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Most men think money is about numbers—but money is really time. In this episode, Bob Wischer (The Relationship Engineer) breaks down why the traditional “work hard, save, retire someday” path often creates dependency and stress, and how financial freedom is better measured by cash flow and experienced through time control. You’ll learn simple retirement math using the “25x expenses” guideline, the difference between investing and speculation, and a practical decision checklist to increase upside while reducing risk and taxes. Finally, Bob gives straightforward next steps—like keeping a consistent percentage of income and assigning every dollar a job—so you can build momentum, reduce financial anxiety, and lead your marriage and family with more peace and clarity.email: [email protected]

In this episode, I talk about male loneliness in midlife, why most men have acquaintances instead of brothers, and how to build an inner circle after betrayal. You’ll get a practical Brotherhood Scorecard (reliability, consistent contact, growth check-ins, mutual investment, protective respect), plus the Brotherhood Boundaries Audit—four questions that clarify what real friendship requires.One-week challenge included: pick one man, send one real message, schedule one touchpoint, rate yourself 1–10, and choose one action item.

In theMen Becoming Better Men Season 8 finale, host Bob Wischer sits down with the legendary Dr. Robert Glover, author ofNo More Mr. Nice Guy and founder ofIntegration Nation, for a powerhouse conversation on breaking free from the "nice guy" trap, reclaiming masculinity, and building true connection. This episode is packed with game-changing insights, including:✅ WhyNo More Mr. Nice Guy has changed the lives of countless men✅ The secret sauce behind strong relationships and authentic masculinity✅ "Gloverisms" that will transform your mindset and daily interactions✅ How community is the missing piece for modern men✅ The importance of getting out of the house, expanding your route, and walking through open doors!!! (My personal favorite) We also dive intoIntegration Nation, Dr. Glover’s thriving international men’s community, and why every man needs a tribe. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, frustrated, or like you're coasting through life—this episode is your wake-up call. 💥Join the Movement:🔗Men Becoming Better Men Private Community – www.menbecomingbettermen.com🔗Integration Nation – Dr. Glover’s Community –www.integrationnation.net🔗Dr. Glover’s Books & Programs –www.drglover.com 🎧 Hit play, get ready for some tough love, and start becoming the man you were meant to be. 🚀

In this episode of the MBBM Podcast, I sit down with Jason Lang, an embodiment coach, men’s group facilitator, and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach. We tackle one of the biggest lies men tell themselves—that success, relationships, and purpose are best achieved alone. Jason shares his personal journey from social anxiety to leadership, why men’s groups are essential for growth, and the hidden costs of trying to be “tough” at the expense of connection. We also dive into the harsh realities of entrepreneurship, balancing purpose with financial stability, and how prioritizing brotherhood can transform every aspect of a man's life. If you've ever struggled with feeling disconnected, stuck, or unsure about your next move, this conversation is for you. Connect with Jason Lang & His Work: www.evolutionary.men and on Instagram @evolutionarymen Join the Men Becoming Better Men Community: Click Here Learn More About MVP Coaching & Book a Call: MenBecomingBetterMen.com 🚀 Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review to help more men find this life-changing content!

Welcome back to the Men Becoming Better Men Podcast, where we tackle the real struggles men face—losing connection with your spouse, feeling like a stranger in your own life, and wrestling with self-discipline when no one's watching. This week, I sit down with Mark Collins, founder of Freedom for Life and author of Life Mastery: Living Life by Design, Not Default. Mark has helped countless men overcome self-doubt, fear of failure, and imposter syndrome to unlock their full potential. ✅ Why many men feel like they’re living by default instead of by design✅ The biggest lie men believe about success, relationships, and purpose✅ How to stop medicating against a life you don’t like and take back control✅ The role of childhood identity wounds in shaping your self-worth✅ How to bet on yourself one more time and refuse to settle If you’ve ever felt stuck, unfulfilled, or like you're faking it, this conversation is for you. Mark shares powerful insights on identity, leadership, and purpose that will challenge the way you think about success. 🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned:📖 Grab Mark’s book, Life Mastery: Living Life by Design, Not Default – Download here📩 Connect with Mark: [email protected]🌎 Visit Mark’s website: freedom-for-life.net🌟 Join the Men Becoming Better Men Community: menbecomingbettermen.com and https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen/ 👊 Remember, until next time: We’re shoulder to shoulder, and we’re in your corner. 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review!If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe and leave a 5-star review to help more men find this content!

In this powerful episode of Men Becoming Better Men, host Bob Wischer sits down with Rick Cheatham, a retired firefighter, speaker, and transformational life coach, to uncover his extraordinary journey from addiction, betrayal, and tragedy to personal redemption and purpose. Rick shares:🔥 How a porn addiction nearly destroyed his marriage—and what saved it.🔥 The wake-up call that forced him to seek mentorship and transformation.🔥 How he and his wife rebuilt trust after betrayal and exposure.🔥 The murder of his son and the battle with forgiveness that followed.🔥 The moment he broke his neck and was left paralyzed—but found a deeper purpose.🔥 His AIM framework for overcoming adversity and reclaiming your power. Rick’s story is one of resilience, faith, and the power of transformation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or trapped by your past, this episode will challenge you to aim for a different target in life and take full ownership of your journey. 🔗 Connect with Rick Cheatham:🌎 Website: RickCheatham.com📘 Facebook: Rick Cheatham📸 Instagram: @Rickycafd 🔗 Connect with Bob Wischer & MBBM:🌎 Website: MenBecomingBetterMen.com👥 Join the Men Becoming Better Men Private Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen/ 💪 Remember, we are shoulder to shoulder and in your corner! 🎧 Listen now and take your first step toward real transformation!

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, we tackle the gut-wrenching reality of feeling alone and trapped in a life you worked so hard to build. Drawing from my personal experience of 15 years stuck in a marriage where resentment and guilt consumed me, I share the hard truths about how abandoning yourself to make others happy only leads to isolation and frustration. We explore why your family doesn’t need a “nice guy” but a leader—a man who stands firm in his values, sets boundaries, and keeps his word. I break down two powerful tools you can use today to reclaim your integrity, rebuild trust, and start leading both your family and your own life with purpose. If you’ve ever felt like you’re losing yourself in the grind of daily life, this episode will challenge you to step up and take control. Tune in and learn how to stop drifting and start leading. For a deeper dive, email me at [email protected] to schedule a complimentary Personal Alignment Session. This is your first step toward breaking free and building the life you’ve always wanted. Or join our private community for men: https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob Wischer, The Relationship Engineer, sits down with Dan Storey, a renowned author, motivational speaker, and master practitioner of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP). Dan shares his transformative journey from a competitive athlete to one of the top natural physique bodybuilders in the world. Together, they explore how understanding behavioral psychology can help men break free from limiting beliefs, regain their integrity, and rediscover their purpose. Tune in to learn actionable insights on cultivating persistence, overcoming self-doubt, and making meaningful life changes. Whether you're navigating relationship challenges, career burnout, or personal growth hurdles, this episode is packed with tools to help you thrive. http://www.danstorey.com http://www.menbecomingbettermen.com https://linktr.ee/therelationshipengineer

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob, The Relationship Engineer, sits down with Andrew Heatherly, founder of Wiser Divorce Solutions and host of The Gray Divorce Podcast. Together, they unpack the financial and emotional challenges of navigating midlife divorce and how to turn adversity into a path toward personal growth and purpose. Andrew shares actionable insights on avoiding common financial pitfalls, rebuilding social connections, and using tools like the Japanese concept of Ikigai to discover your life’s purpose. Whether you’re in the middle of a divorce or simply seeking a fresh start, this episode will equip you with the strategies to rebuild with confidence. Don't miss this powerful conversation on reclaiming your life and redefining what’s possible after setbacks. Get Your Life Together in 6 Months course: https://tr.ee/xE4ryn2DAa Private Men's Community: https://tr.ee/5kPIFlPLCu Andrew's Website: https://www.transcendretirement.net/

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men, Bob, The Relationship Engineer, dives deep with Jonathon Aslay, one of America's top midlife dating coaches and author of What the Heck is Self-Love Anyway?. They discuss the journey of self-discovery, healing from emotional wounds, and how finding purpose can transform your life. From navigating the challenges of online dating to cultivating emotional resilience, Jonathon shares powerful insights for men looking to reclaim their identity and deepen their relationships. Whether you're feeling lost in life, struggling to connect with others, or wondering how to love yourself, this episode offers actionable advice and inspiration to help you show up as the man you’re meant to be.

Feeling like you were abandoned or cast aside after divorce? You’re not alone—and there’s a way forward. In this powerful episode, Bob welcomes Josh Tomioni, coach, podcast host, and father of three, to discuss the hard truths about navigating life’s toughest transitions. From overcoming contentious divorces to rebuilding purpose and identity, Josh shares his journey of failure, healing, and rediscovery. Together, they break down the five biggest traps men face during and after divorce, from self-care neglect to unhealthy relationships, and offer actionable insights to reclaim masculinity and authenticity. Josh also reveals how embracing failure can become a badge of honor and how men can connect with their true purpose, free from societal noise. Don’t miss this raw, eye-opening conversation that will challenge and inspire you to keep moving forward. 🎧 DM “Ebook” to Josh on Instagram @TheDerelictPodcast for your free copy of his guide to overcoming divorce traps! And join the MBBM Private community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen/

In this deeply personal episode, I share my untold story of navigating a 19-year ill-fated marriage, battling depression, and losing myself to bad habits and a lack of purpose. From being out of shape and isolated to finding my true calling and rebuilding my life, I’ll walk you through the drastic changes I made to reclaim control. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a life that doesn’t align with who you are, this episode will show you that transformation is possible—and it starts with one decision. Tune in for practical insights and inspiration to take the first step toward the life you deserve. Join the private MBBM community at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/menbecomingbettermen/ And find out more about the Men Becoming Elite Men Mastermind at: https://www.menbecomingbettermen.com/general-8

In this compelling episode of Men Becoming Better Men, The Relationship Engineer sits down with Sophia Torrini, a certified neuro-change consultant and emotional freedom technique (EFT) practitioner trained by Dr. Joe Dispenza. Sophia shares her powerful journey of overcoming chronic illness and limiting beliefs to lead a purpose-driven life, helping others do the same through neuroscience, trauma-informed techniques, and reality hacking. Discover how EFT can release emotional blocks, rewire your brain, and improve mental clarity, even for the most skeptical men. Sophia also discusses the science-backed benefits of tapping, its roots in clinical trials, and how it helps shift trauma into empowerment. Whether you're stuck in a cycle of stress, battling unprocessed emotions, or seeking alignment with your life's purpose, this episode delivers actionable strategies to help you reclaim your power. Stay tuned for insights on rewriting your personal narrative and tools for becoming the man you were meant to be. 👉 Don’t forget to join our free Men Becoming Better Men community HERE

In this transformative episode of the Men Becoming Better Men podcast, The Relationship Engineer is joined by Matt Cook, a health and sex researcher with over 25 years of experience and the head of the largest alt health online university. With insights that have helped over 80,000 people, Matt dives deep into how men can reclaim their purpose, improve their relationships, and achieve peak health and vitality. Key topics include: The surprising link between purpose, sex drive, and success. How to overcome struggles with intimacy, pornography, and low testosterone. Simple lifestyle changes to boost health, motivation, and relationships. Why most relationship advice fails—and the real secret to lasting intimacy. Practical tips for creating a life of abundance and love. Matt shares actionable strategies from his new book, Masculine Maximizer, and offers insights into improving men’s physical and emotional well-being. Whether you're seeking to reignite your marriage, overcome personal struggles, or live out your life's purpose, this episode provides the roadmap to becoming the best version of yourself. Connect with Matt Cook: Website: DailyMedicalDiscoveries.com Sign up for Matt's daily newsletter and receive a free copy of Masculine Maximizer. Connect with Bob, The Relationship Engineer: Join the Men Becoming Better Men community via this LINK Follow the podcast for weekly episodes that tackle the toughest challenges men face. Visit www.menbecomingbettermen.com for more about programs and offerings Be sure to like, subscribe, and share this episode to inspire more men to live with purpose, confidence, and integrity.

In this episode of The Men Becoming Better Men Podcast, we get real about the silent struggles many men face in their marriages—constant criticism, emotional disconnection, and the toll it takes on your mental health. I share my personal story of living under relentless pressure, feeling trapped in a 14-year dead bedroom, and the path that led to deep depression. But more importantly, I reveal how to break free from these cycles, reclaim your integrity, and start living with renewed purpose. Ready to make a change? Join me as we explore actionable steps to rebuild your life and relationships. Don’t forget to join my free private Men Becoming Better Men community via the link in my bio and grab my free eBook to get started. Links: https://linktr.ee/therelationshipengineer Website: www.menbecomingbettermen.com