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This episode we’re unpacking the Danish Deception and the red flags we saw, ignored, and sometimes even defended. We get into dating in our 20s, emotional availability (or the lack of it), and how social media, Hinge, and Tinder have completely changed the way people show up. From curated feeds to confusing intentions, we talk about what we’ve experienced trying to date in a generation that loves access but avoids accountability. Dating in your 20s is ghetto, healing is loud, and discernment is learned the hard way. If you’ve ever overlooked the signs or questioned your standards, this episode will feel way too familiar.

Comparison really will steal your joy if you let it. In this episode, we get real about social media and the highlight reels we’re constantly consuming. People post what they want you to see, but the struggles, delays, and silent battles stay behind closed doors. We also talk about starting in the same space as others and then watching them hit milestones you thought would be yours by now. The tension of feeling happy for them while quietly wondering, “Why not me?” We end with a reminder you might need to hear: your path is yours. Your timing is not behind, it’s just different. Other people’s wins are not your losses. Let them be proof, motivation, and fuel for what’s still coming. New episodes drop every Wednesday at 12. Tap into the polls, leave a comment, and tell us your story. We’re in this together.

Breakups hit different as an adult. In this episode, Shaneé and Des unpack why ending a relationship hurts more as we get older, from shared routines and future plans to emotional investment and timing. We talk about grieving what could’ve been, navigating healing while still handling real life, and why adult breakups aren’t just about losing a person but losing a version of yourself too. This conversation is for anyone learning how to let go while still moving forward.

Faith isn’t always quiet or easy. In this episode, Shaneé and Des have an honest conversation about faithful spirituality, what it looks like to believe while still questioning God, and navigating moments of doubt without losing faith. We talk about the tension between trust and confusion, how spirituality evolves, and why asking hard questions doesn’t mean you’re walking away from God. This episode is for anyone who loves God but has questions they’re still praying through.

In Growing Pains, Shaneé and Des have an honest conversation about what it really looks like to navigate life in your 20s. This episode dives into the truths behind growing up that people don’t always talk about. The discomfort, the loneliness, the hard lessons, and the moments that force you to sit with yourself. They reflect on their own experiences and the realization that turning 25 and having a fully developed frontal lobe doesn’t suddenly make life easier or more fun. Growth wasn’t glitz and glam. It was uncomfortable, challenging, and at times hard to accept. Shaneé and Des talk about processing change, learning how to move through uncertainty, and understanding that growth doesn’t always feel good in the moment. This episode is a reminder that transitions don’t mean you’re failing, feeling lost doesn’t mean you’re behind, and growth looks different for everyone. If you’re in a season of becoming, figuring things out, or learning as you go, you’re not alone. You’re still doing better than you think. New episodes drop every Wednesday at 12. Thank you for tuning in

After a year away, Just 2 Black Girls returns with a New Year’s Eve welcome-back episode, We Never Left. We Took a Breath. The hosts, Des & Shaneé, catch listeners up on where they are now, what life has taught them in the pause, and what’s ahead. This episode sets the tone for season 7, rooted in honesty, growth, and unpolished, juicy truths. Expect real conversations about growing pains, healing, faith, and navigating your twenties as a Black woman with intention and transparency. They also introduce the community’s new name — The Group Chat— because this season is about real talk, no filters. Happy New Year. Welcome back.

Welcome to the final episode of the season! Shanee and Des reflect on the incredible journey they’ve shared throughout this season of the podcast. As they look back on the topics discussed, stories shared, and moments cherished, they express gratitude for the support and engagement from their listeners. Join them as they celebrate the growth and meaningful conversations of the season, and stay tuned for updates on what’s next for Shanee and Des in the upcoming season!

In this episode, Shanee and Des explore the evolving standards of body image, from societal ideals of skinny to “slim thick” and the rise of procedures like BBL (Brazilian Butt Lift). They share personal stories of their own journeys with body image, discussing the ongoing challenges and pressures. Join them as they reflect on why societal body standards often feel unattainable and discuss strategies for cultivating a positive body image in today’s diverse society. Tune in next Wednesday for the final episode of Season 6, dropping at 12 PM!

In this episode, Shanee and Des dive into a lively financial chat, sharing their journey as recovering shopaholics and learning the ropes of balancing money as adults. From cracking the budgeting code to picking up savvy saving tricks, they navigate the highs and lows of managing finances in the DMV (DC, Maryland, Virginia) area.

In this episode, Des & Shaneé delve into what it means to be the “new adults” and how our experience of adulting differs from that of our parents. From navigating careers and finances to maintaining relationships and self-care, we explore the unique challenges and opportunities of adulthood in today’s world. Tune in next Wednesday at 12 for a new episode!

In this episode, Des & Shaneé ask: Are we using the relationships in our lives to fill voids? Are we truly embracing relationships as a bonus to our lives, or are we relying on them to fill something we can’t find within ourselves? Join us as we explore the motives behind our connections, discuss healthy versus dependent relationships, and share insights on how to cultivate fulfilling and supportive bonds. Tune in

In this episode, Des & Shaneé share the story of their remarkable friendship, from meeting as friends to becoming roomies and ultimately besties/sisters. They recount the key moments that brought them closer, the challenges they faced living together, and how their bond strengthened over time. Tune in to hear their heartfelt journey, filled with laughter, support, and the ups and downs of building a sister-like connection. Tune in next Wednesday at 12 pm for a new episode

In this episode, Des & Shaneé delve into the complexities of adult friendships and the challenges of making connections in today’s world. They explore why friendships are crucial for our well-being, how friendships evolve from childhood to adulthood, and strategies for meeting new people and forming meaningful connections. Tune in next Wednesday at 12 PM for a new episode!

In this episode, Des & Shaneé reflect on their past selves and the incredible growth they’ve experienced over the past few years. They share personal stories, key experiences, and insights into how their perspectives have changed. They also offer advice to their past selves and provide practical tips for younger and older listeners on embracing growth and overcoming challenges. Tune in next Wednesday at 12 PM for a new episode!

We are backkkkk! Welcome back to the first episode of our new season! We missed you all so much and are so excited to reconnect with you. In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into personal growth and sharing where we are currently in our lives. We’ll catch you up on all the changes, challenges, and triumphs we’ve experienced since our last season. We’re thrilled to be back and can’t wait to share this journey with you. Make sure to tune in every Wednesday at 12 PM for a new episode in our new series.