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It's been too long since the whole crew was together, so Peggy, Beth, John, and Shelly finally reconnect — and it turns into one of our warmest, most fun episodes. This is the one you put on to feel like you're back around the table with friends who genuinely like each other, trading strong opinions on what they're watching and swapping stories about where they're all headed next. There's a spirited defense of the comfort rewatch, and everyone's pick is a little revealing. John has quietly finished all seven seasons of The West Wing and will tell you the exact episode it fell apart. Shelly reruns Indiana Jones and does not care one bit whether it holds up. Peggy has an airplane movie she's seen a hundred times. And Beth — who swears she never rewatches anything — is so deep in a nightly British-mystery habit she lies awake reconstructing who killed the guy by the river. Then the conversation turns to travel, and it's a lot: Shelly's Zurich-to-Munich-to-London marathon (with a packing challenge she's more excited about than the trip itself), Beth's sister who was offered Italy and asked for a football game instead, and Peggy planning an entire vacation around a credit-card perk and a stranger who gives private tours of his Frank Lloyd Wright house. Somewhere in the middle, everyone realizes just how much of the world John and Peggy saw together back in the day — and it lands with a little more weight than anyone expected. Come for the movie opinions. Stay for Peggy's dog getting skunked at six in the morning, a stuffed-animal wedding staged for the kids, and John trying, and failing, to get anyone to admit a weekend away counts as a vacation. 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/insearchofanargument or become a patron at patreon.com/insearchofanargument Fun Fact: Recorded Sunday morning, technical difficulties finally licked, Jim on hiatus — and Peggy got Wordle in two.

Two years ago, John Mellencamp stood on a stage in Bloomington, got heckled to play the hits, and told the crowd exactly where they could put their requests. He wanted to play the new album. This is not that tour. This is the redemption tour — a looser, happier Mellencamp at Grand Rapids' brand-new Acrisure Amphitheater, chain-smoking through the greatest hits at 74 and blowing past the noise curfew by fifteen minutes just to spite it. Peggy's hosting, Beth's out, and in her seat is Peggy's niece Molly — a twenty-something concert fanatic who sat down next to us at the show, charmed the entire group, and got herself invited on the podcast. Shelly's here as the resident superfan who knows every lyric. Jim's here fighting his microphone. We get into whether a good football season can put a rock star in a good mood, the competitive blood sport that is ticket-buying in Molly's family, and whether artists who run past curfew should be fined by the minute (Jim's ruling: complain about concert noise and you should try a week in New York). Then the real fight — John swears we've lost the shared culture where everyone knew the same songs; Jim has Billboard data and is not backing down. It ends where every good episode does: a quiz about Beth, conducted entirely behind her back. Come for Mellencamp. Stay for the Denver skillet. 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/insearchofanargument or become a patron at patreon.com/insearchofanargument

Special guest, special format. Our friend Jaime Haak — digital nomad, currently somewhere in the Mountain time zone — joins John and Jim to argue about two of the most talked-about screen productions of the moment: Pluribus on Apple TV and Spielberg's Disclosure Day. Fair warning up front: this one is wall-to-wall spoilers for both. If you haven't watched and don't want to know, hit pause, go watch, and come back. The two works turn out to be perfect opposites, and the contrast becomes the whole argument. Full spoilers ahead. In this episode: Pluribus — Vince Gilligan's return, a lab-escaped peptide that turns 7 billion people into a happy, honest, harmonious hive mind, twelve survivors, and one deeply unlikable protagonist. Jamie loved the concept and was left deflated; John bailed after two episodes; Jim watched all nine and won't be back for season two The core complaint: is it nuanced, or just inert? Jim's theory that the story needed three hours and Apple wanted nine — and the long detour into how 19th-century serialization shaped Dickens the way episode counts shape TV The Breaking Bad comparison, the New Mexico Easter eggs, and Jaime's case that Gilligan took his own fast, ego-driven universe and deliberately turned it inside out The thought experiment: if 7 billion people were at your beck and call — unable to lie, unwilling to harm you — what would you actually do? And why 40 days of solitude might have been the more interesting story Disclosure Day — Spielberg back in Close Encounters mode: visitors from outer space (never "aliens"), a shadowy quasi-government captor, Colin Firth as a villain who isn't pure evil, and a Hitchcockian chase that barely lets you breathe Jim on why Spielberg still moves like no one else — the storyboard trick of cutting every shot he can, the lesson of Jaws, and Hitchcock's line about movies being pieces of cake, not slices of life John's confession that he watched a Spielberg spectacle in the worst possible way — half on his sister's TV, part in a car, the rest on his phone while cleaning — and his defense of slow cinema anyway, from Roma to Bergman's Persona The bigger picture: why nobody's finishing season two of anything, whether cliffhangers are training audiences to quit, the long gaps between seasons, and the genuinely hopeful news that theatrical box office is having its best year since before the pandemic Empathy as the holy grail — whether Disclosure Day's plea for compassion lands differently at 18 than at 60, and whether even the worst actors among us can be redeemedPlus: the candy-corn story behind Psycho, Jim's list of 200 films he's never seen in a theater (and the day trip to D.C. to cross two off), and Jim's sincere concern that once everyone hears this episode, they'll replace him with Jaime. 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/insearchofanargument or become a patron at patreon.com/insearchofanargument Fun Fact: Recorded with John finishing Disclosure Day roughly eight minutes before hitting record. Jaime's connection gave out right at the end — she broke the Zencastr — so Jim signed off convinced this was his last episode before the group replaces him with her.

Just John and Jim this time — a return to the old two-man format, recorded minutes after Spain won the World Cup, with John hiding from his extended family at a Michigan vacation house. The topic is genuinely egghead: deliverism, the idea that the purpose of politics is to deliver for your constituents. Did the bridge get built? Did the school open? Did the garbage get picked up? David Runciman filed it under "The History of Bad Ideas." We try to work out whether it deserves to be there. In this episode: Jim's opening move: anyone who says politics is one thing is wrong. Is it partly deliverism? Obviously. Is it only that? Not a chance China as the hard case — John lived there, and argues the Communist Party's legitimacy runs entirely on delivery. Jim broadens it: every dictatorship survives by satisfying enough people to get away with repressing the rest The question that organizes the whole hour: is deliverism a theory of legitimacy or just a theory of winning elections? The symbolic counter-case — Jim argues a big share of Trump's appeal was never transactional at all, but a middle finger at the status quo, and that AOC and Bernie trade in symbolism just as much Jim's rapid-change thesis: 25 years of dizzying technological change has been profoundly dislocating, politics hasn't changed to match, and the reaction — reactionary in the literal sense — shows up on both left and right Biden as the deliverism test case: the Inflation Reduction Act delivered, and he got no credit. John blames the theory; Jim blames Biden, and makes the case that Nancy Pelosi deserves the real credit for the whole legislative record Great men or great events? John plants his flag on events; Jim says that's too simple Handicapping 2028 — why Jim thinks Andy Beshear is the strongest Democrat nobody's talking about, why Newsom's case collapses under a single question, whether AOC runs, and the wealth tax he predicts will pass whoever wins Plus a Popper detour on falsifiability, a Malthus digression, and Henry Gee's argument that humanity peaked around 1794Jim's midterm forecast, on the record: close races don't split evenly — they break one direction, and usually against the party in the White House. Check back in October. 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/insearchofanargument or become a patron at patreon.com/insearchofanargument Fun Fact: Recorded two minutes after the World Cup final. Patreon subscriptions are up 100% — from one to two.

With Beth somewhere around Topeka on her cross-country drive, Shelly's husband Ian pinch-hits — freshly retired, just back from a European tour, and wearing his England shirt for a World Cup conversation that finally gives us two people who actually know the sport. First, the retiree's report: Ian was dreading retirement and now can't figure out how he ever had time for work. He also got an unexpected epiphany about mortality and how few years there really are to have fun — a million miles from where he was six months ago. Then we dig into the 2026 World Cup, co-hosted by the US, Canada, and Mexico: Why this tournament is historic — the first-ever 48-team field — and how the World Cup grew from just 13 teams at the Depression-era 1930 debut A whirlwind history with Jim and Ian trading facts: the home team that won the first cup, Brazil and Pelé, England's lone 1966 title, and the year Celsius and Fahrenheit agree The Iran question John can't stop turning over — the host nation bombing a competitor mid-tournament, travel-banned fans, the LA "home game" for a largely Persian diaspora, and what it means to love a people and not their regime FIFA under Infantino, the deals with authoritarian regimes, the cancelled Seattle Pride match, and money as the engine behind every decision — set against the genuine joy of tiny Cape Verde and Curaçao making the field The theory that American football's stop-start rhythm is a perfect accident of commercial TV — and why sensors in the ball, water breaks, and endless review all come back to selling ad time Soccer vs. rugby vs. football as physical feats, why goalkeepers play into their 40s (good news for Peggy), and how Messi is still scoring at 38 The brutally early UK academy system — full-time soccer schools, no playing with your friends — and whether culling 10-year-olds even produces the best players Did Ted Lasso (and Wrexham) actually grow American interest, or was soccer already here? Shelly and Peggy disagreePlus: Peggy's broken wrist, new boobs, and a co-ed goal she was never going to catch; Ian's coaching philosophy ("if in doubt, kick it out"); and the reveal that he and Shelly met watching a Euros match. 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/insearchofanargument or become a patron at patreon.com/insearchofanargument Fun Fact: Recorded Sunday, June 28, the first day of the round of 32, with the US through to the knockouts and Ian in full England kit. Beth couldn't join — she was busy not being in Kansas anymore.

All five of us, and a mystery finally solved: John spent eight days in Estes Park, Peggy was there the same week — same tiny town, blocks apart — and neither of them knew. We get to the bottom of exactly how that happened, and it's even funnier than we expected. First, Jim clears the decks: he corrects himself on the producer behind "Sounds of Silence" (it was Tom Wilson, not Bob Johnston), reveals that by Billboard chart performance the greatest living American songwriter is — not even close — Taylor Swift, and shares a new documentary on the great producer Peter Asher, including the story of how Asher got a Beatles reject song and turned it into a number one record. In this episode: The full Estes Park reckoning — overlapping dates, a misread text, a snow-capped mountain John didn't notice, and Bear Lake hikes you both did without crossing paths Peggy's trip that started as a Paul Simon show at Red Rocks and became a baseball game in the fifth inning, the gloriously bizarre Casa Bonita, and a fancy Boulder spa John's family week — killer elk outside the door every morning, the non-negotiable hotel pool, and why the mountains hit little kids (and winded flatland adults) the way they do Beth's Sufjan Stevens and Linda Ronstadt detours, plus Peggy's grandfather and the six Linda Ronstadt cassettes he could no longer listen to Whether you'd ever pull young kids out of school for a trip — Jim and John disagree, as is tradition John's closing quiz on Rocky Mountain moose, altitude sickness, Chicago's phantom third airport, and the EU rule that actually makes airlines pay for delays (the throughline: John cannot get over the airfare)Plus: a surprise four-legged guest named Pearl, Shelly's personal-best four laps around the lake, and a Norwegian mountain hut stocked with food and trust that, as Shelly notes, would never survive in America. 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/insearchofanargument or become a patron at patreon.com/insearchofanargument Fun Fact: Recorded on Peter Asher's 82nd birthday. Final tally on John's quiz: everybody held their own, nobody got arrested at Graceland, and Jim still wants to know the source for every answer.

A follow-up was inevitable. After our episode on the New York Times' 30 best living American songwriters, the Times ran a readers' poll and came back with a top 100 — and 29 of the original 30 survived the vote (sorry, Missy Elliott). This time it's a leaner crew: John, Jim, and Beth, the first time this particular trio has carried an episode solo. In this episode: The expanded list does right by a lot of our snubs — John Hiatt, Carole King, Stevie Nicks — but reopens the question we never settled: are people voting for songwriters, or for performers? The Linda Ronstadt problem — one of the great interpreters of all time, but is interpreting the same as writing? And James Taylor, beloved for singles he mostly didn't write, ranked above Carly Simon (#50), who wrote far more of her own Jim's potted history of how the singer-songwriter became the norm: Dylan started it, Brian Epstein told Lennon and McCartney to write their own, Andrew Loog Oldham pushed the Stones to follow — and the real engine underneath was songwriting royalties The radio quirk almost nobody knows: on terrestrial radio, songwriters collect royalties and performers don't — a holdover from sheet-music days, not logic — and how that connects to Taylor Swift re-recording her masters (which, Jim argues, was about control, not money) John plants his flag for the producer — where's the list of the 100 greatest? — from William Orbit's fingerprints on Madonna's Ray of Light to the secret history of "Sounds of Silence," which a Columbia producer quietly turned into a hit without telling Simon or Garfunkel Can a record even be "overproduced"? John says no; Jim says it depends; Beth just likes what she likes — and the Taylor-Swift-as-"factory-music" knock gets a hearing A genuine detour into newspapers: why all three still love the physical paper, the surprising median age of a Times reader, reading the news to find out whether we've started a new war, and the quiet art of avoiding a certain name in every headline Substack overload and the coming wave of bundling, a Nate Silver gripe, and why the Times' sheer depth buries the competition The real argument underneath it all: is a "best songwriters" list news, or opinion dressed as authority? That cracks open a lawyerly debate about truth, belief, and whether you can ever fully separate the twoPlus: the Replacements reunion show Jim once dragged John to, MacArthur Park as grounds for disqualification, and the moment Jim risks his life by dissing Beth and the print newspaper in a single breath. Connect With Us: 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content 📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky ☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee or become a patron Fun Fact: Recorded Thursday, June 4 — same-week turnaround, because we're finally publishing faster. This one's outside the Patreon paywall, as all of Jim's episodes shall forever be.

Two episodes nearly back-to-back — unheard of around here. This time all five of us take on the New York Times' list of the 30 best living American songwriters, which is to say we take on a list expressly designed to start a fight. Peggy admits up front she's neither opinionated nor musically savvy; she also admits she was fine with the entire thing the second she scrolled past Paul Simon and Dolly Parton. In this episode: How the list actually got made — 250 industry nominations narrowed by a panel of six NYT critics, in no particular order — and why every top-whatever list exists to generate disagreement (and subscriptions) The two words that trip everyone up: "living" (RIP Prince, Michael Jackson, and Brian Wilson — whom Tony Kornheiser apparently forgot had died) and "American" (sorry, Elton John, McCartney, Bono, and Joni Mitchell) The online outrage over Billy Joel's omission — and Jim's iron rule that to add one name, you have to cut one The real argument underneath: what even makes a song good? Popularity, influence, craftsmanship, lyrics, music, or production — and can you ever separate the song from the recording John's neuroplasticity theory of why everything you heard between 12 and 18 is permanently filed under "genius" The covers test: a great song is one other artists want to sing — Robbie Robertson's "The Weight," the endless Dylan covers, Dolly's "I Will Always Love You," "Jolene" by way of Beyoncé and Miley, Ryan Adams remaking all of 1989, and Johnny Cash gutting everyone with "Hurt" John's parlor game: cross off every artist you already loved, then rank the strangers — a genuinely harder exercise than it sounds Where the table would find room: Randy Newman, Jackson Browne, John Prine, John Fogerty, John Mellencamp, Fiona Apple, Heart, and the American half of Fleetwood Mac Where the table pushed back: Jay-Z, Missy Elliott, and whether Bad Bunny's couple of years of dominance should wait out a Hall-of-Fame-style eligibility clock The songwriters who never sing their own hits — Diane Warren, Nile Rodgers, Natalie Hemby — and why writing for everyone else might be the purest mark of the craft A favorite-Madonna-song lightning round that exposes exactly who each of us isPlus: Springsteen opening a rainy D.C. show with a pointed Edwin Starr cover, the 16-minute YouTube rant Peggy made everyone watch, an Aaron Sorkin button nobody dares push (except John, on purpose), and the greatest closing flub in show history, involving a premium tequila. Connect With Us: 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content 📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky ☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee or become a patron! Fun Fact: Recorded about five weeks after the list dropped on April 27, 2026. Beth listened to an actual episode (one she wasn't on, naturally), Jim dropped an F-bomb so it wasn't Beth's turn for once, and despite Peggy's verdict that Paul Simon belongs at #1, the list has no rankings at all.

No Beth, no Shelly, no Peggy — just John and Jim, the way the show started back when it was called Two Guys in Search of an Argument. We're putting this one in the main feed (the Patreon wall stays a Jim-free zone), and fair warning: we went off the ranch. In the best way. In this episode: Behind the scenes: how the AI camera knows who to focus on, why most of you still just listen, and the latest theory on why Peggy's computer keeps crashing mid-record (an intervention may be coming — Santa may be involved) The Spotify copyright strike: why Jim is convinced the appeal will win, a genuinely useful primer on the fair-use exception, and how it does (and doesn't) apply to playing song clips Did Ghostbusters rip off Huey Lewis? John has listened back to back and hears nothing; Jim hears it immediately The provenance of Jim's Brooklyn bookshelves, the great glass-shelf collapse of a year ago, and Beth Shannon's wood-stain consulting What's in a name: John on keeping "Heintz" professionally, the friend who accused him and Ted of betraying their kids' heritage, and why words mean whatever the community agrees they mean What sticks across cultures: "Al Capone" giving way to "Michael Jordan" as the word-association for Chicago in Egypt, Laverne & Shirley in syndication on the Nile, and the Russian man in a Shanghai bar John still thinks about whenever he reads the news A long, loving tour of New York repertory cinema — the elegiac Westerns of 1962, the Netflix-owned Paris Theater, and Carrie Coon introducing a restored print Broadway 101: how the Tony season works, why spring is the time to go, what makes a Broadway theater "Broadway," and why Jim would see two plays a week if tickets weren't $300 West Wing innocence vs. the age of the antihero (Sopranos, Breaking Bad, Succession, Severance), ER vs. The Pit, and whether eight-episode seasons are killing the medium Jim fact-checks himself on the Oscar episode: the Academy has ~17,000 voting members (not 5–6,000), and Tarantino has two Oscars, not onePlus: a tease for the all-five musical episode coming next, and the origin story of why bringing Peggy, Beth, and Shelly aboard made the whole thing "vastly better." Connect With Us: 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content 📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky ☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee or become a patron! Fun Fact: This is a return to the show's original two-man format. As Jim notes, it only took about five early episodes to realize the show got vastly better the moment they brought in people funnier than themselves.

Beth's just back from three weeks abroad, and we made John promise to release this one before the memories went soft. Spoiler: she made it to country #41, her 88-year-old aunt made it home, and Shelly made a quiz that Jim and Peggy somehow tied. The first half follows Beth from Greece (Athens, Paros, and Crete with college roommate Barb) to Paris (Latin Quarter Airbnb with Susan and Aunt Kath). The second half is Shelly's segment — "Around the World in Games" — an inventory of what we all play, followed by a thirteen-question quiz on global player counts that produced one of the closest contests we've had. In this episode: Beth's 41st country and the Spain-shaped problem of always wanting to go back The Paros taxi drivers who refused to use GPS and the two-mile walking commute that wasn't supposed to be a walking commute Driving a manual-transmission Suzuki up Cretan mountain roads behind a bus, in second gear, while Barb (no eSIM, directionally dyslexic) helpfully points the wrong way Rick Steves says no Vespas, and Beth listens to Rick The Notre Dame trip that started five years ago with a downsizing bribe to Aunt Kath The "first floor" Parisian Airbnb that was, of course, the second floor, up cattywampus stairs of varying tread height The 45-minute JFK wheelchair wait, the flight attendant whose helpful suggestion was "why didn't she just fly out of Boston," and the LaGuardia hotel scramble at 10pm Whether we all get fussier (or just "more particular") as we get older — Peg waits for the Jan rebuttal Shelly's full games inventory: Wordle, Connections, Strands, Tightrope (a.k.a. tightropebritannica.com), Crossplay, Scrabble, Words with Friends, Solitaire, Sudoku — and John, the self-described weak link, who plays Angry Birds for the trajectories A Claude-sourced quiz on global player counts: who plays Wordle, who plays Candy Crush, which country birthed Angry Birds, and which country has the strongest competitive Scrabble scene (the answer is not what John guessed, but he did win his only solo point on it) Ted's fourteen-hour Candy Crush bender on a Chicago-to-Shanghai flight, and his theory of why the game is engineered to keep you playing Jim teases a future quiz on what percentage of the population has done what — strictly stats, no personal disclosuresPlus: Cher's 80th birthday, the rumored Wordle TV show ("it'll be a bust" — Peg), and Peggy's stepson Gavin's pitch for an app that pre-programs your daily game scores to the right group chats. Connect With Us: 📧 Feedback: [email protected]🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content 📱 Social Media: Follow us on X, Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky ☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee or become a patron! Fun Fact: Recorded May 20, 2026 — Cher's 80th birthday and, apparently, John's grandma's. Final scores: Jim and Peggy tied at 9, John 6, Beth 5. Shelly, naturally, got them all right.

Five friends, one ballot, zero agreement. We break down this year's Oscar nominees — who should win, who will win, and which movies made us say "what did I just watch?" John hosts from the comfortable position of having seen almost nothing while Jim brings his film encyclopedia, Beth and Peg power through nearly every Best Picture nominee, and Shelly makes the case for just enjoying movies. In this episode: How Academy voting actually works — the 4,000-member body, peer voting, ranked-choice ballots, and the new honor-system rule Jim's top four films of the year (all starting with the letter S) Beth's case for Sinners, Chloe Zhao, and Michael B. Jordan Peg walks into Weapons and Sinners completely blind Shelly's love for the animated short Retirement Plans A Quentin Tarantino detour that gets heated Everyone's full picks for Best Picture, Best Actor, Best Actress, Best Director, and more Will the In Memoriam segment break us this year?Movies discussed: Sinners, One Battle After Another, Sentimental Value, Hamnet, F1, Frankenstein, Train Dreams, Weapons, Blue Moon, Marty Supreme, Sorry Baby, Springsteen, K-Pop Demon Hunters, Begonia Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 How does Academy voting work? 09:30 Best thing we watched this year 20:38 Shelly and the animated shorts 25:30 How do you decide what to watch? 31:30 The Tarantino debate 42:20 Oscar picks — full go-around Hosts: John Heintz, Jim Gentile, Beth Shannon, Peggy Bennett, Shelly Cummings Find the show: https://insearchofanargument.com

A Note to Listeners: This is another episode from the vault that Jim has been relentlessly hounding us to publish. Recorded back in late summer when life was simpler and Peggy's biggest worry was hosting 89 people in her backyard with only one bathroom available. We're clearing the backlog one episode at a time—you're welcome, Jim. What starts as a casual catch-up about summer travels becomes a masterclass in party planning anxiety. Peggy reveals the elaborate (and slightly terrifying) logistics of hosting bluegrass band AJ Lee and Blue Summit at her house—complete with a hospitality rider, professional sound guy, makeshift lighting, backdrop installation by her son Gavin, and the band doing laundry in her home. Oh, and Charlie won't be back until 4pm the day of the 6:30pm concert. What could go wrong? In this episode: Jim's epic LA trip to see Cyndi Lauper's final farewell tour performance at the Hollywood Bowl (featuring surprise guests Cher, Joni Mitchell, John Legend, and SZA—plus multiple song restarts) Jim's elaborate ketchup smuggling operation: bringing two bottles of Heinz No Sugar Added across the country The great burger debate: In-N-Out vs. Fatburger vs. Islands (spoiler: get fries at In-N-Out, shakes at Fatburger, burgers at Islands) Beth's Rod Stewart concert, Maine lobster adventures, and her upcoming Japan trip (country #41!) Shelly's Grand Rapids weekend with Peggy featuring breweries, bocce ball, the Gilmore Car Museum, and tribute concerts at Connor Prairie (Fleetwood Mac, dueling Elton John/Billy Joel pianos, and Fab Four Beatles) John's bathroom ticket proposal for Peggy's concert (one ticket = one bathroom use) The revelation that Beth got drunk on margaritas in Connecticut and accidentally told people about the podcast Why Jim's body apparently emits "an odor that is exactly the same as mosquito sex" The tragic loss of four email subscribers (RIP)Plus: Detailed discussion of Hollywood's post-strike struggles, the Billy Joel documentary on HBO, and whether we'll all win the Powerball. Connect With Us: 📧 Feedback: [email protected] 🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content 📱 Social Media: Follow us on X, Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky ☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee or become a patron! Fun Fact: Recorded in late August/early September 2024, approximately 48 hours before Peggy's backyard concert. We still don't know if it was a success or a disaster, but we're assuming Charlie made it home in time and the single bathroom survived the evening. Warning: Contains extensive burger taxonomy, Hollywood gossip we can't share (Alex Berger is still working in the industry), and the controversial claim that John doesn't think phones are really listening to us. Also: Peggy wants people to pee on her bushes to keep the deer away.

A Note to Listeners: We recorded this episode on November 29, 2024—just three and a half weeks after the election—but we're only releasing it now because Jim insisted we complete our backlog. Consider this a time capsule from a moment when we thought we knew what was coming. Spoiler alert: we had no idea. Perhaps we'll address how wrong (or right) we were in our next episode. In three unrelated segments, we discuss our immediate reactions to Trump's second election victory, explore how we're all secretly (or not-so-secretly) using AI in our daily lives, and confess our embarrassing shoe and coat collections prompted by Black Friday shopping (or lack thereof). Election Segment: From John's unsurprised acceptance to Beth's devastation, from Ian's "Rat Pack" theory to Peggy's frustration with gender bias, we capture our raw, immediate reactions. Jim offers historical perspective on center-left parties struggling globally while we debate whether America is ready for a woman president. AI Segment: Shelly leads us through the world of generative AI, revealing how John has increased his productivity by "an order of magnitude," how Peggy accidentally wrote poetry with ChatGPT, and why Ian is trying to avoid learning any of this before retirement. Plus: the story of Daisy the chatbot grandmother who wastes scammers' time. Black Friday Segment: Beth discovers the dark history of Black Friday (hint: it involves a gold market crash in 1869), and we confess our ridiculous wardrobe inventories. The tally: Shelly owns 156 pairs of shoes and 62 coats, Peggy has 100 pairs of shoes, Jim owns exactly three pairs of shoes, and Ian's father was a cobbler which explains everything about his shoe philosophy. Special Guest: Ian Williamson joins us, bringing glamour, British perspective, and strong opinions about slippers. Connect With Us: 📧 Feedback: [email protected] 🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content 📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook and BlueSky ☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee or become a patron! Fun Fact: Recorded on November 29, 2024—Black Friday—when we still had hope that Senate Republicans might push back on some of Trump's cabinet picks. Also: Richard Gere and Cindy Crawford were once named People Magazine's "Sexiest Couple Alive." Warning: Contains speculation about the future that may not have aged well, passionate disagreement about whether John Krasinski is sexy, and the revelation that Jim doesn't understand the purpose of slippers.

A Note to Listeners: This is an unusual episode—just John and Peggy troubleshooting some technical issues by recording a test run. We're not promoting this one, just putting it out there. Consider it a bonus peek behind the curtain. What was supposed to be a diagnostic session turns into a surprisingly fun conversation about Peggy's word game addiction (Wordle, Connections, Tightrope, and Strands—sometimes all day long), John's $1,600 roller rink birthday party for his six-year-old, and why they both ignore the constant flood of game scores in their group chats. They also discuss: the economics of streaming services and newsletter subscriptions, why email is better than texting, custom phone vibration settings, and why Jim is going to have a "conniption" when this gets released before the September 2024 backlog. Connect With Us: 📧 Feedback: [email protected] 🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content 📱 Social Media: Follow us on X, Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky ☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee or become a patron! Fun Fact: Recorded as a technical diagnostic on a Wednesday afternoon in February 2026. If Peggy's video actually uploads this time, we'll know we've solved the problem.

Beth Shannon finally makes it to Japan after years of avoiding the trip, and returns with stories of humidity that could defeat a Bangkok veteran, a $100 vegetable knife she guards like treasure, and strong opinions about 25-year-olds who use TikTok to pick restaurants. Traveling with nine friends (ranging from age 25 to 77) through Tokyo, Kanazawa, Takayama, Kyoto, and Osaka, Beth discovers that Japan's trains run with three-minute precision, its deer are aggressively sacred, and its gender equity ranking is shockingly low at 118th out of 146 countries. In this episode, we explore: Why Beth bought a $100 vegetable knife at a highway rest stop (and checks it like a baby) The art of navigating Tokyo subway stations without working Google Maps Group dining dynamics when TikTok ratings trump common sense Japan's surprisingly low rankings on gender equity (#118), English proficiency (#92), and happiness (#51) The cultural clash of naked hot spring expectations vs. American modesty Why there are no public trash cans in Japan (and how the streets stay spotless anyway) Beth's sushi certification and calligraphy adventures The bullet train's terrifying three-minute boarding windowPlus: Jim quizzes Beth on Japanese statistics she definitely didn't research, the gang debates charcoal ice cream, and we learn why you should never spoil a stranger's 40th birthday surprise in a Tokyo hotel lobby. Connect With Us: 📧 Feedback: [email protected] 🌐 Website: www.insearchofanargument.com for more episodes and exclusive content 📱 Social Media: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and BlueSky ☕ Support Our Show: Forward the show's link, leave us a review, buy us a coffee or become a patron for special episodes! Fun Fact: Recorded on October 20, 2024—exactly nine months since the podcast was last held hostage by technical difficulties. The #1 US record 54 years ago that day was "I'll Be There" by The Jackson 5. Warning: May cause intense desire to book a flight to Tokyo, purchase expensive Japanese cutlery, and argue about the merits of online restaurant reviews.