1500830572
The Hard Or Soft Show

Advertise on podcast: The Hard Or Soft Show

Rating
★★★★★
4.8
from
1050 reviews
This podcast has
339 episodes
Language
English
Explicit
Yes
Date created
2020/02/28
Latest episode
2026/10/01
Average duration
115 min.
Release period
8 days

Description

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

Unlock The Hard Or Soft Show podcast Email contact info,
Listeners & Audience details

Email contact information

Direct podcast contact details

Listeners

Audience numbers & engagement insights

Audience details

Podcast Insights

Podcast episodes

Check latest episodes from The Hard Or Soft Show podcast


When They're Used To Something BIGGER 😳 I Sex, Intimacy and Compatibility
2026/10/01
Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, Tahoe, Courtney and Yesssterday are back — and somehow we go from Tahoe finding out his daughter is sexually active to wondering why MEN don’t have their own version of an OB/GYN. 😭 First, we get into love and vulnerability. Have you ever wanted to say “I love you” but stopped yourself? Even worse…have you ever finally said it and gotten NOTHING back?! We also talk about the little nonsexual things your partner does that inexplicably turn you on and the different ways people experience intimacy. Are you kinky, sensual, energetic, sexual — or a shapeshifter who needs a little bit of everything depending on the person and the moment? Then things get complicated.  Have you ever found your mind wandering to somebody else while you’re being intimate with your partner? What happens when memories from a previous relationship still influence your current experiences? And what exactly is a sexual yearner? We also get into sexual compatibility and the insecurity that can come with dating someone who’s accustomed to something…different than what you’re working with. 😭  Then a woman asks an unexpectedly legitimate question: Why don’t men have a “dick doctor”? Women routinely see OB/GYNs, so where are men supposed to go with questions about sexual and reproductive health? And why are so many men reluctant to go to the doctor in the first place? PLUS — could the entire Hard or Soft / Nut Navy crew be taking a group trip to Hedonism?! 👀 We’ve also got Tweets of the Week, a new entry into the Urban DICKtionary, Courtney’s Kink of the Week, and Yesssterday returns with a Confession of the Week that might be one of the WILDEST we’ve gotten yet. And of course, we finish with The Hard & The Soft: THE HARD: Eye contact and connection during intimacy. 👀 THE SOFT: Ladies…presentation matters. 😂 Love, fantasies, intimacy, sexual compatibility, men’s health and entirely too much information.  Welcome back to Hard or Soft. Socials: Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
How To Ride, Survive a Bad Sex Life And Keep The Spark Alive Feat @FantasyFitnessMD
2026/09/23
Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Toni (@fantasyfitnessmd) of Fantasy Fitness, and somehow we manage to turn relationship advice, sexual chemistry and riding lessons into one completely unhinged conversation. 😂 We start with something every long-term couple eventually has to deal with: How do you keep conflict from destroying the sexual attraction you have for your partner? And what happens when you’re with somebody whose sex drive is MUCH higher than yours? Then Toni tells us the unbelievable story of why TWO of her boyfriends decided to break up with her after they went to jail. Apparently incarceration had them doing some serious relationship reflection. 😂  From there, Toni explains how casually teaching friends bedroom techniques eventually turned into an actual Fantasy Fitness class, why people sign up, and what they’re hoping to learn. We also talk about building anticipation with your partner throughout the day, mismatched sexual desire, how much recovery time people really need between rounds, and whether bad sex is enough reason to GHOST somebody afterward. The crew also imagines what would happen if we all became OnlyFans creators and had to choose our own niche. Plus, there’s a new use for Meta glasses that nobody at Meta had in mind, Yesssterday introduces us to another one of his…creative techniques, and Tahoe has to answer for possibly ruining his friend’s experience by deciding to join the festivities. Toni also talks about the confidence and motivations that shaped her approach to intimacy, while the crew gets into communication, boundaries and what partners actually enjoy in the bedroom.  A listener writes in to tell us about a “little” obsession of his..  And of course, Courtney is back with Kink of the Week. Relationship problems, sexual confidence, Fantasy Fitness, questionable decisions and entirely too much information.  Welcome back to Hard or Soft. Socials: Toni @FantasyFitnessMD on Instagram Head to www.RidingForRookies.com to book a slot at one of Toni's Riding classes Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Drive Boost Go to VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
BDSM, Kink & Open Relationships- The Rules Nobody Teaches You
2026/09/16
Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand. And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. 😂   From there, Dre takes us into the world of rope and body suspension, explaining the different levels of suspension, why properly distributing someone’s weight matters, and what draws people to the experience in the first place. Then we get into the HISTORY.  Dre breaks down the roots of leather culture, BDSM and kink, including the influence of LGBTQ+ communities on the culture that exists today. We discuss why some longtime members of those communities are critical of a newer generation entering kink spaces, hosting events and adopting practices without learning the history, traditions and responsibilities that came before them. Then we bring everything back to relationships.  Tahoe and Dre explain why they’ve chosen not to sexually engage with attendees while they’re hosting play parties. We talk about the best way to tell your partner you’re interested in someone else at a party, what happens when your kinks DON’T match your partner’s, and how to respectfully approach a couple when you’re interested in connecting with one of them.  And then comes the conversation a lot of men aren’t prepared to have: How do men navigate their partners having other male partners? We get into jealousy, communication, boundaries, multiple relationship dynamics outside of a primary partnership, and whether wanting freedom for yourself means being prepared to give your partner that same freedom.  This isn’t just a conversation about what people do in kink spaces — it’s about understanding the culture, communication, consent and history behind them. Welcome back to Hard or Soft. Socials: Dre @BeatsByDre on Fetlife Go to @HausofBliss on Instagram for event details Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Soaking Wet Go to SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
What Makes Someone REALLY Good In Bed? Confidence, Anxiety & Communication Feat @SkipFromBK
2026/09/09
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, Courtney gets an unexpected business opportunity when a fan propositions her for feet pictures — and somehow that’s only the BEGINNING of where this episode goes.  We get into why American women seem to love British men, which leads Tahoe, Yesssterday and Skip to announce their upcoming trip to London to find out whether English women have that same energy for American men. Then we’re talking about what actually makes someone GOOD in the bedroom. How soon should you start discussing sex with someone you’re dating? Why do nerds have a reputation for being surprisingly great lovers? And could something as simple as being able to admit when you’re wrong actually make you better in bed?  We also have a real conversation about male performance anxiety and how anxiety can affect the way men physically show up in sexual and play-party environments. Skip opens up about how becoming part of the Hard or Soft / Nut Navy community has helped increase his confidence, and the crew discusses why some women can be so judgmental about men using sexual performance enhancements. Plus, we’re breaking down bedroom communication, sex positions that look like WAY more work than fun, Tahoe somehow ends up with Skip as his “astral penis,” and Skip tells us exactly what he likes — and doesn’t like — in the bedroom.  Courtney returns with Kink of the Week, Yesssterday has a brand-new listener confession, and Tahoe makes an important announcement regarding Loon’s departure from Hard or Soft. Funny, informative, vulnerable and completely inappropriate in all the ways you’ve come to expect from Hard or Soft. Welcome back to the Nut Navy. Socials: Skip @SkipFromBK on all socials Tahoe  @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit Loadboost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
Our Traumas Can Determine Our Kinks Feat Daddy Doyenne
2026/09/02
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with lifestyle domme and kink educator Daddy Doyenne to talk why they dont date straight men, the uncomfortablity Tahoe feels as a straight man being tip toeing around LGBTQIA and Cis womens traumas, should straight ppl and LGBQTIA segregate to maintain the peace, the origin of Daddys "demon" persona, what Daddys experience growing up was like and whather her family was supportive of it, establishing boundaries and knowing when to let ppl go, how speaking about these topics lets people know its ok to live in their truths and much more!! ENJOY! Socials: Daddy Doyenne @Thee.Demonatrix on Instagram @Daddy_Doyenne on Twitter DaddyDoyenne.com Tahoe  @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
Great Sex vs Sexual Chemistry: What's The Difference? I Cheating, Pleasure & Bedroom Confessions Feat Kelly Moonstone
2026/08/27
Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, music artist and producer Kelly Moonstone joins the crew for a completely shameless conversation about pleasure, cheating, sexual chemistry and what men and women REALLY expect from each other in the bedroom. Why do some people feel guilty after pleasuring themselves? And we tackle an even crazier question: Can cheating ever actually SAVE a relationship? Is infidelity always the beginning of the end, or can what happens afterward expose problems a couple needed to confront? Then it’s confession time: What’s something you did because you were horny that you had absolutely NO business doing? 😂 We also break down the difference between great sex and genuine sexual chemistry—because they’re definitely not always the same thing. Then the men turn the conversation toward women: What are five things women can do to be better in the bedroom? And why do some women expect men to bring their A-game sexually without putting that same level of effort into pleasing their partner? Kelly Moonstone joins us for all of it as we talk pleasure, attraction, effort, chemistry, cheating and the things people don’t always admit about their sex lives.  Welcome to Hard or Soft—where nothing about sex and relationships is off limits. ENJOY!! Tickets for our Halloween party are NOW ON SALE!!! Email us at [email protected] to request the ticket link IF you have already been vetted or go to TheHardorSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form Socials: Kelly @KellyMoonStone on Instagram Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Drive Boost Visit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
Does Size Really Matter? Sex Symbols, Bedroom Confidence & Wild Confessions
2026/08/20
Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week on Hard or Soft, the crew gets into a wild conversation about attraction, sex appeal and what really makes someone unforgettable in the bedroom. Are Black men too critical of Black women? How many people have probably pleasured themselves while thinking about you—or looking at your pictures? And the question nobody knew we needed answered: Is Tahoe actually a sex symbol? 👀 Tahoe also reveals his latest sex-toy purchases before the crew breaks down how men with smaller packages can still show up with confidence in the bedroom. Plus, Tahoe tells the story of how his girl actually studied the videos he sent her, took notes and came back ready to experiment. 😂 Then we get into backhanded sexual compliments, Courtney’s Kink of the Week, and Yesssterday introduces a brand-new Confessions segment that immediately goes completely off the rails. Sex, relationships, attraction, bedroom confidence, kinks and absolutely zero shame—welcome back to Hard or Soft. Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Drive Boost Visit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow  Enjoy!
I Have A Freaky Side That I Cant Tell My Wife About
2026/08/13
Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week we welcome musician Denhim to the couch as we talk Courtney listening to True Crime pods and of course Tahoe finds a way to relate it to secks, not being able to tell your partner about your kinks, Tahoe being the face of men getting their groceries eaten and being hit on by his ghey fans, whether its going too far for him and why ghey men try straight men, Denhims music career and how he likes living in NY, the toxic inspiration behind some of the songs on his album and catching his partner having secks with his bestie, the difference between dating down south and dating in NY, the  physical touch love language and how it relates to men vs how it relates to women, ppl expecting secks after the first date and actually demanding secks, not intiating enough witrh your partner, being irresponsible with your dick and SO much more!! ENJOY!!!! Subscribe to our Patreon to join our Patreon, watch our Patreon only shows and see the show visuals!! Socials: Denhim @ItsDenhim on Instagram Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Soaking Wet Visit SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
Why Am I Always Being Judged For Being Secksual??
2026/08/06
Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!! This week Courtney rejoins the cast as we talk people lying on their secks game, advocating for micro peens, Tahoe gifts Yesssterday with his first male secks toy, when should women pull out their secks toy on a guy, the proper way to use anull beads, Tahoes wife surprises him with a game, Courtneys new and improved secks life, how to properly hit the different climax spots in the vulva, how many holes does the vulva have, why Courtney came back to the show, the difficulties that come while living in your secksual truth, being in a marraige where only one person initiates, the best position to eat cat in, and what is the best time to have secks outside on your patio?? ENJOY!!! Listen To the full episode ad free on Patreon now!! Socials: Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
Are White Men Easier For Black Women To Date?
2026/07/30
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we welcome Zeema of the Honestly Tho podcast to talk her getting favors and offerings from white men, dating white men and why she thinks it is easier to date them than black men, being turned off by a man after pegging him and why she feels that being pegged isnt for "straight' men, the difference in beauty standards for white women vs black women, warming the booty hole up for penetration, recycling nudes and the best camera tricks to take nude videos with, Tahoes love for toys and what he gets out of it, 5 ways to be a dicksman, and more!!! ENJOY! Listen To the full episode ad free on Patreon now!! Socials: Zima  @TopTier_Zee on Instagram Honestly Tho Podcast @_HonestlyThoPodcast on Instagram Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
343. Damn My P*ssy Grew Alot!! Feat Goddess Jessi
2026/07/22
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!! This week we sit with The Sweet Love Sanctuary's own Goddess Jessi to talk balancing your energy, where Goddess Jessi originally met Tahoe and Loon, the definition of the word "Goddess", defining the Sweet Love Sanctuary, living a polyamorous lifestyle and Goddess Jessi's liberation, the reaction that Goddess Jessi receives when she lets potential partners know that she is married but open, Tahoe and his trash d*ck days, the guys experiences with women that maybe weren't too favorable, having a good d*ck radar and so much more! ENJOY!! Socials: GoddessJessi @SweetLoveSanctuary on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Drive Boost Visit VB.Health and use code HardOrSoft for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums
2026/07/16
Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!! This week we welcome @NYCThickums to talk women loving boyfriend d*ck, trying to be with someone with a smaller member and the adjustments she tried to make to make it work, testing the bewtyhole to see if men were with bewty play, the connection between mens ego and secks, what pp get from swapping partners or letting them have secks with other ppl, being open to sharing your partner and the scale of boundaries that people place on such activities, the conversations that need to be had before opening your relationship, the effect of religion on your secksual inhibitions, and so much more!! ENJOY!! Socials: @NYCThickums on Instagram @ThisBronxGirlWrites for her blog Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: Soaking Wet Visit SoakingWet.com and use code HardOrSoft for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
341. Is A Little Delulu Necessary? Feat @TheRealMarkel
2026/07/08
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! This week we welcome Markel Logan Coleman (@TheRealMarkel) to talk not telling the truth in the bedroom, how the miltary shaped some of Markels personality traits, having an affair on his then boyfriend with his now husband, understanding why some ppl cheat, allowing your partner to step out for freaky tithings, and Markel takes over the show to ask Loon and Yesssterday some questions. ENJOY! Socials: Markel @TheRealMarkel on instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HardOrSoft for 10% off GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus
2026/07/01
Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLL!!! Strap yourselves in TIGHT because this episode is a DOOZY!! Mr Dominus steps in and takes Tahoe and Loon for the ride of their lives as we talk poly and hierarchical relationships and whether gay men suffer from the same ego/control and jealousy that staright men go through in their relationships. Trying to explain to your partner that you needing other ppl has nothing to do with them, Dominus being a platinum gay member and what it takes to maintain that member status, different hookup sites in the Gay community and how free gay men are in their secksual exploits, Dominus love language, where his arousal to men comes from and when he realized he was gay. The convo gets intense as he talks his west indian family and their response to his sexual orientation and lifestyle, wearing flags to show what types of kinks you're into, his love for  and SOOOO much more. This is a Platinum level episode!!! ENJOY!!! Socials: Dominus @MrDominus_DC on Instagram Listen to the @FreakNSeePodcast Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
339. Why Cant More Women Be Like Daphne Joy Feat Marley Moore
2026/06/24
Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week we welcome an old friend of the show, content creator and corn star Marley Moore, to talk Tahoes lil man not being present, Daphne Joys effect on men since shes been doing interviews, why women dont like Daphne Joy, Marleys early retirement and getting back into the corn game, how corn has changed, Being a sensual Domme and what that entails, Domme'ing Yt guys vs Domme'ing Black guys (specifically Yesssterday), the domme who went to jail for a kink gon wrong, what a JOI is and how Marley gives them, women sneaking out cums and men being able to tell or not being able to tell when a woman climaxes and so much more... ENJOY!!! Socials Marley @MarleyDaBooty on Twitter @MarleyXMoore on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click here GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Podcast reviews

Read The Hard Or Soft Show podcast reviews


4.8 out of 5
1050 reviews
★★★★☆
JCruztheArtist732 2026/09/10
Gr8 SHOW
This show is very informative, seductively sexy and silly without being embarrassing. I enjoy the chemistry and the banter between the cast.
★★★☆☆
Sooooamazin 2026/09/03
Where is loone?
Where is loone , Did he leave the show? Where is court ,The episode this week was not it. Lowkey the last couple episodes been a blah boring kinda all...
★★★★★
Disappointed A F 2026/01/26
Sensational 😍 10/10
The content in this show has been amazing. 🤩 I’ve learned so much and I have been stuck from day one… Thanks for the realness… Stay hard ya’ll!! 🍆 ...
★★★★★
lj8591 2025/06/14
Love the content
Idk how i found this podcast but i been binging this entire week! Ya are hilarious and give a lot of good insight to things lol.
★★★★★
bball4 me 2025/05/24
Little bit of everything
This is my favorite they get straight to it. I’m for sure hook.
★★★★★
Gem lover009988 2025/04/15
Comedy and facts
This show gives you a little bit of everything. I enjoy all the opinions from cast and i plan to use some of them. It has me interested in other sexua...
★★★★★
@Princessdellz 2025/03/26
I love this podcast!
After a long day & im full from dinner, fresh out the shower and im relaxing .. this is my favorite show to listen to and chill in bed while i scroll ...
★★★★★
Jerri964 2024/09/19
Binge Worthy ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Tahoe and Loon's podcast is an eye-opening, refreshing take on male sexuality and relationships, offering listeners a unique and much-needed conversat...
★★★★☆
Julius_J_ 2024/05/15
The Community Needs This
Love the show, been listening from day 1. Tell Loon to stop clearing his throat every 5 minutes though.
★★★★★
MeSad'e 2024/05/07
Talk to us!!!
Doesn’t matter what y’all talk about… I love each and every episode… EVEN THE ONE WITH KAOTIC AND SCRAPPY. My hard this week was the look on his face...
check all reviews on apple podcasts

Podcast sponsorship advertising

Start advertising on The Hard Or Soft Show relevant audience podcasts


What do you want to promote?