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Not Well | A Comedy Podcast

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Rating
★★★★★
4.6
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United States
This podcast has
309 episodes
Language
English
Explicit
Yes
Date created
2019/08/16
Latest episode
2026/10/01
Average duration
58 min.
Release period
23 days

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Join Bobby and Jim on 'Not Well', where fearless conversations meet humor and wisdom in an explosion of topics ranging from the latest celebrity gossip to the intricacies of gay issues and politics. With Bobby's unconventional wisdom, often fueled by his adventures with edibles, leading us into the most random and taboo subjects you'd never dare to bring up, and Jim's sharp intellect providing insightful commentary, there's never a dull moment. Our podcast is a bold, inclusive space that welcomes gay men, straight women, and straight men alike, especially those who are curious about a wide array of discussions—including the candid exploration of sex and men's bodies. Bobby and Jim create a safe haven for laughter, connection, and sometimes the outright bizarre, ensuring our listeners feel happy, engaged, and part of a larger community. Every Thursday we dive deep into everything under the sun, from the most controversial topics to the day-to-day quirks of life. Our unique content mix, featuring listener voicemails and the funniest Tik Toks, complements our discussions, making 'Not Well' more than just a podcast—it's a movement towards embracing our not-so-perfect selves. Subscribe now and join our community where being 'not well' is celebrated, and discovering the joy in life's randomness is a weekly adventure. Experience the dynamic duo of Bobby's wild tangents and Jim's smart insights, and see why our listeners can't get enough of our unapologetic take on the world.

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There Is No Left Field for Gays
2026/10/01
Send us Fan Mail Bobby and Jim are back, better lit and somehow less well. This week starts exactly where any respectable podcast should: Penny the dog is on hormones, hot tubs become a public-health concern, and Jim introduces Bobby to the gay “sniff test.” From there, they investigate why there is apparently no such thing as “out of left field” between gay men, the declining strength of gay-bar pours, and why Bobby can organize everyone’s life except his own. Then Bobby returns from Finland, Estonia, Sweden and Ireland with questions. Why does Europe have trains, ferries and functioning public transportation while America has beige? Why was there unlimited wine coming out of a TAP on a Baltic ferry? And how did seeing Armin van Buuren underneath a bridge become one of the classiest parts of the trip? Also: realizing you were hotter at 28 than you knew, the chaos surrounding a canceled gay cruise, airplane bathroom crimes against humanity, and a surprisingly sincere conversation about why everyone is so terrified of turning 40. It’s sex, travel, aging, gay culture, bad decisions and several arguments nobody asked us to solve. Welcome back to NOT WELL. ⚠️ Explicit. Very explicit. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
I'm from Ohio. Works every time.
2026/09/01
Send us Fan Mail Bobby and Jim reconvene after five weeks off air with a full backlog of grievances. This episode covers: a TSA bag-policy standoff that ends in an Uber round trip, a full-body scanner conspiracy theory, and a 70-year-old woman on a Portland train who picks the exact seats she complained about. There's a public transit fare dodge that runs on the strength of "I'm from Ohio" alone, a Dawn Lemon–scented product pitch nobody asked for, and a Wendy's drive-thru order that goes fully off the rails over the word "sauce." Also featured: an alpha-male crying-in-a-pool video, an anatomy lecture that gets way more technical than expected, the dumbest motorcycles in America, and a geopolitics tangent that starts at Lake Ontario and ends at Venezuelan oil. Sundries include: the worst kind of biker, the case for renaming absolutely nothing, and why lying is a permanent bridge-burner. Explicit language throughout. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Nothing’s gonna save us—not music, fashion, film, or this podcast.
2026/07/30
Send us Fan Mail After acknowledging a broken recording and their general exhaustion, Bobby and Jim talk through a frightening health scare involving Penny, the uncertainty it creates around an upcoming Seattle and Portland trip, and the strangely clarifying experience of confronting the possible loss of a pet. From there, the episode becomes a fast-moving tour through their shared obsessions and grievances: a handwritten invitation to a Bible drama, tax-free churches and imaginary missionary safaris, gorillas and emotionally devastating octopuses, and a phrase that supposedly makes anyone sound as if they are speaking in tongues. The centerpiece is their postmortem of a nude camping trip. Bobby explains why camping’s endless transitions and tiny logistical steps are incompatible with his brain, while both hosts relive the pool, rain, a blood-pressure scare, an overenthusiastic horse-whip performer, unwanted homemade alcohol, and petty campground authority. The conversation then shifts into sex, Charli XCX, nightlife fatigue, fake-feeling DJs, video-game escapism, creative stagnation, money, housing, and the search for joy in ordinary rituals. The final stretch covers political spectacle, stomach trouble, Palm Springs sugar-daddy fantasies, the illusion of happiness, a suspected neighborhood stalker, strangers forcing shots on people, furry nightlife, and the looming Seattle trip. Beneath the jokes is a surprisingly cohesive question: when the old forms of fun stop working, how do you build a life that feels alive again? Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
I just want to lay there and have someone else be like, 'I'm having fun.'"
2026/06/30
Send us Fan Mail Are we officially getting too old for this? In this wonderfully chaotic episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive headfirst into the sheer exhaustion of aging out of the nightlife scene. Grab a Coke Zero and buckle up as the guys roast the absolute state of modern Pride month—lamenting how grassroots community celebrations have been tragically replaced by corporate banks tossing cheap beads from parade floats. From dissecting Gen Z's "grungy" aesthetic to surviving the physical toll of midnight clubbing, the boys are unapologetically embracing their limits and leaning into a life of avoiding discomfort at all costs. It’s a messy, fast-paced, and wildly unhinged conversation that goes off the rails in the best way possible. What we're getting into this week: Submarines in the Sky: Why flying is terrifying and why you have a nerve to fall asleep on a plane.Corporate Pride: We don't need to march with a banner for a bank. We're over it.The AI Trump Love Song: A terrifyingly catchy AI-generated track that we can't unhear.The Gen Z Grudge: Dissecting the grungy, mullet-and-jorts aesthetic of the youth.MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT: A massive update on the future of the show—by episode 400, Not Well is packing up and broadcasting from an entirely different continent!Buckle in, it’s a wild ride. Let’s get loose! Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Your Pastor Loves You So Much, He Needs a Private Jet
2026/06/12
Send us Fan Mail This week the boys open with a "loving" influencer explaining why we're all going to hell — and it only gets holier from there. Social media Christians who gay-bait on Snapchat, megachurch pastors who need a second jet, and why nobody is getting into Heaven Plus. Then Bobby reports live from Charlotte: a city full of 23-year-olds, an open bar (RIP), and a gay bar near the airport that sparked the most honest conversation about race we've ever had on this show. Plus a gas station encounter that proves travel actually changes you. And the main event: a full dramatic reading from the Book of F****t — a Grindr message from a hookup 13 years ago with a suspiciously perfect memory, a top-three ranking (out of three), and the coldest "Got it." in recorded history. Also inside: the president is a farter, Pillion is unrealistic (Alexander Skarsgård is a 95, sorry), doctor's office anxiety is just hookup anxiety, why the gays bully the gays, and the moment we realized the days are already getting shorter. 🗳️ VOTE: Chicago, Seattle, or New York for the August trip? Tell us or be quiet forever. Mentally Not Well. Physically Hot.  🛍️ Merch + everything: notwellpodcast.com Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Grandma's Watching. Get F****d?!
2026/06/01
Send us Fan Mail To celebrate their milestone 300th episode, Bobby and Jim return to recap their recent separate vacations to two very different places named Naples. Bobby shares wild, chaotic stories from his trip to Italy—including navigating bullet trains, dealing with aggressive tour guides, visiting a gay nudist beach in Palermo, and surviving a sudden police raid at an underwear club in Rome. Meanwhile, Jim contrasts that with his ultra-conservative, deeply relaxing family trip to Naples, Florida, where a restaurant waiter hilariously mistakes him and his husband for brothers. The duo wraps up the milestone episode by ranting about international airport baggage customs, discussing their partners' intense road rage habits, and exposing the "fake facades" of dating app profile pictures. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Most Pretty Dicks Are On Ugly Faces
2026/04/30
Send us Fan Mail Episode 299 of Not Well Podcast is complete disorder. This week Bobby and Jim discuss drinking out of the sink, gay nightlife chaos, furry encounters, hookup apps, Italy travel plans, weird kinks, hot people problems, armpit attraction science, toxic cookware paranoia, seat-switching airplane drama, and why some people stir coffee for far too long. Comedy, zero filter, questionable logic, and premium nonsense. Subscribe, rate, review, and send in your own “Not Well” stories. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Wait… You Can’t Botox Your Knees?
2026/04/23
Send us Fan Mail Episode 298 of Not Well Podcast is chaos in its purest form. This week Bobby and Jim spiral through aging panic, weird beauty standards, Botox limits, golf bros, gay bar behavior, bald head hotness, awkward encounters, body image, nightlife nonsense, and the random observations nobody else is brave enough to say out loud. Sharp humor, zero filter, and two hosts trying to stay semi-functional. Subscribe, leave a review, and send in your own “Not Well” stories. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
Wait, You Don't Trim an Abandoned Lawn?
2026/04/17
Send us Fan Mail This week on Not Well, Bobby and Jim spiral beautifully through a night out that started with cheap margaritas and ended somewhere between gay bar chaos, moon conspiracies, death talk, body shame trauma, and the collapse of modern society. We cover:  A wild night at Lupitas and Columbus bars  Meeting a hot casket salesman  Why American car culture is broken  Weird truths about body odor and shame  Going around the moon… again?  Trump, distractions, and the state of the world  Kink culture, sensory deprivation, and Claw weekend  Why gay men drinking wine at dive bars feels suspicious  Friendship, loneliness, attention-seeking, and social media weirdness  The usual emotionally unstable nonsense If you like sharp humor, gay chaos, conspiracy tangents, social commentary, and two friends saying what everyone else is thinking… welcome home. 🎧 New episodes weekly.  📍Based in Columbus, Ohio.  💚 Follow, rate, review, and tell one unstable friend. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
I Just Realized That I'm Not Even Really Taking the Medication the Way I Should Be
2026/04/03
Send us Fan Mail  We finally made it to Dallas, and let’s just say the Big D stood for more than just the city name. In this episode, we’re peeling back the foil on our own incompetence—specifically how we’ve been winging our medical prescriptions while trying to maintain a 10/10 aesthetic. We’re diving into the "Modern Grime" of our travel habits, from the "Cornhole Lesbians" of Texas to the absolute panic of a self-driving car that almost ended it all before we even reached the hotel. It’s honest, it’s messy, and it’s the definitive proof that we are "Not Well."  The Top 10 Chaotic Takeaways The Dosage Disaster: Realizing you’ve been taking a fraction of the intended dose for months while wondering why you hit a weight loss plateau.Dallas vs. The World: Surviving a trip to Texas that included questionable navigation and even more questionable life choices.The Self-Driving Death Trap: A harrowing encounter with a Tesla that decided a 90-degree horizontal turn in construction was "the vibe."Cornhole Lesbians: Being validated by the most unexpected demographic in a Dallas bar and immediately feeling "pretty."The "Hotspot" Shower: Redefining hygiene as a tactical strike on specific body parts when time (and energy) is running low.Medical Non-Compliance as Art: Treating prescription instructions like the "Terms and Conditions" page—just scrolling to the bottom and clicking "agree."The 3 AM Alfredo Pipeline: The inevitable journey from a night out to a bowl of pasta that you definitely didn't need but absolutely deserved.Lanyard Loathing: A deep-seated hatred for conference lanyards and the "dorky" energy they bring to an otherwise high-fashion aesthetic.The Korean Spa Revelation: Navigating the vulnerability of a spa day while trying to maintain the "Hot but Chaotic" hierarchy.Rebranding the Mess: Launching a new, professional logo while simultaneously admitting your life is currently a beautiful, grainy, indie-film disaster.Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
The Gooner Algorithm: Squeezing the Sac and Thick Bands
2026/03/06
Send us Fan Mail In this unfiltered catch-up, Bobby and Jim dive into a chaotic month of travel, awkward social encounters, and the strangest corners of the internet. From the "scenes" in Puerto Vallarta and Cleveland to the frustrations of being blocked on dating apps in Columbus, no topic is off-limits. We explore the "profound" world of energy work and chakras after a life-altering massage, share our anxieties about aging and health, and somehow end up deep in the rabbit hole of Reborn Dolls and Gooning subcultures. Plus, we discuss why "prices are down" at Costco and critique the latest in A24-style cinema. [00:00] Travel Recaps: New York, Atlanta, and Puerto Vallarta[12:15] Dating App Disasters: Why am I getting blocked?[24:30] Cinema & Pop Culture: Taylor Swift, Charli XCX, and "The Moment"[38:45] Wellness & Energy: The Chakra-Opening Massage[52:20] Aging Anxieties: Physical health and the fear of the unknown[1:05:10] Internet Subcultures: Exploring the world of Reborn Dolls[1:18:40] The Gooner Algorithm & "Bating" CultureSupport the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
You got so much attention when you were fatter... Now we walk in and we're just old
2026/02/05
Send us Fan Mail This episode of "Not Well" is a brutally honest, stream-of-consciousness conversation about navigating gay life in your 30s with all its contradictions and anxieties. The hosts dive deep into the psychological aftermath of major weight loss, discussing how losing 65-70 pounds has paradoxically made one of them feel less attractive in gay spaces—getting way more attention as a bigger bear than as a slimmer guy. They question whether it's the weight, aging, or just a combination of everything that's changed the dynamic when walking into bars. The conversation spirals through modern absurdities: how delusional confidence seems to be the key to success (citing the Hawk Tuah girl making $15 million), generational differences in handling internet fame, and why their generation can't just embrace the chaos like younger people do. They touch on practical frustrations like airplane etiquette—specifically calling out first-class passengers who put backpacks in overhead bins—and the hilarious reality that TSA agents will move weed gummies aside to check electronics. The episode gets vulnerable discussing body dysmorphia, balding, potential thyroid issues, and the complex relationship with hookup culture. One host reveals he actually needs emotional connection before sex and hates the idea of planned "sex dates," despite being perfectly fine with spontaneous bathroom encounters or random basement hookups. It's a fascinating contradiction that speaks to the difference between performative sexuality and genuine desire. Throughout, there's constant self-awareness about their modest podcast success (hundreds of listeners, not thousands), frustration with social media narcissism, and the ongoing struggle to stay motivated during cold weather. The tone is profane, self-deprecating, and refreshingly authentic—two friends processing their lives out loud without filter. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
You Cannot Send a Silicone Torso Sex Toy to Your Mother’s House.
2026/01/22
Send us Fan Mail This episode starts where all good family stories end:  with a silicone torso sex toy accidentally delivered to a mother’s house. From there, Bobby and Jim spiral through modern shame, bad decisions, creative vulnerability, and the unspoken rules everyone knows but nobody says out loud. They talk about incoherent politics, Irish gin, finishing a deeply personal short film, aging out of nightlife, and why “discreet” hookups are never discreet. Along the way:  • a horrifying holiday package mix-up  • the psychological damage of Amazon Prime  • why bars feel younger, emptier, and louder  • the fear of being seen when the camera turns on you  • and the hard truth that some packages should never be opened It’s uncomfortable. It’s funny. It’s too honest.  In other words: Not Well. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
If you’re a boy who wants to play the 'get married' game [as a child], you’re gay. Bottom. You want to be the bride.
2026/01/08
Send us Fan Mail Bobby returns from his "Echoes Abroad" tour of Ireland and Copenhagen with a a questionable "director lesbian" aesthetic. While Bobby recounts the struggles of finding a decent sunrise in Dublin and the perils of feeling "famous" on TikTok, Jim, who has had flu, shares a horrifying domestic scene involving nose hair plucking and corns. The boys pivot to heavier topics—literally—discussing dead bodies at viewings, before Bobby drops a bombshell story about a massage that got a little too close for comfort (and anatomy). Plus, the duo debates the aesthetics of white underwear, the "marriage game" as a litmus test for being a bottom, and the sheer size of Irish heads. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell
You are fisting a cow to get it pregnant. Is that what God wants?
2025/11/21
Send us Fan Mail he conversation moves through a fast, chaotic blend of social commentary, sexual humor, political cynicism, and personal reflection. It begins with discussion about the resurgence of collectible items and how AI and capitalism may force people back into simpler, more human activities. That leads into a critique of money, crypto, billionaires, and the concept that nearly everything in modern society is essentially fake. The dialogue expands into global politics—sanctions, coups, oil interests, and the U.S. acting as an unchecked global power. From there, the tone shifts into absurd humor about farming, insemination, and how people who fist cows often hold conservative anti-LGBT views. The conversation spirals into kink culture: leather scenes, pups, masks, fetishes, and why certain communities exist. This includes uncomfortable, explicit questions about fisting, bodily functions, sexual progression, and why some people enjoy extreme acts. The discussion then swerves to everyday life: talking to dogs like children, dogs’ pack behavior, the contrast with aloof cats, and the bizarre reality of pets living indoors. Food prices, inflation, and the shrinking size of groceries become a point of frustration. The conversation returns to personal growth, aging, creative phases, past podcast eras, and how both hosts have changed since earlier episodes. Nostalgia for past creative periods emerges, along with recognition of personal evolution. Interwoven is a thread about filmmaking: the beginning of a documentary project, motivations behind solo travel, the meta-process of documenting the making of a documentary, and how it ties to self-reflection. The dialogue continues into aging, nightlife shifting into quiet routines, and the strange dissonance between adult responsibilities and the outrageous conversations they still have. Overall, the transcript jumps from existential dread to explicit gay sexual comedy, from geopolitical collapse to pet parenting, from leather festivals to the price of soup—all narrated with unfiltered honesty, sarcasm, and vulgar humor. Support the show As always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

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4.6 out of 5
87 reviews
★★★★★
DotDJohnson 2024/12/15
One or the funniest ever
No joke. These boys are hilarious. You were what I needed in this post-election dystopian reality. Go on tour, come to DC, we need you!
★★★★★
Coolnmdude 2023/10/18
Can’t wait till the next episode!
Bobby and Jim are hilarious and entertaining, I came across their podcast this past spring and have been hooked in every week. The other month they h...
★★★★★
Aman614 2023/02/01
Love this show
The hosts are so funny and interesting.
★☆☆☆☆
Tyfgnm 2022/09/21
The Devolution of a Podcast
Why care facilities let them play with the adult equipment, I don’t know. Title change, Flushing the “Miz,” Losing Podcast awards, When electrons are ...
★★★★★
Biblegirl_666 2022/09/05
My GBFs
listening to bobby and jim is so much fun every week, they speak all the truths I need to hear. Love u bobby and jim, keep up the hard work because we...
★★★★★
kyovanno 2022/06/26
Looking for Heather!
Binge listening to every episode till I find my boo thang Heather 😘
★★★★★
CmMiCo 2021/09/01
Comedic gold
Hilariously chill and witty! Fantastic chemistry! This podcast has perfected the use of the sound board!!!!’
★★★★★
Dairyisforcows 2020/08/25
These guys!
So I just put them on, and I could not stop laughing. Some of the sentences that came out of your mouths are almost a direct quote from my friends and...
★★★★★
tami.pdx 2020/07/08
Love it!!!
I listened to my first episode today and it made me LOL several times! Thank you so much for that! I think we need all the laughs we can get right now...
★★★★★
Podcast Reviewer! 2020/07/07
A must listen
Very enteraining. Time well spent
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