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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. What Makes or Breaks a Man: Perspective, Growth, and Vulnerability | Better Together The hosts of Better Together—Joe T, Reggie George, J Black, and D Johns—discuss what can make or break a man, focusing on perspective, personal development, and honest communication. Joe T reflects on how lust and mismanaging money once seemed like “badges” but were actually breaking him, and he shares how learning business basics like forming an LLC and applying for a loan reshaped his mindset. The group explores how environment can miseducate people into survival tactics, why relationships often resist growth more than other areas of life, and how fear, willful ignorance, and attachment to what’s familiar create dysfunction. They emphasize vulnerability as a strength, the importance of regular check-ins, accountability without weaponizing feedback, avoiding comparison, practicing surrender, and not “dying” in someone else’s lack of development. 00:00 Nineties Haircut Memories 01:39 Show Intro and Check In 03:18 What Makes or Breaks Men 03:54 Lust Money and Unlearning 07:53 Reeducation and Strongholds 09:30 Perspective Changes Everything 12:20 Vulnerability as Strength 15:06 Marriage Growth and Deflection 24:46 Complacency and Silent Ruts 26:54 Why Relationships Resist Change 30:55 Phone Analogy and Human Growth 33:55 Early Marriage Blind Spots 35:13 Cracked Screen Relationships 37:59 Familiarity Versus Growth 41:05 Check Ins Without Weapons 42:39 Change Versus Development 44:09 Dont Die In Prison 48:11 Make Or Break Mindset 53:05 Update Your Data 55:14 Accountability Filters 59:55 Surrender And Priorities 01:06:34 Speak Up In Safe Spaces 01:08:52 Better Together Closing #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/ Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Value Is Undervalued: Gratitude, Access, and the Cost of Not Letting Go | Dear Son Show On the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss how “value is undervalued,” using examples from family life, finances, and work. They reflect on valuing needs over wants, the difference between price and long-term value, and how experience and expertise are often dismissed out of pride. D shares project-managing the rebuild of his father’s home after a minor fire while navigating his father’s early dementia and difficulty letting contractors lead. They explore protecting access to good people, setting boundaries around unequal exchanges, and how damaged value doesn’t always return—comparing a repaired car’s diminished worth to relationships where apologies don’t guarantee reconciliation. They also mention upcoming Dear Son Network content, including “Unhinged,” and encourage viewers to support other network shows. 00:00 Gratitude Hits Different 00:37 Show Intro and Check In 02:00 Family Updates and Milestones 04:10 Value Versus Price 06:46 Respecting Others Values 08:16 Undervaluing Experience 10:53 Rebuilding Dads House 13:16 Letting Go of Control 18:10 Access Is a Season 21:32 Protecting Dreams and Opportunity 23:06 Toolbox Value Shift 24:03 Humility And Motives 25:33 Protect Your People 28:25 Fair Exchange Boundaries 31:20 Paying For Expertise 32:01 Car Crash Value Lesson 35:19 Saturation And Brain Picking 38:16 Apologies And Trust Loss 40:51 Standards And Spillover 45:57 Network Updates And Signoff. #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Counting the Cost: Crime, Faith, Parenting, and the Price of Not Surrendering In this episode of Better Together, the hosts discuss “counting the cost” across crime, spirituality, parenting, work, and relationships. Joe T explains that before prison, crime felt “lawful” and consequence-free because of his environment, but prison revealed how it was costing him everything. They contrast religious ritual with genuine spiritual formation, emphasizing exposure, accountability, and surrender, including how faith is tested during tragedy like a child’s medical crisis. The conversation also covers the danger of being convinced of yourself, how permissive parenting can stem from resenting structure, and the need to teach consequences. They share personal examples of counting the cost: moving family from the East Coast to Dubai, entrepreneurial risks versus corporate regret, success through content creation, and relationship decisions, ending with a call for viewers to reflect on what something is costing them and what it will cost. 00:00 Counting Crime Costs 00:49 Car Lesson on Value 02:06 Prison Reality Check 02:25 Ritual vs Relationship 05:36 Learning Surrender 09:43 God Knows My Heart 10:15 Echo Chambers and Pride 12:57 Parenting and Boundaries 16:46 Paying the Cost Daily 19:21 Marriage Covenant Costs 21:44 When Commitment Becomes Harm 24:26 Mortgage Analogy for Growth 26:21 Faith Tested by Loss 27:54 Moving Away for Family 31:48 Entrepreneurship vs Corporate 34:10 Time Wealth and Presence 36:07 TikTok Leap of Faith 37:50 Calling Off Engagement Regret 40:22 Community Challenge Wrap Up #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/ Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Counting the Cost: Comfort, Convenience, and the Price of What You Want In this episode of Better Together, the hosts discuss how many people pursue marriage, business, fitness, and parenthood without understanding the true cost, often falling in love with the ideology or highlight reel instead of the work and sacrifice required. They compare this to buying cars or houses, where people scrutinize price but ignore long-term interest and maintenance, and argue that financing and “right now” thinking distort value. They explore comfort and convenience as modern decision-drivers, the importance of retention and maintenance over simply acquiring something, and how misrepresentation in relationships creates unrealistic expectations. The conversation also turns to parenting, missed teaching moments, and how pride can block receiving hard truths, ending with a teaser question about the cost of crime that they save for part two. 00:00 Episode Kickoff 00:31 The Real Cost 02:32 Financing Illusion 03:56 Weddings Versus Marriage 04:27 Comfort Convenience Trap 05:47 Who Pays The Price 07:46 Climb And Pivot 10:39 Highlight Reel Culture 12:49 False Fronts In Love 14:06 Where Mindsets Begin 15:16 Bit By The Bug 16:47 Why This Platform 17:44 Clientele Retention Costs 18:57 Attention Versus Retention 19:35 Comfort Culture Shift 20:53 Paps Parenting Problem 21:58 Flat Tire Wake Up Call 24:00 Thermostat Money Lesson 26:31 Kids Mirror Parents 28:22 Pride And Feedback 30:26 Discipline And Consequences 33:58 Counting Cost Of Crime 34:20 Part Two Tease Outro #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/ Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Breaking the Cycle: Fatherhood, Rejection, Lust, and Healing (ft. Trey Tucker | Rugged Counseling) In this episode of The Dear Son Show, host Derek talks with therapist Trey Tucker from the Chattanooga, Tennessee area about fatherhood, the impact of absent or limited fathering, and how “gaps” in guidance shape men. Trey shares his path from the corporate world to education and counseling, his struggles with rejection and a decade-long hookup cycle, and how those experiences affect attachment, identity, and healing. Derek connects these themes to his own story—leaving home young, self-medicating through sex and alcohol, and creating the podcast as accountability to have meaningful conversations with his sons. They discuss grief, losing parents, why environment matters for young men, and Trey’s book Tough Enough aimed at men in their 20s. Subscribe and comment your biggest takeaway. 00:00 Show Welcome 00:31 Tennessee Connection 01:34 Therapist Journey 02:49 Leaving Corporate Life 05:45 Podcast Origin Story 07:42 Roots and Relocation 08:59 Fatherhood Gaps 14:56 Rejection and Validation 19:02 Book for Twenties 21:51 Hookup Cycle Fallout 24:17 Environment Shapes Choices 25:24 Talking Teens and Alcohol 28:15 School Years That Matter 30:30 Marriage and Fatherhood Hopes 32:27 Mentoring With Accountability 34:00 Training Toughness With Care 35:33 Losing Dad and Learning Grief 39:54 Grief Ritual and Healing 44:18 Parents Marriage Model 45:19 Platform Dating and Time 47:21 What I Wish Dad Said 49:32 Measuring Tough Enough Impact 52:13 Closing Reflections and Outro #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Trey: https://instagram.com/ruggedcounseling Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dear Son: Life Comes at You Fast (Problem-Solving, Responsibility & Real-World Lessons) In this episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns and Jey Blac reflect on how quickly real-life tests can arrive before sons feel prepared, using stories like a late-night tire blowout that revealed gaps in communication, problem-solving, and a father’s tone even when saying the right words. They discuss using unexpected moments as coaching opportunities, balancing protection with letting kids experience consequences, and the danger of “skipping steps,” including buying a teen a new Challenger too soon, allowing passengers, and a wreck that followed—plus lessons from a stolen scooter and earning replacements. The hosts also connect “life comes at you fast” to readiness planning, global events as teachable moments, and personal examples like sudden loss, joining the military, and financial growth outpacing habits, ending with a push to “talk less and do more work.” 00:00 Tire Blowout Cold Open 00:45 Welcome to Dear Son 01:44 Network Updates 03:18 Life Comes Fast 04:58 Late Night Blowout 08:36 Problem Solving Lessons 12:31 Repair Talk and Trust 16:11 Letting Sons Lead 17:30 Car Crash Boundaries 18:34 Scooter Stolen Twice 22:31 Scooter Lesson Learned 23:03 Teen Car Rules 25:03 Crash After Greenlight 27:10 Rewards And Entitlement 29:51 Teach Through Doing 36:58 World Events As Lessons 42:54 Life Came Fast Stories 44:48 Planning And Money Prep 47:34 Closing Lets Talk Work #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Sara Connor on Fatherhood, Trauma, Faith, and Encouraging Today’s Sons | Dear Son Show On the Dear Son Show during Women’s History Month, host Derek welcomes Sara Connor, a Jamaican-born minister and advisor, who shares her upbringing in a prominent Rastafarian and entrepreneurial family, the trauma of an absent musician father and a crack-addicted mother who was later murdered, and years of sexual abuse that shaped her identity and relationships. Sara describes finding Christian faith after running away at 13, learning self-worth through unconditional love, experiencing miracles, and later using therapy and practical tools to manage grief and triggers. She credits her father’s generosity and respect for creating unity across a blended family and discusses how conditioning led her to overextend for men’s dreams and struggle with boundaries. She explains how she parents her son to preserve kindness, ask for what he wants, and stand up for himself, and closes with encouragement to men facing embarrassment, pressure, and purpose. 00:00 Message to Men 00:45 Show Intro Guest Welcome 01:38 Jamaica Roots Family 03:04 Trauma and Loss 04:49 Blended Family Harmony 07:33 Father Character Generosity 09:38 Abuse and Conditioning 13:53 Faith and Self Worth 19:29 Rastafari and Education 25:04 Healing Support Systems 29:39 Managing Trauma Triggers 33:36 Talking with Dad 35:19 Why No Blame 37:10 Absent Parents Survival 38:12 Trauma Triggers Today 40:40 Seeking Approval In Men 42:46 Faith Culture And Boundaries 47:19 Divorce And Self Rediscovery 50:45 Parenting Kindness And Dreams 58:09 Father’s Pivotal Advice 01:04:52 Healing Family Rifts 01:08:05 Men’s Shame And Purpose 01:17:11 Closing Encouragement #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Sara: https://instagram.com/iamsaraco Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Forrest Laurent on Healing, Purpose vs Pain, and Building a Platform Under Pressure | Dear Son Show On the Dear Son Show, the host speaks with Forrest Laurent about a “grind season” of rebuilding his life through changing his circle, improving discipline, and executing with intention. Forrest describes a public livestream conflict where a woman from a coaching relationship attacked his character, forcing him to confront how often he allowed disrespect and how vulnerable he was emotionally. He explains how creating content to hold men accountable unexpectedly drew women to his platform, and how God used coaching to reveal his resentment toward women and his own role in relational harm, leading him to apologize by listening to people he hurt and growing empathy. They discuss relationships and marriage, learning that “a good opportunity doesn’t mean it’s God,” the weight of stewardship and potential cancellation as a platform grows, and redefining success as peace and alignment with God. 00:00 Public Breaking Point 00:32 Welcome to Dear Son 01:37 Catching Up With Forrest 03:04 Grind Season Reset 03:50 Livestream Disrespect Lesson 06:09 Character Attack Fallout 08:27 Who Am I Now 09:26 Coaching Origin Story 14:33 Healing Views on Women 16:02 Making Amends and Apologies 20:54 Good Opportunity vs God 22:33 Marriage and Intentional Prayer 24:36 Back to Entrepreneurship 25:01 God Pushes You Out 25:35 Betting On Yourself 26:18 Fear of Discipline 28:02 Environment Shapes You 30:05 Peace and Real Success 33:20 God and Accountability 34:47 Platform Vision and Space 38:47 Stewarding Attention 42:53 Rest Versus Quitting 47:08 Whats Next Season 49:29 Living in the Now 54:09 Patterns and Real Love 56:31 Closing Reflections #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Forrest: https://instagram.com/forrestlaurent Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Candles & Scents - House of Love Kisha J: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

David Mann Jr. on Fatherhood, Legacy, and Redefining Success On The Dear Son Show, the host welcomes David Mann Jr. for a candid conversation about fatherhood, marriage, faith, and legacy. They discuss being hands-on dads during spring break, how parenting choices (sheltering a sickly child vs. letting another take risks) shape kids differently, and how work ambition can create absence at home—driving guilt, marriage strain, and family conflict. David shares growing up in a highly visible gospel/entertainment family, resenting expectations, and later choosing to flow with his path while pursuing DJing, production, and a meaningful business. Both reflect on repairing father-son relationships, defining success beyond money, making time the real currency, and wanting children to feel loved and proud at the end. Follow the channel and leave a review to support more honest conversations like this. 00:00 Show Intro and Welcome 01:01 Catching Up as Dads 01:53 Kids Driving and Sheltering 04:34 Sick Child and Marriage Strain 06:46 Work Guilt and Forgiveness 09:45 Redefining Success and Time 11:56 Sharing Parents With the World 15:25 Repairing Father Son Bond 18:09 Lessons on Work and Teamwork 20:18 Growing Up Around Fame 23:07 Family Business and Identity 24:02 Finding His Own Lane 24:57 Tour With Parents 25:15 Marriage Time Flies 26:56 Lessons From Marriage 27:54 Dad Identity And Pride 28:47 Raising Daughters Today 34:03 Hands On Parenting Shift 35:12 Finding Your Own Dream 38:34 Faith And Expectations 42:01 Legacy Impact Goals 44:37 Fatherhood Reflections 46:25 Family And Sisters 47:22 Where To Find Him 48:07 Closing And Thanks #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow David: https://instagram.com/davidmannjr Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Chika Onunkwo on Fatherhood’s Legacy, Nigerian Upbringing, and Raising Emotionally Safe Kids In this Women’s Series episode of the Dear Son Show, host speaks with Chika Onunkwo, a Nigerian-born mom in New Jersey who moved to the U.S. at 16 and reflects on growing up in Port Harcourt where “black excellence” was normal, then experiencing bias and jokes about Africa after immigrating. Chika shares how her father—an accomplished civil engineer and community giver—modeled provision, emotional availability, high standards, and repair after discipline, shaping her confidence, marriage expectations, and how she parents. She discusses marrying a Nigerian man she met in college, her father’s cultural criteria and emphasis on marrying for love, and how Emotional Moms began from her own struggles balancing corporate work and emotional connection with her sons. She urges parents—especially fathers—to be emotionally present, connect before correcting, and talk openly about taboo topics. Follow the channel and leave a review. 00:00 Show Intro and Guest 01:09 From Nigeria to Jersey 04:24 Black Excellence and Culture Shock 09:01 American Ignorance Abroad 10:37 Her Father’s Legacy 18:13 Oldest Daughter Pressure 20:23 Discipline and Repair 25:51 Sex Talks and Silence 29:57 Marriage and Family Today 33:45 Dad’s Marriage Criteria 37:04 Honoring Dad in Church 37:47 No Matchmaking Allowed 38:21 Marry for Love 39:22 Dad Vetting the Suitor 40:44 Choosing a Husband Like Dad 43:24 Parenting Styles and Teens 46:13 Fathers Must Be Present 52:19 Why Emotional Moms Started 56:04 Behind the Perfect Family 58:27 Work Life and New Calling 59:55 Lessons on Connection 01:04:20 Modeling Values at Home 01:06:10 Talking Porn and Vices 01:08:32 What I Wish Dad Said 01:09:35 Plugging Resources and Farewell #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Chika: https://instagram.com/emotionalmoms Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Better Together Ep. 5: Putting Away Foolish Things In this Better Together conversation, D Johns, Joe T, Reggie G, and Jey Blac unpack what it means to “put away foolish things,” framing it as an ongoing, seasonal process tied to maturity, self-awareness, and obedience to God. They discuss how distractions, instant gratification, pride, learned behaviors, and unexamined expectations can derail relationships, work, finances, and spiritual growth—especially when people confuse what they expect with what they actually deserve. The group debates marriage, divorce, discernment, premarital counseling, and the pressure of timelines, sharing personal examples about staying too long in jobs or relationships, lacking wise counsel, and mistaking grace for wisdom. They close by challenging listeners to identify their current “foolish thing,” release what’s harming them “at what cost,” and stop celebrating being “the coolest fool in the room.” Follow the channel, watch the long-form episode on YouTube, and leave a review. 00:00 Welcome Back Intro 00:35 Weather And AC Bills 01:41 Show Updates And Subscribe 02:16 Putting Away Foolishness 05:30 Instant Gratification Trap 06:32 Wordsmithing And Avoidance 07:08 Jobs Marriage And Covenant 12:17 God Says Stop Go Time 17:42 Maturity Obedience And Self 23:37 Chasing the Honeymoon 24:04 Grace Without Excuses 25:15 Imperfect Models of Marriage 26:26 Abraham and Ishmael Lessons 28:45 Premarital Counseling Reality Check 31:04 Pride and Entitlement Traps 39:21 Expectations Versus Deserving 42:57 Self Assessment and Hard Talks 46:39 Know When to Let Go 48:18 Final Challenges and Farewell #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/ Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brandon Lewis on Fatherlessness, Forgiveness, and Building a Life in Comedy On the Dear Son Show, host Nate welcomes comedian and content creator Brandon Lewis for a wide-ranging conversation on life through fatherhood. Brandon shares growing up in Cobb County, Georgia with a hardworking mother, a brother who became a father figure through tough discipline, and an absent “phone call” dad he didn’t truly know until moving to Los Angeles at 24 to pursue standup. He describes the shock of seeing his father’s vices, the anger and perspective that followed, and how hustling open mics on buses and on foot strengthened his resolve. Now a dad of two daughters, Brandon talks co-parenting, choosing not to repeat his father’s absence, and balancing touring with being present. He defines success as having options, reflects on entrepreneurship vs corporate stability, and closes with what he wishes he’d learned—financial literacy—and what he teaches his kids: “If you listen the first time, your feelings won’t get hurt the second.” 00:00 Welcome to Dear Son 00:17 Meet Brandon Lewis 01:14 From Georgia to LA 02:14 Growing Up Without Dad 04:20 Loss and Family Roots 06:32 Meeting Dad at 24 09:34 Chasing Standup Dreams 11:32 Mother’s View of Dad 13:45 Choosing Active Fatherhood 17:14 Co-Parenting and Happiness 19:57 Entrepreneur vs Corporate Life 22:00 Creative Grind vs Clocking In 23:18 Fatherhood and Tour Sacrifices 26:54 Choosing Comedy in 2010 28:00 Social Media Doubts and Discouragement 31:04 Pushing Through with Teamwork 37:44 Defining Success as Options 42:02 Hosting Energy and Show Control 45:01 Dear Son Lessons and Farewell #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Brandon: https://instagram.com/whoisbrandonlewis Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When God Says Go: Jasmine Jones on Obedience, Fatherhood, and Walking Away On the Dear Son, Show, host Chris welcomes Jasmine Jones as the first in-studio guest for a Women’s series during March, discussing life through fatherhood. Jasmine shares how her book, “When God Says Go,” about leaving Chicago for Dallas, led to speaking opportunities and ultimately her own women’s conference, which exceeded her expectations. She reflects on growing up with married parents, a supportive father who served his community, and a later period of distance rooted in anger and trauma. Jasmine describes her relationships, including a marriage where she says a “mask” fell off and emotional abuse affected her and her children, prompting her to leave through prayer and faith. She explains her platform “Her Plus God,” its growth from a clothing brand to a faith community, and closes with encouragement to appreciate and forgive fathers. Follow the channel and leave a review. 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 00:42 Family Visits and Big Kids 01:42 Conference Wins Recap 02:34 Book and Calling to Go 03:54 Worthy of the Blessing 06:01 Childhood Obedience and Home 08:54 Growing Up in Chicago 10:05 Parents Values and Dad Example 13:50 Rebellion and Dad Distance 17:45 Reconnecting Through Sons Sports 19:56 Choosing Partners and Trauma 24:52 Marriage and Seeing Dad 25:24 Moving In Fast 26:18 Ignoring Red Flags 27:47 Engagement Pregnancy Shift 28:52 How He Learned Her 30:39 Keeping Abuse Private 32:05 PlayStation Breaking Point 35:45 When A Woman Is Done 37:10 Faith Journey Deepens 39:46 Kids And Changing Dynamics 41:16 Healing Trauma And Parenting 44:34 Not Dating This Season 45:53 Dad Relationship Today 48:57 What I Wish He Said 52:53 Her Plus God Mission 55:45 Final Fatherhood Message Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Better Together: Living vs. Existing, Escaping Survival Mode & Redefining Success In this episode of Better Together, Jey Blac, Reggie George, Joe T, and Djohns have a meaningful conversation about the difference between living and merely existing, starting with the danger of spreading yourself too thin—building roots and a trunk before branches. They unpack moving from survival mode to thriving, choosing your mood instead of letting circumstances control it, and avoiding a “collector” mindset that chases the next goal without gratitude for what was already prayed for and received. The group discusses healthy vs. unhealthy ambition, the need for rest, and signs you’re out of balance, like becoming irritated by meaningful family time. They explore victim mentality, imposter syndrome, and the pressure placed on Black men, stressing the importance of unlearning inherited beliefs, outgrowing people and traditions, and building marriages and success on honest agreements rather than masks. They also shout out sponsor House of Keisha J and close with takeaways about being aware, applying what you learn, and doing life where you’re meant to truly live. 00:00 Welcome And Check In 00:39 Living Versus Existing 03:37 Survival Mode To Thriving 04:40 Gratitude And Choosing Joy 07:19 Engager Versus Collector 10:22 Go Mode And Rest 11:05 Healthy Versus Unhealthy Ambition 15:09 Victim Mentality And Pressure 16:52 Unlearning Inherited Rules 19:40 Outgrowing People And Traditions 20:17 Marriage Masks And Real Talk 22:39 Sponsor Break House Of Keisha J 23:55 Right Answers Versus Truth 24:14 Covenant Over Chemistry 25:10 Defining Success Together 26:52 Dropping the Mask 28:57 Reinventing After 35 31:43 Real Time Behavior Change 35:30 Comfort and Convenience Trap 36:58 Conviction in Information Age 40:25 Who Is Discipling You 43:16 Right Room Right People 44:41 Corporate Character Cost 47:08 Takeaways and Closing #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/ Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Dear Son Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up. Dear Son: Are You Shackled to Your Past? Fatherhood, Forgiveness & Breaking Cycles In this live, unscripted episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac lead a candid conversation on the topic “Dear Son, you will always be shackled to your past,” exploring how past mistakes and family history shape identity, parenting, and relationships. They discuss using the past as a navigation tool rather than a prison, the duty of demonstrating change, and whether others get to decide when they’re “over” what you did. Audience members share stories about parenting older vs. younger kids, childhood trauma passed down from parents, rebuilding after incarceration, and how unforgiveness can keep people bound. The hosts emphasize accountability without labeling someone by their mistakes, encourage setting boundaries and having hard conversations, and challenge listeners to release people they’ve been holding hostage to the past. 00:00 Unscripted Show Setup 00:29 Welcome and Live Energy 01:57 Tonight’s Topic Past Shackles 03:30 Past Shaping Fatherhood 05:57 Absentee Dad Two Paths 09:22 Remorse With Older Kids 10:45 Audience Advice Parenting Never Stops 14:16 Shackled vs In Touch 15:30 Who Sets The Timeframe 17:00 Breaking Generational Shackles 20:32 Unforgiveness and Self Forgiveness 23:13 Who Benefits From Shackles 27:09 Tank vs Healing Sensitivity 29:44 Life As A Retakeable Test 30:04 Release Your Errors 30:28 Learn From Everyone 31:28 Unshackling Dad 36:17 Mistakes Aren't Identity 37:55 Parenting Without Trauma 45:34 Know Each Kid 47:14 Conversations Break Cycles 49:07 Humor Anger and Growth 52:58 Release and Reconnect 53:47 Disrupt to Break Cycles 57:54 Final Thanks and Outro #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy