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Why are the self titled trauma informed coaches that apparently have "safe spaces" the most trauma inducing? ------ Positioning yourself as the holier than thou wokest leader of them all has it's consequences: Most people doing this are putting themselves in the rescuer position. You will either... 1. Attract victims who will hand over the bulk of their personal responsibility and if you do not comply to the victim they will smear you as an abuser. 2. Create an unrealistic standard for yourself which is beyond any regular human. The judgment you have for other experts being "toxic" will one day come back like a boomerang on your ass.  You're a human just like the people you judge and you are not exempt from being dethroned from the high-horse you place yourself on. Yes there are people doing bad shit.. there always will be. The one projecting onto the "bad people" the most often have the most skeletons in their own closet... because they don't apply the same accountability toward themselves as much as they pressure others to be accountable. for more of Brandon Marshall Havener visit http://www.brandonmarshallhavener.com

In this episode of Sorry I Offended You with Brandon Marshall Havener ... * Air BNB f*ckery… the crazy behavior behind super hosts and white people touching thermostats * Air BNB superhosts are filled with WHITE RAGE * Can white people can’t be victims of racism? * Stop pacifying little b*tches in your online business * Mushroom Musings... "Put The Gun Down"  how mushrooms have healed my nervous system and the cool experiences I've had so far...  * School shootings, the 2nd amendment and changing the discussion we have about mass shootings. What is the solution? * Bathe in her milk - Do you want to bathe in her almond milk or traditional milk? For more visit my website at http://www.brandonmarshallhavener.com

On this episode I say WHY I am proud to be problematic to those who call people problematic.   I touch on the topic of the recent Jordan Peterson outrage I also talk about the recent Elon Musk outrage...   and furthermore why gossip and tearing down people's reputation is a dirty game to be a part of. Of course I also talk about how you can be equipped to deal with reputation smearing when it comes your way. It's quite inevitable when you are in the spotlight.   For more Brandon Marshall Havener go to http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com

I talk about both investing in yourself and bitcoin.   We live in a society where we want results to be super fast...   but here is WHY you shouldn't be so focused on the immediate ROI... whether you're investing in coaching, crypto, stocks or whatever it may be!   For more Brandon Marshall Havener content visit http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com

Humanity has lost touch in what real masculinity is.   We confuse men emotionally reacting and getting violent as divine masculine.   We confuse men trying to control women as divine masculine. We can't tell the difference between a fake leader and a real one.   We celebrate those who put innocent lives in danger.   We celebrate those who can't regulate their emotions. We celebrate those who have outdated values and want to rob women of their rights.   In the first part of the episode I address the situation between Will Smith and Chris Rock. I point out what went wrong and my thoughts on the reaction itself.   In the middle of this episode I address woke people (of course.. when do I not at this point?) and how they've predictably diluted the conversation about Will Smith, Jada Smith and Chris Rock at the Oscars.   And lastly I address alt right extremism and INCELs (men who don't respect women and the feminine) and the insecurity that comes along with that. This is covering a tweet from Elijah Schaffer (from both Slightly Offensive and You Are Here podcast) where he said that women should not pursue their careers and shouldn't be allowed to vote. How to find me Website -  http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com F*** Cancel Culture Program -  https://spiritualsmartassery8.lpages.co/fckcancelculture/

This is Brandon Marshall Havener aka The Spiritual SmartAss with another episode of The Sorry I Offended You podcast. In this episode I rant about * "Alpha Males" promoting touching each other's g******s to increase their masculine power.   * The feminization of masculinity and why it's happening.   * The real meaning behind fighting gender norms and why it actually means to tear down masculinity * Boys being sent to schools by their parents with a dress on and boys being forced to become more feminine. (why it's happening and what dangers they create.   * Why male celebrities could be wearing dresses as a humiliation ritual And... * Gender roles in relationships...  blending in both tradition and evolution in modern day marriages. visit http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com for updates and everything Brandon Marshall Havener 

In this episode Brandon Marshall Havener aka The Spiritual SmartAss shares his experience in his marriage and maintaining a healthy relationship. What to expect: Why monogamy isn't the reason relationships fail 5 crucial components to a successful relationship or marriage Relationship skills that help you both in romance and in business.   http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com

When conspiracy theories demoralize you...  perhaps... that's the real conspiracy? In this episode I talk about the lessons I learned from getting shadowbanned on Instagram,  Elon Musk buying twitter and 3 ways you can benefit from the move that he made. I also talk about my thoughts on calling Elon Musk controlled opposition... could he be? Certainly...  but how do we best help ourselves, our legacy, our family and business success?  Where do we find certainty and growth? Tune in to find out.   Website: http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com

 I address holding your frame in conversations like a so called "mediocre white man".   By listening to this episode you will have a better understanding of holding your frame in intense conversations and also establishing healthy boundaries when your reputation is under attack.   I also address my thoughts with "punching down" in comedy and why it may not create a utopia like what seems to be intended by criticizing "punching down"   F Cancel Culture Program: https://spiritualsmartassery8.lpages.co/fckcancelculture/ Website: http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com

Trending topics don't always have to be negative. Yes the common criticism in business is that people lose all control of themselves instead of promoting their actual business - this can be true. However, trending topics and bridging it to your personal brand can also be used as a strategy - and that's what I'll be talking about. I also couldn't help to talk more about masculinity, being married to a successful woman and many other things.   How to find / work with me: F*** Cancel Culture Digital Program -  https://spiritualsmartassery8.lpages.co/fckcancelculture/ Website: http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com

Welcome to the Sorry I Offended You Podcast with Brandon Marshall Havener aka The Spiritual SmartAss today I rant about the importance of honoring women's spaces and how important it is to stand your ground during a time where there is gaslighting and the blurring of boundaries.  I state my thoughts and views on trans activism and my stance on protecting women's sports.   Also I cover my thoughts around the documentary "Bad Vegan".  About Sarma Melngailis who end up in an abusive relationship with a scam artist.. and how having no boundaries or sense of grounded-ness can completely sabotage a wealthy successful woman.  I also mention Robert Greene (author of 48 Laws of Power and Art Of Seduction) and why even though these books may be considered dark and machiavellian... why it's important to understand this intense realism and psychology in order to survive and thrive in business.  The people most outraged about Ukraine actively vote for the war industrial complex and pressure their peers to do the same. The people who say sex should be taught to 5 year olds to protect them from predators are the same people who don’t say anything when the politicians they vote for or celebrities they celebrate are involved in child trafficking. The people who yell the loudest about women’s rights cower when it comes to protecting women spaces and are often involved in the bullying of women when they don’t fall in line. It’s possible to stand for what’s right. When we’re unified we can create peace, stop the war industrial complex, protect children, women and trans people all at the same time. (Refusing to dishonor women doesn’t make you transphobic) But instead we ignore facts, logic and truth in order to make optics & tribalism more important than what’s the right thing to do. We resort to label inflation and name calling instead of open dialogue. Humanity will evolve and this is the lesson humanity needs to learn. Don’t be afraid to speak up. Don’t be afraid of nuance. Don’t be afraid to utilize your education beyond these mindless talking points of the politically uneducated. Fck cancel culture - https://spiritualsmartassery8.lpages.co/fckcancelculture/ Website - https://brandonmarshallhavener.com/

The truth is that sometimes vulnerability can be a strength but other times it actually weakens your personal brand and the trust people have for you. In this episode you will learn how to market in a way where your vulnerability is seen as a strength rather than a weakness. It's also great for dating and relationships advice.   ALL THE THINGS -  http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com Fck Cancel Culture Program: https://spiritualsmartassery8.lpages.co/fckcancelculture/