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Matthew and Paul are discussing the new gay romantic comedy “Heartstopper”, currently streaming on Netflix. Listen as Matthew and Paul talk about the show as well as personal stories inspired by scenes and characters from the LGBTQ series. On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul share stories about their mothers. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/68252606

Matthew and Paul are celebrating Pride by recounting their first Pride Parade memories. Matthew describes how he accidentally attended Pride shortly after coming out as gay, while Paul reminisces about the friendships that defined his college years in San Francisco. Matthew and Paul also explain what Pride means to them today. On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul discuss their feelings about “Straight Pride” and whether it’s something that should ever be celebrated. Listen to the extended episode here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/68044441

Matthew and Paul conclude their discussion of Episode 1 of Heartstopper, the new gay coming of age series starring Joe Locke and Kit Connor. On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul reveal their favorite moments from the episode. Listen here https://www.patreon.com/posts/67694446

Matthew and Paul are discussing the new gay coming-of-age romantic comedy, Heartstopper. Created by Alice Oseman, the 8-part series depicts LGBTQ teens as they navigate high school, friendships, and first love. Matthew and Paul discuss the first episode as well as personal stories inspired by scenes and characters from the show. Support this podcast on Patreon: Patreon.com/hiandhis

On this Bonus episode of “His and His” Matthew talks about his recent live performance, while Paul describes how he and Mr. Maple worked behind-the-scenes. Matthew opens up about his cult experience alongside the famous Duggar family, and how their use of “code words” was something his family used as well. This sparks a discussion about code words used within a relationship, and the specific words Matthew and Paul use in public and in private. Tap here for the full conversation: https://www.patreon.com/posts/67067063

Matthew interviews Paul about his life as a visual artist…who also happens to be blind. Paul’s love of visual storytelling began as soon as he could hold a crayon. At the age of six, Paul wrote and illustrated his first children’s book, “The Sad Turtle”, by repurposing one of his older brother’s hardback books. Paul’s creativity evolved into a love of filmmaking, but at age 16 he was diagnosed with a rare form of blindness called Retinitis Pigmentosa. Despite this progressive and untreatable disease, Paul honed his love of visual arts and forged a career as an author and illustrator. Order a copy of Paul’s new children’s book, “The Pengrooms” at paulcastlestudio.com Support this podcast on Patreon: Patreon.com/hisandhis

Matthew and Paul discuss the complex human experience of grief. What are the stages of grief and what does it mean to grieve? Paul shares his still-processing grief journey in the aftermath of his brother’s death 3 months ago, including a surprising discovery he made while searching through old emails. On the extended episode, Matthew takes us through the stages of grief while recalling his coming out experience and the resulting end of family relationships. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/66477570

In this supersided episode of His and His, Paul interviews Matthew about the decade he and his family spent trapped in a religious cult. From boyhood until his early twenties, Matthew belonged to a fanatical group called the Advanced Training Institute. Founded by the charismatic and often eccentric leader, Bill Gothard, ATI eventually accumulated thousands of devoted followers around the world. In the first half, Matthew describes how he and his family fell into the cult and the many ways in which it took over their lives. In the second half, Matthew describes leaving the isolated world of the cult and adjusting to the “real world” for the first time. What excited him? What scared him? And most importantly, how did he grow? Listen to the extended version of this episode here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/66177894

To celebrate 100K followers on Instagram, Matthew and Paul are answering questions submitted by listeners on social media. How did you find the courage to come out? Advice for allies of the LGBTQ community? Where did you get your sense of humor? Do you guys ever argue? Matthew and Paul answer these questions and more on this very special episode. On the extended episode Matthew and Paul reveal something they love about each other…but have never admitted it out loud. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/65886073

Matthew and Paul discuss the “Don’t Say Gay” bills currently sweeping the nation. Matthew describes the bill and dispels common myths, while Paul recalls being in the first grade learning about social justice and heteronormative culture (non of which turned him straight). On the extended episode Paul discusses why he almost changed the name of his LGBTQ children’s picture book to be “less gay”. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/65557727

On this bonus episode of “His and His” Matthew and Paul discuss a variety of topics that are weighing on their minds this week. From internet homophobia to “Don’t Say Gay” to an update on Matthew’s recent injuries and a movie recommendation from 1955. Listen to the full bonus episode here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/65254603

On the final installment of Paul Goes to Prison, Paul describes the moment he was released from jail and dropped off at a bus station in the snowy mountains of British Columbia. Paul discusses the feelings of shame he experienced and how, eventually, he set his life on a better path. Paul then explains the 10-year journey to vindication which resulted in the absolution of his crime. On the extended episode Paul has more to say about his Pardon. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/64981725