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What’s the difference between being a peacemaker and simply being a peacekeeper? In this episode, we talk honestly about why conflict can be so difficult to approach, why we often avoid hard conversations, and how our desire to “keep the peace” can actually create more problems in the long run. True peacemaking isn’t about avoiding conflict or pretending everything is okay—it’s about having the courage, humility, and love to step into difficult situations and pursue genuine reconciliation. We explore what it looks like to stop running from conflict and instead allow God to use us to bring healing, truth, and lasting peace into our marriages and relationships.

Giving mercy and forgiveness sounds simple until we’re the ones who have been hurt. In this episode, we talk honestly and personally about how challenging it can be—even for us as a couple—to extend mercy, let go of resentment, and choose forgiveness when we don’t feel like it. But we also explore why mercy and forgiveness are so essential to following Jesus. Ultimately, learning to forgive isn’t just about improving our relationships; it’s a spiritual pursuit that draws us closer to the heart of God and teaches us to extend the same grace we have received from Him. Join us for an honest conversation about the struggle, the surrender, and the freedom that comes when we choose mercy.

Life is full of distractions, disappointments, and everyday pressures that can easily pull our focus away from what matters most. In this episode of The Real Marriage Podcast, we talk about what it practically looks like to fix our eyes on Jesus in the middle of busy schedules, unexpected hardships, and the ordinary moments of life. We share biblical encouragement, personal experiences, and practical ways to keep Christ at the center when life feels overwhelming. If you've been struggling to maintain your joy, peace, or perspective, we hope this conversation will encourage you to lift your eyes to the One who never changes.

What does it look like to drift into complacency without even realizing it? Does cheap Christianity satisfy? In this episode of The Real Marriage Podcast, we have an honest conversation about the danger of lukewarm Christianity and God's desire for our hearts to be fully devoted to Him. It's easy to become comfortable with routines, attend church, and say the right things while slowly losing our passion for Christ. Together, we explore what Scripture says about spiritual complacency, the warning Jesus gives to the lukewarm church, and the hope that God lovingly calls us to repentance and renewed devotion. If you've ever felt your faith growing stagnant or simply want to reignite your love for Jesus, we pray this episode encourages you to pursue Him wholeheartedly and live a life marked by genuine passion, obedience, and dependence on Him every day.

Have you ever found yourself wanting more of God—more of His presence, more of His peace, and more of His guidance? In this episode of The Real Marriage Podcast, we talk about what it means to cultivate a genuine desire to draw closer to God and hear His voice more clearly. We discuss how intimacy with God isn't built through quick fixes or emotional highs, but through daily surrender, time in His Word, prayer, and a heart that is willing to listen and obey. Whether you're feeling spiritually dry or simply longing for a deeper relationship with the Lord, we hope this conversation encourages you to pursue Him with confidence, knowing that God delights in revealing Himself to those who seek Him. As James 4:8 reminds us, "Come near to God and he will come near to you."

When people think about legacy, they often think about accomplishments, possessions, or the impact they leave on the world. But the most important legacy we can leave behind is a spiritual one. In this episode, we discuss what it means to pass down a faith that endures from generation to generation. We explore biblical examples of spiritual inheritance, the responsibility believers have to invest in the next generation, and practical ways to model a life devoted to Christ. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, mentor, or simply someone who wants their life to make an eternal difference, this conversation will encourage you to focus on the legacy that matters most—helping others know, love, and follow Jesus long after you're gone.

Weariness and burnout are struggles many Christians face, yet they often feel difficult to talk about openly. In this episode, we share a candid conversation about the pressures, disappointments, and demands that can leave believers feeling exhausted in their faith and daily lives. Together, we explore what Scripture teaches about rest, God's presence in seasons of weakness, and how to recognize when our souls are running on empty. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, or simply tired from carrying life's burdens, our hope is that this conversation will encourage you to find renewed strength, hope, and rest in Christ.

We all struggle with dry seasons. In our faith, relationships, work, etc.   We feel off.  Things are flowing as well as we would like. How can we thrive spiritually when it feels that way? Join us as we dig into seasons of drought and growing through them.

We have finally made our way back to making episodes! As we shift into more spiritual-focused conversations join us as we talk about what it means to live set apart.

Every marriage has a story. How you met. How you realized they were the one. What life has been like since getting married.   We realized that we hadn't fully shared our story and how God brought us together.  It certainly had twists and turns and each of us made decisions that could have ultimately kept us from living in God's will but through His grace He finally brought us together. Listen and hear the story but also the significance of marriage being a mission.

You may have been told before you had kids that once they come there is no going back.  It changes everything.  It's hard to know how true that is until it comes but if we aren't careful it can create difficult challenges for the marriage.   Griffin and Heather ran into this recently in what seemed like a random moment.  Heather felt like she needed more time and focus on the marriage and Griffin was surprised by the feeling.  How they reacted to the conversation was critical.  Listen and hear this discussion about protecting your marriage and connection while going through the business of raising kids.  How can you prioritize each other? How do you make sure you have quality time so you don't miss important moments?

Hormones! We all know that every month a woman is impacted physically, mentally and emotionally.  The question is how does that disrupt the marriage? It may or may not be an open and comfortable conversation in your home but if you aren't on the same page with this time of the month then you can open yourselves up to issues that develop over time. Listen and hear how Heather and Griffin have hit a breakthrough with not only understanding this dynamic better but making sure it doesn't negatively impact their intimacy and connection.

A new year always produces reflective thoughts.   Where are we in life?  Where are we headed?  Are things where we want them to be? With how busy and overwhelming life is it can be tempting to just ask those questions but not have a true plan to move forward.   This episode is a discussion about why it is necessary to grow and move forward.  Why we must not get stagnant and just stay where we are.  We all have habits and reasons why we don't grow and progress whether it be individually or as a couple.  Listen to Griffin and Heather's passion around never wanting to settle in every aspect of life.

Gratitude is a choice. Unfortunately it isn't always the natural one.  As we've discussed before it can be easy to live in a place of discontent and wanting rather than a place of gratefulness.   Listen and hear Heather and Griffin speak on the power of gratefulness.  You will hear them explore the significance of what your gratitude is anchored to and why it takes work to develop a natural heart of gratitude.   They also unpack how important it is to show your spouse and children what you are thankful for regularly.

Making life-changing decisions always comes with trepidation.   This year Griffin and Heather made the big decision to homeschool all of their children.  After praying and seeking the Lord's guidance they made the move to alter their lives and maybe more significantly the lives of their children. This episode explores the challenges of making big decisions as a family.  How do you deal with second-guessing the decision? Is it a bad decision if it is hard? How important is it to be unified in these kinds of decisions as a couple?