medical condition, YOU CAN CUM, and CAN have a great sex life. 💦 If you like pleasure, you're definitely going to want to listen.  Contact Moma: https://awaremoma.com/ Instagram: @awaremoma https://awaremoma.com/send-me-a-message-1 Book a session with me: KillingCupid.com/Services Follow Killing Cupid on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/killingcupid__/ Questions, comments, ideas for a show? Hit me up at [email protected] (my emails are for my eyes only) Support the show

Today I'm going doing a Q&A quickie on one of the questions that every person whose ever been with a narcissist has asked- why is it, that even though the relationship was so difficult, and so fraught, they seem to manage to have a better relationship after the breakup?  The answer is, they don't- but they REALLY want you to think they do. Listen up and learn how the cycle of narcissistic relationships makes this all an illusion, and how to break out of the fog. Book a session: KillingCupid.com/Services Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/killingcupid__/ Questions, comments, ideas for a show? Hit me up at [email protected] (my emails are for my eyes only) Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Virginia is a financial freedom fighter and the creator of the Money Project. She's a certified money coach with 20 years of coaching experience under her belt, but she's spent the last 6 years helping women take control of their finances. Money is one of the hardest things for us to talk about- we'll discuss sex, death, and ANYTHING else before we get to our finances. When we know where the money is going, we have control over what to do with it so we can start to create for ourselves, and our lives. In this episode, we talk about how to uncover your own money blockages, rewrite your money story, and even how to enjoy doing a budget. If you like money, have ever struggled with money, or want more money, you're definitely going to want to listen! Free downloads from Virginia: https://themoneyproject.net/wealth-mindset-ebook-optin https://themoneyproject.net/EmailNaysayer/ https://themoneyproject.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Manifesto.pdf Learn more about The Money Project: https://www.facebook.com/themoneyproject.vbw https://www.instagram.com/the.moneyproject/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/money-coaching/ https://themoneyproject.net/  If you liked this episode, consider supporting Killing Cupid! If you want to book a session with me, have ideas for an episode, or a question you want me to answer on the podcast, head over to the website to get in touch at KillingCupid.com  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Cults! Cults! Cults! With more information than ever available at the tips of our fingers, how is it possible that destructive cults still manage to hook unsuspecting people? Well, we could say the same thing about red flags, but lord knows that's not stopping anyone as well as we'd hope. Last episode we got to why there are so many more cults, and today we’re looking at how they do it. We all know the cycle of manipulation, but how does this work on a massive scale?  This episode I’ll be taking you on a deep dive into the twisted worlds of Herbalife and QAnon. We’re going into the nitty gritty- how they recruit, who they target, and a thorough investigation of the specific tools of manipulation each of these groups use. Plus, how our old friend Abraham Maslow might combat this rise in toxic groups.  If you were ever curious about how cults work in the day to day, this is the episode for you.  Questions? Comments? Suggestions for an episode? Send em’ my way at [email protected] If someone you know is under undue influence of a destructive organization, there is help! Check out FreedomofMind.com for training, resources, and support.  If you loved this episode, be sure to share or subscribe- and show some love if you can. If you want to just listen, that’s okay too.  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Modern cults are more sophisticated, more insidious, and further reaching than ever before. And, to be frank, it's scarier and weirder than I could have ever imagined. In 1982, it was estimated there were between 300,000 and 3 million people in a cult. In 2017, Herbalife alone had 4.7 million members around the world. 😟What's the deal with this explosion of modern cults??? We used to think about cults as being a religion and a charismatic leader- but that's not enough anymore. I believe that cults are akin to being in a large scale abusive relationship. If we want to understand why so many of us are  getting into toxic relationships with groups, we need to adopt a new model.   In this episode, I explore the reasons for why there are so many new cults, why they're so successful, their parallels to toxic relationships and a new, better way of thinking about the toxic perils and practical application of mind control. FreedomOfMind.com is an amazing resource by Steve Hassan for anyone whose interested in learning more! Rational Enquiry patent by Keith Raniere  (if you have a lot of time and energy!)  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Is dating really harder for men? A lot of  men feel like the standards and expectations aren't stacked in their favor and even getting their foot in the door is a monumental task. So what do you do if you're not tall or rich? I sat down with Dominey Drew, host of the Art of Attraction podcast and a premier dating coach for men who takes a intuitive approach to helping men find love through self-mastery. Instead of focusing on numbers and hookups, she takes a different approach and focuses on self-awareness and mindset management. In this episode we talk about what your body has to teach you, the nonsense of pick up artistry, and how to stop letting online dating get in the way of finding the one. Dominey Drew is a premier dating coach for men who takes an intuitive approach to help her clients make the inner shift to find love through self mastery. She has helped CEOs find the same success in love that they have in business through a powerful process of mindset management. She has been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur magazine, and Thrive Global. Art of Attraction podcast: domineydrew.com/podcast Website: domineydrew.com Breathing exercises: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hq0sDB6gAJ0 Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

It's been almost a full year since Covid-19 hit, and our work lives are where it hit us the most. It's no secret that a lot of us had jobs that were crappy, and we are longing for something bigger, better, and more meaningful. Today, I sit down with Elinor Moshe, to discuss how to change the course of your career and how to stop just working a job, and create one that is aligned with your best you. We discuss how mentors can lead you wrong, why we're so burned out, how to work with all of this pressure and how to make the most of these dull moments to construct something great, even when it feels like the world is stopped. Elinor is a thought leader in the construction industry, #1 bestselling author, Property Council of Australia's Top 500 Women in Property programme 2019, Top 100 Women in Construction, and the founder of Construction Coach. She also hosts her own podcast, Constructing You, where she shares the successful journeys of others to show you what's possible. Her book, Constructing your Career gives you inspirational, practical action and unconventional career intelligence to construct your career. Constructing You Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/constructing-you/id1501998634 Construction Coach: https://theconstructioncoach.com.au/ Constructing your Career: https://www.amazon.com/Constructing-Your-Career-Elinor-Moshe-ebook/dp/B08FVQF9D2 Killing Cupid's music graciously provided by bensound.com  Questions, comments, ideas for an episode? Email me at [email protected]  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

No two relationships are the same-but sometimes we find ourselves in the same pattern again and again. So why is that? How is it possible that even after you swore you would NEVER date another guy like your ex, the relationship after him ended the same way? Why do people always have a "type" that falls for them. Do you have sign on your head that's making the wrong kind of person flock to you? Are you cursed? In this episode, I explain how your Relationship Map is the mental structure that dictates who you are attracted to, what kind of relationships you have,  and even who you believe you are supposed to be. Your map goes far beyond just your romantic life, it is your guide to all relationships- your relationship to work, friends, colleagues, and even yourself. If you are looking for a fresh start, to figure out what the heck happened, and to live your authentic self, this episode is an absolute must listen. Questions, comments, or ideas for a show? Email me at [email protected]  Follow me on Instagram for regular IGTV streams about how to master your relationships and live your authentic self @KillingCupid__ Music provided by bensound.com Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Tools like Tarot and Astrology provide us with deeper knowledge about ourselves and others that we might have been blind to before, and gives us hope. It shows us the other side that touches everything we can see with our eyes and then some. They connect us to the higher parts of ourselves and help us to go places we could only imagine- but it's no secret that these powerful tools can be used for some stuff that's not so good. Today I'm going to give you the down low on how this works when looking for love, what questions to ask, and how thinking about using these magical tools can still help even the staunchest of skeptics. Plus- I'm going to share with you a cautionary tale to help you identify the real deal, and when you should run. Get my mini course on  sale now:  Relationship Map: Discover Your Personal Blueprint to Emotional Freedom  https://www.killingcupid.com/product-page/your-personal-blueprint-to-emotional-freedom-stress-free-happy-relationships Readings, questions, comments, or just saying hi- email me at [email protected] (Nobody but me reads my emails). Music by Purpleplanet.com Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Nobody wants to deal with a f*****y, and everyone wants to know how to spot them (I hear some dress like lumberjacks). They're blamed for the demise of countless relationships, time wasted, and generally f***ery that nobody has time for. Lucky for you, I've put in years of hands on research to break down the tell tale signs of this modern marvel, and how to avoid getting burned. Do you always seem to end up with f******s? Download my guide to understanding your Relationship Blueprint so you can cut the bs of your dating life: https://www.killingcupid.com/relationship-blueprint  Music by Purple-planet.com Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)

Even if you haven't heard of the Coolidge Effect, you've heard of it. Simply put, it's what drives us to keep seeking out more intense sexual experiences, or new partners even when we love what we've got. The Coolidge Effect is blamed for the breakup of marriages, porn addiction, and a whole host of other relationship issues- but is that the truth? Are we looking outside of our relationships for new stimulation because that's how nature intended, or are we doing it because we've been watching too much porn and need to see crazier s*** to get off? Today I'm teaming up with an old friend, fellow  relationship coach Harley O'Connor for a lesson what it's really about, and how to make sure relationship stands the test of time. Love what you hear? Support the show! Music by Purple-planet.com Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/NadiaAni)