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Jill ushers in the end of an era as she decides to close the Be YOU chapter, bringing the podcast to a heartfelt close with this emotional episode in which Jill reflects on the podcast's journey over the last 5+ years and thanks those who have been part of it. Jill discusses what it means to end something beautiful without drama or a backup plan but just because it feels right. She shares why closing the podcast isn't a loss but rather an example of everything she has taught and lived these past few years: surrender, trust, and honoring intuition. Listen in as Jill reflects on the unexpected support that followed this decision, and why she is finally willing to receive the acknowledgment that living this way is truly remarkable. She discusses the importance of creating art for the sake of creation, why she has never monetized this podcast in a traditional way, and what she has gained instead. Jill also gets really candid about some of the personal transformation unfolding behind the scenes: selling her home with surprising ease, shedding old identities, and sensing that she is entering a cocoon phase in which everything familiar dissolves so something more authentic can take its place. This final episode also serves as a love letter - to the women who listened every Monday, to the guests chosen purely by intuition, to Jill's production team, and to her husband who championed this show from day one. She shares why there are no final instructions, no tidy "next steps," and no attempt to leave you with a formula. Growth, after all, doesn't come from advice but rather from proximity to someone who lives it! If you have ever felt the pull to trust yourself, to release something before you are forced to, or to remember that you are already whole and don't need to be fixed, this final conversation of the podcast will absolutely meet you there. Jill closes this book but certainly not without gratitude and is truly grateful for everyone who has been supportive of the Be YOU journey! Show Notes: [1:27] - Welcome to the final episode of Be YOU as Jill chooses to own that living in surrender is remarkable! [4:10] - Jill reflects on how ending this podcast proves that she follows her body's knowing without fear. [7:09] - Hear how every guest on the show was meticulously chosen via intuition, not strategy or gain. [10:27] - Jill expresses gratitude to her production team - including but not limited to her audio editor and show notes writer. [13:13] - Jill also thanks listeners who have tuned in every single week! [15:31] - Jill admits that making art for its own sake healed her more than profit ever could. [18:02] - For Jill, closing the podcast feels like finishing a book and trusting what comes next. [21:15] - Although it isn't set totally in stone yet, Jill announces that she is selling her house. [24:18] - Hear how synchronicities and surrender guide Jill's life much more than logic ever could. [27:49] - Hear how Jill is undergoing a profound transformation led entirely by intuition. [29:53] - Jill reveals that she is willingly entering a cocoon so that she can release energy and emerge refreshed and anew. [33:19] - Jill recommends Cathy Heller's podcast. [34:05] - In closing, Jill reminds listeners that they are already whole, so trust your intuition, and fully be yourself. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

In this week's episode of Be YOU, Jill really reaches a turning point in the 2026 Year of the Firehorse series: the moment in which we are shedding what no longer serves us. Over the past eight weeks, the podcast has been clearing space, confronting discomfort, and removing ourselves from the expectations, patterns, and attachments that hold us back, and now, we move into claiming the life that we have been imagining - honestly, vividly, and without apology! Jill imagines with her listeners Saturdays that unfold effortlessly, Mondays that begin with presence and intention, and moments that are truly filled with freedom, connection, and quiet joy. She pictures herself along with listeners in the mirror - comfortable, confident, fully inhabiting their bodies - while also honoring their own sense of style, strength, and self-love. From the clothes that we wear to the meals that we really love, the relationships that we cultivate, and even our connection to money and abundance, nothing is off-limits in this discussion. Every detail truly does matter, and everything is given voice! Listeners of the show are also encouraged to slow down and feel the process in stages, similar to easing into a pool, breathing through the initial shock and eventually recognizing that this space, this frequency of desire, is now their natural state. What does your ideal home look like? Who surrounds you? How do you move through your career or creative pursuits? What intimacy, pleasure, and freedom do you allow yourself to experience? By the end of the episode, Be YOU listeners are invited to dive deeply into their visions, merging them with the clarity, courage, and intention that they have been building! Jill explains how the energy of the Year of the Firehorse - fast, wise, and powerful - supports this major change, helping us all root deeply in our knowing while remaining disconnected from outside pressures, so whether you are a longtime listener of the show or are joining for the first time near the end, this episode of Be YOU is a chance to witness, speak, and inhabit the life that you have already been ready to claim! Show Notes: [1:27] - After clearing out what no longer serves us, it's now time for us to declare desires that we've been too afraid to voice! [3:47] - By easing in slowly, we can more fully feel change and realize that we already belong there. [6:10] - Describe your ideal life aloud in vivid detail, as if sharing freely with a trusted friend. [9:56] - Jill encourages us to imagine an ideal Monday filled with ease, gratitude, intention, and meaningful work or rest. [12:26] - Jill argues for radical honesty, pointing out that it reveals that self-love - not perfection - defines your ideal body and life. [15:52] - Jill encourages us to admire ourselves, nourish our bodies, follow joyful movement, and name the feeling that we want the most. [18:08] - Envision your ideal home, relationships, and intimacy by vividly describing how your perfect life feels. [21:00] - Jill explains how to explore your ideal relationship with money, daily life, and friendships via fearless, detailed imagination. [24:05] - Reflect, move, breathe, and embody your desires until they feel fully integrated within you! [27:40] - Trust your inner knowing in the year of the horse without rushing or surrendering your grounded confidence. [30:18] - Jill announces that the next episode is the final episode but reminds listeners that Be YOU will soon be re-airing on YouTube. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

As the Year of the Firehorse approaches and Jill continues with this miniseries, she invites listeners into a powerful pause - one that doesn't rush toward what's next but first asks what must be left behind. This episode centers on a bold question: what are you truly done with? Not the polite answers, not the socially acceptable ones, but the truths that you feel in your body when no one else is watching. Jill explains why clarity around what no longer fits is the necessary doorway to creating a life that actually feels like yours! Throughout this discussion, Jill brings in her usual blend of reflection, humor, and raw honesty as she challenges the idea that obligation equals alignment, and she explores how fear hides inside "shoulds," old identities, habits, and even relationships, and why releasing them isn't selfish but is rather essential. From body image and health to money, work, and the invisible pressure of other people's opinions, she offers some grounded examples of what it can look like to draw a line and say, "No more." Listeners are encouraged to journal, visualize, and examine every corner of their lives as if watching a movie, noticing where they've been been neglecting their own truths. Jill also shares a very personal reveal: after nearly five and a half years and over 300 episodes, she has decided to end the Be YOU podcast. This choice didn't come from burnout or strategy but rather from the same inner guidance that she has been teaching all along, and she speaks openly about what it means to follow a calling that makes no sense on paper but feels unmistakably right in the body. The decision, she says, is part of an even bigger change - one of reclaiming herself and funneling her creative energy into a new chapter of her life! This episode of Be YOU is not about chasing a "new year, new you" fantasy but is rather about courage, honesty, and the freedom that comes from living in alignment. Before next week's vision-setting episode, Jill asks listeners to get very clear about what they are ready to release because the life that you want can't fully come into being while you're still holding onto what no longer belongs! Show Notes: [1:30] - Preparing for the Firehorse year starts by releasing what we're done with and choosing readiness over fear. [4:42] - Imagine judgment disappearing, and notice what your body wants to release as you clear physical and emotional space! [7:11] - Hear how Jill authors her one life by releasing fear-based roles and taking small steps toward true freedom. [10:03] - Living in alignment allows what's meant for you to flow easily while misalignment quietly leads to regret. [13:13] - Jill argues for honoring what you want by boldly declaring what you're done with and choosing a new way of being. [16:21] - Jill encourages visualizing misaligned parts falling away and then examining every life area to decide what no longer belongs. [19:26] - Hear how an old childhood program still whispers about others' opinions, even when Jill consciously doesn't care. [22:33] - Jill watching her life like a movie revealed that she is truly done with the podcast after five transformative years. [25:04] - Jill believes that when a choice feels illogical yet deeply aligned, that's how she knows that it's probably the correct choice. [26:18] - For Jill, calling all of herself back means closing this channel and redirecting her energy toward writing and self-reclamation. [29:31] - Even though the podcast will no longer have live episodes, it will live on as a complete YouTube archive! Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.  

Join Jill this week as she ushers in February, reminding us that it's still the Year of the Snake and that many of us are shedding which can truly be a challenging process. Rather than rushing to set intentions for the Year of the Fire Horse, she instead invites listeners to slow down and notice what is ready to fall away before the next chapter begins. This episode centers on a simple but powerful premise: we don't move forward cleanly without first naming what we're done carrying, and Jill offers a guided list of questions for listeners to ask themselves designed to help them identify what they are committed to releasing, even if part of them is still afraid to let go. She shares a small set of life categories to focus the process: people/relationships, money, physical health, self-image, and sex, and for each of them, she provides reflective prompts meant to reveal patterns, obligations, and stories that no longer feel true. Listeners are encouraged to look honestly at relationships that feel neutral or obligatory, not just the ones that are obviously draining. Jill also challenges the idea of "mindless" spending, reframing money as energy and asking what might change if we were more aware of that. She explores extremes in physical health - both neglect and rigid control - and encourages a gentler relationship with the body. In a candid closing section, she also names sex, desire, and pleasure as areas many people postpone or avoid, urging listeners to release shame, obligation, and silence. Throughout this episode, Jill highlights that this is not about fixing or forcing change. It's about witnessing what comes up with compassion and without judgment. The act of naming, she suggests, is often what allows something to complete and release. This conversation sets the tone for the weeks ahead – much less about striving for what's next and much more about making space by honoring what's ready to be shed! Show Notes: [1:28] - Last week's episode reconnected listeners and leads back into the February Fire Horse transition. [2:23] - Jill reassures listeners that many feel stuck in limbo during the Snake's final shed. [5:07] - Jill introduces reflection categories to identify what feels outdated and/or ready for release. [7:45] - Hear how mindless spending and fear around money are energetic patterns which she challenges listeners to shed. [9:07] - Jill invites listeners to let go of being too strict or too careless with their physical health and to find balance. [10:10] - Hear how desire, sex, and pleasure are reclaimed by shedding shame, obligation, and rigid routines. [11:20] - Listeners are invited to witness themselves with compassion and to choose authenticity over judgment and/or pressure. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

It's the end of January, and Jill is here to pause the momentum of her current New Year series to offer something a little bit different – an invitation to stop and ask for help. After weeks of reflecting on 2025, easing into 2026, and clearing physical and emotional clutter, Jill introduces a "pattern interrupt" or a week devoted not to doing more but rather to opening ourselves to guidance from whatever each of us understands as infinite love, source energy, God, or support beyond ourselves. Jill highlights that every person has a sovereign relationship with their own form of guidance and that the language which we use is far less important than the willingness to ask. Jill also shares how reading the book Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe unexpectedly unlocked a shift for her, not by teaching her anything new but by affirming a way of living that she already takes on: being receptive to messages via everyday experiences, strangers, nature, and intuition. She reflects on the difference between trusting intuition and constantly seeking external validation and how she previously believed that she didn't need "signs" because she trusted her intuition. She shares, however, her surprise at having realized that asking for specific, clear signs isn't about doubt or testing the universe but rather about play, curiosity, and expanding our relationship with guidance from the universe. Jill explores reasons why so many of us miss signs even when they're right in front of us (stress, disconnection, nervous system overload, and lack of trust), and she offers some practical ways to create the right conditions for receiving guidance whether through journaling, quiet time, prayer, or simply being more present. This episode of the podcast is sure to set the tone for what's coming next in the series: releasing what no longer fits, naming what we're done with, and making room for what we truly want for 2026! Show Notes: [1:28] - Jill asks listeners to rate and review the podcast because it helps others find it. [3:06] - At January's end, Jill feels proud of the podcast and credits her commitment to it, not the message. [5:30] - Jill encourages listeners to name what we want and release what we won't carry. [8:25] - Together, we clear clutter, voice what we're done with, then call in our desires. [10:17] - Jill asks listeners to pause and seek guidance without rigid spiritual labels. [13:21] - Jill shares how signs affirmed her spirituality, though guidance feels different now that she is away from nature. [16:09] - Hear how the book Signs showed Jill that guidance doesn't always require learning anything new. [19:17] - Jill realized that she could ask directly for specific signs instead of relying solely on intuition. [22:38] - After asking for signs about her grandson, Jill received immediate, unmistakable confirmations made entirely of rocks. [26:07] - Jill explains that seeing signs requires nervous system regulation, trust, and creating conditions that support intuitive awareness. [29:09] - This pause invites playful openness to guidance, which Jill believes is always available to us. [31:57] - Here is to 2026! Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

Jill returns to talking about the New Year this episode as she reframes the start of the year by separating what the calendar says from what the body, spirit, and nervous system are actually experiencing. While the 1st of January might mark a date change as per the Gregorian calendar, Jill explains why she doesn't energetically follow it and how aligning with the lunar calendar reveals that many of us are still finishing the work of the previous year. If January has felt heavy, confusing, or unexpectedly intense, Jill offers a compassionate perspective on why delayed emotional "shedding" could be surfacing now. Jill also gets a little personal and reflects on her word for 2025 – freedom. She discusses the unexpected way that it manifested for her: through saying goodbye. She shares what it looked like to release fantasies, roles, and relationships that she was holding together through hope rather than truth. With vulnerable honesty, she opens up about long-term family estrangement, the grief of letting go of a beloved home and era of life, and the moment when she realized that freedom sometimes requires releasing the dream that things will change. It's not about bitterness or giving up but is rather about choosing reality over self-abandonment. She also revisits the idea of "wintering" as an active phase, not a passive one, and explains why this slower season is incredibly important preparation for what's ahead. She offers grounded ways to work with this energy such as purging physical clutter, creating space in your calendar, gently moving your body, and examining relationships that may be held together by guilt or obligation. Rather than forcing goals or resolutions, Jill invites listeners to focus on the feeling that they truly want to experience. Jill warmly reminds listeners in this episode that space is not emptiness and that letting go can very much be the doorway to what comes next! Show Notes: [1:46] - Hear how Jill prefers to follow a lunar rhythm, viewing current overwhelm as delayed shedding from last year. [4:42] - Instead of resisting wintering energy, Jill allows a quiet pause before inevitable forward movement. [7:21] - Reflecting on 2025, Jill emphasizes lessons, gratitude, and recognizing its unexpected theme: saying goodbye. [9:16] - For Jill, freedom became possible only through letting go of certain relationships, illusions, and long, loving goodbyes. [11:15] - Jill opens up about how the deepest farewell was releasing the dream that estrangement with a family member would someday be repaired. [13:20] - For Jill, letting go also meant ending overgiving, initiating less, and accepting some people's commitment to misunderstanding. [15:03] - Hear how Jill's letting go created freedom, unexpected friendships, and new beginnings aligned with her true 2025 theme. [18:11] - This season for Jill is about intentional preparation - purging clutter and gentle body movement. [20:48] - Hear how daily grounding practices now prevent future pressure while also leading to physical, emotional, and energetic space. [23:47] - Jill asserts that healthy relationships flow without guilt, tests, or forcing, and require courageously reclaiming time and energy. [25:52] - Jill closes by honoring listeners and encouraging surrender, slowness, breathing deeply, and releasing what doesn't belong. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

We are halfway through January already, and Jill invites listeners into a gentler, more intentional way of approaching the new year, one that says no to urgency, pressure, and the push to immediately produce results. Speaking to both longtime listeners and those who are just finding the show, she reintroduces her idea of "wintering": a conscious pause marked by rest, quiet, and reflection as an active, not a passive, practice. She shares how choosing not to rush forward has already begun to shift things for her in really big ways. Via some personal stories, including a recent loss and a challenging family moment, Jill reflects on what it looks like to choose love, forgiveness, and self-trust when discomfort would be easier, and she explores how small, values-based choices (especially those that are rooted in compassion rather than fear) can redirect the course of our lives. Rather than framing outcomes as rewards or punishments, she describes them as the natural flow of how we show up, what we plant, and what we're willing to claim. This heartfelt episode of the podcast also touches on Jill's ongoing work with nontraditional healing methods and the clarity that emerged from a recent session, leading her to make an unexpected decision that would seem to go against logic but feels undeniably right in her heart. Throughout the episode, she gently challenges listeners to consider whether honoring their own alignment might actually be an act of service rather than selfishness. Jill also encourages those listening in to sit with uncertainty, boredom, and the space between decisions - trusting that something meaningful can reveal itself there without being forced. She then closes with a spontaneous crystal alchemy singing bowl sound bath. This is a truly reflective and especially intimate episode of Be YOU that you will not want to miss! Show Notes: [2:10] - "Wintering" via rest and quiet is an active, powerful alternative to rushing the new year. [5:33] - Jill views outcomes as the fruit of chosen actions, not rewards or punishments. [8:08] - Listeners are invited to "winter" by honoring soul-aligned choices and trusting what can't yet be seen. [10:45] - Jill puts forth the idea that growth comes from pausing after release and allowing for mystery. [13:42] - Hear how, for Jill, surrender revealed self-advocacy that signaled that the new year had already begun. [16:26] - The episode closes with a crystal singing bowl sound bath. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.    

This episode of the podcast truly sets the tone for what's ahead: a slower, more intentional start to 2026 that is grounded in truth, humor, reflection, and trust, so if you have ever felt pressure to rush forward before you're ready, then this conversation will feel like permission to breathe. Jill welcomes everyone to the first episode of 2026! Tune in as she opens up with a heartfelt welcome and a moment of celebration after discovering Spotify Wrapped named the show a 2025 marathon show, fan favorite, and one of the most shared podcasts of the year! Jill breaks down what those numbers actually mean (nearly 1,000% growth in new listeners, increased followers, and global reach) while grounding the win in gratitude for the community and team behind the scenes! Jill's conversation then shifts into something far more personal, with her reflecting on a holiday season that didn't look the way she expected: a Christmas without her family home, without beloved decorations, with illness, only fragments of time with all five kids together, etc., and she shares how those changes stirred old childhood wounds that she points out are tied to scarcity, safety, and control. She also discusses how the loss of aesthetic rituals revealed just how much they mattered to her, not out of perfectionism but as a form of healing and self-expression! Jill also features stories of last-minute wrapping paper, forced "Christmas Eve," and learning to laugh at herself when things fall apart, and she revisits her now-signature practice of closing out a year intentionally, explaining why she doesn't rush into January 1st as a clean slate. Jill discusses slowing down, reflecting, releasing, and allowing the year to end on a proper note before welcoming the next. She draws from lunar rhythms, personal intuition, and years of guiding others through this process, and rather than resolutions or hustle, Jill invites listeners into stillness, clarity, and boundaries as preparation for the coming year of the Fire Horse! Show Notes: [0:08] - Jill welcomes listeners, shares a Wrapped surprise, and celebrates five years and over 300 episodes. [3:16 - Hear how Spotify crowned Be YOU Podcast a 2025 favorite! [5:22] - Jill explains how a 13% follower increase shows intentional loyalty and global reach. [8:07] - Jill reminds us that holidays are messy, social media lies, and envy dissolves when there is truth. [11:35] - Jill discusses how Christmas felt strange because she lacked her home. [14:46] - Giving defines Jill, but lost traditions and fractured schedules quietly deepened the holiday sadness for her. [17:25] - Hear how Christmas felt chaotic for Jill even though she embraced imperfect moments and reflected on her love for aesthetics. [20:28] - Jill accepted what she couldn't control, finding meaning and joy despite a messy holiday. [22:56] - Last week's episode replay can help listeners anchor lessons, release burdens, and close the year consciously! [25:35] - January is for slow reflection, preparing thoughtfully for 2026 instead of ushing forward. [28:50] - Jill elaborates on how the year of the fire horse signals growth, intensity, and embracing life's expansion. [30:10] - Hear how Jill eased into the new year gradually, reflecting deeply, letting go, and trusting her soul's guidance. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

Merch and apparel is now available through an exclusive collaboration with Confetti & Cloth Boutique! Comfortable and stylish sweatshirts, hats, coffee mugs, and more! Available while supplies last. Find them on Instagram, Facebook, and their website! Sales end on January 10th, 2026 at midnight, so be sure to grab your Be YOU apparel while you still can! To close out 2025, Jill is replaying episode 258 from last year. Before diving into the replay, though, she spends some time reflecting on how she's come to reject the traditional idea of January 1st as a strict "new year" and instead embraces a more mindful approach. For Jill, the end of December is a time to pause, reflect, and honor your rhythms rather than chase resolutions or expectations. She shares that over the past five years, she's aligned more with the lunar calendar's timing and has found value in winter as a season for rest, inward reflection, and acceptance. Looking ahead to 2026, Jill highlights refinement over resolutions, describing it as a year of powerful energy and momentum. She recounts the personal and professional shedding, shifts, and deep trust that 2025 gave her, including stepping back from work, grieving her father, and embracing meaningful relationships with her soul tribe. Jill also touches upon the importance of honoring boundaries, self-care, and reflection during the holidays and beyond, stressing that pausing, releasing, and celebrating lessons learned are so important to entering the new year with gratitude, clarity, and purpose. Jill then replays last year's episode, in which she invites listeners into a reflective space to close out 2024. She, as she does this year, highlights the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and honoring the lessons learned over the year. The replay episode offers a calming ritual to help listeners pause, breathe, and consider their personal experiences from the past year, with Jill guiding listeners in creating a clean slate for the following year by exploring practical ways to process the year such as reviewing old photos to sorting experiences into lessons, things to let go of, and cherished memories to hold onto. Listen in for a blend of guidance and gentle encouragement to close the year with heart and intention, and don't forget that time is running out to snag your Be YOU apparel! Also keep in mind that Jill will be hosting an upcoming retreat - the More of Me retreat - offering a deep dive into self-discovery. Head to jillherman.com for more details! Show Notes: [0:00] - Jill embraces reflection over resolutions, honoring personal timing instead of January 1st expectations. [4:15] - Hear why Jill has chosen to rerun episode 258, finding reflection a meaningful way to close the year. [7:59] - 2026 is the year of the fire horse and promises bold, visible energy, inviting action, leadership, and grounded preparation in January! [6:08] - Jill cautions that Be YOU merch will only be available until January 10th at midnight! [10:39] - Hear how Jill has used pauses to navigate grief, trust, and life transitions. [13:29] - Jill reflects on having shed unbalanced patterns, discovering her soul tribe, and witnessing personal and family transitions. [16:13] - Jill also reflects on the five-year anniversary BeYOULive event. [19:05] - Jill stresses the importance of post-holiday self-care, boundaries, and intentional moments to recharge for the new year. [22:16] - Hear how Jill begins the year by reflecting and releasing during the winter before stepping into anything new. [25:20] - Releasing the past and celebrating lessons learned attracts more love and clarity in the new year. [27:28] - Jill argues that pausing to reflect ensures a smoother, more intentional start to the upcoming year. [30:11] - Jill recommends creating a personal ritual, reviewing photos, and approaching year-end reflection with intention. [33:03] - Jill guides grounding via deep breathing and listing significant events over the year. [35:55] - Inviting spiritual support, Jill encourages presence, observation, and reflection before documenting key experiences. [38:29] - Jill reviews her own year milestones, personal growth, family moments, and profound experiences that she might have forgotten. [42:11] - Jill guides listeners through categorizing experiences into lessons learned, things to release, and moments to anchor emotionally. [44:37] - Burning your list and moving the body can help release the year and close it fully. [47:34] - Hear how reflecting revealed a packed year, with boundaries, play, and focus shaping Jill's growth. [50:53] - Jill explains how rituals can help release self-judgment, honor all emotions, and enter the new year unburdened. [54:44] - Jill ultimately encourages holding onto small joys, expressing gratitude, and returning to love and self-trust. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

Merch and apparel is now available through an exclusive collaboration with Confetti & Cloth Boutique! Comfortable and stylish sweatshirts, hats, coffee mugs, and more! Available while supplies last. Find them on Instagram, Facebook, and their website! Jill's episode for you this week is a brief, heartfelt check-in that is perhaps perfectly timed for the current holiday season! Listen in as she opens up about a sudden family health crisis - her mother-in-law, usually healthy, having fallen seriously ill and spending several days on a ventilator. Amidst the worry and unpredictability, Jill brings listeners into a personal conversation about presence, perspective, and finding grounding even when life throws curveballs! Jill reminds listeners that holidays rarely unfold perfectly according to plan. Rituals and traditions can anchor us, but they aren't always enough when unexpected challenges come up. She encourages listeners to step out of the comparison game - the "should haves" and "could haves" - and to instead find safety and calm within ourselves. Breathing, pausing, and acknowledging the moment can transform how we experience the holidays, even when circumstances aren't what we had hoped. Drawing from her own experiences, Jill also shares a simple but powerful lesson about embracing spontaneity. A plan to enjoy Christmas lights with her grandson didn't go as as the Norman Rockwell perfection she had imagined - no hot cocoa, just the joy they found together which far exceeded her expectations. It's truly never too late to create meaningful holiday experiences, even if they're different from what you had envisioned! This episode of Be YOU also, of course, explores the metaphor of the pearl born from irritation inside an oyster. Jill reflects on how challenges, pain, and unexpected disruptions can produce something beautiful when we face them fully, acknowledging and working through the difficulties rather than avoiding them. The pearls aren't the pain itself but rather what emerges when we engage with it consciously! Listeners of the show are invited to reflect on their own "pearls" this holiday season and to approach the coming year with awareness and gratitude, and Jill signs off with warm holiday wishes and a preview of the annual year-end episode, where she'll guide listeners in uncovering the lessons, growth, and gifts of 2025 before stepping into the new year! Also, don't forget - Jill will be hosting an upcoming retreat - the More of Me retreat - offering a deep dive into self-discovery. Head to jillherman.com for more details! Show Notes: [1:29] - Jill opens up about a family health crisis and encourages finding safety and calm within oneself. [4:52] - Jill models embracing spontaneity and finding joy in imperfect holiday moments such as unexpected Christmas lights. [6:59] - Jill reminds listeners that it's never too late to savor small, meaningful holiday experiences. [8:20] - When acknowledged, pain and challenges can transform into something beautiful, like a pearl forming. [10:33] - Jill invites reflection on life's "pearls" and previews the annual episode celebrating lessons from 2025. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

Merch and apparel is now available through an exclusive collaboration with Confetti & Cloth Boutique! Comfortable and stylish sweatshirts, hats, coffee mugs, and more! Available while supplies last. Find them on Instagram, Facebook, and their website! This week, Jill brings back one of the most downloaded episodes in the history of the show, episode 15 titled "Bad Mutha" from 2020, long before she really had any idea what this podcast would become. She shares how she didn't reread or rework it and how that is honestly part of the point. She was overwhelmed, anxious, and convinced that she was screwing everything up as a mom, but now, five years later, after a whole lot of therapy, journaling, and soul-searching, she has realized that the guilt that she felt then is the same guilt so many of us are still carrying now. In this replay episode, you will hear Jill wrestle with the old stories that she used to tell herself such as the story that she was a bad mom, that every mistake was permanent, that other mothers were doing it "right" while she was just keeping her head above water. You'll also hear the moments that still tug at her heart such as the night that she chose a spotless kitchen over watching a Star Wars movie with her daughter, memories that she has replayed endlessly as if punishing herself could rewrite them. However, this episode is about naming what's actually underneath mom guilt: perfectionism, comparison, and the old wounds which we drag into adulthood without even realizing it. It's about understanding why we cling to the belief that we're failing, even when the evidence says otherwise, and it is, of course, about the uncomfortable truth that guilt doesn't make us better mothers; it only teaches our kids to carry the same shame that we're trying to outrun. Jill encourages listeners to remember that every parent has their private struggles, no matter how shiny their family looks from the outside. Every child grows through their own challenges, and every mother, whether she believes it or not, is doing the absolute best she can with the tools that she has, so if mom guilt has been background noise for you or if you're ready to let go of the impossible standards that have followed you for years, this revisited episode will meet you exactly where you are! Also, don't forget - Jill will be hosting an upcoming retreat - the More of Me retreat - offering a deep dive into self-discovery. Head to jillherman.com for more details! Show Notes: [1:31] - This episode is a replay of episode 15 of the podcast, titled "Bad Mutha." [5:04] - This episode is all about mom guilt. [7:11] - Jill admits that she long believed that guilt made her a bad mother. [10:54] - Jill realized that her "bad mom" narrative was not offering her truth. [13:32] - Jill shares a story of how a missed movie with her daughter still reminds her of how her anxiety misguides choices. [15:58] - Unspoken stress led Jill's daughter to feel disappointed and hurt. [17:20] - Jill recognizes that her haunting memories are exaggerated guilt that she can't rewrite. [20:07] - Perfection is impossible, and self punishing stories aren't reality. [22:11] - Hear how Jill realized that unresolved personal issues amplified comparison and perfectionism, intensifying guilt unnecessarily. [24:29] - Jill rewrote her story, collecting evidence of love to take on guilt and perfectionism. [26:59] - Comparing ourselves to other parents steals our peace because everyone struggles behind closed doors. [28:46] - Jill discusses how perfectionism exploits unresolved wounds, making parents feel inadequate despite their efforts. [30:37] - Healing needs to involve inward reflection, honest conversations, apologies, and self-forgiveness to move forward. [33:09] - Jill argues that real mothering comes from self-healing, not guilt, so that children experience joy and wholeness. [35:13] - Hear how observing a highly present mother reignited Jill's anxieties, despite her own progress in parenting. [37:10] - Jill chose self forgiveness after realizing that her parenting evidence showed love rather than failure. [39:07] - Jill reminds parents that their guilt reflects perfectionism, not the reality of their kids' futures. [42:11] - Jill found freedom by accepting her children's independence and releasing expectations driven by perfectionism. [45:52] - Kids' choices reflect their own paths, not parental failure or shame. [49:34] - Jill encourages moms listening to journal guilt and affirm their worth on a daily basis. [53:04] - Jill also encourages sharing these reflections with friends! Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! 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Merch and apparel is now available through an exclusive collaboration with Confetti & Cloth Boutique for Black Friday! Comfortable and stylish sweatshirts, hats, coffee mugs, and more! Available while supplies last. Find them on Instagram and Facebook! Join Jill this week as she invites you to slow down with her - not "when things calm down" but right now, in these last days of the year. She kicks things off by sharing a few recent reviews that genuinely meant the world to her, including reflections from women who joined her at the recent BeYOULive event in October. Their words remind her why she shows up every week with no script, no notes, and ultimately no plan other than to be fully present and fully herself. When it comes to this episode's conversation, if you have listened to episodes 299, 301, 303, 304, and now 305, then you have likely already realized that Jill has wandered a bit into an accidental mini-series. Nothing was outlined ahead of time, yet each episode has been building on the last, first exploring what we want to feel, then what we don't want to carry into the holidays, and now shifting into something more concrete. What do you actually want to do with the rest of this month - not for your kids, not for your spouse, not for the thousand invisible jobs you take on. What do you want? Jill also shares her own words for the season - joy and, unexpectedly, "Christmas," which means something to her that she couldn't explain even if she tried. She then walks listeners through a simple practice of writing a list by hand of everything that you personally want to experience in December. They can be big things, tiny things, silly things, meaningful things, etc. Afterwards, choose five non-negotiables, things that are absolutely happening no matter what - whether the month goes smoothly or, as Jill's mom would say, "goes to hell in a handbasket." From there, Jill guides you through bringing your chosen word into each experience, documenting it, and actually acknowledging how it feels to finally put yourself back on your own list. Jill is even doing this with you herself, so if December has flown by too many years in a row, this episode is your invitation to claim even a few moments that are entirely, unapologetically yours! Also, don't forget - Jill will be hosting an upcoming retreat - the More of Me retreat - offering a deep dive into self-discovery. Head to jillherman.com for more details! Show Notes: [1:58] - Jill shares a couple of positive reviews left by listeners recently. [4:04] - Jill has realized that her recent unplanned episodes formed a mini-series building toward concrete December actions. [5:36] - Jill chooses "joy" and "Christmas" as her words and en listeners to handwrite a personal December list. [8:01] - Jill encourages listeners to list personal December wishes and to then choose five non-negotiable experiences for themselves. [11:56] - Jill encourages documenting each activity and taking note of how it felt to finally prioritize yourself. [13:07] - Listeners are asked to honor their chosen experiences and to reflect on choosing themselves. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

Merch and apparel is now available through an exclusive collaboration with Confetti & Cloth Boutique for Black Friday! Comfortable and stylish sweatshirts, hats, coffee mugs, and more! Available while supplies last. Find them on Instagram and Facebook! Listen in this week as Jill takes listeners into the final stretch of 2025! With only thirty days left in the Year of the Snake (a year defined by shedding, releasing, and uncomfortable but necessary evolution), she invites everyone to step into December with intention, and she reminds longtime listeners that her annual December 29th ritual is coming: a fresh, guided closing of the year that includes a meditation and a revisit of the photos on your camera roll. Before that episode gets here, though, Jill returns to conversations from the past few weeks, revisiting the work around holiday expectations, letting go of traditions and obligations that drain us, and imagining the season the way we've always wished it could feel. She loops back to exercises around the worries we speak aloud without realizing how much weight they carry, especially when directed at the people we love under the guise of "concern." Jill takes this concept even further, proposing a simple but effective system: two jars - one for every spoken worry, criticism, or fear masquerading as care and one for every moment we consciously choose the opposite. There is no punishment or shame, just visibility, honesty, and reinforcement. She reveals how this practice exposes the stories we cling to like childhood security blankets and how shifting those stories changes far more than our mood; it affects our energy, our relationships, and the tone of our entire day. Via personal reflection and practical suggestions, Jill encourages listeners to clean up their emotional and energetic space now, not in January. December can be steady, clear, and intentional if we're willing to actually work with what comes to the surface and allow yourself to feel everything. Also, don't forget - Jill will be hosting an upcoming retreat - the More of Me retreat - offering a deep dive into self-discovery. Head to jillherman.com for more details! Show Notes: [1:27] - Jill urges listeners to end December intentionally and skip traditional resolutions for a gentler New Year. [4:05] - Jill revisits last episode's holiday exercise returns so that we can recommit to letting go of fear and instead choosing joy. [6:51] - Jill suggests tip-jar "games" to curb speech that is based on fear and to reward healthier patterns. [9:18] - Hear how embodiment helps reduce worry by replacing mental loops with grounded nervous-system habits. [11:41] - Jill explains how childhood conditioning makes toxic behavior feel familiar, creating looped patterns as an adult. [14:44] - Negative talk influences your health, relationships, and the energy that you broadcast. [16:49] - Hear how December sometimes causes old pain to resurface. [19:34] - Jill's advice is to allow yourself to feel everything fully while balancing joy and grief without being overwhelmed. [21:23] - Jill recommends a morning gratitude prayer to feel joy and holiday presence. [25:13] - Jill recaps the episode's themes and invites listeners to shape their month with intention! Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

Merch and apparel is now available through an exclusive collaboration with Confetti & Cloth Boutique for Black Friday! Comfortable and stylish sweatshirts, hats, coffee mugs, and more! Available while supplies last. Find them on Instagram and Facebook! The holiday season is here, and Jill is also here to share her thoughts on how to avoid the holiday season being the stressful period that you probably believe it to be. Focusing particularly on Thanksgiving in the United States, she directly challenges listeners, stating that if you are tired of doing the holidays the same way every year, then it is you who has the power to make a change! Jill encourages listeners to examine your holiday routines and question whether those routines are truly serving you, and she cautions against falling into patterns of resentment, self-sacrifice, and victimhood. Jill also walks listeners through a quiet exercise to reconnect with yourselves through breath, body awareness, and intuitive movement. She suggests writing exercises to uncover what you no longer want to participate in during the holidays and then to envision your ideal holiday experience. Jill stresses the importance of believing that you deserve this, being open to receiving it, and committing to holding onto that vision. While Jill acknowledges that making changes to holiday traditions may be difficult and cause conflict with family members, she also highlights the fact that with love, clarity, and compromise, you can rewrite the holiday narrative in a way that serves you, and she encourages listeners to have the courage to say no, set boundaries, and prioritize your own needs and desires! Jill ultimately wraps it all up by expressing her belief that when listeners stop making yourselves last on the list, the holiday season will look very different (and better) than years past, and she reminds listeners that you have the power to create the holiday experience that you truly want! Also, don't forget - Jill will be hosting an upcoming retreat - the More of Me retreat - offering a deep dive into self-discovery. Head to jillherman.com for more details! Show Notes: [1:36] - Jill welcomes listeners and reminds them they already contain their best selves. [4:44] - Hear Jill discuss her raw, unscripted approach to the podcast. [6:51] - Jill urges women to claim their agency and to stop repeating holiday "obligations" that drain them. [8:59] - Unspoken resentment can destroy relationships. [11:16] - Jill invites listeners to find quiet pauses to reconnect with the body and inner guidance. [13:32] - Jill describes building intuition via silence, body awareness, and gentle movement free of judgment. [16:35] - Jill encourages listeners to free-write holiday boundaries to release tension. [19:29] - Hear how imagining detailed, desire-filled holiday scenarios increases the likelihood of you eventually creating them. [22:19] - Jill highlights the importance of claiming permission, deserving joy, and welcoming a holiday experience that you truly want! [25:29] - Jill encourages rewriting holiday patterns via boundaries, self-worth, and intentional loving action. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

Join Jill this week as she discusses the difference between someone feeling truly heard versus someone hijacking a group setting. She uses the example of a Zoom call in which two participants dominated the conversation, going on lengthy tangents instead of following the facilitator's instructions. Jill offers the possibility that such behavior is not meant to be malicious and discusses some possible reasons for it, including nervous system dysregulation, ego protection, and general lack of self-awareness. As the leader of a group, Jill stresses the importance of politely yet firmly redirecting someone who is monopolizing time and energy in order to maintain the structure of the container for the entire group, and she provides some specific suggestions for how to handle these situations with compassion. Jill also touches on the holiday season quickly approaching and promises to share tools and strategies in an upcoming episode to help listeners navigate family dynamics and personal boundaries during this time of year! She also spends a little bit of time discussing the recent in-person BeYOULive event which was the 300th episode of the podcast. She describes how she forgot to give away two of the raffle prizes at the event and reveals the winners in this episode of the show! After spinning the virtual prize wheel, Jill announces the winners of the 5-month house cleaning service and the $1,500 dinner at her favorite local restaurant! Also, don't forget - Jill will be hosting an upcoming retreat - the More of Me retreat - offering a deep dive into self-discovery. Head to jillherman.com for more details! Show Notes: [01:27] - Jill emphasizes the fact that her podcast centers on self-worth and has naturally evolved into mostly solo episodes. [03:31] - Jill reflects on having hosted her recent first ever live event. [06:55] - Jill announces prize winners from the recent BeYOULive event! [9:00] - Popular Be YOU merch, especially the green sweatshirts, will be sold through an upcoming boutique collaboration! [11:19] - Hear Jill read a recent glowing review from a listener. [12:44] - Jill is contrasting being heard with hijacking a space after witnessing two men dominate their introductions in a Zoom meeting. [15:11] - Jill suggests that over-talking can stem from nervous-system dysregulation masquerading as control. [18:10] - Jill explains that performative over-talking often reflects insecurity, masking a need to feel relevant. [20:51] - Grounded people share concisely, unlike those compensating through dominance. [22:45] - Jill argues that leaders need to gently interrupt rambling participants to protect the group's structure. [25:11] - An effective leader prioritizes the group's container over one person's comfort or ego. [27:37] - Jill suggests that if the facilitator won't reestablish structure, you can respectfully interrupt to save time. [30:33] - Jill previews some upcoming lessons on aging, boundaries, and taking on holiday pressures with self-confidence. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "I love Be You Podcast!" ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.