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Are you holding back from your spouse without even realizing it? Dr. Dave Currie (Nicole’s and my old marriage counsellor) is back. We get into intimacy anorexia, which is when you hold back emotional, spiritual and sexual connection from your spouse. He even put me through the test on air. We also talk about how a strong-willed guy learns to surrender to God, and what a busy dad in his 30s can do right now so his kids still want him around when they’re 25. “It’s not your fault, but it’s your responsibility.” *More from Dave:* drdavecurrie.com *Books mentioned:* Unwanted by Jay Stringer: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1631466720 Gentle and Lowly by Dane Ortlund: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1433566133 *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Doing Family Right: https://www.doingfamilyright.com/ Dave's first episode on Furiously Curious Show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTagnJ7s1Y8Dave's Article on Having Sex VS Making Love: https://www.doingfamilyright.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Having-Sex-vs-Making-Love.pdf Get Coached by Kyle: https://furiouslycuriouscoaching.com Recruitment Services: https://www.furiouslycurious.co/recruitment-contact Hire Kyle to Speak At Your Next Event: https://www.furiouslycurious.co/speaking-contact Book a Call with Kyle: https://calendly.com/kylevanruit/discovery-chat Get FCC Merch: https://shop.furiouslycurious.co/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious Visit our website here: https://www.furiouslycurious.co/ Got a podcast question or want to provide feedback, let us know here: https://www.furiouslycurious.co/podcast-contact Follow & Connect: IG: https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/furiously-curious-company FB: https://www.facebook.com/Furiouslycuriouscompany/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@furiouslycuriousshow Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1B9SPwYHuRM7r8v3BsFyFs Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-furiously-curious-show/id1528916939 #ToGodBeTheGlory #ChristianPodcast

*🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Kim Ades has been my coach since 2021, and she's changed how I parent my boys more than anyone. In this one we get into why parenting is really about the parent, why kids lie and what it says about the safety we've built, and what actually works for discipline. I share the 40-40-20 rule that turned things around with my son in a week, how I lock my phone away so my kids get me back, and why working on yourself is the biggest gift you can give your kids. Kim's first episode on Furiously Curious Show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmoJP3tIVRA&t=57s Frame of Mind Coaching: https://frameofmindcoaching.com/ Email Kim: [email protected] Kim's Kids' Book: Whimsical Kimsicle and the Mailbox Mix-Up https://play.google.com/store/books/details/Kim_Ades_Whimsical_Kimsicle_and_the_Mailbox_Mix_Up?id=t-DuEQAAQBAJ Kitchen Safe Phone Lockbox: https://www.thekitchensafe.com/ Get Coached by Kyle: https://furiouslycuriouscoaching.com Recruitment Services: https://www.furiouslycurious.co/recruitment-contact Hire Kyle to Speak At Your Next Event: https://www.furiouslycurious.co/speaking-contact Book a Call with Kyle: https://calendly.com/kylevanruit/discovery-chat Get FCC Merch: https://shop.furiouslycurious.co/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious Visit our website here: https://www.furiouslycurious.co/ Got a podcast question or want to provide feedback, let us know here: https://www.furiouslycurious.co/podcast-contact Follow & Connect: IG: https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/furiously-curious-company FB: https://www.facebook.com/Furiouslycuriouscompany/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@furiouslycuriousshow Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1B9SPwYHuRM7r8v3BsFyFs Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-furiously-curious-show/id1528916939 #ToGodBeTheGlory #ChristianPodcast

*Schedule a Discovery Call with Kyle 👉* https://calendly.com/kylevanruit/discovery-chat *Podcast Merch* 👉 https://shop.furiouslycurious.co/ *Watch Joseph’s previous conversations on The Briefcase & The Barn* EP 87 — Why Some Christians Realize They Aren’t Actually Saved 👉 https://youtu.be/vy4GjPXZfW8 EP 90 — The NDP Convention Was Absolute Chaos… Here’s Why 👉 https://youtu.be/L93DLoIMVuQ *QUESTIONS FOR A FOLLOW-UP?* Have a question for Joe or me? Something you disagree with or want us to dig into further? Send me a DM on social media or email [email protected]. I’ll collect your questions for when Joseph comes back. --- I sat down with counselor and former youth pastor Joe Pohl to talk about counseling, raising kids, and how easy it is to help everybody else while avoiding our own stuff. Then we got into Christian nationalism, what schools should teach, and whether having more Christians in government would actually change society. Enjoy! -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

*Schedule a Discovery Call with Kyle 👉* https://calendly.com/kylevanruit/discovery-chat *Luke Zandberg’s Campaign Website* 👉 https://lukezandberg.ca *Luke Zandberg’s Campaign Email* 👉 [email protected] --- Luke Zandberg is 26, a husband, dad, local business manager, and now a candidate for Chilliwack City Council. We get into how he went from Trinity Western to working behind the scenes on federal campaigns, why he decided to put his own name on the ballot, and what he thinks city council can—and can't—actually fix. We talk public safety, homelessness, traffic, taxes, housing, faith, and whether young people still believe politics can change anything. I also push him on the parts he doesn't have clean answers for, because local politics sounds simple until you start asking where the money comes from. Enjoy! -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

*Kyle's Coaching & Recruiting* https://calendly.com/kylevanruit/discovery-chat *MBC Canada* https://mbcclarity.com/ *Next Hand Digital* https://nexthanddigital.com/ --- Jeremy Ryan’s story takes a few turns—and then several more. He went from being bullied and selling drugs to preparing for the end times in tents near 100 Mile House, serving in church, hearing voices he believed were from God, and eventually joining the Free Reformed Church. We talk about addiction, conversion, spiritual gifts, church authority, family influence, infant baptism, and what happens when absolute confidence collides with the need to know what is actually true. Whether you grew up Christian, walked away from church, or have no idea what paedobaptism means, Jeremy’s story is wild, honest, and worth hearing. Enjoy! -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

*FREEDOM SESSION REGISTRATION LINK — FALL 2026* Chilliwack: https://central365.churchcenter.com/registrations/events/3762929 *Kyle's Coaching & Recruiting*https://calendly.com/kylevanruit/discovery-chat *Nitty Gritty Tiles* Contact: Nick Phone: 604-703-4148 --- Nick Zemora spent most of his life thinking he was fine while carrying years of physical abuse, childhood sexual abuse, anger, isolation and a deep distrust of people and God. In this conversation, we get into his childhood, marriage, faith, suffering, forgiveness, and what happened when he finally stopped burying his story and started bringing it into the light through Freedom Session. It’s a heavy conversation, but also a pretty incredible picture of grace, healing, and the freedom that can come from finally facing what you’ve spent years avoiding. Enjoy! -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

In this episode, I sit down with John Carpay to talk about his work defending constitutional freedoms in Canada and why he believes the country has been on a slow cultural decline for decades. John shares how he became a lawyer, what led him to found the Justice Centre for Constitutional Freedoms, and why issues like free speech, parental rights, and freedom of religion have shaped his work throughout his career. We also get into Bill C-9, the proposed social media legislation, government overreach, the role of the media, and why John believes culture ultimately shapes politics. Along the way, we discuss the importance of virtue, education, and what it takes to preserve a free society. Whether or not you agree with John's conclusions, this conversation explores some of the biggest questions surrounding rights, responsibility, and the future of Canada. Enjoy! -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

In this episode, I sit down with Stuart Parker for a conversation about politics, culture, purpose, and faith.Stuart shares stories from his upbringing, his involvement in politics, and how his views have changed over the years. We discuss free speech, identity politics, modern ideological movements, and why he believes many people are searching for meaning in the wrong places. We also talk about Stuart's journey to Christianity, why he believes purpose is essential for human flourishing, and how faith reshaped the way he understands the world. Enjoy! -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

I sat down with Savannah Paul to talk about something a lot of women are dealing with but don’t know how to talk about — catching their husband watching porn and having no idea what to do next. We get into the shock, the anger, the self-doubt, and the lies women start believing about themselves, and what real healing actually looked like in her marriage. This isn’t a quick fix conversation — it’s about betrayal, rebuilding trust, and what it actually takes to heal (even when it takes years). Enjoy! -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

I invited Maxime Bernier back on The Furiously Curious Show to get his take on what's happening in Canada and around the world right now. We covered free speech and Bill C-9, the future of the PPC, Alberta's separatist movement, Trump, America's war with Iran ... and more. He defaulted to some PPC talking points at times, but for the most part, I felt he was pretty open with me. I enjoyed our chat and hope you do too. -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

In this episode, I sit down with Andre Lesur to talk about his journey from South Africa to Canada, his path into faith, and how his life shifted from chasing performance to actually knowing Jesus. Andre shares what it was like growing up in a volatile home, moving across countries, and chasing success through academics and sports—until he encountered a kind of love through Christians that made him question everything. We get into identity, perfectionism, and the tension between striving and surrender. We also talk about his time in ministry, working with youth, prison ministry, and people in some of the hardest environments, along with the personal cost that came with it—burnout, loss, and rebuilding after his mom passed away. If you’ve ever wrestled with faith, purpose, or trying to prove yourself, you’ll probably relate to this. Enjoy -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. The show is produced by the *Furiously Curious Company* Website: furiouslycurious.co --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to see behind the scenes, become a member of my Patreon using the link below* https://www.patreon.com/cw/furiouslycurious --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

I sat down with former BC MLA and school trustee Laurie Throness to talk about the declining academic standards, family breakdown, free speech, SOGI, and why he ultimately stepped down from the school board. Laurie shares his views on why he believes these issues are much bigger than politics— and more about our kids, what we’re teaching them, and the kind of country we’re building. If you care about truth, faith, and where things are headed, this one matters. Enjoy! -Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

Why were we never taught how to actually do relationships? In this episode, I sit down with Jason Gaddis—relationship coach, founder of The Relationship School, and author of Getting to Zero—to talk about the one “class” most of us missed growing up. We get into conflict, emotional maturity, why so many guys shut down or avoid hard conversations, and how patterns from childhood quietly shape our marriages and friendships. Jason has worked with thousands of couples, and he breaks down what actually works when it comes to repairing a relationship and growing up emotionally. This one is real, practical, and probably something most of us needed 10–20 years ago. Enjoy - Kyle --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

In this episode, I sit down with Rev. Aaron Vriesman to talk about his role in The Abide Project, which he helped start with a group of colleagues to uphold their convictions on biblical sexuality within the CRC denomination after some churches chose to follow the culture’s view on the issue. We also talk about the culture in many church communities where people feel pressure to show up looking like they have it all together while hiding the things they’re actually struggling with. Aaron shares some of his own story, his struggles with depression, and we talk through why these conversations matter and why they’re often more complicated than people make them out to be. Enjoy! Kyle --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to support the show, click the link below* 👇 www.furiouslycurious.co/donate --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.

Most people don't know what to do after an affair-especially in the church, where many people suffer quietly and alone. In this episode, I sit down with Rick Reynolds founder of Affair Recovery, and we talk about his own story of betrayal, addiction, a vision, and what actually helps couples heal. If you're dealing with this topic right now, you're not alone, there's a path forward, and this conversation will help & encourage you. Enjoy -Kyle --- 🤝 *If you're enjoying this content and would like to support the show, click the link below* 👇 www.furiouslycurious.co/donate --- 📞 *Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?* Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045 Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co --- *🎙 About The Show* Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world. From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table. --- *Social Media:* https://www.facebook.com/FuriouslyCuriousShow https://www.instagram.com/furiouslycuriousco/ --- Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast? Email Kyle at [email protected] Thanks for watching, and God bless.