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Let's be honest... NO ONE wants to talk about their failures but WE NEED TO. From "social media flexin'" to "Started from the bottom, now I'm here"... NO ONE is sharing how hard it is to actually overcome past failures. We're always told that failure isn't an option but in real life... it happens! So, my friends and I are sharing our failures so that we can confirm that WE ALL ARE HUMAN! Struggles are real but they don't define us. Yes! Failing is embarrassing. Yes! Failing is horrible. BUT... you're not alone. To shop: https://www.ifailedpodcast.com/shop Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/wisdomby30/support

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Confessions of an Emotional Hoarder | Disappointment

2026/08/12

Host, Shay Ruff shares one of her confessions as an Emotional Hoarder. Think about the earliest moment you can remember being genuinely disappointed by someone you trusted. How old were you? What did you decide about people, or about yourself, in that moment? Are you still living by that decision?

Confessions of an Emotional Hoarder | Disappointment

2026/08/12

"I don't like asking for help!! I rather go at it alone." In this episode, Shay Ruff gives one of her confessions as an Emotional Hoarder. She acknowledges that disappointment has been one of her biggest motivations. Is this you, too?

Overcoming Childhood Isolation

2026/07/28

The Impact of Emotions on Growth Olivia Ruff, the daughter of Shay Ruff, read her latest book and is now asking hard questions. It's a Mother-Daughter episode. Get your copy of "Hi! I'm An Emotional Hoarder" here.

Overcoming Childhood Isolation

2026/07/28

It's a Mother/Daughter Episode! Olivia Ruff, the daughter of Shay Ruff, interviews her about: Childhood Independence Emotional Struggles Lessons from Family Dynamics Navigating Mother-Daughter Relationships Get your copy of "Hi! I'm An Emotional Hoarder" here.

Unpacking the Journey of Emotional Hoarding

2026/07/21

From the Reader's Thoughts to Questioning the Author Reader, Rudy Milton, asks questions about: The Journey of Writing the BookUnderstanding Emotional HoarderPractical Steps for HealingThe Author's Personal Challenges

Unpacking the Journey of Emotional Hoarding

2026/07/21

Reader, Rudy Milton, interviews the author of "Hi! I'm an Emotional Hoarder," Sharon D. Lewis (Shay Ruff).

How Did We Get Here

2026/04/20

Uncover the silent emotional armor you've been wearing, hidden trauma, unresolved pain, and the dangerous cycle of emotional hoarding. The host and writer, Shay Ruff, reveals how avoiding emotions for decades keeps us trapped, disconnected, and in 'survival mode.'

It's Been A While

2026/04/09

No filter needed. WE ARE BACK! Can you believe that it's been three years since we last spoke?! The "I Failed..." Podcast is back with a twist! Since 2020, I have been writing this book about my personal journey of emotional hoarding, and now it is a best-selling book. But aside from that celebration, I want to share my story with you so that you can See where I've beenHow I'm adjusting How this "emotional hoarding" thing started I believe that it's going to help you too.

I Failed... The Burnout

2022/09/23

Whew!! It was on my heart to do this impromptu podcast about my personal burnout. Usually, when we experience something, someone else may have a similar experience. So this one is for all of my people who are feeling burned out and experiencing self-awareness. Thank you for listening!

I Failed: Marriage & Who was your example?

2022/08/15

If you've ever been in a dating relationship and/or marriage that ended, you've had a reflection moment afterward. You're trying to figure out what went wrong. Was it you? Was it them? How could have things been redirected away from a breakup? Most of us never realize that our upbringing usually plays a part in how we date. Today's guests, Rickey and Shalonda Schoonmaker share their moments of clarity after breakups and divorces. Origins: Detroit, Michigan Expertise: Logistics, Non-Profit, and Business Management

I Failed: MARRIAGE & Backup Plans

2022/08/08

Is it okay to "just in case" your marriage if things don't work out? Should you have a person of interest on standby should your marriage go left? While some of us think that this is crazy, it's very real for a lot of people. The "backup plan" has some people in divorce court or annulment highway. Ty and Tera share their wisdom about the matter. Origins: The Virgin Islands and Florida Expertise: Risk Management and Product Development

I Failed: Commitment & What does it look like to you?

2022/08/01

Commitment can be a forbidden word to some, while others crawl under their beds to hide from the challenge. But do we make commitment harder than it is? Today's guests, Joshua & Tasha Ikegulu, share how they are consciously working through commitment. Origins: Nigeria and New Orleans, Louisiana Expertise: Oil Industry and Psychology

Long Distance Friendships... I Failed Podcast

2022/05/23

Keep the connections. Long Distance Friendships can be hard but they are rewarding when everyone can work together.

Date Yourself ALWAYS - I Failed... Podcast

2022/05/21

Even in your waiting, make sure that you date yourself ALWAYS!

Single and Hopeful about Marriage - I Failed... Podcast

2022/05/21

In case you're Single and tired, DON'T GIVE UP. Rhuneisha speaks about her experience and why it's important to keep going.

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16 reviews

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frank158666 2021/03/12

Man listen

Really enjoy all the subjects that discuss very powerful and uplifting

★★★★★

Top of Da Line 2020/11/20

Life changing

Chain breaking dialogue. VERY enlightening. Every episode puts in front of the mirror. Honest and real!!!!

★★★★★

kookoo909 2020/10/26

Real

Absolutely love this podcast. Shay is funny, authentic and engaging.

★★★★★

iamrhothomas 2020/10/09

Love the transparency

I love how Shay and her guests get super real about their failures. The vulnerability is refreshing. Keep it coming!

★★★★★

Tianna Nieves 2020/05/11

Super real!!

After listening to the episode about Authenticity, I just felt connected to so many areas! This podcast tackles real life situation that real life peo...

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