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We are already at our 10th episode!! And what better way to celebrate it than with an exclusive episode about all stuff yaoi and BL featuring a special guest? With the help of our former Yaoi manga translator, we talk about the different types of bl involving bears and twinks, obviously some anal sex involving pregnancy, and try to understand what the f*ck a cake-verse entails. Our primary goal, as it always has been, is to ~educate~ our audience so by the end of this week’s episode, you’ll know the difference between uke and seme or fudanshi and fujoshi. At the end we also have some questions for our guests regarding her work so be ready for that! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Apologies for the late update, but we're back with our 30th episode with no other but our own host, Kenneth! He spills all the tea about gay men in the military, straight f*****y-wanna-be's, & his No Nut November. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Surprise! The T pot isn’t fully empty yet. this episode we talk about something that all gays have to do (unless you are a homophobic politician) -- yes, we are talking about coming out. We start with some very early sexual awakening (involving THREE guys) and then move onto some more traumatic story. Prepare some tissue because you definitely will be crying (either from laughing too hard or empathizing). And as always, stay around as we try to f**k, marry, and kill some more bodily fluids. Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Holy f*cking mother of god — that’s what you’ll be screaming when you finish listening to this week’s episode. For this episode, we have invited a guest who will talk about her scandalous (wink) life: from a K-Pop fuckboy’s ever-returning love for her to a once-in-a-lifetime experience with a movie star. She also gives some b*****b tips and we all get a little bit personal with our history of eating disorders. And then as if nothing had happened, we f**k, marry, and kill bananas, eggplants, and cucumbers. Just make sure that you have some burn medication on the side during and after we’ve spilled all the tea. Because the tea is what? Scalding hot. Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

The long wait brings the most special guest ever...the ex. Aster brings on his ex-girlfriend (cis and straight) to spill the whole tea about their past relationship: how they met, why they were attracted to each other how they broke up, what challenges they faced, ~technical difficulties~, yadayadayada. You never wanna miss this one.  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel! Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Aster's back with a steamy topic that cis people have been craving about for decades: how do trans people have sex? Joined by our first trans femme guest, Vera, the two trans hotties talk about how they navigated their gender journeys, how their relationships with their bodies and sex have changed over time, and how they enjoy sex while dealing with body dysphoria. The ultimate trans sex liberation has come! Tune in till the end to listen to Vera's hookup stories, which are the wildest ones to be released on the face of internet. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel! Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Aster's back from his long break (I promise I'll be back next week) with a steamy interview with Robert Steele, the author of Banned from California, a biography of Jim Foshee, a gay runaway—and later, gay rights activist—who, after a childhood spent first in an orphanage and then a mental hospital, found himself in the underground world of the early queer scene of 1950s Los Angeles.  Robert explains why he chose Jim as the subject of his book, how Jim endured his abusive childhood and his time in prison, and how he finally transitioned into a gay rights activist and queer history researcher. Robert and Aster also discuss themes such as hypersexuality in gay men culture and Jim's resilience. For more information visit BannedCA.com Buy at https://www.amazon.com/Banned-California-Persecution-Redemption-Liberation/dp/1734010800 If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel! Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Who has been showered with rejections before? I know I have. Aster is back with our favorite Single Since Birth Karen (ep 14,15,29) to talk about rejections. Join us in our verbal diarrhea of healing from rejections from career opportunities, relationships, and family, as we bare all of our most embarrassing stories of rejections. Sharp right, we give fashion tips because we be fashionable like dat. Cheers!  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel! Comment! Rate! Subscribe!

And we're back! Aster has been taking some time off because he was vacationing in therapy. In this episode, he sits down with a psychiatrist-to-be Dr. Velma Pepper to talk about everything therpy: why we started therapy, what we talk about in therapy, what kind of therapists we love & hate, why people don't go to therapy, and why therapy can be questionable at times. Tune in to learn about our deepest darkest secrets, and answers to our listener questions collected through instagram related to toxic friendships, lying in therapy, & restarting therapy!  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Hi, pretty bitches Jackie and Aster are back talking about everything related to our lewks and bodies, this time specifically about eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and fitness culture. Jackie goes deep into her history with various eating disorders, while Aster rants about how his OCD facilitates his body dysmorphia, separate from his body dysphoria. They discuss fitness culture as well, which they have distinct experiences regarding fitness trainers. You won't expect what Aster had to go through with his personal trainer :) If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Aster has his first legit interview with Anthony Hand, the creator of Maxxie LaWow: Drag Super-Shero, a feature-length animated film anticipated to be released in Spring 2024. Introducing pop culture's very first drag heroine, our super-shero’s first silver screen adventure pits her against her archnemesis Dana Bolical. With a nefarious scheme tucked-up and ready for every situation, Dana will quickly become the villain audiences love to hate. Maxxie LaWow will feature a strong LGBTQ+ and BIPOC cast that will make turn heads and raise carefully plucked eyebrows as it evovlves into a camp favorite that will go down in HERstory. Find & Support Maxxie LaWow at Maxxie.com and @maxxielawow on Instagram! Donate at https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/maxxie-lawow-drag-super-shero-animated-film IndieGoGo video: http://www.maxxie.com/donate Adventure Reel: http://www.maxxie.com/adventure If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

TW: Eating disorder, Suicidality, Transphobia, Transmisogyny I'm late because I moved across the ocean, but here's another insightful episode. This week, we're back with another straight girl, Jackie, to talk about how rough her life has been being the "objectively beautiful" one. Can you imagine having every single guy fall for you the moment he lays eyes on you? Every gay man's dream! No but seriously, we talk about the pervasion of lookism in our contemporary society through the lens of the beneficiaries. We also discuss how lookism affects trans people specifically: how Aster unwittingly benefits from society's obsession with beauty, how the gender binary is coerced upon trans people, and how trans women are victims of double jeopardy for both transphobia and misogyny.   If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

TW: Extremely dark humor regarding mental health and disorders,  self-harm, & self-worth This episode, we're with aromantic heterosexual Haidy who opens up everything about being bipolar and having ADHD. Currently in her manic stage, she owes up to her God complex and irresponsible sexual decisions. BTW, we're using very dark humor in this episode, so don't take us so seriously. But please, practice safe sex and take your meds! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Pride Month Event is over, but the studio is ever more flowing with the gays. Your fav gay guests,  Rowan (ep 17, 22) & Aiden (ep 35), are back to discuss all about marriage. What do we think about marriage? Do we even wanna get married? Do we want kids, if we can ever have them? What about our ideal honeymoon? Tune in to hear about Rowan's nude cliff wedding fantasy and Aiden's Zoom wedding & love story with Sangwoo. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! TW: Transphobia, Transmisogyny, Misgendering We end our Pride Month Medley with the most delightful topic, transphobia. Since Aster doesn't have any Korean trans friends to chat with, he brings the next best option, our polyamorous-pansexual star, Dolphin (ep 21).  We cover the timeline of trans history in Korea--- from the first trans Korean celebrity Ha Risu, onto rise of Radical (Twitter) Feminism, to the intense transphobia in contemporary Korea. We also focus on the major events that ran headlines  last year: the death of Sergeant Byun Hee-Soo & Sookmyung Women's University trans student enrollment controversy. Why are people so afraid of trans people in the bathroom? I swear to god we're only there to shit.    If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!