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Join us in this candid and heartfelt episode as we sit down with Horror Daddy J to explore his journey through kink, sexuality, and self-discovery. Growing up with early exposure to his father's porn stash, he’s always been attuned to his desires.  Raised in a conservative, Christian environment, he reflects on how education and experience have helped him embrace a vibrant, rainbow-colored view of sexuality and love.  He shares practical advice like asking specific safety questions and taking classes to better understand the risks involved. We share our love story, from a mysterious Facebook friend request, long-distance connection, and first in-person meeting at a kink event. With stories of memorable scenes: fire play, impact play, and more, he dispels the myths often glamorized by media, reminding listeners that BDSM requires knowledge, respect, and consent. Talking openly about his own late-diagnosis of autism, Horror Daddy J details how he feels embraced for his true self within the kink community. An advocate for self-love and authenticity, he encourages listeners to reject societal expectations of the “perfect” life and instead embrace their true desires. Additionally, he shares how cannabis has become an essential tool for reducing anxiety, managing pain, and enhancing intimacy. Wrapping up, the conversation touches on personal growth, mental health, and creative pursuits .  Key Topics Covered: How we met and managed long distanceEarly influences on sexuality and desireDiversity and inclusion within the kink communityNavigating neurodivergence, masking, and sensory needsMemorable kink scenes: fire play, impact, urethral sounding, and moreAftercare practices: cuddles, debriefs, and cannabis useMyths about cannabis and its benefits for stress and intimacyChallenging societal expectations and embracing authentic self-expressionDesigning custom BDSM gear and exploring creative kink pursuits Calls to action: Visit KIC's website: https://kicloungepodcast.wixsite.com/kicloungepodcastFree Discord community: https://discord.com/invite/unefDQQKyjFollow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kicloungeFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcastMiss Mackenzee Website: https://www.MissMackenzee.com BDSM and Intimacy University: https://www.bdsmandintimacyuniversity.comMiss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missmackenzeeagainMiss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee Parker Leigh Website: https://www.parkerleigh.wixsite.com/parkerleighParker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/ParkerLeigh_Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parkerxleighHorror Daddy J Website: https://horrordaddyj.wixsite.com/horrordaddyj/homeHorror Daddy J Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/horror.daddy.jHorror Daddy J Twitter: https://x.com/HorrorDaddyJSupport the show

Trigger warnings: Trauma and self harm What happens when past trauma transforms into empowered pleasure? In this deeply moving conversation with Talis, founder of Beyond Taboo, we explore the complex journey from self-harm to healing through consensual BDSM practices. Talis brings a unique perspective as both a dominant who wears a collar and a clinical sexology student with a psychology background. They share their evolution in kink, from problematic beginnings at 18 to becoming an educator passionate about consent and community safety. "We put ourselves in very vulnerable positions, doing things that normal people can get into legal trouble for," Talis explains, highlighting why accountability matters so deeply in kink spaces. The conversation takes a powerful turn when we discuss blood play as trauma recovery. Talis eloquently describes how practices once associated with self-harm can be reclaimed through consensual play: "Blood doesn't have to mean harm anymore. It can mean connection, control, devotion, beauty, and erotic power." We explore the neurochemistry behind these experiences and how they provide healing for neurodivergent individuals specifically. For those new to kink, Talis offers practical advice about attending munches, researching consent models, and finding supportive community members. We also discuss creating more inclusive play spaces with sensory considerations and crisis support protocols, recognizing that accessibility means different things to different bodies and minds. Talis’s bio: They are a “neuro-spicy” disabled veteran with a B.S. in Psychology and over a decade in the kink community, with an emphasis on healing trauma through responsible practice of BDSM, Talis brings a unique perspective, commitment to continuous learning, and passion to their work. Currently offering consulting and mentorship services, Talis is a Sex Coach/Clinical Sexologist in Training under Dr. Patti Britton’s method. They are a research volunteer for TASHRA under Dr. Richard Sprott, a pioneer of the scientific world in destigmatizing kink and educating about its benefits.  Key Topics: How Talis identifies within the BDSM communityPressures of being a kink educatorWhy neurospicy folks are drawn to this lifestylePlay frenzy and tips for managing itWhat makes a great kinky partyHow to make dungeons more inclusive and accessibleFunniest story from an eventSharing of blood play fantasies and hopes for future scenesAdvice we wish we had when we started engaging with sharpsTransforming trauma into positive experiencesCalls to action:  ● Be sure to leave a review  ● Visit our website: https://kicloungepodcast.wixsite.com/kicloungepodcast ● Free Discord community: https://discord.gg/https://discord.gg/unefDQQKyj ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee  ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missmackenzeeagain ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parkerxleigh Support the show

In this episode, we dive into the fascinating and important topic of neurodivergency within the BDSM community. We explore what it means to be neurodivergent and how different neurological profiles can present themselves. We delve into why many neurodivergent folks are drawn to BDSM, and how the structure, consent, and clarity of power dynamics can feel like a natural fit. We also touch on the importance of open and honest negotiation, particularly when it comes to communicating needs, boundaries, and preferences, whether you're neurodivergent yourself or partnering with someone who is. Throughout the conversation, we emphasize inclusivity, offering tips for creating a welcoming space that encourages neurodivergent individuals to share their experiences and feel supported. This episode is all about fostering understanding, compassion, and awareness, ensuring that BDSM spaces remain safe and accommodating for people of all neurological backgrounds. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion filled with valuable insights into creating a more inclusive and welcoming kink community. Key Topics: Understanding neurodivergency in BDSMCommunication styles and considerations for ND individualsWhy neurospicy folks are drawn to BDSMSensory aversions and how to account for themNegotiation tips for neurodivergent individuals and partnersFostering inclusivity and a welcoming environment in kink communitiesSo cuddle up with your lover and a joint, listen up and take notes on how to elevate your experiences even further next time! Calls to action:  ● Be sure to leave a review  ● Visit our website: https://kicloungepodcast.wixsite.com/kicloungepodcast ● Free Discord community: https://discord.gg/Mqyh4mcE ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee  ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missmackenzeeagain ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parkerxleigh Support the show

We host a free monthly discussion group and decided to try something new: record it to share with all our fans! In this engaging video episode, we delve into the art of creating the ideal atmosphere for intimate moments. We explore the crucial elements that set the mood, such as lighting, scent, and sound, and discuss how they can enhance sensual and exhilarating experiences alike. From sensual to extreme, we’ll talk about different ways to really make the encounter immersive for all parties. We offer up some suggestions for turning even small spaces into a different vibe to elicit alternate headspaces. Music can really play a role in crafting the perfect atmosphere for your partner so let’s delve a little further into how you can incorporate it into your sexy time. Since we recorded this live, we were able to hear from participants who joined us and offered tips of their own in this realm. Our conversation highlights the importance of intentionality and creativity when crafting your intimate environment. By focusing on the senses and involving your partner in the process, you can create memorable experiences tailored to your desires. Key Points: - Tips for choosing the right type of lighting - Musical suggestions for various types of experiences - Different scent suggestions for eliciting desire in your partner - Live audience insights including stories and suggestions - Creating mood boards for a collaborative approach for setting the mood - Learn to introduce elements that can deepen intimacy So cuddle up with your lover and a joint, listen up and take notes on how to elevate your experiences even further next time! Calls to action:   ● Be sure to leave a review ● Visit our website: https://kicloungepodcast.wixsite.com/kicloungepodcast ● Free Discord community: https://discord.gg/Mqyh4mcE ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missmackenzeeagain ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parkerxleigh Support the show

Strap in folks, this episode takes all kinds of twists and turns! This was not necessarily the episode we wanted to come back with, but it’s happening regardless. You’ll have to excuse the randomness and unstructured format of it as we go off on several different tangents. Be a fly on the wall as we lay and talk in aftercare from our Rough Body Play class hosted by Filthy FemDom and Filth Syndicate Events. This episode gives a closer look at our dynamic and how we debrief after a class or playtime. We are tossing around the idea of doing more episodes like this because we’ve gotten feedback that people enjoy the sneak peek into the intimacy of our 24/7 dynamic. So if you enjoy this type of content from us, please leave us a note or send an email! Pack your bowl, make sure your vapes are charged, or roll something…either way, get ready for a wild time. And we’re going to play a little game so you need to be prepared: every time Parker says the word “interesting,” you take a hit! Key topics: ● How it feels to get back into rough body play ● The art and dance between a top and bottom ● The responsibilities of a top in a scene ● Overcoming obstacles of virtual education as educators ● Discussing the possibility of recording longer demos because they get cut short ● Jell-o wrestling and how to make it as safe as possible Calls to action:  ● Be sure to leave a review  ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee  ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parkerleigh2.0 Support the show

This week’s show was so much fun to record! And it has been a long time coming! After many scheduling attempts, we finally got Jessica Gonzalez, aka The Mommy Jane to join us in the lounge. We talk a little bit about what NLP, or neuro-linguistic programming, is and how it’s useful. There were more than a few hilarious moments where we talked about imposter syndrome and what it’s like to be an influencer. We chat about the importance of language and how we talk to ourselves. Jessica shares a terrifying experience that changed her life that all started with olive oil. We got the scoop on a new app where you can track your cannabis usage and the effects it has on you. Our conversation flows and we cover so many different topics so you better strap in for this one! Jessica Gonzalez is a California cannabis patient, NLP and mindset coach, wife, and mother of two young girls, residing in Northern California. After trading her prescription drug and wine abuse for plant medicine back in 2015, she discovered a wealth of health and knowledge from her own research and personal experiences regarding cannabis and plant medicine, which allowed her to overcome a myriad of physical and mental health issues.  Knowing how impactful plant medicine was, but realizing the lack of education and awareness on social media, Jessica wanted to help others discover their path to health, wellness and success. As a mom on a mission, @themommyjane was born: a social media community dubbed “The Neighborhood'' where people could be educated, entertained and inspired. Jessica works hard every day sharing her knowledge and power with others and believes wholeheartedly that mindset, mindfulness and Mary Jane are the key to a fulfilling and abundant life.  Key topics:  ● Becoming “the mommyjane” ● Parenthood and cannabis ● The terrible stereotypes of stoners  ● Mindfulness with Mary Jane ● Cannabis as the anecdote to the pandemic ● Some of Jessica’s favorite products ● Great cannabis resources Resources:  ● https://www.themommyjane.com ● Instagram: @themommyjane ● Sarah Landry: https://thebirdspapaya.com ● SheWeed: https://sheweed.com Calls to action:  ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee  ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/Miss.Parker.Leigh Support the show

Hello everyone! We have an amazing episode for you this week! Shani Hart, the founder of The Noir Leaf, joined us in the lounge to talk all about her company and THC’s sober cousin: CBD. The idea for The Noir Leaf was born in 2019 when Shani noticed that there were not a lot of places where she lived that were accessible to buy and learn about CBD products. In fact, she realized many African Americans didn’t even know what CBD was. That had to change. Shani has over 6 years of experience in the retail business for sensual and sexual health and pleasure. As a certified Sexuality Coach, the owner of Noir Leaf CBD & Co. understands the sensual and sexual needs of women of color. Her dedication to provide quality products and educate her community of the benefits of CBD is something she was born to do. Shani shares all about her experience starting her company and some of the obstacles she ran into in the process. You’ll get a glimpse into her “hoe-phase” and how that helped propel her into her career. For those who may not know a lot about CBD and its benefits in the bedroom, as well as outside of it, this is a really great episode filled with tons of knowledge and hilarious conversation. Shani is as real as they come and we cannot wait to have her back on the show.  Key topics:  ● Shani’s desire to help educate women of color on CBD and their pleasure ● Learn about some of the science of CBD ● Benefits of using CBD products over THC products ● Things to look for on labels when shopping for products ● Some of her more popular products, including arousal oil and how to use it! ● Favorite ways to use CBD outside of the bedroom ● THCa and Delta-8 Resources:  ● Shani on Instagram with her Linktree: https://www.instagram.com/sexstuffwithshani ● Hart’s Desires on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hartsdesires ● The Noir Leaf: https://www.thenoirleaf.com ● Coupon Code for The Noir Leaf: GANJAGODDESS ● Hart’s Desires: https://hartsdesires.com/ Calls to action:  ●Leave us a Review ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee  ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh Support the show

The Ganja Goddesses are back! We have missed you all and know that you’ve missed us too. Pandemic life got the best of us and we dove into our resin business. This episode is all about updating you on what we’ve been up to. We also talk about our experiences switching to virtual work when everything shut down. There’s tons of moments where we just laugh and are silly, as we usually do. And guess what? We didn’t even smoke before recording! We talk a great deal about education and upcoming classes so you won’t want to miss this one. We are just so happy to bring you a new episode and hope you enjoy it. Key topics: ● Our resin business, the Crafty Goddess Gallery ● What has been our favorite part about starting this new business venture ● Teaching virtually and what we enjoy most about it ● Upcoming classes ● Transitioning back to in-person sessions Resources: ● Crafty Goddess Gallery shop: http://www.missmackenzee.com/shop ● Crafty Goddess Gallery on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/craftygoddessgallery ● Follow the Crafty Goddess Gallery on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/craftygoddessgallery ● Cam Fraser: https://www.cam-fraser.com/ ● Sign up for the education mailing list: http://www.missmackenzee.com/teaching ● Upcoming classes: http://www.kicloungepodcast.com/education ● Book an in-person session with Miss Mackenzee: http://www.missmackenzee.com/prodomservices ● Book an in-person session with Parker Leigh: http://www.missparkerleigh.com/contact Calls to action: ● Be sure to leaves a review ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.parker.leigh Support the show

Welcome to another wonderful week here at the Lounge. We decided to throw something a little different in the mix for this week’s episode. We came up with a long list of questions to ask each other. This was fun because we got to know each other better and you get to hear our thoughts on different topics as well as personal stories. Strap in and spark up, it’s bound to be an exciting ride. We share some tales from our younger years, including what we wanted to be when we grew up. We came up with some great questions to ask on a first date which can always be awkward or hard. Listen in as we both talk about our last sex dreams. Miss Mackenzee talks about her Sweet 16 while Parker shares some fun with hypnosis during her surprise party. Parker gets deep with talking about her favorite part of Mackenzee’s body. Want to know what we think our biggest faults are? Tune in to learn about them and so much more! Key topics: ● What 3 words describe us best? ● How we view intimacy and what it means to us ● What is our favorite part of our job? Worst part? ● Hear all about how we get in the mood for sexy times ● Our individual experiences being walked in on while having sex Resources: ● Email us with comments or questions: [email protected] Calls to action: ● Be sure to leave a review! ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.parker.leigh Support the show

Welcome to another wonderful week here at the Lounge. Chelsea Cebara stopped by to talk with us about all things topical! This episode is highly informative so take your seat because class is in session! Chelsea created the world’s first water-based THC lubricant with Velvet Swing. Chelsea shares some of her favorite reviews of Velvet Swing. She has since left the company and started her own, Cebara Consulting, where she helps those who are starting to formulate with cannabis. We got to chat about the difficulties of selling lubricant in a dispensary and why it should be sold in sex shops. A lot of people don’t know what to expect when using topicals for sex so Chelsea gives us the 411 on how to use them to achieve maximum effect and some of the best places to use them. Are you interested in adding topicals in bed? We’ve got some great tips for finding the best products and what to avoid. She even gives some helpful tips if you want to make your own.  Chelsea Cebara has been helping humans effectively and mindfully combine sex and cannabis since 2010 as a professional sex educator, product developer and medically-certified cannabis consultant. She is proud to have developed the world's first water-based, barrier-compatible THC lubricant, Velvet Swing. Ms. Cebara has been featured in numerous publications such as Forbes, Cosmopolitan, and DOPE, was named one of MJ Venture’s “Top 40 under 40” in 2018 and has been a returning featured speaker at WomenGROW. She continues to teach her high-demand Sex and Cannabis workshops at local venues and speak nationally on the intersection of cannabis with sex, kink, and consent culture. Key topics: ● The birth of Velvet Swing ● What we mean when we say cannabis is a vasodilator and how it can help your sex life ● Can you get high from using topicals for sex? ● Ways to incorporate cannabis and topicals into your masturbation rituals and partnered sex ● Consent as a spectrum rather than being binary Resources: ● https://www.chelseacebara.com ● https://www.twitter.com/chelseacebara ● https://www.sexandcannabis.com ● To Be Blunt: Can cannabis help us in the bedroom? Calls to action: ● Be sure to leave a review! ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.parker.leigh Support the show

And we’re back! Thank you all for your patience during our hiatus. Our recording computer broke and we had to wait for the new one. Our regular weekly programming can continue and this week we have an amazing and fun show for you. Reba the Diva joined us in the Lounge for some great conversation. She fills us in on how she went from working in nonprofit to the vast world of sexuality and sex education. There’s so much passion when Reba talks about the work she does and it is something that the Ganja Goddesses feel in their own work too. She shares with us a bit about her work with grassroots campaigns for legalization in DC and how cannabis is used in the oppression of black and brown folks. The three of us were very eager to talk more about sex and cannabis and how to really embrace the whole plant to aid in more pleasurable experiences. Reba talks about her favorite thing to host online and all the fun details of what that entails. This episode is a great way to kick things back off after our brief break, you don’t want to miss it! Reba Corrine Thomas is a pleasure-positive sex educator and CEO of Sexpert Consultants, a company geared toward bridging the gap in adult sexual health education through engaging workshops, online courses and events. Key topics: ● The politicization of cannabis and its effects on the BIPOC communities ● Using cannabis to get your mind and body in a better place for sexual experiences ● Sexpert Consultants and the important work they do ● Platonic intimacy: what is it and why is it important? ● The current racial climate and how people can be better allies for BIPOC folks Resources: ● https://www.rebathediva.com ● https://wwwtwitter.com/rebathediva ● https://www.instagram.com/rebathediva ● https://www.sexpertconsultants.com ● https://www.sexandcannabis.com ● Urban Tantra by Barba Carrellas: https://www.amazon.com/Urban-Tantra-Sacred-Twenty-First-Century/dp/1587612909 ● The Beautiful Life Collective ● Me and White Supremacy by Layla F. Sadd ● White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo Calls to action: ● Be sure to leave a review! ● Follow us on Twitter ● Follow us on Instagram ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram ● Parker Leigh Twitter ● Parker Leigh Instagram Support the show

Welcome to another wonderful week at the KIC Lounge! Joining us all the way from the west coast is Anne Hodder-Shipp. We have been looking forward to this episode since Anne said she’d love to be a guest on the show. Our conversation shed a lot of light on something we all experience: dreams, among other subjects. It was extremely fascinating to hear about her journey as a dreamworker, from discovering it as a client to facilitating sessions with clients of her own. We talk all about the power of our subconscious and how that plays a role in our dreams and how we experience life. Anne works to dismantle many common misconceptions there are about dreamwork as well as talking about common themes people have in their dreams. In previous episodes, we’ve talked about sex education for the younger generations but in this episode we get more into consent and the importance of teaching that to kids when they are very young. We found this episode to be extremely enlightening and think you will too! Maybe you’ll even think about your dreams differently.   Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE, (she/they) is a multi-certified sex and relationships educator with professional training in breathwork and holistic dreamwork. Anne has been working with, writing about, and teaching others about sex and relationships in some form for more than 13 years, and in addition to her private practice and public workshops, Anne also leads treatment groups for clients recovering from substance use disorder, eating disorders, compulsive sexual behavior and other stigmatized illnesses. In addition to her private practice, Anne also is the founder and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Education (EDSE), manages sex-positive PR firm Hodder Media Inc., and is co-producer of the SEX+ Summit. Key topics: ● What is dreamwork? ● Dreamwork as an alternative form of therapy ● How the body holds trauma and different experiences ● Consent culture and the importance of teaching it to kids ● Anne’s work with Everyone Deserves Sex Education Resources: ● https://www.annehoddershipp.com ● https://www.instagram.com/theannehodder ● https://www.instagram.com/every1deservessexed ● Sex+ Summit ● Buy a Ticket for Sex+ Summit - Use coupon code GANJA15 for 15% off!! ● https://www.keziavida.com ● Dream Journal: http://keziavida.com/dreamwisely/ ● What is EMDR? https://www.emdr.com/what-is-emdr/ Calls to action: ● Be sure to leave a review! ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.parker.leigh Support the show

We have a fantastic show for you this week! Parker was dealing with some tooth pain and was not as talkative in this episode so we just wanted to let you know that Miss Mackenzee really took the lead. Joining us is Rain DeGrey who took some time out of her busy schedule to chat with us! We really enjoyed this conversation not only because we’ve both enjoyed Rain’s work for years but because it provided a lot of really great insights. We talk all about the importance of helping to educate people in the scene particularly those that are new and exploring, the idea of play frenzy and how it can be dangerous, and being a kinky introvert (like so many of us). We got to hear about Rain's lonely cock in a very sexy chat about strap on play. Mackenzee and Rain really bonded over the fact that tops get drained and droppy too after a scene, not just bottoms. Rain shared that she is on the autism spectrum and how that factors into her play as well as talking a bit about her fascinating experiences with synesthesia. Want to hear all about how Jesus on the cross is sexy or nuns being naughty? You'll want to tune into this episode. Rain Degrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging. She has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, KinkAcadamy, Thunder in the Mountains, and Boundcon. Key topics: ● Rain talks about one of her most extreme edge play scenes, including behind the scenes details ● The importance of not using kink as therapy ● Lessons learned from being a heavy bottom ● The illusions that editing create in porn ● Strap on sex and why it’s so great ● Religious play, what is it and what can it look like? Resources: ● https://www.raindegrey.com ● Follow Rain on IG: @raindegrey ● Follow Rain on Twitter: @raindegrey ● Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/57725?sp=1 ● Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/raindegrey/ ● SpareParts Joque strap on harness: https://shevibe.com/spareparts-joque-harness-jet-black/ ● Avery Hornn on Twitter: @AveryHornn Calls to action: ● Be sure to leave a review! ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.parker.leigh Support the show

This week in the Lounge, we had Willow stop by to talk with us. Willow is the type of person that gives meaning to the phrase "good things come in small packages." He brings such a warm and fun energy with him and he certainly brought it in this conversation. The three of us share a love of medical play and all things sharps-related. Don't worry if you don't know what that means. You'll find out in this episode. Parker and Willow talk about the headspace for pet play and what draws them to that type of play. Willow shares how being trans has influenced his life in kink. We talk all about edge play including hook suspensions, balancing safety with the need to learn and practice more extreme types of play, managing kink and vanillas lives, and so much more. Willow also shares a fun memory he had with our puppy pre-COVID. Willow is a natural teacher and an engaging, inventive player with many years of experience in a wide variety of kinks. As a sadomasochistic switch, his classes are designed to speak to both the top and the bottom of a scene, (since without one or the other, you are left with his self suspension class!) Willow enjoys breath play, rope, pony play, needles, knives, and thuddy things and is now turning his years of experience on both sides of the reins into comprehensive classes on sadistic rope, venipuncture, and more! Kink is a core part of who he is and what he does, followed closely by ethical sluttery and a love of learning. Willow runs relaxed, hands-on classes, and is passionate about getting students engaged with the subject at hand. Along with his free pandemic classes on rope bondage, he offers private lessons where he can tailor the content to your interests, skill level, and really dig into the subject at hand. Key topics: ● How to find the kink community even if you live in the backwoods of Kentucky ● Medical play: what is it and what can it look like? ● The risks and joys of hook suspensions ● Exploring the world of pony play ● Sex and dating as a trans man ● Coming out and family support Resources: ● Willow on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/582959 ● Follow Willow on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/willowinrope ● Fetlife ● Rochester Erotic Arts Festival ● The Brief History of Human Suspension ● Safe Choking 101 ● Trans Ally Tips ● Miss Mackenzee’s Sharps Intensive (Class is virtual): https://black-thorn.org/events/2020-10-17-out-for-blood-a-sharps-play-intensive Calls to action: ● Be sure to leave a review! ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.parker.leigh Support the show

This week we got to catch up with a dear human who we met in Michigan years ago when we taught for his event, Synergy. It was a long drive but certainly worth it! Even before we started recording, Travis had us smiling and laughing, filled with tons of positive energy so we knew this was going to be a fun episode. Once we hit record, the energy did not change and he shared with us how he recently collared his one girl and told the story of how he collared his other girl many years ago. It’s always fascinating to hear other people’s stories of solidifying their relationships since there is no right or wrong way to do it. Since he’s been involved in kink for so long, we were really intrigued to hear how Travis got his start in the lifestyle so he shares his naughty origin story. We chat about what it’s like being an event organizer, life as a title holder, and leather Daddy. We didn’t get to all of the things we wanted to talk about so we may just have to chat with Travis again. With all his years in the lifestyle, he has so much knowledge and experience to bring to the conversation. Don’t believe us? You’ll just have to listen then! Sir Travis is a sadistic, sexually versatile Leather Daddy hailing from West Michigan. Exploring kink since his teens, he has been active in various Midwestern kink and Leather communities since 2009 in various roles from attendee to event producer. Holding the titles of Michigan Master 2014 & Great Lakes Power Exchange 2015, Travis enjoys sharing his knowledge and skills whenever possible and has had the honor of presenting for numerous events and organizations. He can be found at home with his girls Niki & Becky, at the local gaming store geeking out while playing Magic the Gathering, or at events indulging in creative and painful adventures to make lasting memories. Key topics: ● Discovering the kinky lifestyle ● How to be proactive with your safety in kink ● Introduction to the Leather community ● Dominant vs Master...what are the differences? ● The complex world of event producing ● How will COVID-19 change kink events in the future? Resources: ● Travis on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/143399 ● Follow him on Twitter:  https://twitter.com/SirTravisGR ● Simon Sinek TED Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action?language=en ● Leather Culture: http://www.leatherpedia.org/leather-culture/ Calls to action: ● Be sure to leave a review! ● Follow us on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kiclounge ● Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kicloungepodcast ● Miss Mackenzee Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissMackenzee ● Miss Mackenzee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.mackenzee ● Parker Leigh Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/MissParkerLeigh ● Parker Leigh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.parker.leigh Support the show