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In this episode, we dive deep into what we love (and don't love) about 18 years of marriage. From vulnerability and commitment to the reality that marriage isn't always a fairytale, we keep it 100% real. We also explore a Morgan Stanley study predicting that by 2030, nearly half of US women ages 25-44 will be single and child-free. Is this progress or a challenge to tradition? We discuss why younger generations are making different choices, the origins of marriage as an institution, and why personal choice should always come first. Plus: arranged marriages, the pressure to conform, and why it's okay to "swipe till you die" if that's your choice. Marriage isn't for everyone—and that's perfectly fine. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, we dive deep into a controversial topic that sparked some heated debate between us: "Signs A Woman Couldn't Keep A Good Man If She Had One." What We Discuss: Confusing disrespect with honesty and communication stylesDouble standards in relationships and how we speak to our partnersThe difference between stability and drama in relationshipsUsing vulnerability as a weapon during argumentsSelf-sabotage and why some people are uncomfortable with healthy relationshipsThe importance of accountability and self-awarenessBreaking generational patterns and healing from past traumaLearning to love yourself before loving someone elseKey Takeaways: This isn't just about women or men—it's about recognizing toxic patterns that prevent us from maintaining healthy relationships. We explore how childhood experiences, modeling behavior, and unhealed trauma can create cycles that sabotage good relationships. The conversation gets real about the hard work required to change patterns, the fear of vulnerability, and why being alone with yourself is essential before being with someone else. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica reflect on aging and celebrate Marcus's milestone birthday, turning 45. They discuss how fashion, technology, and social media shape our lives and relationships across generations. Join the conversation for honest takes, laughs, and real talk about growing older and staying true to yourself. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica dive into the shifting attitudes of Gen Z and Gen Alpha toward marriage, relationships, and growing up in a tech-driven world. From viral news clips to personal parenting stories, the crew unpacks why today’s teens are less interested in tying the knot, how technology and COVID have changed social lives, and what the future of love and family might look like—including the rise of AI relationships! Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Ever wondered why some women find taken men more attractive? In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica dive into a fascinating study on attraction psychology, exploring why women might be drawn to men who are already in relationships. They unpack the science, share personal stories, and debate the roles of stability, competition, and social proof in modern dating. From the impact of family dynamics to the evolution of side pieces, this candid conversation covers it all—with plenty of laughs and real talk along the way. Whether you agree or disagree, you’ll find something to think about! Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica Truant dive into the surprising topic of whether couples should sleep in separate rooms. Inspired by a Japanese study showing lower divorce rates among couples who sleep in separate rooms. They debate Western romantic norms, the impact of sleep quality on relationships, and the cultural pressures that shape our expectations of marriage. With humor and honesty, they share personal stories, challenge societal myths, and explore how prioritizing rest and individuality might actually strengthen a partnership. Tune in for a lively, insightful conversation that might change the way you think about love, sleep, and what it means to be truly connected. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica discuss a survey claiming that couples who communicate everything divorce three times faster than those who strategically keep some things to themselves. They delve into the dynamics of honesty, oversharing, and strategic communication in relationships. They examine the impact of both transparency and discretion on long-term marital success, touching on topics such as personal experiences, societal expectations, and the evolving landscape of male vulnerability and mental health. They explore whether keeping some secrets might actually be essential for a healthy relationship. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a viral post of a man who went on a solo vacation because his girlfriend couldn’t afford it. Was he in the wrong for leaving her behind? Check out this latest episode of TrulyUnruly. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the emotional journey of sending their oldest daughter off to college, reflecting on their roles as parents and the transitions that come with it. They share the challenges and joys of parenting, the evolution of their identities as their kids grow older, and the unique perspectives of millennial parents. The conversation also touches on fashion choices and societal expectations as they navigate aging and self-expression. Ultimately, the episode highlights the importance of embracing change and the beauty of personal growth. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode of Truly Unruly, hosts Marcus and Jessica have a lively discussion about relationships, attraction, and the complexities of human interaction. They explore the idea of 'reckless eyeballing' and its implications in romantic relationships, the dynamics of attraction, and how ego plays a role in perceptions of loyalty and commitment. The conversation also touches on the perspectives of infidelity and the controversial statements made by Paul Pierce regarding his marriage.  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

A woman goes viral for saying that she divorced her husband because she didn’t agree to stay if he went broke. Marcus and Jessica delve into this story to discuss what some refer to as the “transactional marriage.” Do you think she’s wrong for leaving him?  Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a viral video of a woman who is upset that her ex won't buy shoes for all her kids. She's upset that her son came home with new shoes but none for the other kids. Does she have a right to feel this way? Also, we touch on the ever-so-controversial P. Diddy trial.    Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a guy traveling outside the United States for work. He notices the stark differences between dating American women and foreign women. He claims that American women are more surface-level compared to their foreign counterparts. Do you agree? Listen now for this intriguing conversation. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

The age-old question; is age nothing but a number? This week Marcus and Jessica discuss that timeless question. Is it ok to date someone half your age? Should it be normalized? Or is someone older and wiser taking advantage of someone young and naive? Marcus and Jessica answer all those questions on this episode of Truly Unruly. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Are diets racist, too? That’s what some say in a new viral video making its way around the Internet. Marcus and Jessica dive in on the controversial video. Plus, the couple shares their thoughts on celebrating 17 years of Marriage. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast