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Thanks to our good friends at Advisor.com for sponsoring this episode! Schedule a FREE consultation call with Advisor today and never make another financial decision alone. Take this short quiz to get started: https://bit.ly/3RzBREsIn this new 2-part series, Unpartnered Wealth, TFD Content & Production Manager, Alexa Claire, sits down with fan-favorite guest, Anita, to talk about what it's like to date while building a life for yourself in this economy, as two, single Black women of different generations. In our second episode, they talk about regrets and red flags, a new perspective on the tradwife movement, and what everyone should do to financially protect themselves, no matter whether the work or how much they love their partner. MORE WITH Alexa Claire- The Single Tax Series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD30V46E07RRwxfptSmNuEcKhMyOHGLAD&si=il5lJzhZaRpcyUKf- Follow her here: https://www.instagram.com/momentswac/MORE WITH Anita:- Anita's episode of Just Getting Good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zu1J-Hscro&- Follow her here: https://www.instagram.com/annie_on_a_good_day/?hl=en MENTIONED CONTENT +SOURCES : - RomComOnomics: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD30V46E07RQNHvvoztjJ7-JhV2mFQ5g3&si=35g-m1qYxJReh4PF - Michelle Obama's Podcast / Black Children Dating: https://youtu.be/lQPb1JXG6Ww?si=rOsaGfL8Ds59YcJi&t=1544 00:00:00 Cold open00:00:30 Intro & Advisor.com shoutout00:02:25 The patriarchy still shows up in dating00:05:56 The single mom conversation00:15:40 What are your thoughts on prenups?00:25:32 What’s the point of getting married without combining finances?00:34:41 The having kids conversation00:39:25 We gotta talk about tradwives00:50:50 Advice for 30-somethings who feel behind01:02:59 What in life do you wish you’d done differently?01:11:34 Feminine vs masculine energy and money01:17:15 The question you should ask every date01:21:45 The disservice we do Black daughters

Thanks to our good friends at Advisor.com for sponsoring this episode! Schedule a FREE consultation call with Advisor today and never make another financial decision alone. Take this short quiz to get started: https://bit.ly/3To24X5In this new 2-part series, Unpartnered Wealth, TFD Content & Production Manager, Alexa Claire, sits down with fan-favorite guest, Anita, to talk about what it's like to date while building a life for yourself in this economy, as two, single Black women of different generations. In this first episode, they talk about the costs (financial and otherwise) of dating as a Black woman, the reality of using the apps at different ages and stages, and how friends can be even more important in life than romantic partners. MORE WITH Alexa Claire- The Single Tax Series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD30V46E07RRwxfptSmNuEcKhMyOHGLAD&si=il5lJzhZaRpcyUKf- Follow her here: https://www.instagram.com/momentswac/MORE WITH Anita:- Anita's episode of Just Getting Good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zu1J-Hscro&- Follow her here: https://www.instagram.com/annie_on_a_good_day/?hl=enSOURCES- British Vogue article, “Please Stop Telling Your Partner My Secrets https://www.vogue.co.uk/article/please-stop-telling-your-partner-my-secrets- The Cuffing Economy https://www.intuit.com/blog/innovative-thinking/the-cuffing-economy-how-gen-z-is-redefining-love-and-money/#:~:text=51%25%20of%20Americans%20are%20going,secure%20and%20lasting%20future%20together00:00:00 Cold open00:00:51 Intro and ad break00:02:54 Welcome Anita & Alexa!00:04:11 What does your dating life look like right now?00:11:58 The finances of dating00:17:08 Becoming your date’s life coach00:32:30 What are you looking for in your romantic life?00:38:50 The mental toll of financial infidelity00:43:20 The gig economy of dating00:50:28 Audience q: divorcing a narcissist 00:55:00 Friends who show up the way we expect a partner to01:02:00 Stop telling your partner your friends’ secrets

Thanks to our good friends at Advisor.com for sponsoring this episode! Schedule a FREE consultation call with Advisor today and never make another financial decision alone . Take this short quiz to get started: https://bit.ly/4ycZtz5 OTHER FINANCIAL PRODUCTS WE PERSONALLY RECOMMEND: -Budgeting app: Monarch: https://bit.ly/4vBGZ9G -Investing: Betterment: https://bit.ly/3SAzUI0 -High-Yield Savings Account: SoFi: https://bit.ly/4vHE7bo Welcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In our final episode of the season, Chelsea speaks with the fabulous Maryjane Fahey about her iconic Instagram account Glorious Broads, working for fashion magazines in the 90s, going into tremendous debt and finding her way out of it later in life. Follow Maryjane here: https://www.instagram.com/gloriousbroads/Want to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/46jmyUE

Thanks to our good friends at Monarch for sponsoring this video! Get 50% off Monarch's Core Plan with code TFD50: https://bit.ly/JGG070126OTHER FINANCIAL PRODUCTS WE PERSONALLY RECOMMEND:-Investing app - Betterment: https://bit.ly/3OejinG-Financial Advisory: Advisor.com: https://bit.ly/4dXOaTIWelcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In this episode, Chelsea speaks with Mel Hamlett, a journalist and TikToker/YouTuber and absolute expert on the topic of flop men. They talk about living abroad as Americans, finding yourself after years of being "one of the boys," and Follow Mel here: https://www.tiktok.com/@melhamlett?lang=enWant to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/46jmyUE

Thanks to our good friends at Advisor.com for sponsoring this episode! Schedule a FREE consultation call with Advisor today and never make another financial decision alone. Take this short quiz to get started: https://bit.ly/4ycZtz5OTHER FINANCIAL PRODUCTS WE PERSONALLY RECOMMEND:-Investing app - Betterment: https://bit.ly/3OejinG-Financial Advisory: Advisor.com: https://bit.ly/4dXOaTIWelcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In this episode, Chelsea speaks with Robinne Lee, the multi-talented actor and author of the books THE IDEA OF YOU and CRASH INTO ME. They talk all about our problem with flawed female characters (and women in general), what makes a great marriage, and what happens when you've "made it" but still don't feel successful. Grab Robinne's latest book: https://bookshop.org/a/82703/9781250412751Follow Robinne here: hhttps://www.instagram.com/robinnelee/?hl=enWant to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/46jmyUE

Thanks to Betterment for sponsoring this series! Get started, be invested, sign up in minutes: https://www.betterment.com/tfdWelcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In this episode, Chelsea speaks with Kelly LaVallie, a fabulous CPA and fitness enthusiast who, about three years ago, lost her husband suddenly. They talk about grief, baring your soul online, and being open to love again after loss.Follow Kelly here: https://www.tiktok.com/@kelly_lavalliehttps://www.instagram.com/kellylavallie/?hl=enWant to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/46jmyUE

Thanks to Betterment for sponsoring this series! Get started, be invested, sign up in minutes: https://www.betterment.com/tfdWelcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In this episode, Chelsea speaks with Rosalind (Ros) Petchesky, a lifelong activist and retired professor living here in NYC. They talk about coping with this fraught political moment, Ros' activist life from reproductive rights to Gaza, the value of intergenerational friendships, and what money is actually worth.Want to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/46jmyUE

Thanks to Betterment for sponsoring this series! Get started, be invested, sign up in minutes: https://www.betterment.com/tfdWelcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In this episode, Chelsea speaks with Salina Williams, a fabulous style influencer who did things her own way: after having kids starting at age 20, she met the love of her life at 50, and quit her stable job in mental healthcare to chase her passion after his untimely passing a few years later. Tune in for a wonderful conversation about love, grief, and dressing the part and doing the thing for yourself. Follow Salina here: https://www.instagram.com/salina_sincerely/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbtD20fbC1F2kHFRhIEzFEwWant to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/JGGS4

Thanks to Betterment for sponsoring this series! Get started, be invested, sign up in minutes: https://www.betterment.com/tfdWelcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In this episode, Chelsea speaks with Kim Schlag, a kickass Philly-area fitness coach who also happens to be an ex-Mormon tradwife. She talks about growing up with Mormon convert parents, being trained for wifedom from a young age, finding herself in fitness, and eventually leaving a marriage that had never actually been happy. Follow Kim here: https://www.instagram.com/kimschlagfitness/Want to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/JGGKS_3

Thanks to Betterment for sponsoring this series! Get started, be invested, sign up in minutes: https://www.betterment.com/tfdWelcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In this episode, Chelsea speaks with the iconic Heidi Clements about sobriety, celibacy, personal style, baring your soul on the internet, and what really happens when you start to embrace aging and stop giving a sh*t what other people think.Follow Heidi here: https://www.instagram.com/welcometoheidi/Listen to her podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/talk-fifty-to-me/id1845908252Want to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/JGG2

Thanks to Betterment for sponsoring this series! Get started, be invested, sign up in minutes: https://www.betterment.com/tfdWelcome to season 2 of our fan-favorite series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. In our first episode back, Chelsea sits down with the wonderful Elizabeth White, author and founder of NUUage Coliving. Elizabeth shares her wisdom on "faking normal" when everything's falling apart, surrounding yourself with interesting people (men included), and the joy of work as she ages. Follow Elizabeth here: https://www.instagram.com/elizabethwhitefakingnormal/Grab her book: https://bookshop.org/a/82703/9781501196836Want to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to Chelsea's latest member newsletter! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/EWJGG1

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Thanks to our friends at Dieux for sponsoring this episode! You can learn more about Dieux and their approach to skincare at the link below. And use the code TFDieux for 15% off your order! https://bit.ly/JGGgilleanWelcome back to Just Getting Good, our new series where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. For our 6th episode, Chelsea sat down with 70-year-old model, Gillean McLeod. They discuss aging, plastic surgery & beauty standards, how her modeling career began at 60, finding the right style as you get older, and so much more. We loved hearing from Gillean and know you will, too!You can follow her here: https://www.instagram.com/gilleanmcleod/?hl=enThank you so much to Gillean for speaking so candidly with us! FINANCIAL PRODUCTS TO GET YOUR LIFE IN ORDER:Financial advisory - Advisor.com https://bit.ly/JGGepi6For investing - Betterment https://bit.ly/3KEvPitOur favorite budgeting app - Monarch https://bit.ly/jggepgilleanWant to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to our latest member podcast, RomComOnomics! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/46jmyUE

Thanks to our good friends at Advisor.com for sponsoring this series! Schedule a FREE consultation call with Advisor today and never make another financial decision alone! Get $500 off your first year with them by signing up through TFD. Take this short quiz to get started: https://bit.ly/Advisor1130 Welcome to our brand new series, Just Getting Good, where Chelsea sits down with women over 50 to talk about life, love, money, aging, and everything in between. For our 5th episode, Chelsea sat down with the incredible Aisha. Aisha spoke candidly about her sexual awakening after divorce at 50, healing from her childhood, the importance of body positivity and consent culture, and so much more. We loved hearing from Aisha and know you will, too! You can follow her here: https://www.instagram.com/aishahauser/ You can learn more about her work here: https://clfuu.org/ and here: https://connectlearngrow.org/ Thank you so much to Aisha for speaking so candidly with us! OTHER FINANCIAL PRODUCTS WE PERSONALLY ENDORSE: For investing - Betterment https://bit.ly/JGGBetterment1130 Our favorite budgeting app - Monarch https://bit.ly/AishaMonarch1130 Want to support TFD? One of the best ways is to join our membership program, The Society at TFD — join at the premium tier and get instant access to our latest member podcast, RomComOnomics! You can become a member here on YouTube or over on Patreon (we recommend Patreon for a better user experience!) — Join here: https://bit.ly/46jmyUE