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Episode Summary Ready to break out of the “superhuman” myth in law and business? Amber Fuhriman sits down with criminal defense attorney and judicial candidate Lance Hendron to expose the real, raw truths behind success, burnout, and maintaining your humanity in high-pressure professions. This episode is a must-listen for ambitious professionals, attorneys, and anyone redefining what it means to “make it.” Key Topics Covered Why “being human” is the secret weapon for attorneys, judges, and high performersThe emotional toll of law, success, and constantly preparing for conflictIdentity shifts: separating your self-worth from your professional wins and lossesBurnout, boundaries, and the myth of having it “all together”How compassion and authenticity change the game in business, courtrooms, and lifePractical advice for putting yourself out there and handling public judgment Notable Quotes ““You can do all the briefs, all the legal stuff, and even with the facts itself, but being able to work with your client, that individual, whomever it might be, that you're advocating for… as the time goes on, you start to have that skill, ability to find a way to connect.” - Lance Hendron “I think a lot of people, including myself before I became an attorney, look at judges as these superhuman people who are in some way different than ourselves. And in all reality, we're all just humans doing the best that we can in any situation.” - Amber Fuhriman Next Steps: Book a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber’s Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0Connect with Lance or learn more about his campaign: www.lance4judge.com | [email protected] | 702-483-8181Guest InfoLance Hendron Criminal defense attorney, candidate for Justice Court Judge (Henderson Justice Court)Advocate for compassion, humanity, and fairness in the legal systemWebsite: www.lance4judge.comEmail: [email protected]: 702-483-8181 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this powerful finale of the Break Your B******t Box framework cycle, Amber Fuhriman explores the critical role of courage in personal transformation. After challenging your identity, breaking your bullshit, and designing your life plan, courage is what bridges the gap between intention and action. Key Topics Covered: Why courage is the final (not first) step in the transformation frameworkThe difference between comfort zone living and courageous actionHow each act of courage creates a new version of yourselfThe myth of "baby steps" and why real baby steps are fearless, not timidLessons from Tough Mudder: becoming the person who has already done itWhy success isn't a destination but a continuous cycle of growth Key Quotes: "We can't have courage until we've done all the other steps, until we've been honest with ourselves""You aren't yet the person who's capable of accomplishing your goals, because if you were, you'd already have them""True baby steps are baby steps of courage. They're not baby steps of timid nature""With every step you take, you become a person who has done something that you didn't think you could do" The Break Your B******t Box Framework: Challenge Your IdentityBreak Your BullshitDesign Your LifeHave Courage (this episode) Opportunity for growth: Challenge one piece of your bullshit every single day. Take courageous baby steps - the fearless kind where you stumble, fall, and keep moving forward anyway. If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected].   Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Break Your Bullshit Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/   Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0   Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode Summary:In this heartfelt conversation, Amber Fuhriman sits down with author Dawn Ramos to explore the creative process, the challenges of being an author, and the journey of stepping into your authentic self. Dawn shares her experiences writing romance novels, the labor of love that goes into each book, and how she navigates the vulnerability of putting her work into the world. Key Topics Discussed: On Writing & Creativity: The identity shift from "writing a book" to "being an author"Dawn's creative process: "dating ideas" before committing to a story On Vulnerability & Self-Worth: Dealing with reviews and criticism (including that dreaded one-star review)The struggle to separate self-worth from others' opinionsWhy accepting compliments is harder than it seemsThe importance of keeping positive reviews visible as reminders On Authenticity: Showing up as yourself in networking and business situationsThe challenge of being naturally shy while needing to be socialToxic positivity vs. genuine authenticityBeing present in conversations and truly meaning "How are you doing?" On Creativity & Leadership: Redefining creativity beyond artistic talentThe importance of diverse perspectives and challenging the status quoWhy good leaders must be willing to be challengedThe difference between debating to understand vs. debating to win Notable Quotes:"It's not until you start calling yourself an author that you're gonna feel like one.""Writing is a labor of love. You truly leave a piece of yourself with every little bit of work that you put out there.""I literally love my characters. That's like asking who your favorite kid is.""Creativity is tapping into that place in your mind where the impossible can be possible.""A happy ending is just knowing where to finish the story." About Dawn Ramos:Dawn Ramos is an author of feel-good romance novels including "Christmas in Winchester," "Carpe Diem," and her most recent release "Emma's Gift." She's passionate about creating stories that leave readers feeling hopeful and inspired. When she's not writing, Dawn is a forever student, participating in multiple book clubs and constantly challenging herself to grow both personally and professionally. Connect with Dawn:Books available on Amazon and her websiteBad Owl Journal (wise owl, bad advice) available on Etsy and her website https://dawnramos.com/If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected].   Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Break Your B******t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/   Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0   Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode Summary: In this powerful solo episode, Amber challenges the traditional view of sales and reveals why it's inseparable from designing the life you want. She breaks down the uncomfortable truth: you're always selling, whether it's your product, your follow-through on goals, or your own potential to yourself. Key Topics Covered: 1. The Language of Success How the words we use create our realityThe difference between "trying" and "going to"Why saying "it's okay if you don't want it" undermines your value 2. Fear & Follow-Through Understanding why we don't execute on our plansThe role of fear in preventing actionHow to shift from "if it's not on the calendar" to "if it's on the calendar, it WILL happen" 5. Reframing Your Identity How your self-description shapes your reality Action Challenge: Pay attention to the words you use this week. Are you describing your life with words of possibility ("I get to") or necessity ("I have to")? Your language is creating your reality. Connect with Amber: If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected].   Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Break Your Bullshit Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/   Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0   Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode Summary: In this powerful conversation, musician Shane Hamlett shares his journey from chasing six-figure success to discovering his authentic voice through music. Shane opens up about the moment he realized money wasn't the answer, the childhood memory that silenced his creativity for decades, and how he's learning to celebrate himself, not just others. Key Topics Discussed: The Six-Figure Myth Both Amber and Shane hit their "magic number" only to discover it didn't bring the happiness they expectedThe dangerous cycle of thinking you just need a bigger numberLearning that money is a tool, not a solution Silencing Your Joy Shane's pivotal second-grade memory of being told to "be quiet" while singingHow one moment can shape decades of self-silencingThe two-year journey from writing his first song to sharing it with the world The Music Journey Writing "Broken Wings" - his first complete song about letting go of perfectionThe irony of writing about not needing perfection while trying to perfect the songUpcoming album: "Loud Hearts"celebrating finally sharing who you are loudly Identity & Self-Abandonment Letting go of the need to control everything and have all the answersThe painful realization that protecting others from hurt was actually hurting himselfLearning that you can't meet your people until you show up as yourself The Celebrate Brand Challenging people to celebrate themselves, not just others Like-Minded People Why being around like-minded people is uncomfortable (and that's the point)Like-minded doesn't mean same beliefs—it means same commitment to growthFinding your people when you're being your most authentic self Powerful Quotes: "I had to be truly broken before I could start to say, 'Hey, I need help.'" - Shane Hamlett "What I no longer get to do is abandon myself to please [others] and sometimes that's a lonely place to be" - Amber Fuhriman "How can you love somebody else without loving yourself?" - Shane Hamlett The Bullshit Shane's Breaking:"I'm too late." - The belief that changing careers or pursuing passion later in life means you've missed your window. Connect with Shane:Music:Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/artist/4YKhMBHVg4XDDTBXVunY2F?si=m0dQNfu1TfKvydtaKtknjQApple Music - https://music.apple.com/us/artist/shane-hamlett/1758565850YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrYGZGJtRZitaot3ffod6XgWebsite: www.shanehamlett.comCelebrate Brand: www.whatdoyoucelebrate.comUpcoming Album: "Loud Hearts" (releasing soon) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode:   Are you stuck in an endless cycle of planning without taking action? In this episode of The Break Your B******t Box Podcast, we dive into the reason even the best-laid plans fail and how we use strategy as a hiding place. We discuss the second part of my Break Your B******t Box framework: Breaking Your Bullshit Box. In other words, understanding the gremlins and limiting beliefs that sabotage our follow-through. If you're tired of buying planners, creating perfect calendars, and never executing, this episode will help you break free from the strategy trap and start taking real action   Key topics covered:  The reason planning feels productive but often leads nowhereThe strategy trap: How we hide in planning to avoid actionUnderstanding the "gremlins" - the voices that justify our resultsThe difference between human behavior problems and logical solutionsThe importance of intention behind every commitmentHow to identify what's really holding you back from following through  Key Takeaways:   Success doesn't come from the plan, it comes from the honesty underneath the plan about why it's failed in the pastClarity only comes through action, not through endless analysis and planningWe can't solve human problems with logical strategic plans, we need to address the underlying beliefs and behaviorsPlanning can be a form of avoidance, making us feel productive without actually accomplishing anythingUnderstanding your intention behind each commitment is crucial to breaking patterns  Quotes:   "Clarity only comes through action. We can't analyze our way to an answer or logic our way to the right result." - Amber Fuhriman  "We can't solve human problems with logical strategic plans." - Amber Fuhriman  If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected].   Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Break Your B******t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/   Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0   Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode: Amber interviews voice actor and podcast host JodI Krangle about how sound and voice influence people psychologically, and why “audio branding” matters as much as visual branding. JodI shares her path into voice acting, emphasizing that diverse life experience and “learning how to learn” can be more valuable than a linear career plan. They discuss how creators improve through repetition, feedback, and using AI as a productivity tool while keeping human oversight for authentic connection. The conversation closes with practical insights on building an intentional audio ecosystem—music, tone, and consistent voice—so your brand feels recognizable, trustworthy, and human. Key Takeaways: "Every introvert needs an emotional support extrovert—someone who brings people over and helps you connect." - Amber Fuhriman "Pay attention to your audio brand, because if you don’t, it’ll be made for you—and you may not like what’s made for you." - JodI Krangle "I tell people all the time: learning how to learn is more important than what you learn—unless you need a specialized track like medicine or law." - Amber Fuhriman "All backgrounds have different strengths… and it’s that lived experience that’s going to get you where you go." - JodI Krangle Connect with Today's guest JodI Krangle: https://voiceoversandvocals.com/media-kit If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected]. Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53 Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode:   After a brief hiatus, Amber returns with a powerful episode about the most important (and most hated) topic of the new year: identity and transformation. This episode challenges the myth of "New Year, New Me" and explores why simply flipping the calendar doesn't automatically change who we are or what we're capable of achieving.   Key topics covered:  New Years Resolutions Myths – Why January 1st doesn’t magically transform us and the false belief that calendar changes equal personal changesUnderstanding true identity – the hidden beliefs that shape our realityThe Break Your B******t Box Framework:Challenge Your Identity Break Your B******t BoxDesign Your LifeHave the Courage to Live It Hard truths about goals – becoming the person who can accomplish them.  Key Takeaways:   Identity drives capability – who you think you are determines what you believe you can achieveGrowth requires change – You must become someone different to create different resultsSelf-compassion is essential – This work isn’t about self-hatred, It’s about loving who you were while growing into who you need to be.Keep what serves you – Not everything about your current identity needs to change.  Quotes:   "Just because the calendar flipped over from 2025 to 2026 doesn’t mean the things that held us back as humans automatically changed with the calendar." - Amber Fuhriman  "This identity conversation isn’t about hating who you’ve been. It’s about loving the person that created who you are today. You get to love the person who created what you have today. Keep the parts of that person that still serve you. Greive the parts that no longer do." - Amber Fuhriman  If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected].   Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Break Your Bullshit Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/   Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0   Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode: Amber interviews author Rob Wolf about his book Not a Real Enemy and the deeply personal process of turning his parents’ recorded histories into a narrative meant to educate and combat hatred. Rob shares how revisiting his father’s Holocaust and postwar experiences was emotionally intense, but also motivating—especially as he sees modern events echoing patterns of dehumanization and indifference.  Key Takeaways: "I don’t know that anybody who has eyes and ears can look at what’s going on in different parts of the world right now and think history doesn’t repeat itself." - Amber Fuhriman "Hope is a big word throughout this book—determination, resilience, redemption, integrity… and it starts one person at a time." - Rob Wolf "Freedom of speech means that you’re free to say whatever you want, but it doesn’t mean that you’re free from the consequences of saying whatever you want." - Amber Fuhriman "Life is short. It’s our only commodity." - Rob Wolf Connect with Today's guest Rob Wolf: https://robertjwolfmd.com/ If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected]. Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53 Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode: Amber is joined by Kareen Aristide for an inspiring conversation on the journey from stay-at-home mom to successful entrepreneur, author, and coach.  Key Takeaways: “People around you need the real you—not the version you constructed for everyone else.” - Amber Fuhriman “I became an entrepreneur because of my kids—it wasn’t in my plan, but it became my purpose.” - Kareen Aristide “I always tell people, especially when I treated—treat them the way they want to be treated.” - Amber Fuhriman “I realized I had leadership, vision, and influence—and I wanted to contribute to the world just by being me.” - Kareen Aristide Connect with Today's guest Kareen Aristide: https://www.instagram.com/kareenaristide/ If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected]. Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53 Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode: In this intense yet deeply insightful episode, Amber interviews retired law enforcement officer Douglas Fifer, author of 50 Shades of True Crime, about the darkest corners of human behavior. Douglas discusses his 25-year career in Alaska, a state with an unusually high rate of violent crimes, and explores the complex psychology behind deviant sexual crimes. The conversation expands into systemic issues such as addiction, accountability, law enforcement reform, and the fine line between legality and morality. Amber and Douglas also offer practical advice on public safety, the power dynamics behind criminal behavior, and how true crime can offer crucial insights for business, relationships, and society at large. Key Takeaways: "Generational curses are just generational beliefs. And we get to decide when we stop believing them." - Amber Fuhriman "Most of the world consists of good people. Only 10% of society causes 90% of the crime." - Douglas Fifer "Every behavior has an intention—even organizing your Tupperware drawer instead of making sales calls." - Amber Fuhriman "Most people think these crimes are about sex—they’re really about power." - Douglas Fifer Connect with Today's guest Douglas Fifer: https://dougfifer.com/ If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected]. Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53 Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode: Amber Fuhriman and guest Asia Dore explore the complexities of personal branding and its intersection with human behavior, vulnerability, and ethical marketing. Asia shares her evolution from photographer to brand strategist, emphasizing the critical role of brand identity, strategy, and clarity in communicating value to clients. Both women delve into the psychological hurdles entrepreneurs face—like imposter syndrome, trauma-informed business practices, and the discomfort of client feedback—and how those challenges can impact authentic branding.  Key Takeaways: "You don’t have to become someone different, just take off the mask." - Amber Fuhriman "Every time you downplay your expertise, you miss a chance to help someone." - Asia Dore "Knowing you’re the best isn’t arrogance—it’s clarity." - Amber Fuhriman "Your brand isn’t what you say it is—it’s what your clients say it is." - Asia Dore Connect with Today's guest Asia Dore: https://www.asiadore.com If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected]. Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53 Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode: Amber Fuhriman and guest Christopher Rhyss Edwards engage in a powerful, wide-ranging conversation about authenticity, humility, trauma, societal division, and true empathy. They explore how personal experiences—ranging from military service to personal trauma—shape self-perception and communication with others.  Key Takeaways: You don't build a fulfilling life by tiptoeing around everyone else's insecurities." - Amber Fuhriman "A system that rebuilds you must also allow you to question it—that's real growth." - Chris Rhyss Edwards "Healing isn't about protecting others from being triggered—it's about fixing why you're triggered." - Amber Fuhriman "We move society forward not by polarizing, but by sitting at the center of the table together." - Chris Rhyss Edwards Connect with Today's guest Chris Rhyss Edwards: https://www.chrisrhyss.co If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected]. Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53 Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode: Amber interviews Dr. Lynn Anderson, a naturopath, yoga instructor, and spiritual teacher, who shares her journey from a stressed single mother to a holistic health advocate. Together with the host, they explore how passion, mental clarity, and authentic living shape personal and professional success, with deep dives into karma, health, and the illusion of societal expectations. The conversation blends practical mindset shifts with spiritual perspectives, encouraging listeners to challenge self-imposed limitations and redefine success from within. Key Takeaways: "Excuses often feel real, it doesn't mean they are right." - Amber Fuhriman "Karma simply means work. It's not about judgment or good and bad." - Dr. Lynn Anderson "Change happens in an instant. It's deciding to change that takes time." - Amber Fuhriman "We are here to turn deceit, greed, anger, and pride into honesty, generosity, kindness, and humility." - Dr. Lynn Anderson If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected]. Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53 Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode: Amber interviews Billy Mandarino, a speaker, author, musician, and spiritual teacher, about embracing authenticity, healing from trauma, and living in the "now." Billy shares transformative life experiences, including a spiritual awakening on a golf course and a life-threatening bout with Guillain-Barré syndrome. The conversation explores how modern life disconnects people from present awareness and how practices like gratitude, imagination, and interrupting habitual thought patterns can rewire lives. They also discuss Billy's upcoming feature film For Now, which aims to help people overcome unresolved trauma through storytelling. Key Takeaways: "What we are told is what we will believe; what we believe is what we become." - Amber Fuhriman "The present moment is where I teach people to live—the now is." - Billy Mandarino "The biggest monsters we will ever face are the ones in our head." - Amber Fuhriman "Contentment is where people miss it. When you have everything you need, you get everything you want." - Billy Mandarino If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to [email protected]. Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53 Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.