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It Goes Down En La Sala: This episode is the 2nd part of the family conversation centered on Mama Nancy, who shares why keeping the family close has always been her biggest dream. Timestamps (over two episodes): 00:00 - Introducing the family vacation conversation and special guest Mama Nancy00:30 - Nancy joins as the guest everyone knows best01:38 - Why Nancy wanted a family vacation in the first place02:09 - Her dream of keeping the family together across generations03:05 - Growing up in a big Dominican household that welcomed everyone04:20 - Why love mattered more than comfort or space05:41 - Seeing the joy of the whole family together07:01 - The three values that keep families united: love, patience, compassion09:30 - Why the family house belongs to everyone11:37 - Leaving legacy through what is right for the family12:04 - Coming to America in 1972 and returning to the Dominican Republic13:58 - First job, first move, and the reality of arriving on a tourist visa14:46 - Immigration raids in the 1970s and the fear of getting caught16:38 - Arriving in New York and surviving basement living19:06 - Getting hired, getting fired, and learning factory work20:32 - Low wages, constant job changes, and why work was easy to find then21:06 - Learning English through Columbia University community classes22:36 - Moving from the basement into a better apartment23:29 - Break-ins, family transitions, and another move27:12 - The 1996 blackout and the family checking on each other30:25 - Dating stories, embarrassment, and old-school family courtship33:26 - Dancing, discos, and the nightlife of the era37:07 - Going out together, staying respectful, and having innocent fun40:44 - Choosing private school and deciding to raise the kids outside the Bronx42:25 - Working toward homeownership with determination44:45 - Looking at Staten Island and other housing options46:09 - Finding a house that was affordable and workable47:33 - Sales work, commissions, and saving money for the future49:23 - Why the family needed a house with income potential50:16 - Travel perks, hotel stays, and work life before the move51:18 - A job offer in Florida and why Nancy turned it down54:25 - The house search, the trip to the Dominican Republic, and closing day58:16 - Public school, church support, and Sister Claudia’s guidance60:00 - A neighbor notices her work ethic and offers to sell the house privately62:14 - Saving for Florida, then choosing the house instead63:56 - Family opinions about who the house should have belonged to65:29 - More of Nancy’s work history across elections, city jobs, and Toyota67:17 - Closing reflections on her flying stories, the puzzle, and her family legacy68:44 - Wrapping the two-part episode and comparing 1970s wages to todayNotable quotesCopy“My dream is to keep the family together.”Copy“Love, patience, and compassion.”Copy“That house is not my house. It’s everybody’s house.”Action items

It Goes Down En La Sala: This episode is a family conversation centered on Mama Nancy, who shares why keeping the family close has always been her biggest dream. The discussion moves from vacation memories into immigration history, early work in New York, and the long road to buying a family home. It is equal parts funny, candid, and deeply personal, with Nancy’s voice anchoring the episode as the family reflects on resilience, sacrifice, and legacy. Timestamps (over two episodes): 00:00 - Introducing the family vacation conversation and special guest Mama Nancy 00:30 - Nancy joins as the guest everyone knows best 01:38 - Why Nancy wanted a family vacation in the first place 02:09 - Her dream of keeping the family together across generations 03:05 - Growing up in a big Dominican household that welcomed everyone 04:20 - Why love mattered more than comfort or space 05:41 - Seeing the joy of the whole family together 07:01 - The three values that keep families united: love, patience, compassion 09:30 - Why the family house belongs to everyone 11:37 - Leaving legacy through what is right for the family 12:04 - Coming to America in 1972 and returning to the Dominican Republic 13:58 - First job, first move, and the reality of arriving on a tourist visa 14:46 - Immigration raids in the 1970s and the fear of getting caught 16:38 - Arriving in New York and surviving basement living 19:06 - Getting hired, getting fired, and learning factory work 20:32 - Low wages, constant job changes, and why work was easy to find then 21:06 - Learning English through Columbia University community classes 22:36 - Moving from the basement into a better apartment 23:29 - Break-ins, family transitions, and another move 27:12 - The 1996 blackout and the family checking on each other 30:25 - Dating stories, embarrassment, and old-school family courtship 33:26 - Dancing, discos, and the nightlife of the era 37:07 - Going out together, staying respectful, and having innocent fun 40:44 - Choosing private school and deciding to raise the kids outside the Bronx 42:25 - Working toward homeownership with determination 44:45 - Looking at Staten Island and other housing options 46:09 - Finding a house that was affordable and workable 47:33 - Sales work, commissions, and saving money for the future 49:23 - Why the family needed a house with income potential 50:16 - Travel perks, hotel stays, and work life before the move 51:18 - A job offer in Florida and why Nancy turned it down 54:25 - The house search, the trip to the Dominican Republic, and closing day 58:16 - Public school, church support, and Sister Claudia’s guidance 60:00 - A neighbor notices her work ethic and offers to sell the house privately 62:14 - Saving for Florida, then choosing the house instead 63:56 - Family opinions about who the house should have belonged to 65:29 - More of Nancy’s work history across elections, city jobs, and Toyota 67:17 - Closing reflections on her flying stories, the puzzle, and her family legacy 68:44 - Wrapping the two-part episode and comparing 1970s wages to todayNotable quotesCopy“My dream is to keep the family together.”Copy“Love, patience, and compassion.”Copy“That house is not my house. It’s everybody’s house.”Action items

It Goes Down En La Sala: A family vacation turns into a hilarious, messy, deeply honest time capsule of Dominican family life, sibling energy, and the kind of conversations you only get when everyone is finally in the same room. If you love big personalities, inside jokes, and the chaos of real family dynamics, this one is going to feel painfully familiar.In this installment of It Goes Down en la Sala, Juana S. guides the crew through a rapid-fire set of prompts that quickly spiral from childhood punishments and coping with music to deciding who in the family is smartest, funniest, and kindest. What starts as a light game becomes a surprisingly sweet look at how this family shows love, handles overstimulation, and stays connected across a year of life lived apart. You’ll hear the family compare vacation styles, debate the best holidays, and unpack what it really means to “go with the flow” when you’re surrounded by a loud, loving, blended crew. The conversation jumps from Halloween traditions and pumpkin spice mourning to movie takes so strong they practically become a full review of Gladiator. Along the way, they share the meals they’re proudest of, the relatives who shaped them, and the little rituals that make this family feel like home. You’ll also get the heart of the show: stories passed down from grandmothers, reflections on strong women in the family, and the realization that these vacations are less about escaping real life and more about making time for each other in the middle of it. The episode closes with the bigger vision behind the podcast itself—a family production built to preserve real stories, in real time, with total transparency. **Perfect for anyone who loves family banter, cultural storytelling, and episodes that are equal parts funny, chaotic, and unexpectedly heartfelt.**

It Goes Down En La Sala: A @JinTransit Series A family vacation turns into a hilarious, messy, deeply honest time capsule of Dominican family life, sibling energy, and the kind of conversations you only get when everyone is finally in the same room. If you love big personalities, inside jokes, and the chaos of real family dynamics, this one is going to feel painfully familiar.In this installment of It Goes Down en la Sala, Juana S. guides the crew through a rapid-fire set of prompts that quickly spiral from childhood punishments and coping with music to deciding who in the family is smartest, funniest, and kindest. What starts as a light game becomes a surprisingly sweet look at how this family shows love, handles overstimulation, and stays connected across a year of life lived apart.You’ll hear the family compare vacation styles, debate the best holidays, and unpack what it really means to “go with the flow” when you’re surrounded by a loud, loving, blended crew. The conversation jumps from Halloween traditions and pumpkin spice mourning to movie takes so strong they practically become a full review of Gladiator. Along the way, they share the meals they’re proudest of, the relatives who shaped them, and the little rituals that make this family feel like home.You’ll also get the heart of the show: stories passed down from grandmothers, reflections on strong women in the family, and the realization that these vacations are less about escaping real life and more about making time for each other in the middle of it. The episode closes with the bigger vision behind the podcast itself—a family production built to preserve real stories, in real time, with total transparency. **Perfect for anyone who loves family banter, cultural storytelling, and episodes that are equal parts funny, chaotic, and unexpectedly heartfelt.**

Juana, Kaure and Auntie Maryann break down the realities of changing sexual needs over time, including what shifts in your 30s, 40s, and beyond. They get into the role of confidence, preparation, wetness, and why learning your own body is not just empowering, it can be life changing. If you've ever wondered whether your best sex years are behind you, whether you're "doing it right," or how to become more in tune with your own pleasure, this episode brings the answers without the shame. Essential listening for anyone ready to stop guessing and start understanding what their body actually wants.--Episode Timestamps 00:00 — Welcome back00:20 — Introducing the conversation about orgasms00:56 — Orgasms from intercourse versus other types of orgasms01:32 — Remembering the first orgasm from intercourse03:20 — Why emotional connection once felt necessary for sex04:58 — Moving beyond emotional attachment and limiting beliefs05:27 — The pressure to pretend everything was satisfying06:11 — Keeping expectations quiet and discovering a new experience07:25 — An unexpected breakthrough and a new sexual awakening08:49 — How sexual confidence made casual relationships feel liberating10:00 — Discovering pleasure later in life10:22 — Multiple orgasms and unexpected experiences11:14 — Learning to experience pleasure independently11:40 — Taking control of your own pleasure during sex12:08 — How self-awareness changes the sexual experience13:47 — Recognizing when your partner is close and preparing yourself15:19 — Using additional stimulation and finding what works for you16:03 — Enjoyment, release, and letting go17:11 — Sexual confidence in your 30s17:38 — Why your 40s can be an especially freeing decade18:25 — Experience, confidence, and attraction across generations21:33 — Wetness, arousal, and changing bodies23:28 — Menopause, perimenopause, and removing shame from the conversation24:16 — Why foreplay can begin long before the bedroom26:50 — The importance of mutual desire and mindset27:23 — How care, attention, and emotional presence affect intimacy28:20 — Casual versus long-term sexual connections28:55 — Favorite decades and embracing your 40s30:47 — The biggest takeaway: learn what works for you31:16 — Why self-exploration makes communication easier32:20 — What’s coming in the next conversation32:28 — Closing remarks

A shocking breakup, a “love” that arrived with grand gestures, and a hard-earned second chance all become part of a bigger conversation about reciprocity, deception, and what real care actually looks like. The women get honest about being hurt deeply, why that pain can make you shut down for years, and how unexpected love can feel almost suspicious when you have lived through enough disappointment. This episode is for anyone who has ever ignored a gut feeling because the chemistry was good, the attention felt flattering, or the relationship seemed too promising to question. If you need a reality check on modern love, this conversation is equal parts healing, warning, and permission to choose yourself first. -- Episode Timestamps 00:00 — Opening the show and introducing the conversation about unexpected love03:32 — Why being treated well in your 40s can feel surprising05:50 — Love versus care and why reciprocity matters07:39 — Why grand gestures do not always equal genuine commitment09:56 — What real support looks like in a relationship11:32 — Spotting the difference between attraction and actual care14:02 — Foreplay starts before the bedroom16:11 — Why older women may be better at spotting real kindness17:47 — Protecting your relationship from outside opinions and oversharing21:49 — How someone treats other people reveals their character24:02 — Auntie Maryann on enjoying love without expecting disaster

In this episode, Juana, Kaure and Auntie Maryann explore the complex topic of lies in relationships, sharing personal stories and insights on honesty, trust, and human decency. They discuss how lies impact trust and decision-making, offering advice for recognizing and dealing with deception. -- Episode timestamps 00:00 Introduction to the episode and topic of lies 01:53 The emotional impact of discovering lies in relationships 03:49 The importance of honesty and human decency 05:56 Omissions as a form of lying and their consequences 08:06 Signs of deception in dating and relationships 10:03 Manipulation and emotional control through lies 11:57 Personal stories of betrayal and honesty 14:09 Advice for recognizing and confronting lies 15:56 The importance of asking questions and being truthful 18:09 Creating a safe space for honest conversations 19:54 The moral considerations of deception and honesty 22:04 How to handle discovering a lie or betrayal 23:56 Final thoughts on honesty, trust, and human decency

Living Out Loud: Is It Real? Love, Reciprocity, and the Fear of the Other Shoe Dropping -- Juana is joined by Kaure and Auntie Maryann for a candid conversation about unexpected good treatment in dating and why it can feel suspicious when you have a history of being hurt. The episode explores how reciprocity, care, and emotional safety show up in relationships, especially for women navigating their 40s. We discuss how to tell the difference between grand gestures and genuine care, why keeping something for yourself matters, and how protecting your heart can help you stay open without losing yourself. -- Timestamps 00:00 - Opening the episode with the question of whether new love is real 01:26 - Why unexpected kindness can feel suspicious after heartbreak 03:32 - Kaure explains how a past breakup shaped her reluctance to love again 05:50 - The difference between honesty and withholding key information in relationships 07:47 - Why asking questions early can prevent painful surprises later 09:54 - How being denied support during a major life transition changed Kure’s trust 12:44 - The group calls deceit by design manipulative and emotionally controlling 14:20 - Why drama, secrecy, and “Me and Mrs. Jones” situations are nonstarters 16:08 - Women losing the right to choose when information is hidden from them 17:06 - Practical signs someone may be hiding a relationship 19:54 - Whether to confront lying immediately or store the information 21:26 - Juana explains why she no longer has time to sit with lies 22:44 - The younger generation’s stricter standards around dating and effort 24:41 - Why these conversations matter for creating safer relationships 26:29 - Saving your feelings, finances, and energy by not giving everything away 27:57 - How to advise younger people without preaching 30:11 - Confronting someone only when you have receipts and enough closeness to speak honestly 32:55 - Why raw honesty can be the healthiest kind of advice 34:16 - Auntie Marianne’s closing reminder to be honest, recognize lies, and get rid of the liar. “A lie is a lie.”- Kaure + Auntie Maryann “Keep something for yourself.”- Auntie Maryann “Guard your heart because it guards your life.”-

In this conversation, Heather and I explore themes of personal growth, empowerment, and the impact of COVID-19 on their lives and careers. We discuss the importance of self-approval, redefining success, and creating meaningful experiences for themselves and their communities. The conversation also touches on the challenges of navigating professional roles while staying true to personal values and aspirations. Chapters 00:00- Introduction and Connection 02:53- Health and Personal Growth 06:42- Reflections on COVID-19 09:53- Career Pivots and Aspirations 15:23- Redefining Success and Authority 20:23- Empowerment and Self-Approval 25:09- Creating Community and Experiences 28:31- Future Aspirations and Relationships 32:16- Embracing Freedom and Impact 35:15- Conclusion and Next Steps ---Heather Lawrence-Heather currently coaches leaders, in their own lives. Heather inspires powerful people, reminding them of who they are and how to position themselves, generating success as they define it, everywhere. Heather’s coaching practice is an invitation to deeper authenticity, and abundant results. She brings curiosity, and compassion to you especially in moments when the anxiety or discomfort of life transitions attempt to contract your impact. "I believe we are all leaders, of our own lives."- Heather Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l0ileone/

In this episode of JinTransit, Juana and Messellech discuss the challenges and lessons learned from Messellech's journey through divorce and co-parenting. They explore the importance of communication, recognizing emotional and financial abuse, and the role of faith and community in healing. Messellech shares her personal experiences, insights from therapy, and the impact of ambition on family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the significance of personal growth and the excitement of new beginnings after a difficult transition. -- Chapters Introductions Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting The Love Story: Meeting and Compatibility Ambition and Family Dynamics The Shift: Emotional and Financial Abuse Mother's Day Revelation The Confusion of Divorce The Aha Moment: Recognizing Patterns Financial Conversations and Tensions The Job Opportunity and Its Aftermath The Request for Divorce Lessons Learned Through Divorce Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting Challenges The Emotional Toll of Divorce Lessons Learned Through the Process Finding Strength in Community and Faith Shifting Perspectives on Parenting and Relationships Exciting New Ventures Ahead --Substack: Messellech’s Substack | Messellech Abebe | Substack Instagram:Messellech Abebe (@messellech_) • Instagram photos and videos

In this engaging conversation, Juana and Jenny explore the complexities of the American Dream through Jenny's personal journey as an immigrant from the Dominican Republic. They discuss the challenges of navigating cultural expectations, the realities of job searching, and the impact of corporate culture on mental health. Jenny shares her experiences of redefining success and the importance of not tolerating abuse in the workplace. The conversation emphasizes the need for resilience, the power of dreams, and the significance of personal aspirations over societal pressures. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Structure 02:57 The Journey to the U.S. 05:51 Cultural Differences and Language Barriers 08:49 The American Dream: A Personal Perspective 11:51 Navigating Job Opportunities in the U.S. 14:55 Challenges of Accreditation and Employment 17:35 The Reality of the American Dream 20:48 Finding Your Place in a New Country 23:41 Reflections on Success and Growth 34:45 Pursuing Independence and Career Dreams 39:09 Cultural Expectations vs. Personal Aspirations 45:54 The American Dream: A Shift in Perspective 49:59 Navigating Career Challenges and Salary Expectations 01:01:22 Reimagining Dreams and Defining Success 01:09:07 Embracing Delusion and Personal Growth -- IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecurlyjenny/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2dxOtBORlByOmhqRTInag TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecurlyjenny?lang=en X: https://x.com/thecurlyjenny Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecurlyJenny/

While this conversation was taped in 2021, stories of the strong friend "making it," showing up "ok" while weathering their own silent storms never get old. Ren and I chat about her journey during and post COVID- the ups, downs and in betweens. TAKE A LISTEN, RATE and SHARE with your community and SHARE your story. Can you relate?

JinTransit is BACK with some timeless LOST FILES in the COVID Confession series. Social Security Disability attorney Beverly McNeill, Esq. reflects on entrepreneurship in the age of COVID (yes, this was 4 years ago!), how to file successful social security disability claims and lessons learned. Set aside some time, grab a snack, take notes, and ENJOY! How to reach Beverly: Website: The McNeill Firm, PLLC - A Social Security Disability Law Firm Email: [email protected] IG: @themcneillfirm

Women take on many roles in every day life- Mom, social worker, wife, sister, friend… all the titles! And don’t throw in a pandemic - where all titles either flew out the window or took on new dimensions. In this story of self discovery, Makeba shared how the pandemic not only magnified her “titles” but also allowed her to redefine her purpose, needs and desires.

Millennial mom, Nyomi Thompson, shares her challenges and wins as she navigates mommyhood, career transitions and her own personal self-love journey.