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What if you’re capable of more than you’ve allowed yourself to believe? In this episode of Unrelenting Pursuit, we talk about increasing your capacity and what it means to step into the God-given potential He has placed inside of you. Sometimes the thing holding us back isn’t a lack of ability—it’s the limits we’ve learned to live with. Fear, disappointment, insecurity, past experiences, comfort, and the opinions of others can create invisible ceilings in our lives, our marriages, our relationships, and our walk with God. We’ll talk about how to recognize the self-imposed limitations that keep you stuck, challenge the lies that have shaped the way you see yourself, and allow God to expand your capacity to love, forgive, lead, grow, communicate, endure, and live with purpose. Whether you’re working on personal growth, spiritual growth, marriage growth, emotional healing, or strengthening your relationship with God, this conversation will challenge you to ask: Am I living at the capacity God has given me—or am I limiting what He wants to do in and through me? God reveals and God heals. And sometimes increasing our capacity starts with believing that we can grow beyond where we are today. In this episode: * Increasing your God-given capacity * Overcoming self-imposed limitations * Breaking through fear and insecurity * Growing emotionally and spiritually * Expanding your capacity in marriage and relationships * Learning to trust God with more * Moving from comfort to growth * Recognizing the lies that keep you stuck * Becoming who God created you to be * Progress, not perfection If this episode encourages you, subscribe to Unrelenting Pursuit and share it with someone who needs to hear that their story—and their capacity for growth—is not over. No story is too far gone. If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Why does something that feels easy and natural to you seem completely exhausting to your spouse? Why can you see what needs to be done while your spouse seems to miss it? Why do some conversations energize you but drain them? And why can the very things you admire about your spouse sometimes be the things that drive you crazy? In this episode of Unrelenting Pursuit, we’re diving into The 6 Working Geniuses by Patrick Lencioni and exploring what it can teach us about marriage. The 6 working geniuses—Wonder, Invention, Discernment, Galvanizing, Enablement, and Tenacity—help explain the different ways people naturally contribute, solve problems, make decisions, and get things done. And understanding these differences can be incredibly powerful in marriage. Because sometimes what we interpret as laziness is actually a different wiring. What we see as criticism may be discernment. What feels like controlling may be someone trying to galvanize. And what feels like disengagement may simply be someone operating outside of their natural genius. The goal isn’t to use a personality framework to excuse selfishness or avoid responsibility. It’s to learn how to understand, appreciate, communicate with, and work alongside the person God gave you. What if some of the very differences that frustrate you are actually part of what makes you stronger together? Take the $25 assessment here - https://www.workinggenius.com/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=19814923436 As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

What if some of the advice you’re receiving about your marriage isn’t actually helping? We’re talking bad marriage advice on this episode - well-intentioned words that can create confusion, resentment, distance, or even enable unhealthy patterns. That advice may come from friends and family, social media, or even the church: “Just leave.” “You just need to have more sex.”          “Forgiveness means you need to move on.” “You deserve to be happy.”                                              “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” “Submit and everything will be fine.” “You can’t trust again.” But is it wise? Is it biblical? And does it lead toward the kind of marriage God intended? We’ll explore how to discern what is biblical wisdom from popular opinion, why confident advice isn’t always wise, and how to evaluate who should speak into your marriage. Because your relationship is too valuable to build on someone else’s assumptions and bad advice. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

When do compassion and understanding become an excuse for behavior? And as Christians, can we have grace for someone's brokenness while still calling evil evil? Or have Christians become so afraid of being judgmental that we stop making moral distinctions altogether. Because when we stop calling evil evil, we don't necessarily become more loving. We simply become apathetic. And apathy doesn't protect marriages. It doesn't protect families. It doesn't protect the Church. And it certainly doesn't lead people toward freedom. So where is the line between compassion and compromise? Between grace and enabling?  Between understanding someone's story and excusing their sin? It's time to stop confusing empathy with approval—and recover the courage to love people enough to tell the truth. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

This episode is really special to us… because it’s our 200th episode! And if we’re honest—this journey has stretched us in ways we didn’t expect. It’s grown us, exposed things in us, healed places we didn’t even realize were still hurting… and through all of it, God has been so faithful. In this episode, we’re taking time to reflect on what He’s done—not just in this podcast, but in us. The obedience it’s taken to keep showing up. The moments we didn’t feel ready. The ways God met us anyway. And in the second half, we’re continuing the conversation we started—walking through signs 13–19 that your marriage is healing… even when it doesn’t feel like it yet...because just like this journey… healing doesn’t always feel clear while you’re in it. But that doesn’t mean God isn’t moving. If you’ve been in a stretching season… if you’ve been doing the work but wondering where it’s leading… this episode is for you. God has been faithful in our story. And He hasn’t stopped being faithful in yours. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Sometimes healing doesn’t look the way we expected it to. In this episode, we set out to walk through 20 signs your marriage is healing… and honestly, we didn’t even get through all of them. But maybe that’s the point. Because healing isn’t a checklist you complete—it’s something you begin to notice in the small shifts… the quieter reactions… the moments where you choose differently, even when it’s hard. If you’ve been feeling like you’re putting in the work but not seeing the breakthrough… if you’re wondering, “Are we actually getting anywhere?”… this conversation is for you. We’re talking about the subtle, often overlooked signs that God is still moving in your marriage—even when it doesn’t feel like it yet. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

We are living in a time where women can do anything… and yet fewer are choosing marriage and motherhood. Why? In this episode, we unpack the cultural shift that’s separating what was once deeply connected—commitment, family, and children. We talk about the lies we’ve believed about success, the fear and pressure many women carry, and why motherhood has started to feel like “less than.” But what if it’s not? What if motherhood isn’t a limitation—but one of the most significant callings a woman can step into? This is a conversation about truth, perspective, and choosing what actually matters. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

We live in a world that constantly tells us we’re overwhelmed, overbooked, and at capacity—but what if that’s not the full truth? In this episode, we talk about the difference between being overloaded and being misaligned. Because sometimes it’s not that we’re carrying too much… it’s that we’re carrying the wrong things. Learning to increase your capacity isn’t about doing more—it’s about becoming stronger. It’s about letting go of what doesn’t matter, picking up what does, and allowing God to stretch you in the process. You are meant to carry the weight of the roles God has entrusted to you, and that weight is heavy because it is valuable and worth carrying. If you’ve been feeling like life is “too much,” this episode will help you step back, reassess, and realign—so you can carry what you were actually created for. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In this episode, we’re talking about something that sounds simple… but is actually deeply challenging—solitude. What happens when God asks you to lay down not just sin, but your wants, your noise, and your need to stay busy? I share personally how difficult it has been to quiet my mind and sit still before Him—and what He’s been revealing in that space. If your mind feels constantly full and slowing down feels uncomfortable, you’re not alone. This is an invitation into something deeper. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

You can’t build a strong life on weak foundations. In this episode, we challenge the idea that doing “well overall” is enough. Because if one pillar is weak—your spiritual life, your health, your emotions, your relationships, your work, or your finances—it will eventually impact everything. We share where we’ve struggled personally and invite you to take a real, honest inventory of your own life. As Preston Morrison says, “When you give yourself what you want, you might get a little happier… but when you give yourself what you need, you will get a lot stronger.” This is your moment to stop avoiding—and start strengthening. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

There is a point in marriage restoration where working on the relationship can quietly turn into overworking the relationship. Every conversation becomes serious. Every interaction becomes an evaluation. Every moment together feels like it has to produce progress. Without realizing it, you can slip into fix-it mode — where connection is replaced with pressure, safety is replaced with performance, and joy is replaced with constant analysis. In this episode, we talk about how real healing doesn’t come from forcing breakthrough conversations or trying to solve years of pain overnight. It comes from learning to take one step at a time. You’ll learn why laughter is not avoidance — it’s regulation. Why celebrating small wins builds emotional safety. Why balance is essential if you want your spouse to stay open instead of shut down. We’ll also unpack how creating moments of lightness, shared enjoyment, and genuine appreciation can rebuild the foundation that hard conversations actually stand on. Because the truth is — people talk when they feel connected, safe, seen. And marriages heal when pressure is replaced with steady, faith-filled progress. If you’ve been feeling exhausted from trying to “fix everything,” this episode will help you slow down, refocus, and move forward with wisdom, intention, and hope. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Secure attachment is not about being perfect - In this final episode of our attachment series, we talk about what it looks like to live and love from a place of emotional security. Secure individuals are able to communicate clearly, handle conflict without panic, and remain present even when relationships feel uncomfortable. We will explore how secure attachment shows up in marriage, parenting, and leadership — and why people who feel emotionally safe create environments where others can thrive. If you’ve ever wondered whether attachment style can change, the answer is yes. Through healing relationships, self-awareness, emotional regulation, and consistent corrective experiences, many people move toward what is called earned secure attachment. Attachment explains behavior — but it does not excuse it. Growth toward security looks like slower reactions, clearer communication, and the ability to stay connected even in discomfort. There is hope. Security can be learned and is ultimately anchored in Christ!  As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Have you ever felt like part of you deeply wants connection… but another part of you doesn’t trust it? Fearful-avoidant attachment lives in that tension. In this episode, we talk about the push–pull cycle that happens when someone both craves closeness and fears it. This attachment style often forms in chaotic or traumatic environments, and it can create emotional swings, confusion about needs, and instability in relationships. We’ll look at how fearful-avoidant attachment shows up in marriage, parenting, and leadership, and why conflict can feel so overwhelming for someone wired this way. If you’ve ever wondered why relationships can feel both deeply desired and deeply threatening at the same time, this episode will help bring clarity—and hope for healing. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In this episode of Unrelenting Pursuit, we’re diving into avoidant (dismissive) attachment — the style that often says, “I’ll handle this myself.” Avoidant attachment isn’t about not caring. It’s about learning early on that emotions felt unsafe or overwhelming — so independence became protection. We explore how this plays out in: Marriage — withdrawing during conflict, struggling to verbalize emotions, and appearing distant even when committed. Parenting — emphasizing independence, minimizing feelings, and offering solutions instead of empathy. Leadership — strong and decisive, yet sometimes intimidating or emotionally unavailable. If you’ve ever felt more comfortable being self-sufficient than emotionally open, or are married to someone who is, this episode is for you. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In this episode, we take a deep dive into anxious attachment—what it is, how it forms, and how it quietly shapes the way we love, lead, and parent. If you’ve ever felt afraid of being abandoned, needed constant reassurance, or found yourself overthinking every conversation or conflict, you may lean toward an anxious attachment style. Many people with anxious attachment love deeply, give generously, and care intensely—but inside, there can be a constant fear: “What if I’m not enough?” We’ll talk about how anxious attachment shows up: In marriage: • Fear of rejection or abandonment • Needing constant reassurance • Overanalyzing your spouse’s tone, words, or actions • Feeling like you care more than they do In parenting: • Struggling with fear when children pull away or gain independence • Over-protecting or over-involving yourself in their lives • Tying your worth to your child’s behavior or affection In leadership: • People-pleasing to avoid conflict • Difficulty making firm decisions • Taking criticism very personally • Feeling crushed when others are disappointed But there is hope. God is not anxious in His love for you. He is steady, secure, and faithful. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit