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What if dating didn’t have to feel so overwhelming? Thisepisode challenges the idea that every date needs to be perfect—or lead directly to marriage. Tom, Bob, and Harley explore how social media, dating apps, and cultural pressure have turned dating into a comparison game instead of a process of connection. They talk about why people avoid second dates, how fear disguises itself as pickiness, and why sustainable relationships are built on shared values—not curated highlight reels. With humor, honesty, and real-life examples, this conversation reframes dating as relationship development, reminding listeners that it’s okay to slow down, tune out the noise, and just get to know someone. #ItsJustDinner #ModernDating #DatingMadeSimple #DatingAdvice #DatingCulture #DatingCoach #RelationshipDevelopment #DatingAnxiety #FirstDates #RealConnection

In this episode, we dig into why so many Gen Z men are hesitant to approach women—and it all comes down to one word: creepy. A staggering 69% of men fear being labeled creepy, and 44% say that fear actively stops them from interacting with women at all. We break down what “creepy” behavior actually looks like—think controlling tendencies, not taking no for an answer, and clinginess—and why awareness matters. But don’t worry, it’s not all doom and awkward silences. We talk practical, human solutions: approach in person, read the room, walk away if it’s not working, listen more, and be authentically you. Plus, meet our new host, Harley, joining the conversation with fresh insight and real talk. 🎙️ #GenZ #ModernDating #DatingAnxiety #CreepFactor #DatingTips #DatingIdeas #DatingCulture #ItsJustDinner#CommunicationMatters #AuthenticSelf #ListenFirst

We’re bringing back one of our most popular episodes because the advice in it is just too good not to hear again! In this replay, Kristen Metzger from Latter-Day Matchmaker joins us to talk about the art of matchmaking and dating. Kristen is an expert at helping you prepare for that all-important moment of asking someone out. She shares practical guidance on what to say, what to wear, where to go, and how to carry yourself with confidence. Packed with dating tips, real-life insights, and a little humor, this episode will leave you ready—and excited—for your next date. #DatingTips #Matchmaking #DateSmart #LatterDayMatchmaker #FirstDateAdvice #HowToDate #DatingConfidence #AskThemOut #DatingMadeSimple #DatingCoach #DatingSuccess #KristenMetzger

In this episode, we hang out with Utah's Governor SpencerCox and First Lady Abby Cox. They kick things off by sharing their dating and courtship story and then shift to more serious topics, like the loneliness epidemic and the health risks associated with being alone. They discuss the effects that phones and social media have on human interaction, emphasizing the importance of getting out and connecting with people. They stress that true happiness comes from having positive relationships. And, in a thrilling endorsement – yes, you read that right, they express their support for this podcast! Tune in for an insightful discussion and practical advice on building meaningful connections. #DatingTips #DatingAdvice #DatingCoach #LonelinessEpidemic #PositiveRelationships #RealConnections #SocialMediaImpact #HealthyRelationships #GovernorSpencer Cox #FirstLadyAbbyCox

This week’s Dating Made Simple takes a lighter but honest look at a heavy topic: the loneliness epidemic. We break down what loneliness really is, how it differs from isolation, and why half of U.S. adults say they’ve struggled with it. You’ll hear surprising stats, personal stories, and the very real health risks tied to chronic disconnection—heart disease, stroke, even depression. But it’s not all gloom: We share practical, everyday ideas for building connection, from simple check-ins with friends, trying new groups and activities, and of course, just going out to dinner. Tune in for laughs, insight, and encouragement to get reconnected. #BreakingLoneliness #ConnectionMatters #LonelyNotAlone #EndIsolation #MentalHealthAwareness #OvercomingLoneliness #SocialConnection #DatingMadeSimple #HealthAndConnection #BeatLoneliness #ItsJustDinner

In this episode, relationship coach Kristi Reeves dives into the power of vulnerability in dating and relationships. She shares why true connection starts with the courage to be open, honest, and real—first with yourself, and then with others. Kristi explains that healing and healthy love aren’t about convincing someone you’re lovable, but about showing up authentically so connection can grow naturally. From self-work to emotional openness, she offers practical insights on how to break down walls, embrace vulnerability, and create the kind of relationships that feel safe, meaningful, and deeply fulfilling. Find Kristi at ⁠https://www.coachkristi.life⁠ and listen to her podcast "Do the Work with Kristi" #DatingAdvice #RelationshipTips #Vulnerability #AuthenticConnection #KristiReeves #DatingCoach #RelationshipCoach #LoveYourselfFirst #DoTheWorkWith Kristi #coachkristi

Dating after 40? You're not alone—and you're not too late.With nearly half the U.S. population single and 70% of dating app users finding genuine connections, it's time to embrace the swipe! We break down why you should be on three apps, how to keep your photos honest (no 10-year-old selfies!), and why your first meetup should always be “just dinner.” It turns out that “Just dinner” isn’t just low pressure—it’s a smart strategy. Whether you're testing the waters or jumping back in, we’ve got tips to make midlife dating less intimidating and more exciting. #DatingAdvice #DatingTips #DatingCoach #DatingAfter40 #MidlifeDating #SwipeSmart #DatingAppsOver40 #JustDinnerDates #OnlineDatingTips #40AndSingle #DatingConfidence

In this episode, Tom and Bob dive into the world of datingover 40, unpacking the highs, lows, and hilarious moments that come with it. They discuss the article 20 Tips to Make the Dating Experience Smoother, offering their takes on advice like "Own Your Age," "Stay Open Minded," "Listen More Than You Talk," and "Give Online Dating a Chance." With their usual wit and real-world insight, Tom and Bob explore how dating shifts with age——and why that’s not such a bad thing. If you're back in the dating game or just curious, this one’s definitely worth a listen. #DatingOver40 #OnlineDatingTips #ListenMoreTalkLess #LifeAfter40 #DatingAdvice #DatingTips #DatingCoach #DatingApps

In this episode, we’re back with Special Guest Ali for Part 2 of answering your questions from our Crispy Cones event! We dive into the world of dating, tackling big questions like: Is a movie a good idea for a first date? How long should you wait to date after a breakup? What if your date isn’t funny? Plus, we discuss the best ways to turn someone down and how to handle rejection like a pro. Get ready for laughs, insights, and some brutally honest advice. Don’t miss this fun and candid conversation! #DatingAdvice #FirstDateTips #BreakupRecovery #HandlingRejection #DatingQandA #RelationshipAdvice #DatingFails #DatingTips #DatingEtiquette

Get ready for a wild ride in this episode as we’re joined by our special guest, Ali, who’s reading off questions from fans who pulled up to our live event at Crispy Cones—Provo’s legendary ice cream shop serving European-inspired cones that are as tasty as they are unique. We're answering questions like: “How do I get into dating if I don’t want a boyfriend?”, “What do you guys want instead of flowers?”, and the all-time favorite, “How can I riz up a shawty?” Plus, plenty more laughs, chaos, and hot takes. Trust us—you do not want to miss this one! Check out Crispy Cones at thecrispycones.com and on Instagram @crispycones #CrispyConesEvent #FanQuestions #DatingAdvice #RizzUpAShawty #NoBoyfriendNoProblem #AliOnTheMic #ProvoDating #DatingTips #ProperRizz #PodcastLaughs #EuropeanConeMagic

This week, we hit the jackpot with the incredible Julie Spira—an award-winning dating coach, online dating expert, and internationally bestselling author! If you’re in the dating game (or thinking about jumping in), Julie’s got the insider scoop you NEED—from do’s and don’ts to pro tips that’ll help you swipe smarter. Oh, and did we mention? She loves online dating! Don’t miss this one—it’s packed with advice, laughs, and maybe even a little love magic. Find Julie at cyberdatingexpert.com or follow her on Instagram & TikTok @juliespira! ❤️ Hit play now—you’re gonna love this one! #DatingTips #OnlineDating #DatingApps #SwipeRight #DatingCoach #DatingExpert #DatingAdvice #CyberDating #JulieSpira

Kristen Metzger from Latter-Day Matchmaker joins us to share her expertise on the art of matchmaking and dating. With years of experience, she offers practical advice on how to confidently ask someone out, what to wear, where to go, and how to make a great impression. Her insightful tips will help you navigate the dating world with ease, whether you're reentering the scene or simply looking to refine your approach. This engaging and informative episode will leave you feeling prepared, confident, and excited to enjoy meaningful connections and wonderful dinner dates. Don't miss this opportunity to elevate your dating experience! #DatingOver40 #DatingCoach #ConfidentDating #DatingAdvice #LoveAfter40 #ModernRomance #DatingConfidence #FirstDateTips #DatingSuccess #RomanceAtAnyAge

Join us for an engaging discussion on dating etiquette and proper behavior with special guest, etiquette expert Candilyn Newell. Navigating the rules and expectations of dating can be challenging, but Candilyn is here to guide you through it all. She’ll share expert insights on what to say on a date, the proper way to get into a car, how to open doors, where to sit at a restaurant, and even dining etiquette. Plus, she’ll reveal one key piece of advice that can solve all your dating etiquette dilemmas. Tune in and elevate your dating game with confidence and class! #DatingEtiquette #DatingManners #FirstDateTips #EtiquetteExpert #DatingDosAndDonts #DatingTips #DatingCoach #Candilyn Newell #ItsJustDinner

Macie, Amanda, and Jenna spent three months hosting epic group dates to bring people together and make dating fun again! From a Wimbledon-themed pickleball night to a chaotic murder mystery, gingerbread house showdowns, and wholesome apple picking, they created unforgettable memories. But just wait until you hear about the infamous “gaslighting date” (trust us, it’s not what you think!). Tune in as they share the highs, the surprises, and the pure joy of connecting people in creative ways. Whether you're single, dating, or just love a good story, this episode is packed with laughs, heart, and inspiration! #MakingDatingFunAgain #Pickleball #MurderMysteryDate#GingerbreadHouse #Gaslighting #DatingTips #DatingCoach #CreativeDating#Friendship #MakeDatingFun

In this episode, Sam Whitney, author of How to Date Authentically: End the Dating Game and Find Lasting Love, explores the shift from dating to impress to dating for genuine connection. Sam shares insights from his book, highlighting the importance of moving away from the pressure of "getting it right" and instead focusing on being authentically engaged with others. He discusses how authentic dating leads to deeper, more fulfilling connections and how true happiness in relationships comes from being genuinely interested in people rather than playing games. Tune in for a refreshing take on modern dating and love. Get Sam’s book on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/How-Date-Authentically-Dating-Lasting/dp/1940498392   #AuthenticDating #DatingCoach #DatingAdvice #FindLastingLove #GenuineConnection #EndTheDatingGame #RelationshipGoals #DatingAuthentically #TrueConnection #HealthyRelationships #DatingTips #AuthenticLove #RealRelationships #DatingWithPurpose