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Most people know her as Jbums. CEO of She Drag Gang. A voice since she was 19. This is the side of the office she has not really sat down to explain. Apostle Bunmi George on God speaking at 13, why the call took years, phones staying down in discipleship, heaven’s applause over a camera, a father’s words becoming an inner voice, therapy, the 8-second rule in marriage, and why she did the work off camera. Sound Mind Podcast. #ApostleBunmiGeorge #Jbums #SoundMindPodcast #SheDragGang #Faith #Calling #Therapy #PodcastNigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Moromoluwa Atiketi — ordained pastor, creator, wife and mother. The conversation starts where people still whisper. Her manager impregnated her. Don’t mix business and pleasure. She said it happened twice. Then she talks about loving her husband, raising brilliant children, and why home is peace. She also opens up about becoming “Arsenal wife,” the season her content exploded, and why she treats joy like an assignment. Bad days exist. Exhaustion exists. But the devil can take money and opportunity. The moment he takes your joy and your worship, that is the real loss. Later, she talks about proximity to Daddy GO and Mummy Faith through her husband’s work with the mission — including Grandma calling two hours after she gave birth. A warm, honest conversation on marriage, content, faith and staying happy on purpose. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Christians keep asking Daniel Etim Effiong how he does kissing scenes. In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, he answers it directly. He talks about why he says there is no clean split between sacred and secular, the condition of the heart, and the question he asked a young actress in church: would you ask a gynecologist that? He also shares what he told her about fear, the industry, and staying submitted if God is the one who sent you there. The full conversation also covers his childhood, the accusation that broke him, marriage, and the path he believes God pulled him off. Listen now on Sound Mind Podcast. Daniel Etim Effiong, kissing scenes, Christian actor, Nollywood, sacred vs secular, Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka #DanielEtimEffiong #Nollywood #ChristianActor #SoundMindPodcast #Faith #Podcas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with artist and sculptor Anthony Azekwoh. They go back to Covenant University — the viral essay, the disciplinary hearing, the relegation, and the years that followed. Anthony shares how speaking up almost destroyed his life, how he watched friends graduate from an Airbnb, and why high blood pressure at 18 became part of the story. He also talks about leaving chemical engineering for art, why graphic design was only a gateway, and why he refused when the same school later invited him back after he became successful. A raw conversation about art, punishment, survival, and the cost of telling the truth. Anthony Azekwoh, Covenant University, Nigerian artist, sculptor, viral essay, relegated from school, Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka, leaving engineering for art #AnthonyAzekwoh #CovenantUniversity #SoundMindPodcast #NigerianArtist #Sculpture #CreativeJourney Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Most people leave Nigeria looking for a better life. Babatunde Dada did the opposite. After studying and working abroad, he returned to build Nolt Finance — a company focused on the “underserved.” In this conversation, he shares: Why he always planned to come back to NigeriaHow long it took to get a CBN licenseWhy his first customers were familyWhy trust is the real product in financeWhat young people get wrong about building businessesThe discipline required to stay consistentA calm, practical, and insightful conversation about building in Nigeria. Babatunde Dada, Nolt Finance, CBN license, Nigerian finance, underserved, trust in finance, starting a bank in Nigeria, entrepreneurship Nigeria, Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka #BabatundeDada #NoltFinance #SoundMindPodcast #NigerianFinance #Entrepreneurship #CBN #BuildingInNigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Most people only see dogs as pets or security. Very few understand the real industry behind them. In this episode, I sat with two of Nigeria’s respected dog breeders — Shigo (Preble Kennel) and Timo (Watchers Kennel) — for a raw conversation about: • The emotional side of owning and breeding dogs • The deadly risk of Parvo that can wipe out a whole kennel • Scams involving fake bloodlines and dyed dogs • Why breeding is more science than luck • The difference between pet, breeding and show quality dogs • Why raw feeding produces stronger dogs • How much proper dogs actually cost in Nigeria • The rise of Pet HMOs and pet taxis This episode changes how you see dogs and the business around them. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with his mentor, Dr. Damola Adegboye — seasoned MC, comedian, and newly minted doctorate holder. Dr. Damola shares the focus of his PhD research on the complex relationship between Nigeria and South Africa — the competition, the cooperation, the historical context, and why tension continues to exist despite deep ties. He also breaks down a powerful framework for national development, what he calls the four legs every serious nation must stand on: Strong institutions that are bigger than individualsClear consequences for actions and inactionsResponsive and proactive leadershipResponsible followership Beyond politics and research, he opens up about life on the stage — emotional intelligence, diplomacy with difficult clients, learning from younger people, running an initiative that celebrates public school students, and mentoring the next generation of MCs. This is a rich, grounded, and insightful conversation that moves between comedy, academia, and nation-building. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this soul-lifting conversation, IDY Archibong sits with Tolu Afilaka to share her journey of faith — from Covenant University and the Methodist church, to moving alone to the UK, and learning how to stay spiritually alive in a new environment. She opens up about: What campus life and COVID were really like for herHow she found a deeper hunger for GodPractical ways she stayed consistent with prayer and community in the UKWhy she never planned to build a large followingThe Bible characters that have shaped her walkHonest advice for anyone who feels lost or has backsliddenThis is a calm, honest, and deeply encouraging episode for anyone trying to stay close to God while building their life. Listen and be strengthened. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Millions know Love Abolade for her voice, but few know the story behind it. In this episode of the Sound Minds Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits down with worship minister Love Abolade for an honest conversation about faith, purpose, discipline, and the unseen journey behind public ministry. Love shares how she encountered God at university, why she spent hours in prayer, what shaped her approach to worship, and why she believes excellence is an act of worship. She also discusses why she doesn't listen to Afrobeats for entertainment, the lessons she learnt from studying Beyoncé's preparation for Coachella, whether churches should pay music ministers, and the biggest lessons she's learnt from Pastor Emmanuel Iren. Whether you're a creative, entrepreneur, leader, or someone seeking a deeper walk with God, this conversation offers practical wisdom on purpose, excellence, and staying grounded in your faith. In this episode:How encountering God changed her lifeWhy she prayed through the night as a studentThe discipline behind worship ministryWhy she doesn't listen to AfrobeatsWhat Beyoncé taught her about excellenceShould churches pay music ministers?The importance of purpose over ambitionLessons from Pastor Emmanuel IrenWhy her greatest desire is simply to remain close to GodIf you enjoyed this episode, follow Sound Minds Podcast and leave a rating or review—it helps more people discover these conversations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it take to build companies that transform an entire continent? In this episode of Sound Minds Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Iyin Aboyeji—Co-founder of Andela and Flutterwave, Founding Partner at Future Africa, and one of Africa's most influential entrepreneurs. From growing up in a modest home to helping build two billion-dollar companies, Iyin shares the principles that have shaped his life, leadership and entrepreneurial journey. He explains why ideas are worthless without execution, how he identifies billion-dollar opportunities, why he walked away from companies he helped build, the future of Artificial Intelligence, what investors really look for, and why faith has been the greatest advantage in his life. This conversation is packed with timeless lessons on entrepreneurship, leadership, innovation, purpose and building institutions that outlive their founders. In this episode:How Andela and Flutterwave were builtWhy Iyin says ideas are useless without executionThe truth about startup funding and venture capitalHow to identify opportunities others ignoreWhy he believes Nigeria is still one of the best places to buildThe future of AI and what founders should prepare forLeadership, hiring and building exceptional teamsWhy faith has been his greatest competitive advantageBuilding businesses that solve real problemsPurpose, legacy and creating lasting impactWhether you're an entrepreneur, founder, investor, executive, student or simply someone looking to think bigger, this episode offers practical wisdom from one of Africa's foremost business leaders. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Most people see luxury. Very few understand the journey behind it. In this episode of Sound Minds Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Waris Amuzat Omotolani, Founder and CEO of Pawnshop by Blue Radish, to discuss one of the most inspiring entrepreneurial stories you'll hear. Born inside a danfo bus because his family couldn't afford a hospital, Waris began his career as an apprentice in Computer Village before building one of Africa's leading luxury asset-backed lending companies. He shares how he started with just ₦15,000, failed in more than eleven businesses, discovered the pawnshop model abroad, and returned to Nigeria to build a company solving a real financial problem for high-net-worth individuals. This conversation explores entrepreneurship, wealth creation, luxury assets, debt, leadership, personal growth, and the mindset required to build something extraordinary. In this episode:Being born inside a danfo busGrowing up with limited resourcesLearning business in Computer VillageStarting with ₦15,000Failing more than eleven businessesBuilding Blue RadishWhy debt is a strategyWhy wealthy people don't always sell their assetsLuxury watches as investmentsThe importance of mindsetReading books and lifelong learningIntegrity, relationships, and entrepreneurshipThe future of luxury finance in AfricaIf you're building a business, trying to create wealth, or looking for practical lessons on entrepreneurship and resilience, this episode is for you. Hosted by Tolu Afilaka Produced by Cafe One Studios Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if the greatest success of your life still left you feeling empty? For years, Chude Jideonwo was achieving everything many people dream of. He built influential media platforms, advised political leaders, interviewed some of Africa's biggest names, and became one of the continent's most respected storytellers. Yet behind the success was a private battle with depression. In this deeply honest conversation, Chude opens up about the season that changed his life forever. He shares how depression stripped away everything he thought defined him, why he almost walked away from Christianity, what brought him back to faith, and why he now believes joy and happiness are not the same thing. We also explore purpose, forgiveness, ambition, politics, media, podcasting, storytelling, the Busola Dakolo interview, leadership, wealth, relationships, and the lessons he's learned after interviewing hundreds of remarkable people. This isn't just a conversation about success. It's about becoming whole. If you've ever questioned your purpose, struggled with your faith, battled anxiety or depression, or wondered whether success is really enough, this episode is for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nigeria needs more people speaking sense, not nonsense. That was one of the first things Engineer Dari Aliyu said in this conversation. And honestly, it set the tone for everything that followed. Most people know Dari Aliyu as the founder of TDA, one of Nigeria's most respected fashion brands. What many don't know is the story behind the success. He lost his father at the age of two. He was raised by an uneducated mother. His older siblings sacrificed everything to keep the family together. He earned a scholarship into King's College, studied engineering in Russia under one of the toughest education systems in the world, and eventually built a brand that thousands admire today. But this conversation is bigger than fashion. It's about education, discipline, faith, value creation, poverty, success, ambition, family, entrepreneurship and the mindset required to build something meaningful from nothing. Dari shares lessons from his childhood, why he believes school is still important, why success is often misunderstood, how Russia shaped his thinking, the sacrifices behind TDA's growth, and why the pursuit of value matters more than the pursuit of money. If you're a student, entrepreneur, young professional, founder, creator, or simply someone trying to build a better life, this episode is packed with practical wisdom. Much of the discussion centers on education, discipline, value creation, overcoming hardship, and building a meaningful life through consistent effort and personal responsibility. This is not just a conversation about business. It's a masterclass on life. Sound Minds Podcast Hosted by Tolu Afilaka What was your biggest takeaway from this conversation? CHAPTERS00:00 – Why Nigeria Needs More People Speaking Sense, Not Nonsense 01:33 – Meet Engineer Dari Aliyu 02:25 – Losing His Father At 2 & Growing Up With Nothing 04:19 – Why School Is Not A Scam 07:50 – The Biggest Misconception About His Background 10:07 – How His Mother & Siblings Saved The Family 12:24 – Winning A Scholarship Into King's College 15:56 – The Harsh Reality Of Studying In Russia 18:58 – Inside One Of The Toughest Education Systems In The World 21:07 – Why He Returned To Nigeria Instead Of Staying Abroad 23:42 – His First Job & Lessons About Money 27:19 – The Definition Of Success Most People Get Wrong 32:46 – How TDA Was Started 36:39 – Building A Fashion Brand Like An Engineer 39:35 – Why Society Celebrates The Wrong Things 42:56 – Growing TDA Through Difficult Times 47:58 – Surviving COVID & Reinventing The Business 51:17 – Meeting His Wife & The Power Of Divine Timing 54:30 – Success, Failure & Personal Growth 58:22 – Faith, Purpose & Finding Direction 01:02:18 – Protecting The TDA Brand & Building New Ventures 01:05:47 – The Principles That Changed His Life 01:09:57 – Final Advice For Young Nigerians Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it really take to break a Guinness World Record? In this episode of Sound Minds Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Fadó, Nigeria's leading magician and Guinness World Record holder for the Longest Magic Show. For over 22 years, Fadó dedicated his life to mastering an art many people misunderstood. Then came the challenge that would test his mind, body, finances, and resilience like never before: performing magic continuously for 50 hours. From sleepless nights and financial sacrifices to self-doubt and relentless preparation, Fadó shares the incredible story behind one of Nigeria's most remarkable achievements. This conversation goes far beyond magic. It's about vision, discipline, obsession, creativity, and the price people pay to achieve extraordinary goals. In this episode, we discuss: • The truth about magic and how it actually works • The journey to becoming a professional magician • Breaking a Guinness World Record • Performing for 50 hours without sleep • The physical and mental challenges behind the attempt • The sacrifices nobody saw • Going into debt to pursue a dream • Creativity, discipline, and mastery • Building a magic industry in Nigeria • What comes next after making history Whether you're an entrepreneur, artist, creator, performer, or someone pursuing a difficult dream, this conversation is packed with lessons on persistence, courage, and believing in your vision when nobody else does. 💬 What was your biggest takeaway from this conversation? 🎙️ Sound Minds Podcast Hosted by Tolu Afilaka #Fado #GuinnessWorldRecord #Magic #Magician #Nigeria #Podcast #SoundMindsPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

THE DARK SIDE OF THERAPY, INTIMACY & SEX | Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire (Part 2) In this highly anticipated Part 2, Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire goes even deeper into the unspoken realities of intimacy, emotional connection, and sexual struggles in Nigeria. With raw honesty and clinical insight, she breaks down how culture, religion, parenting, and trauma shape our sex lives and relationships — often in damaging ways. From the emotional gap between men and women to the real reasons many marriages suffer in silence, Dr. Tolu doesn’t hold back. This episode is bold, eye-opening, and deeply practical. What We Discussed in Part 2: Why sex is not just physical — the massive importance of emotional connectionHow men are conditioned to be providers but struggle with intimacyThe damaging effects of parenting, culture, and religion on emotional expressionWhy many Nigerian men have low emotional capacity in the bedroomHealthy vs unhealthy masculinity and its impact on sexThe truth about sex education — what children should actually see at homeKinks, fantasies, exploration, and how far is “too far” in marriageCognitive reconditioning, CBT, and why changing adult behavior is difficultThe painful realities of Igbo apprenticeship system and its effect on menCreativity in sex, foreplay, and why many women are frustratedDr. Tolu combines professional expertise with compassion as she addresses the silent struggles couples face but rarely discuss openly. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.