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In this episode, Dr. Lurve explores one of the most painful and misunderstood forms of heartbreak, leaving someone you still love when there is no obvious betrayal, abuse or dramatic ending. We unpack the quiet erosion that can happen inside relationships over time, where emotional connection slowly disappears even though everything may “look fine” from the outside. Dr. Lurve speaks about loneliness within relationships, emotional absence, unmet needs, avoidant dynamics and the grief that comes from realizing love alone is no longer enough to sustain connection. Key Topics Covered: - Leaving someone you still love - Emotional loneliness inside relationships - The quiet erosion of connection over time - Functional communication vs emotional intimacy - Passive emotional neglect and self silencing - Understanding unmet emotional needs - Avoidant attachment and emotional withdrawal - Loving someone’s potential instead of their reality - Outgrowing relationships without betrayal or abuse - The grief and guilt of choosing yourself - Self abandonment in long term relationships - Choosing peace, self respect and emotional honesty Memorable Quotes “Loneliness inside a relationship cuts deeper than being alone.” “Chronically unmet is not a personal failing.” “Staying in a relationship that drains you is a slow abandonment of yourself.” “A healthy connection expands you. It doesn’t shrink you.” “Sometimes the bravest thing you’ll ever do is leave someone you love.” Questions to Reflect On: - Am I in love with who they are now or who I hope they become? - Do I feel emotionally met in this relationship? - Have I started silencing my needs to avoid disappointment? - Am I carrying the emotional labor of this relationship alone? - If nothing changed in the next five years, would I feel at peace? - Am I staying out of love, guilt or fear? - Does this relationship allow me to expand or does it make me smaller? - What is my nervous system trying to tell me? This week, reflect on whether your relationship is truly nourishing your emotional world or whether you have slowly adapted to disconnection, loneliness and self-abandonment in the name of love.

In this episode we challenge the fantasy of the “perfectly secure relationship” and explains why healthy love is not about avoiding pain, conflict, or triggers, it’s about repair, responsiveness and emotional honesty. We explore how conflict, emotional rupture, nervous system activation and imperfect moments are normal parts of intimacy. Rather than seeing every difficult moment as a red flag, Dr. Lurve encourages listeners to focus on whether a relationship can recover, reconnect and grow stronger after disconnection. We also dive into attachment patterns, emotional regulation, communication during conflict and why calm, stable love can initially feel unfamiliar to people who equate intensity with chemistry. Key Topics Covered: - Why perfectly secure relationships do not exist - The difference between healthy conflict and unhealthy dynamics - How childhood experiences shape adult relationships - Why repair matters more than perfection - Understanding nervous system activation in intimacy - Emotional responsiveness and accountability in relationships - The difference between chaos, chemistry and calm love - Why mature love can feel “boring” at first - Questions to ask when evaluating relationship security - Learning to communicate hurt without blame or punishment - Co-creating emotional safety with a partner Memorable Quotes “Responsiveness is sexy. Responsibility is sexy. Repair is sexy.” “Secure love is not dramatic. It’s brave.” “Calm is where trust grows.” “A secure relationship is not something one person gives the other. It is something two people co-create.” Main Takeaways: - Healthy Relationships Include Conflict Dr. Lurve explains that all relationships involve misunderstandings, emotional misses and moments of disconnection. These moments are not automatic signs that a relationship is failing. - Repair Is the Real Measure of Security The key question is not whether conflict happens but whether both people can return, communicate honestly and reconnect after rupture. - Childhood Patterns Influence Adult Love Many people learned unhealthy relationship dynamics growing up like silence, withdrawal, punishment, emotional inconsistency, or avoidance  which can make normal conflict feel threatening in adulthood. - Calm Love Can Feel Unfamiliar People who associate love with intensity and emotional activation may mistake calm, emotionally safe relationships as “boring,” when in reality they are experiencing stability. Emotional Responsibility Matters Secure love involves: - Speaking honestly about hurt - Staying emotionally available during tension - Taking accountability - Listening without defensiveness - Asking for needs directly instead of testing a partner Questions to Reflect On: - Do we repair after conflict? - Can we talk about what hurts without turning it into a war? - Do we return to each other after disconnection? - Can I tell the truth in this relationship? - Do we take responsibility when we miss each other emotionally? - Am I expecting perfection instead of practicing repair? - Am I repairable when conflict happens? This week, reflect on whether you are measuring love through perfection or through the ability to repair, reconnect, and grow together after difficult moments.

In this week's episode, Dr. Lurve explores one of the most misunderstood parts of personal growth: Why healing can feel uncomfortable, disorienting and even wrong before it starts to feel safe. As you begin to set boundaries, tell the truth and choose yourself, your nervous system may interpret these healthy changes as danger not because they are wrong but because they are unfamiliar. This episode unpacks the difference between discomfort that signals growth and discomfort that signals self betrayal. If you’ve ever questioned your progress, felt guilty for changing or been tempted to return to old patterns just because they felt easier this conversation is for you. Key Topics Covered - Why your nervous system prioritizes familiarity over health - How survival patterns (people-pleasing, overworking, overthinking) become your “normal” - The emotional and physical discomfort that often comes with healing - The “bridge” between your old identity and your evolving self - Why guilt, doubt, and grief are common during growth - How to distinguish healing discomfort from self betrayal - The reality that not everyone will support your transformation - Why missing toxic dynamics can be a form of withdrawal not longing - The cost of becoming more authentic and self respecting Key Takeaways: - Healing doesn’t always feel peaceful it can feel messy, raw, and confusing - Discomfort is not proof you’re doing something wrong; it may mean you’re breaking old patterns - Your body may interpret healthy change as danger because it’s unfamiliar - Guilt is often the price of no longer abandoning yourself - Growth may lead to losing relationships that depended on your old identity - Healing stretches you; self betrayal shrinks you - You don’t need to feel fully comfortable to be on the right path.  Memorable Quotes - “Sometimes you’re finally doing something right it just doesn’t feel familiar yet.” - “Your nervous system measures familiarity, not health.” - “Healing is not always pretty, but it’s honest.” - “Sometimes guilt is just the price of no longer self abandoning.” - “You cannot become more whole and stay perfectly digestible to everyone.” - “You’re not going backwards, you may be becoming.”   Who This Episode Is For: - Anyone beginning their healing or personal growth journey - People struggling with boundaries, guilt, or people pleasing - Those leaving toxic relationships or unhealthy dynamics - If you're feeling lost, confused or uncomfortable during change Actionable Reflections: - Where in your life are you choosing familiarity over truth? - Are you interpreting discomfort as danger or as growth? - What boundaries feel “wrong” but actually align with your self respect? - Are you mistaking withdrawal from chaos as missing connection? If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need this reminder. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and join the conversation by sharing your healing journey.

In this episode Dr. Lurve explores the empathy trap a hidden pattern where caring deeply for others leads to self abandonment.  If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship longer than you should not because of love but because of guilt, fear or responsibility for someone else’s emotions this episode will speak directly to you. Dr. Lurve unpacks how empathy, while a beautiful strength, can become emotionally draining and even imprisoning when it overrides your own needs, truth, and wellbeing. What You’ll Learn:  - What the empathy trap is and how to recognize it - The difference between empathy and emotional responsibility - Why highly empathetic people often stay in unfulfilling relationships - How guilt disguises itself as compassion - The emotional and physical cost of self abandonment - How trauma, attachment styles, and childhood roles shape this pattern - Practical steps to break free and reclaim your sense of self How to Break the Empathy Trap - Give yourself permission to choose you - Feel guilt without obeying it - Communicate truth with compassion - Stop rescuing your partner through the breakup - Set and maintain emotional boundaries Powerful Takeaways - “You’re not staying out of love, you’re staying out of guilt.” - “Empathy without boundaries becomes a prison.” - “You are allowed to disappoint someone to stay true to yourself.” - “Truth delivered with compassion is still truth.” Reflective Questions - Am I staying in this relationship out of love or guilt? - Do I feel responsible for my partner’s emotions? - What am I sacrificing to keep this relationship going? - Would I want someone to stay with me out of pity? Final Thoughts You are not cruel for choosing yourself. You are not selfish for speaking your truth. Empathy is a beautiful strength but only when it exists alongside boundaries. Without them, it becomes a cage of your own making. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs to hear this, leave a review and let us know your thought or reach out with your experiences or topic requests for future episodes.

Avoiding hard conversations might feel like protection but it’s actually slowly damaging your relationship. In this episode, Dr. Lurve breaks down why silence creates distance, how unspoken feelings turn into resentment, and why honest, vulnerable communication is the key to real intimacy. You’ll learn how to approach difficult conversations without creating conflict, how to regulate your emotions in the moment, and what it really means to build a deep, connected relationship. Key Takeaways Avoidance doesn’t protect relationships, it poisons them over timeWhat goes unsaid doesn’t disappear, it shows up as resentment, distance, and disconnectionHard conversations are not conflict, they are connectionHonesty without attack builds trust and intimacyDiscomfort is where growth and deeper connection happenYou don’t need resolution you need understanding, honesty, and presenceAvoidance leads to emotional distance, assumptions, and eventual burnoutWhat Hard Conversations Can Sound Like “I’m scared to say this, but I need to…”“I don’t want to fight—I want to understand.”“I’ve been holding this in and it’s creating distance between us.” How to Start a Hard Conversation Set the intention firstCreate safety before sharing the issueExample: “I care about us, and I want to talk about something important.”Speak from your experienceUse “I feel…” or “I’ve noticed…”Avoid blame statements like “you always” or “you never”Focus on impact, not blameShare how it affects you rather than attacking your partnerAllow space for processingNot every conversation ends in agreement—and that’s okayThe Letter Exercise A powerful tool to open honest communication: Each partner writes a letter answering: “What am I afraid to say to you?”Be honest, unfiltered, and vulnerableExchange letters and read them without:InterruptingDefendingFixingThis creates clarity, relief, and emotional safety when done correctly When Hard Conversations Feel Impossible It may be due to: Avoidant attachment patternsLow emotional intelligenceLack of motivation in the relationshipHabitual emotional avoidanceTruth: If someone can’t engage in hard conversations, they can’t build depth Relationship Reality Check Ask yourself: Am I carrying the emotional load alone?Is my partner willing to meet me here?Are they engaging or just enduring the relationship? Final Thought Hard conversations aren’t interruptions to intimacy, they are intimacy. If you can’t be honest with the person you love, disconnection is already there. Truth, when shared with care, doesn’t break relationships, silence does. Call to Action If you’ve been avoiding a conversation, maybe it’s time to have it. And if you need support learning how to navigate these moments, reach out to a professional or connect with Dr. Lurve for guidance.

Breakups hurt but not always for the reasons we think. In this episode we explore the deeper layers of post-breakup grief and why missing someone is often less about the person and more about the version of yourself that existed within the relationship. When a relationship ends, you don’t just lose a partner you lose routines, identity, belonging and a future you once imagined. That loss can leave you feeling disoriented, questioning your decision, and even tempted to return to something that you already know wasn’t right. This episode unpacks the difference between missing the relationship and missing the identity you held within it. We dive into why our nervous systems crave familiarity even if it was unhealthy and how emotional maturity means holding two truths at once: you can miss someone and still know the relationship wasn’t right for you. If you’re navigating a breakup or questioning why letting go feels so confusing, this conversation will help you understand what you’re really grieving and how to reclaim the parts of yourself that got lost along the way. In This Episode, You’ll Learn Why breakups often feel like an identity collapse, not just heartbreakThe difference between missing someone vs. missing how you felt when you were with themHow your nervous system becomes attached to familiarity even when it isn’t healthyWhy people often return to relationships that weren’t good for themHow emotionally mature people hold conflicting feelings without abandoning themselvesWhy you don’t need closure from your ex to move forwardHow to reclaim your identity and sense of self after a breakup Reflection Questions Ask yourself: Do I actually miss them, or do I miss who I was when I was with them?What parts of me felt alive in that relationship?What parts of me became smaller or quieter?If they came back today exactly as they were, would I still feel aligned?Am I longing for love or for familiarity? If This Episode Resonated If you’re navigating identity loss after a breakup and want support reconnecting with yourself, Dr. Lurve offers workshops, programs, coaching, and retreats designed to help you rebuild your identity and reclaim your sense of self. Stay tuned for future episodes diving deeper into relationships, attachment, and emotional growth.

Love can be deep, genuine, and full of effort yet still leave your partner feeling unloved. In this episode of Between the Sheets, we unpack one of the most widely known but most commonly misunderstood relationship concepts: the five love languages. Most people have heard of them. Many have even taken the quiz. But very few couples actually use them in a way that improves their relationship. We explore why loving someone the way you want to love them often misses the mark, and how understanding your partner’s emotional language can transform connection, reduce resentment and stop the constant feeling of “nothing I do is ever enough.” We break down how each love language actually works in real relationships how to love someone right, how people often love wrong, and how to start having the conversations that bring couples back into alignment. In This Episode Why you can deeply love someone and still make them feel unlovedWhat the five love languages really mean in everyday relationshipsThe difference between intentional love vs. love that actually landsCommon mistakes couples make when using love languagesWhy effort without alignment often feels emptyHow miscommunication turns into resentment over timeThe simple conversations that can change your relationship dynamic The Five Love Languages ExplainedWords of Affirmation For these people, words regulate their nervous system. They feel loved through: Verbal appreciationEncouragementBeing told they matterWhat hurts: SilenceOnly speaking up when something is wrongAssuming they “just know” you love them Quality Time This isn’t about spending more time together. It’s about being fully present. They feel loved through: Undivided attentionDeep conversationsShared experiencesWhat hurts: Constant distractionHalf listeningBeing physically together but emotionally absent Acts of Service For these partners, love is demonstrated through action. They feel loved when you: Help without being askedFollow through on promisesLighten their loadWhat hurts: Empty words without actionBroken promisesMinimizing practical responsibilities Physical Touch This language is about connection through the body not just sex. They feel loved through: Hugs, hand holding, cuddlingAffection outside the bedroomSmall physical reassurancesWhat hurts: Only touching when you want sexWithdrawing touch during conflictTreating physical affection as optional Gifts This is the most misunderstood love language. It isn’t about money or materialism. It’s about thoughtfulness and being remembered. They feel loved when you: Give meaningful, thoughtful itemsRemember important datesSurprise them with small gesturesWhat hurts: Forgetting consistentlyDismissing gifts as materialisticLast minute or impersonal presents The Big Relationship Insight Most people love the way they want to be loved and expect their partner to translate it. But love isn’t telepathic. It’s learned, intentional, and practiced. When couples learn each other’s love language: Arguments about effort disappearThe guessing stopsPartners feel seen and valuedLove becomes clear, efficient, and nourishing.

In this episode, Dr. Lurve challenges the cultural myth that apologies automatically fix relationships. We’ve been conditioned to believe that a sincere “sorry” resets everything, that once the words are said, we move on and start fresh. But that’s not how trust works. An apology is not a reset button. It doesn’t erase memory, undo hurt, or repair a dysregulated nervous system. It’s not the finish line, it’s the starting point. Real remorse isn’t emotional theater. It’s behavior change. In This Episode, We Explore: Why apologies don’t erase patternsThe myth of “sorry” as a relationship resetThe difference between remorse and responsibilityWhy forgiveness is a gift not a free passThe unspoken contract that comes with being forgivenHow repeated apologies without change erode trustWhat real accountability actually looks likeWhy character is revealed after the apology, not during it Key Takeaways: Apologies soften the moment  they don’t repair the pattern. If the same behavior keeps happening, the apology was a pause, not accountability. Forgiveness is generous, but it comes with responsibility. When someone forgives you, they’re offering trust not erasing memory. Trust requires evidence. Without changed behavior, words lose meaning and hope turns into hypervigilance. Responsibility belongs to the person who has the power to choose differently. You can’t ask someone to heal around your unchanged behavior. Love is proven in responsibility, not remorse. Remorse feels good. Responsibility creates safety. Reflection Questions: If you’re the one apologizing: What am I not changing?What am I hoping my apology will excuse?Am I doing the uncomfortable work of becoming safer to love?If you’re the one forgiving: Am I seeing real effort and alignment?Or am I being asked to trust without proof? Final Thoughts The most powerful apology is the one you never have to repeat. Real relationships are built on integrity not intentions. If you mean it, prove it. Let your behavior be the apology that lasts. If this episode resonated with you and you’re navigating challenges around accountability, boundaries, or emotional maturity, Dr. Lurvee offers workshops, programs, and retreats where you can dive deeper into this work. Reach out to connect. Until next time, lovers this is Between the Sheets with Dr. Lurve.

Modern dating has started to feel like a second job, endless swiping, decoding mixed signals, managing situationships and trying to stay “chill” when you’re absolutely not.  In this episode we break down why 2026 is the year of intentional dating and why clarity, consistency and momentum are replacing confusion and dopamine driven chaos. With research showing that over half of Gen Z and Millennials are prioritising true love even above finances and career the dating landscape is shifting. Australians are increasingly dating with direction and commitment is making a comeback. This episode dives into what intentional dating actually looks like in practice, why ambiguity is emotionally expensive and how to stop repeating the same patterns with a different person. What You’ll Learn: Why modern dating feels emotionally drainingThe difference between attention vs. intentionWhy ghosting happens (and what it really says)How ambiguity impacts your nervous systemWhy commitment is trending again in AustraliaHow some dating apps are redesigning for intentional behaviourThe role AI is playing in modern dating The 4 Pillars of Intentional Dating The practical four pillar framework to help you date with clarity and confidence: 1. Clarity Know what you’re looking for and say it early. If you want a relationship, don’t invest in someone who “just wants to see what happens.” 2. Consistency Look for repeated behaviour not emotional spikes. Romance isn’t disappearing for five days after a great date, that’s emotional whiplash. 3. Boundaries Protect your nervous system. Boundaries aren’t about controlling others, they’re about leading yourself. 4. Momentum Connection should move forward in real life. If you’ve been texting for weeks without meeting, you’re not dating, you’re pen pals. The State of Dating in 2026 Over 50% of Gen Z and Millennials are prioritising true love this year59% of Australians say they are dating to marry91% of people report modern dating apps as challengingAmbiguity and ghosting are major contributors to dating burnoutThe shift? From hustle culture to love culture. Connection is becoming the new form of success. Intentional Dating & App Design Dr. Lurve explores how some platforms including Coffee Meets Bagel are designing features that support healthy dating behaviour, including: Curated daily matches to reduce swipe fatigueAnti-ghosting chat expiration featuresIntentional first move promptsDetailed, values based profilesTransparency tools that encourage accountabilityThe takeaway: No app is magic but design influences behaviour. AI & Dating More singles are using AI to craft messages and polish profiles. Used well, AI can reduce anxiety and support clarity but it can’t replace authentic connection. If AI becomes your personality, you’re not dating your algorithm is. Your Intentional Dating Checklist This Week: State your intention clearly in one sentence.Ask one value based question early on.Move toward a real life date within 7 - 10 days.Choose quality over quantity.Pick environments that match your intention.Intentional dating isn’t about being rigid. It’s about choosing clarity over confusion, connection over chasing and momentum over mind games. If you’re tired of dating potential and crying in voice notes to your friends this episode is your reset. Share this with someone who needs it. See you on the next episode of Between the Sheets with Dr. Lurve.

In this episode of Between the Sheets we unpack The CEO Trap a common pattern where high-functioning, capable women find that the very competence that built their lives is quietly killing intimacy and desire in their relationships. If you've ever thought "I can run a business, but why is love so hard?" or "I feel needed, not desired," this episode is for you where we explore how over functioning, control, and emotional self-sufficiency can block chemistry and what it really takes to move from manager to partner in love. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - What the CEO Trap is and how competence can turn into control - Why attraction needs polarity and space, not management - How over-functioning leads to boredom, resentment and disconnection - The link between childhood survival strategies and adult intimacy - Why chemistry dies when responsibility dominates desire - How dating potential keeps your armour firmly in place - Why passive partners are often drawn to highly competent people - The emotional cost of being relied on instead of chosen Key Takeaways: - Competence as a survival strategy: For many women, being capable meant safety, love, and control but that armour blocks closeness in adult relationships. - Over-functioning vs. intimacy: When you manage everything, there's no room for your partner to meet you. - Sex & desire: Responsibility is not sexy. When intimacy becomes transactional, desire drops. - Resentment cycle: The more you do, the more you resent and the less your partner steps up. - Dating reality, not potential: Chemistry doesn't grow from construction projects. Practical Shifts Dr. Lurve Recommends: - Practice receiving (without correcting, deflecting, or managing) - Ask directly for what you need instead of silently coping - Let your partner lead in one domain and don't micromanage it - Learn repair language instead of control language - Choose consistency and current behaviour over future promises You don't need to be less powerful to have love you just need less armour. You're allowed to rest, to be met and to be chosen not relied upon. Love requires risk, space, and trust, not constant management. Work With Dr. Lurve Ready to heal your patterns and experience a new kind of love? You can: - Join a retreat in Bali - Attend a workshop in Australia - Start one of Dr. Lurve’s online programs - Apply for 1:1 coaching - Connect with the team for support Connect + Share If this episode hit home, share it with the friend  Tag @dr.lurve on Instagram or slide into the DMs with what resonated most. Have a topic you want Dr. Lurve to unpack? Email or DM anytime. See you next time on Between the Sheets with Dr. Lurve.

If you’ve ever celebrated a “Good morning” text like it was a grand romantic gesture, mistook crumbs for commitment or convinced yourself that your anxiety was chemistry, this conversation is going to hit home in the best possible way. This episode is your wakeup call, your nervous system hug and your permission slip to never entertain bare minimum behavior again. In This Episode, We Cover: - Why Women Are Conditioned to Accept Less Than They Deserve - Emotional, Social & Generational Training that Creates Overfunctioning - How Childhood Attachment Shapes Attraction to Inconsistent Men - The Nervous System: Why “Bare Minimum” Can Feel Like Love - Potential vs. Reality: The Trap of Investing in Who He Could Be - The 10 Signs You’re Dating a Bare Minimum Man - The Feminine Shift: From Hyperindependence to Softness & Standards - How to Raise Your Standards Without Feeling Guilty - Reprogramming Overgiving & Overfunctioning - Letting the Wrong Man Eliminate Himself - What Happens When You Finally Meet a Man Who Shows Up Key Takeaways: - Women don’t accept bare minimum because they’re “stupid”, conditioning chooses for them - Your nervous system may mistake inconsistency for love because that’s what felt familiar - Healing makes you allergic to bare minimum behavior - You are not asking for too much, you were asking the wrong person - Standards aren’t demands; they’re boundaries - You don’t need to explain your standards. You embody them - Raising your standards may feel scary at first, that’s your nervous system rewiring - A man aligned with you will rise; a bare minimum man will exit. Both are blessings. - When you meet real emotional safety, you’ll never settle for crumbs again Work With Dr. Lurve Ready to heal your patterns and experience a new kind of love? You can: - Join a retreat in Bali - Attend a workshop in Australia - Start one of Dr. Lurve’s online programs - Apply for 1:1 coaching - Connect with the team for support Connect + Share If this episode hit home, share it with the friend  Tag @dr.lurve on Instagram or slide into the DMs with what resonated most. Have a topic you want Dr. Lurve to unpack? Email or DM anytime. See you next time on Between the Sheets with Dr. Lurve.

Welcome back to a brand new season of Between the Sheets with Dr. Lurve. In this week’s episode, we dive deep into a relationship pattern so many people confuse for “chemistry,” when what we’re actually feeling is the body’s addiction to chaos. This episode is your guided tour through emotional intensity: why it feels like love and how to break the trauma loops that keep you chasing relationships that burn hot, crash hard and leave you feeling empty. In This Episode, We Cover: - The Myth of “Chemistry” - The Science Behind the Addiction - Childhood Roots of Chaos Based Attraction - The Trauma Loop Explained - How to Break the Pattern - Why Healthy Love Feels “Boring” at First Key Takeaways - You’re not “crazy” for craving intensity, you’re wired for it. - Addiction in relationships is a nervous system response, not a character flaw. - Calm love isn’t boring; it’s stable and your body can learn to desire it. - Healing begins the moment you see your patterns clearly and choose differently. - You can break the cycle and rewire your emotional chemistry. Work With Dr. Lurve Ready to heal your patterns and experience a new kind of love? You can: - Join a retreat in Bali - Attend a workshop in Australia - Start one of Dr. Lurve’s online programs - Apply for 1:1 coaching - Connect with the team for support Connect + Share If this episode hit home, share it with the friend who’s stuck in her “but he might change” era. Tag @dr.lurve on Instagram or slide into the DMs with what resonated most. Have a topic you want Dr. Lurve to unpack? Email or DM anytime. See you next time on Between the Sheets with Dr. Lurve.

Rebecca Grech from Sexyland joins me to chat about the importance of sexual wellness and education for all - regardless of age, preference or nationality. In this episode we cover: - How Sexyland has created a safe and judgement free space for customers to embark on their sexual wellness journey - The importance of education to help remove stigma and shame - Creating a safe space for people to explore their sexuality without judgement - Their new Get Real campaign and how it aims to promote authenticity and open conversations  -  Offering a diverse and affordable range of products, ensuring everyone feels catered for  Plus so much more. From sensory exploration to engaging games, Sexyland has something for everyone. Don't miss this opportunity to dive into a world of pleasure and empowerment. Connect with me: www.drlurve.com Follow me on Instagram: @dr.lurve Use to my code DRLURVE10 for 10% off at  www.sexylandaustralia.com Thank you to our sponsors: www.sexyland.com.au www.sanare.com.au www.cassandramamone.com

Chris Nicholls joins me to chat about being on reality tv, mental health and his new career. In this episode: - His experience on reality tv - What he's learnt from being on MAFS - Why he applied to be on Married At First Sight - What really happened behind the scenes - The truth about what went on after the show finished - His new career in coaching - Struggling with mental health in the past - How four of his previous relationships ended - The work he's done to get to where he is now Plus much much more. Connect with me: www.drlurve.com Follow me on Instagram: @dr.lurve Follow Chris  on Instagram: @chris_nicko_ Thank you to our sponsors: www.sexyland.com.au www.sanare.com.au www.cassandramamone.com

Alanna Smith joins me to chat about her life, love and how she became a brow artist. In this episode: - The way she starts her day - Why she thrives in routine - Finding what works for her - Why running is so crucial for her wellbeing - Her eye for fashion and individual style - How her mood impacts what she wears - Her last relationship and why they broke up after 6 years Plus so much more. Connect with me: www.drlurve.com Follow me on Instagram: @dr.lurve Follow Alanna  on Instagram: @browsbyakae Thank you to our sponsors: www.sexyland.com.au www.sanare.com.au www.cassandramamone.com