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Why Being Seen is the New Superpower with Visibility Expert Amanda Corvelle. Have you ever wondered if the reason you don't have what you say you want isn't that you're stuck—but because you're terrified of what happens when you actually get it? We say we want more money, success, love, opportunities, and attention. But the moment we get close, we procrastinate, make excuses, play small, or wait for the perfect moment that never comes. Maybe you're not stuck. Maybe you're scared to be seen. This week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with performance and visibility expert Amanda Corvelle, who spent more than 20 years in entertainment and built a seven-figure business helping people step into their power and become visible. Amanda knows firsthand what it feels like to want the spotlight while secretly fearing it. Despite years as a performer, she struggled with intense stage fright and insecurity. Her biggest lesson? Confidence doesn't come before action. You build it through repetition, practice, and learning how to stay in the room when every part of you wants to run. Together, Kerry and Amanda dive into why so many of us were trained to keep our heads down, work hard, and hope someone would eventually notice us—and why that model no longer works. Because if people can't see you, they can't choose you. Whether you're looking for love, growing a business, changing careers, building a personal platform, or simply trying to become the fullest version of yourself, visibility matters. But Amanda explains that being visible isn't about becoming someone you're not. It's about learning to authentically broadcast who you already are. In this episode, you'll discover: Why social media comparison can make visibility feel more difficult than ever • How old stories and past experiences keep you playing small • Why your body may resist the success your mind says it wants • How body language can reveal whether you're truly ready to hold the room • Why confidence comes from reps—not waiting until you feel ready • How to build your "courage muscle" before your back is against the wall • Why being the face of your brand is no longer optional • Amanda's concept of your personal brand as an "energetic broadcast" • Why authenticity is more powerful than trying to keep up with everyone else • How video and visibility can create opportunities you never saw coming • Why people over 45 still have enormous opportunities to reinvent themselves • How visibility can transform not only your business—but your dating life and relationships • Why accountability and the right coach can help you bridge the gap between your potential and your reality Amanda's message is simple: the world has changed. You can keep doing what you've always done, or you can learn how to show up in a new way. Your next opportunity might not come from working harder behind the scenes. It might come from finally letting yourself be seen. Because the camera doesn't lie. People can feel confidence. They can also feel hesitation, insecurity, and when you're holding yourself back. So, the question is: What would happen if you stopped waiting to be discovered and started showing up? The world is watching. It's time to become visible. Connect with Amanda Corvelle on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok at @amandacorvelle. Listen to Shot At Love wherever you get your podcasts, and follow Kerry Brett for more conversations about love, confidence, reinvention, and creating the life you actually want. Show notes summary Are you really stuck—or are you scared to be seen? This week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with performance and visibility expert Amanda Corvelle to talk about why so many of us play small just when we're ready for more. With over 20 years in entertainment and a seven-figure business, Amanda knows what it takes to move past fear, build confidence, and step into the spotlight. They discuss why visibility is essential for creating new opportunities in business, love, and life; how old stories and insecurities keep us hidden; and why confidence doesn't come from waiting until you're ready—it comes from putting in the reps. Because if people can't see you, they can't choose you. If you've been waiting for the perfect moment to put yourself out there, this episode is your sign to stop hiding, build your courage muscle, and become visible. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Bumble Just Broke Up With Bumble: How Will It Affect Your Dating Life? With Billionaires’ Matchmaker Gina Hendrix In this episode of Shot at Love, Kerry Brett sits down with dating coach, author, former Hollywood celebrity stylist, and matchmaker Gina Hendrix to discuss a more intentional way to approach modern dating. Together, they unpack Bumble’s changed messaging rules, why a dating profile should be treated like a personal marketing campaign, and how to stop investing energy in low-effort matches. Gina shares her “Swipe Like a Guy” philosophy, which is not about chasing more attention—it is about using feedback wisely, keeping standards high, and choosing people who demonstrate real interest. Kerry and Gina discuss the role of authentic, current photographs; the importance of looking beyond the “hottest” option; and why confidence, mindset, and proactive behavior can make a meaningful difference both online and in person.   In This Episode Why Bumble’s updated messaging structure changes the way daters can filter for genuine effort. How to stop confusing a match or a first message with a meaningful connection. Why your photographs and profile are your dating “marketing campaign.” The difference between attracting attention and choosing a compatible, invested partner. Gina’s two-part “Swipe Like a Guy” strategy for using profile feedback and swiping with intention. How to recognize low-effort openers and hold out for messages that show real interest. Why dating-app mindset matters—and how to stay patient during a slow stretch. How to create more opportunities offline by being friendly, visible, and open to conversation.   Key Takeaways:   Stop chasing validation and start choosing alignment. The right dating strategy is not about collecting matches; it is about presenting your best authentic self, filtering for effort, and giving your energy to the people who are genuinely showing up.   Timestamps   Time Topic 02:00 Why photos are the starting point of an effective dating profile 04:00 Attraction, substance, and avoiding the “hottest guy” trap 07:00 Managing expectations and dating-app mindset 09:00 Gina explains her “Swipe Like a Guy” philosophy 13:00 How to market yourself honestly without misrepresenting yourself 20:00 Meeting people in real life and making the first opening easier 22:00 Pre-qualifying for effort and filtering dating-app messages 24:00 What Bumble’s changed rules mean for daters 29:00 Why maintaining a dating-app footprint still matters 31:00 Gina’s podcast, coaching program, and forthcoming app, Pretty People About Gina Hendrix Gina Hendrix is a dating coach, author, former Hollywood celebrity stylist, and matchmaker. She is the host of Secrets They Only Tell a Matchmaker and the creator of The One in a Million Woman Advantage. She is also developing a dating app called Pretty People.   Connect with Gina   Instagram: @matchmakerginahendrix Email: [email protected] If you enjoyed this episode, follow Shot at Love, share it with a friend who is ready to date with more intention, and leave a five-star review. In this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett talks with dating coach and matchmaker Gina Hendrix about how Bumble’s changing rules are reshaping modern dating—and why it is time to stop chasing and start choosing. Gina shares her “Swipe Like a Guy” philosophy, explaining how to use an intentional profile, authentic photos, clear standards, and real effort as filters for better matches. Together, Kerry and Gina discuss how to avoid getting distracted by surface-level attraction, recognize low-effort communication, stay grounded when dating apps feel discouraging, and focus your energy on people who genuinely show up. The message is simple: dating success is not about collecting attention; it is about presenting your best authentic self and choosing alignment, consistency, and substance. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

August Astrology: Eclipse Season, Lion's Gate, and Your Best Days for Love with Jill Jardine. What if the month you're about to step into could completely change your life? August 2026 isn't just another month on the calendar—it's a massive cosmic turning point. We are standing on the edge between two timelines: the life we've outgrown and the one we are about to step into. In this episode, our resident astrologer Jill Jardine returns to break down the intense cosmic energy heading our way. From the Lion's Gate Portal on 8/8 to two game-changing eclipses, the universe is moving the chess pieces, and we need to be ready. Jill explains why relationship endings might actually be divine intervention, how the shift of the lunar nodes is changing what we seek in partners, and why this is truly the "summer of love." Whether you are navigating a breakup, looking for new love, or just trying to survive the cosmic chaos, this episode is packed with the guidance you need. We discuss why August is one of the most pivotal months of the year, the significance of the Lion's Gate Portal, and how the upcoming solar and lunar eclipses will force hidden truths to the surface. Jill also shares her powerful visualization technique for manifesting a partner and explains the "love fest effect" that is making it easier than ever to connect with new people. Be sure to stay tuned until the end, where Jill shares a personalized zodiac forecast revealing the best dating windows and lucky days for every sign! For this week's dating tips, remember to throw out a wide net, be seen, and try something new and different. Ride the fast, magnetic energy of Leo season and close out the summer of love strong! Connect with Jill Jardine You can hear more from Jill by listening to her podcast, Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine, or subscribing to her YouTube channel at @jilljardine2186. To book a personal reading and see what the stars have in store for your love life and career, visit jilljardine.com. Connect with Kerry Brett & Shot at Love Explore our brand new home on the web at shotatloveshow.com for more episodes, dating advice, and resources. While you're there, be sure to sign up for our newsletter to get exclusive dating tips and show updates delivered straight to your inbox. Keep up with me and get behind-the-scenes content by following me on Instagram @kerry_brett. And if you're ready to take control of your dating life, grab a copy of my new book, Shot At Love, available now on Amazon. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave us a five-star review! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Given Up on Love? This Story Will Change Your Mind—with Tina Eliana: On her 40th birthday, Tina Eliana was sleeping in a RAV4 at a truck stop—broke, broken, and wondering if her life had any meaning left. Two failed marriages. An adoption dissolved after nine years. A nervous breakdown so severe her body mimicked MS symptoms. She couldn't dream anymore. Then her husband JD said seven words that changed everything: "I'll dream for you until you can dream again." He meant it. And he proved it — for years. Today, Tina is down 100 pounds, holds four degrees, runs her own company serving clients around the world, and has a memoir on the way. In this episode, she shares the exact moment she knew JD was different (from his very first dating app message), how she rebuilt her life one impossibly small step at a time, and what she'd say to anyone who feels too broken to be loved. If you've ever wondered whether it's too late, whether you're too much, or whether the right person could really stay through the worst of it — press play. In This Episode, You'll Learn •How Tina spotted the green flags in JD's very first message on Plenty of Fish — and what set him apart from every other match •Why JD expanded his search radius one final time before deleting the app (and how Tina appeared 200 miles outside that radius) •The impossible decision Tina faced as a mother — and how it led to a complete nervous breakdown •What "I'll dream for you until you can dream again" looked like in practice, day after day, for years •The one small daily action that started Tina's climb out of rock bottom •How unconditional love — without conditions on staying — rewired a lifetime of expecting men to leave •Tina's message to anyone who feels stuck, unworthy, or ready to give up Timestamps Time Topic 00:00 Introduction — Tina Eliana's story and what's ahead 01:00 January 21, 2012 at 3:02 PM — the first message on Plenty of Fish 02:00 The green flags: humor, sincerity, and no "creep factor" 03:00 He was about to delete the app — expanded his radius one last time 04:00 Behind the scenes: two divorces, life threats, and unaddressed trauma 05:00 Adopting two brothers through foster care — what they weren't told 06:00 When safety became the crisis: voices, threats, and sleepless nights 07:00 The hardest decision: dissolving the adoption after nine years 08:00 The nervous breakdown — trauma presenting as MS symptoms 09:00 Why JD stayed when anyone else would have walked away 10:00 Hiding knives and taking turns sleeping — the reality of early marriage 11:00 Fleeing the town where all the trauma lived 12:00 Living in the vehicle — sleeping in a RAV4 at a truck stop on her 40th birthday 14:00 The turning point: crossing the state line and everything shifting 15:00 A year of wondering if she'd still be alive when he got home 16:00 "I love you enough to not put conditions on me staying" 17:00 Finding purpose through pain — developing empathy you can only earn by living it 19:00 Losing 100 pounds, earning four degrees, and building a new life 20:00 JD's gift: "Your jobs are your health and your education. I have us." 22:00 From not being able to dream — to not being able to dream enough 23:00 Living with nearly 50 health diagnoses and refusing to let them define her 25:00 Tina's message to anyone who feels stuck or is considering giving up 27:00 "I am a testament — you can. It's not easy, but it's so worth it." 28:00 Where to find Tina and what's coming next Key Quotes "I'll dream for you until you can dream again." "His love healed wounds inflicted on me by other people and other circumstances." "I love you enough to not put conditions on me staying. Even if you haven't had the strength to take a shower today, I'm gonna love you and I'm gonna kiss you anyway." "I spent my whole life expecting men to leave me. And he's like, 'No, I'm here and I'm staying.'" "I was put on this earth to do something besides hurt and go through trauma." "I've gone from not being able to dream — to not being able to dream enough." About Tina Eliana Tina Eliana is a leadership and learning systems advisor, author, speaker, and podcaster. She holds a bachelor's degree plus three master's degrees, has lost 100 pounds, and now works with clients around the world through her company, Tina Presents. Her memoir, Even the Sweetest Jam, is forthcoming. Connect with Tina •Podcast: Jam Sessions with Tina Eliana — jamsessionswithtinaeliana.com •Company: Tina Presents •Social: LinkedIn (Tina Presents) Connect with Shot At Love •Host: Kerry Brett •Subscribe on Apple Podcasts so you never miss an episode •Leave a review if this story moved you — it helps others find the show Resources Mentioned •Plenty of Fish (dating app) •Western Governors University (online degree program) •If you or someone you know is in crisis: Call or text the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 (U.S.) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Saving Grace: Sex, Drugs & Second Chances. What happens when someone who seemingly has everything loses control of everything? Matt Grace's story begins with privilege, success, and opportunity—but quickly spirals into a 13-year battle with addiction that nearly cost him his life. As a television news reporter, Matt hid a dangerous dependence on alcohol, prescription drugs, and crystal meth while continuing to report on-air. Behind the scenes, his life was unraveling. In this deeply honest conversation, Matt opens up about surviving overdoses, destructive family patterns, enabling, hitting rock bottom, and the spiritual transformation that changed everything. Today, with more than two decades of sobriety, he's dedicated his life to helping individuals and families understand addiction and discover hope through service, accountability, and faith. In this episode you'll learn: Why addiction is often far more than a lack of willpower The role genetics and family history can play in substance abuse How enabling can unintentionally fuel addiction What rock bottom actually looked like for Matt The dangers of high-functioning addiction Why service became the foundation of Matt's recovery How helping others can improve mental health and self-esteem The importance of accountability, boundaries, and family healing Matt's powerful message for anyone who feels beyond hope Details about his upcoming book God Doesn't Relapse Memorable Takeaways Recovery is about becoming someone new—not simply getting sober. Families heal when they stop enabling and start setting healthy boundaries. Service creates purpose, confidence, and lasting change. No matter how far you've fallen, your story isn't over. Your greatest pain can become someone else's greatest hope. Resources Matt Grace Book: God Doesn't Relapse: Sex, Drugs, and the Life That Almost Killed Me Website: www.mattgrace.com If you enjoyed this episode... Please subscribe to Shot at Love, leave a five-star review, and share this episode with someone who may need hope today. Your support helps us continue bringing conversations that inspire healing, personal growth, and meaningful relationships. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Former nun. Survivor. Teacher. Author. Truth-teller. Tune into From the Convent to Coming Out: Breaking the Silence with Barb Rebon. In this deeply moving episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Barb Rebon, author of The Heartbeat of My Silence, to discuss a life shaped by childhood trauma, faith, secrecy, and ultimately, self-acceptance. After enduring sexual abuse as a child, Barb found refuge in the Catholic Church and entered a convent at just sixteen years old. What followed was a decades-long journey of navigating forbidden relationships, struggling with her sexuality, and wrestling with the belief that who she was could never coexist with her faith. For nearly forty-five years, Barb lived with overwhelming guilt, shame, and silence. Yet through resilience, therapy, friendship, and an unwavering commitment to healing, she eventually found the courage to embrace her true self and share her story with the world. This conversation explores the lasting effects of trauma, the human need for belonging, the power of unconditional acceptance, and why healing begins the moment we stop hiding. In This Episode You'll Learn: How childhood abuse shaped Barb's search for safety and belonging Why she entered a convent at sixteen years old The complicated relationships that challenged her faith and identity What it was like living with shame and secrecy for nearly four decades The Oprah interview that helped change everything How she finally reconciled her faith with her sexuality Why silence can become its own form of suffering The importance of finding even one person who accepts you unconditionally How resilience, therapy, and community helped her heal What inspired her memoir, The Heartbeat of My Silence Memorable Quote "My silence had a heartbeat. It was living inside of me. I could hear it every day, and it tormented me until I finally allowed that silence to shatter." — Barb Rebon About Barb Rebon Barb Rebon is an educator, advocate, and author of The Heartbeat of My Silence. Through her memoir, she shares her journey from childhood trauma and religious life to self-discovery, healing, and authenticity. Her mission is to help others find the courage to speak their truth and know they are worthy of love exactly as they are. Connect with Barb Website: BarbaraRebonAuthor.com This Week's Shot At Love Takeaways Find one person who accepts you without judgment and supports you unconditionally. f someone helped you through your darkest moments, never forget it. Show up for others the way someone once showed up for you. Keywords Barb Rebon, The Heartbeat of My Silence, former nun, Catholic Church, faith and sexuality, coming out story, LGBTQ journey, childhood trauma, healing from abuse, resilience, self-acceptance, personal growth, memoir, forgiveness, identity, emotional healing, Shot At Love Podcast. Purchase Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love at shotatlovebook.com. To apply to be a guest on Shot At Love, go to shotatloveguest.com. Follow on Instagram @kerry_brett or on Facebook www.facebook.com/kerrybrettphotography/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Love, The Lion's Gate Portal & The Magic Triangle: Astrologer Jill Jardine, have you ever felt like you're standing on the edge of a breakthrough? According to astrologers, the summer of 2026 may be one of the most powerful periods of transformation we've experienced in years. A rare planetary alignment known as the Magic Triangle is creating what many are calling a Portal of Possibility—a unique window for personal growth, reinvention, unexpected opportunities, and major life changes. In this fascinating episode of Shot At Love, resident astrologer, psychic healer, and spiritual teacher Jill Jardine returns to break down why July and August 2026 could become a turning point for millions of people. Jill explains how Neptune, Uranus, Pluto, and Jupiter are working together to create a rare cosmic pattern that supports innovation, spiritual awakening, creativity, freedom, and quantum leaps in consciousness. From career shifts and unexpected opportunities to new relationships and life-changing decisions, this summer's energy is all about embracing change and stepping into new possibilities. Together, Kerry and Jill discuss the exact dates to watch, the impact of Jupiter entering Leo, the significance of the Lion's Gate Portal on 8/8, and why eclipse season in August could accelerate destiny and course-correct our lives in surprising ways. Whether you're looking for love, considering a career change, pursuing a creative dream, or simply wondering why life suddenly feels like it's moving at lightning speed, this episode offers insight into how to work with the energy instead of resisting it. In this episode you'll discover: • What the Magic Triangle is and why astrologers are calling it one of the most important cosmic events of the decade • Why July 18–25 may be one of the most powerful energetic windows of 2026 • How Jupiter entering Leo brings expansion, confidence, creativity, romance, and fun • The meaning behind the Lion's Gate Portal and why August 8 is considered a powerful manifestation date • How eclipse season may trigger endings, beginnings, revelations, and unexpected opportunities • Which zodiac signs are most impacted by the summer's planetary alignments • What these cosmic shifts could mean for dating, relationships, career, finances, and purpose • Why flexibility, optimism, and trying something new may be your greatest advantage this summer If you've been waiting for a sign to make a change, take a chance, or open your heart to new possibilities, this episode may be exactly what you've been waiting for. Because sometimes the universe opens a door—and this summer, it might just open all of them. What if the summer of 2026 becomes the moment everything changes? In this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett welcomes resident astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to discuss a rare planetary alignment known as the Magic Triangle, a cosmic event that astrologers believe could bring powerful opportunities for growth, reinvention, love, and transformation. Jill explains how the alignment of Neptune, Uranus, Pluto, and Jupiter is creating a unique "Portal of Possibility" that may accelerate personal breakthroughs, unexpected opportunities, career shifts, and new relationships. Together, Kerry and Jill explore why July and August are expected to be some of the most significant months of the year, highlighting key astrological events including Jupiter's move into Leo, the Lion's Gate Portal on August 8, and a powerful eclipse season that could trigger major life changes. The conversation also dives into how these energies may impact dating, relationships, creativity, purpose, and personal freedom. Jill shares why staying flexible, embracing change, and saying yes to new experiences could open doors that previously seemed impossible. Whether you're looking for love, considering a fresh start, or simply curious about the powerful cosmic forces shaping the months ahead, this episode offers insight, inspiration, and practical guidance for navigating one of the most exciting astrological periods of the decade. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What if losing everything was the beginning of finding yourself? In this inspiring episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Judith Colletti, a woman whose life story proves that your age is not your cage. Judith's journey is one of extraordinary resilience. She ran away and married her first husband at just 19 years old, became a single mother of two, discovered while nine months pregnant that the man she planned to marry had given her fake divorce papers and was still married, uncovered a shocking family secret after her father's death, lost her business, lost her home, and found herself rebuilding her life from the ground up. But this isn't a story about what Judith lost. It's a story about what she gained. Today, Judith is in her 60s, thriving, dating, building a successful transportation company, and inspiring others to believe that no matter how difficult life becomes, there is always a way forward. Together, Kerry and Judith discuss: • Why self-love is the foundation for rebuilding your life • How unresolved trauma can impact relationships and decision-making • What it takes to recover after losing a business, a home, and financial security • The mindset shifts that helped Judith reinvent herself time and time again • Why she started driving Uber to rebuild her life from scratch • How gratitude became her secret weapon during life's darkest moments • What dating looks like in your 60s and why Judith believes it's her best decade yet • Why living in the present moment creates more happiness than chasing perfection • The importance of embracing your story instead of hiding from it Judith's message is simple but powerful: your circumstances do not define you. No matter where you are today, you can choose to move forward, reinvent yourself, and create a future that excites you. If you've ever wondered whether it's too late to start over, this episode is your reminder that some of life's greatest chapters begin after the hardest setbacks. Connect with Judith Colletti: Facebook: Judith Colletti TikTok: @judineversleeps QR Code to connect with Judith Colletti on Speaker Hub https://speakerhub.com/cta/bjvwt4 Connect with Kerry Brett @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast www.kerrybrettlifestyleportraits.com Purchase her new book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love www.shotatlovebook.com. or be a guest on Shot At Love www.shotatloveguest.com Remember: The story you tell yourself matters. Keep moving forward, keep believing, and keep taking your shot at love. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The Secret Life of a Sapiosexual and Son of a Preacher with G.A. Pimpleton This episode dives into why authenticity is the attractor and why being yourself is your greatest advantage. What happens when a self-proclaimed "walking red flag" sits down to talk about love? In this unforgettable episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett welcomes financial guru, entrepreneur, storyteller, and larger-than-life personality G.A. Pimpleton for a conversation that's equal parts hilarious, provocative, and surprisingly profound. G.A. is the kind of man your mother warned you about—yet somehow you end up talking to him for hours and can't tear yourself away. A self-described dream maker, son of two preachers, father of four daughters, and unapologetic individualist, he's built a life on his own terms and isn't interested in being anyone but himself. Together, Kerry and G.A. explore what it really means to be authentic in relationships, why so many people fall in love with someone's "representative" instead of the real person, and how embracing your flaws can actually become your greatest superpower. From his famous five dating questions and his obsession with ambition, intelligence, and personal growth, to his thoughts on loyalty, vulnerability, trust, and why love requires a daily choice, G.A. delivers one unforgettable story after another. The conversation dives into everything from childhood influences and dating standards to the challenges of finding a true partner when you know exactly who you are and what you want. Love him or hate him, one thing is certain: you won't forget him. In This Episode: Why authenticity is more attractive than perfection • The dangers of falling in love with someone's "representative" • G.A.'s famous five questions for determining relationship compatibility • Why ambition and curiosity are non-negotiable qualities • The role loyalty plays in building lasting relationships • How childhood experiences shape adult dating patterns • Why embracing your quirks makes you more memorable • The daily choice required to sustain love and commitment • Why the right people will always appreciate what makes you different Shot At Love Takeaways: Embrace Your Flaws Your imperfections aren't something to hide—they're often the most relatable and attractive parts of who you are. Stop Trying to Blend In The people who are meant for you won't be attracted to a watered-down version of you. Be memorable, not average. Love Requires Courage There are no guarantees in relationships. Every day requires trust, vulnerability, and the willingness to choose someone again. Curiosity Creates Connection The most meaningful relationships aren't built on appearances. They're built on conversation, growth, and genuine interest in one another. Be Unapologetically Yourself The right person won't tolerate your authenticity—they'll celebrate it. Whether you're dating, married, rebuilding after heartbreak, or simply trying to understand yourself better, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughter, and a powerful reminder that being fully yourself is the greatest relationship strategy of all. To find out more about Kerry’s new book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, check out shotatlovebook.com, and purchase on Amazon. If you’d like to be a guest on Shot At Love go to shotatloveguest.com. Follow on Instagram at @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

On this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Anne Gollert Hill for a powerful conversation about manipulation, identity, resilience, and what it takes to rebuild your life after walking away from a controlling environment. Anne opens up about surviving divorce before joining Scientology, spending 20 years inside the Sea Org, and the emotional toll of losing herself inside an organization that promised freedom but operated through control, fear, and isolation. Anne shares the moment she finally escaped with nothing but her purse and the clothes on her back, leaving behind the only world she had known for two decades. Kerry and Anne discuss love bombing, grooming, narcissistic abuse tactics, future faking, and why so many intelligent people can become trapped in toxic systems and relationships. But this episode is ultimately about hope, healing, and reinvention. Despite losing years of her life, Anne proves it is never too late to reclaim your voice, rebuild your confidence, and find love again. Her story is raw, inspiring, and deeply human. In this episode: How narcissistic abuse tactics operate inside organizations and relationships Why love bombing and future faking are so dangerous The psychological impact of losing your identity over time What finally pushed Anne to leave Scientology Rebuilding confidence after emotional control and isolation Why it’s never too late to start over and find love again The power of resilience, self-trust, and personal freedom If you’ve ever questioned a toxic relationship, ignored red flags, or wondered how people get trapped in controlling dynamics, this episode will stay with you long after it ends. Follow Kerry Brett: Instagram: @kerry_brett Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast Website: Shot At Love #ShotAtLove #Scientology #NarcissisticAbuse #DatingAndRelationships #HealingJourney #LoveBombing #EmotionalAbuse #PersonalGrowth   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Shot At Love — Episode: How Your Thoughts Create Your Reality with Positivity Expert Lori Rogers In this uplifting episode, Kerry Brett sits down with Lori Rogers—positivity expert, entrepreneur, and mindset mentor—whose journey from overwhelm to empowerment transformed every area of her life. When Lori’s world became filled with uncertainty, family challenges, and fear, she discovered a life-changing truth: your thoughts, words, and emotions shape your reality. Lori shares how joy, gratitude, and simple daily mindset practices can shift your energy, strengthen your relationships, improve your business, and open new doors. From raising a neurodiverse child to reprogramming generational “scarcity” thinking, Lori explains how she built a life rooted in abundance, self-love, and trust. What You’ll Learn Why happiness is the foundation—not the reward—of success Lori explains why waiting for accomplishments to feel good keeps us stuck. How the words you hear (and speak) shape your future A childhood label of “worrywart” became a belief Lori carried for years—until she learned to rewrite her story. The power of visualization and “I am” statements Inspired by Abraham-Hicks, Lori shares how shifting from “I want” to “I am” changes everything. How to access the emotion of what you desire—now Learn why your brain can’t distinguish between imagination and reality, and how tapping into the feeling accelerates manifestation. Why you can’t manifest for others—but you can support them Lori discusses helping her children, especially her son Craig, through intention, faith, and aligned emotional energy. Letting go of scarcity thinking From her husband Neil’s easygoing nature to reconditioning old beliefs, Lori reveals how changing mindset changes outcomes. Authenticity over perfection Lori opens up about parenting, vulnerability, and embracing the real (not curated) version of life. Simple, free practices that change your life From morning affirmations to mindset tools, Lori shares the routines that anchor her day. Mentioned in the Episode Lori Rogers – Positivity expert and founder of Positive Activity Neil Rogers – Lori’s husband and author of Bar Tips Cam Rogers – Lori’s son and part of the Believe network Abraham-Hicks – Source of Lori’s transformational “I am” practices Positive Activity Website: positiveactivity.net Instagram: @LaurieARogersPositiveActivity This Week’s Dating Tips (Inspired by Lori Rogers) Network intentionally You never know who someone else knows. Your next connection could come from their circle. Feel the relationship before it arrives Visualize the joy, the partnership, and the fun—your emotions are magnetic. Declutter your life and your energy Create space for what you want. Vision boards, crystals, and journaling can help you get clear and align your energy. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Shot At Love — Episode: How Your Thoughts Create Your Reality with Positivity Expert Lori Rogers In this uplifting episode, Kerry Brett sits down with Lori Rogers—positivity expert, entrepreneur, and mindset mentor—whose journey from overwhelm to empowerment transformed every area of her life. When Lori’s world became filled with uncertainty, family challenges, and fear, she discovered a life-changing truth: your thoughts, words, and emotions shape your reality. Lori shares how joy, gratitude, and simple daily mindset practices can shift your energy, strengthen your relationships, improve your business, and open new doors. From raising a neurodiverse child to reprogramming generational “scarcity” thinking, Lori explains how she built a life rooted in abundance, self-love, and trust. What You’ll Learn Why happiness is the foundation—not the reward—of success Lori explains why waiting for accomplishments to feel good keeps us stuck. How the words you hear (and speak) shape your future A childhood label of “worrywart” became a belief Lori carried for years—until she learned to rewrite her story. The power of visualization and “I am” statements Inspired by Abraham-Hicks, Lori shares how shifting from “I want” to “I am” changes everything. How to access the emotion of what you desire—now Learn why your brain can’t distinguish between imagination and reality, and how tapping into the feeling accelerates manifestation. Why you can’t manifest for others—but you can support them Lori discusses helping her children, especially her son Craig, through intention, faith, and aligned emotional energy. Letting go of scarcity thinking From her husband Neil’s easygoing nature to reconditioning old beliefs, Lori reveals how changing mindset changes outcomes. Authenticity over perfection Lori opens up about parenting, vulnerability, and embracing the real (not curated) version of life. Simple, free practices that change your life From morning affirmations to mindset tools, Lori shares the routines that anchor her day. Mentioned in the Episode Lori Rogers – Positivity expert and founder of Positive Activity Neil Rogers – Lori’s husband and author of Bar Tips Cam Rogers – Lori’s son and part of the Believe network Abraham-Hicks – Source of Lori’s transformational “I am” practices Positive Activity Website: positiveactivity.net Instagram: @LaurieARogersPositiveActivity This Week’s Dating Tips (Inspired by Lori Rogers) Network intentionally You never know who someone else knows. Your next connection could come from their circle. Feel the relationship before it arrives Visualize the joy, the partnership, and the fun—your emotions are magnetic. Declutter your life and your energy Create space for what you want. Vision boards, crystals, and journaling can help you get clear and align your energy. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode, Love Is Not Luck: Divorce, Grief & Relational Literacy with Real Love Ready Author Robin Ducharme, this week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett welcomes Robin Ducharme, founder of Real Love Ready, creator of the In Bloom relationship summit, and author of her new book Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy. This conversation is not about fairy tales or finding “the one.” It’s about learning how to love better, communicate deeper, forgive harder, and stop calling every relationship that ends a failure. Robin opens up about the loss of her twin brother, her spiritual relationship with love, her Catholic upbringing, and how grief taught her that love does not disappear — it simply changes form. Kerry and Robin also discuss divorce, friendship breakups, relational literacy, faith, self-abandonment, and why love is not just a feeling — it is a skill, a discipline, and a practice. In this episode, we talk about: Why Robin considers herself a lifelong student of love How losing her twin brother transformed her understanding of connection Why love continues even after death How divorce can be an act of self-rescue, not failure The grief carried by the person who chooses to leave Why some relationships complete their purpose instead of “failing” The pain of friendship breakups and why we need to grieve them too How fear-based thoughts block love Why relational literacy should be taught like a life skill Robin’s In Bloom summit and the world-renowned relationship experts she has worked with Her new publishing company, Soul Print The mission behind Real Love Ready Episode Theme: Love is not luck. Love is readiness. Love is literacy. Love is a practice.   About Robin Ducharme: Robin Ducharme is the founder of Real Love Ready, a platform dedicated to helping people build healthier relationships through education, community, and honest conversations about love. She is also the creator of In Bloom, an annual relationship summit in Vancouver featuring some of the world’s leading voices in love, healing, and relational growth. Her book, Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy, offers a roadmap for learning how to love ourselves and others with more awareness, courage, and compassion. Where to find Robin: Visit: realloveready.com Book: Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy Event: In Bloom — held every April in Vancouver and online Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Survivor Season 49 Winner on Love, Trust & Winning at Relationships with Savannah Louie What does it really take to win—in love, life, and on one of the toughest shows on television? This week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Survivor Season 49 winner Savannah Louie for a powerful conversation about confidence, resilience, vulnerability, relationships, and trusting your instincts when everything is on the line. Savannah shares how she manifested her Survivor journey from childhood, applying for the show for years before finally stepping onto the island—and winning. She opens up about the power of visualization, mental preparation, and why believing in yourself is often the first step toward success. Kerry and Savannah explore how Savannah’s background as a journalist helped her dominate the game. From reading body language and building trust quickly to staying calm under pressure, Savannah explains why people skills matter just as much in dating as they do in Survivor. The conversation also takes a deeper look at Savannah’s real-life relationship, including how competing on Survivor tested her partnership, what anxious attachment taught them both, and how communication helped them grow stronger together. They also discuss: Why confidence starts with asking “Why not me?” How vulnerability builds deeper connection Why observation is power in dating and life The danger of being physically present but emotionally distracted What reality TV fame taught Savannah about relationships Why timing matters more than forcing outcomes How to know when the right opportunity is finally yours Savannah Louie is sharp, inspiring, strategic, and refreshingly honest. Whether you're navigating dating, rebuilding confidence, or chasing a dream that feels impossible, this episode will leave you thinking bigger. This is one conversation you don’t want to miss. 3 Dating Takeaways from Savannah Louie Believe You’re the Prize Confidence changes everything. Stop asking “Why would they choose me?” and start asking “Why not me?” Vulnerability Creates Intimacy People connect with what’s real—not perfection. Let people see the truth of who you are. Observe Before You Invest: Not every opportunity is meant for you. Watch actions, trust patterns, and choose wisely. What does winning Survivor and finding love have in common? Everything. This week, Survivor winner Savannah Louie joins me to talk confidence, trust, vulnerability, relationships, and why believing in yourself is the real game-changer. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Keep Swinging: What Beep Baseball, Blind Athletes & Fearless Living Teach Us About Love, Confidence & Possibility Episode Overview What if the only thing standing between you and a completely different life… is one swing? This episode doesn’t just land—it hits. Recorded after an unforgettable moment at Fenway Park, Kerry sits down with Wynter Pingle and Johnny Coe—two people who redefine what it means to show up, trust the process, and go after something before you feel ready. Wynter is a blind musician, runner, athlete, and chef. Johnny is her teammate, guide, and creative counterpart. Together, they pull you into the world of beep baseball—a sport built on trust, instinct, and courage. But this conversation goes way beyond the field. It’s about identity. It’s about fear. It’s about the moments where you decide—I’m doing this anyway. What You’ll Hear in This Episode • The powerful story behind playing beep baseball at Fenway Park • Why “being a little scared” might actually mean you’re living right • How Wynter redefined what she thought she was capable of—at every stage of life • The surprising connection between movement, confidence, and finding love • What trust really looks like (on the field and in relationships) • Why community is the missing piece for so many people feeling stuck • The truth: you don’t fail by trying—you fail by never stepping up to the plate Standout Moments • “Until you’re dead, you can always discover new parts of yourself.” • “People living their lives right are always just a little bit scared.” • “It doesn’t matter if I beat someone else. What matters is if I beat what I thought I could do.” • “You miss every shot you don’t take—so keep swinging.” What is Beep Baseball? A fully adaptive version of baseball designed for blind and visually impaired athletes—where sound replaces sight, trust replaces hesitation, and courage drives every play. • Players hit a beeping ball • Bases buzz to guide runners • Teammates rely on rhythm, communication, and instinct Learn more: • National Beep Baseball Association (NBBA) • Achilles International (adaptive running community) • Adaptive Sports New England The Takeaway This episode is your wake-up call. You don’t need more confidence. You don’t need more time. You don’t need permission. You need one move. One risk. One moment where you decide: I’m getting in the game. Because love, opportunity, and everything you’re looking for? They’re not waiting for you to be ready. They’re waiting for you to show up. Connect with Kerry Follow, connect, and stay in the loop for live events, new episodes, and Shot@Love Societydrops: • Instagram: @kerrybrett • Podcast: @shotatlovepodcast • Website: shotatlovebook.com Grab the Book Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love Available now on Amazon Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.