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Meet Athena Gayle, also known as The Sex Copywriter. Athena writes about sex and exclusively collaborates with sextech, sexual wellness, and sexual pleasure brands. She caters her email marketing to everyone within the space, from e-comm to solopreneurs. Athena's portfolio includes collaborations with various startups, coaches, therapists, and adult toy companies. Athena is passionate about partnering with brands aiming to build a strong community with their audience. She firmly believes that if everyone prioritized daily orgasms, the world would be a happier place. In a recent episode, Athena talked about her most vulnerable moments, dropped some jaw-dropping tips for perfecting your b*****b game, and spilled a few secrets to crafting newsletters that are so sexy, they practically write themselves. Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Ola Miedzynska is a sex technology and adult tech entrepreneur, business consultant, sex tech hackathon advisor, sex work advocate and feminist. Ola’s career has centered around the technology industry for over a decade, from early-stage startup development to corporate consulting. From augmented reality to wearables, she worked with over 180 global sex tech brands.  She is a founder and CEO of Sxtech EU - the only global sex tech platform and annual conference dedicated to the innovation of technology inside the sex tech and adult tech industry.  Ola actively supports technological transformation in building a global ecosystem around two bridging industries - sex tech and adult tech. As co-founder of Eroeblla.com she advocates for sex workers' rights by bridging the gap between sex technology and destigmatization of sex work. Time codes: 00:33 Growing up under the Iron Curtain  01:22 Reflecting on the societal shifts in Poland post 1990s and how they affected communication about intimacy 08:44 Formative personal experiences  15:14 Sexual identity exploration  22:26 Entering the world of sex tech and adult industry 34:57 Erobella's mission and safety measures 01:22 Future of sex tech and impact on traditional sex work Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Dive into an unfiltered and entertaining conversation with Lola Jean - the sex educator, fetish wrestler, and record world holder of volume squirting, who also happens to be the head mistress of 7 Days Of Domination.  I stumbled upon Lola's sex-ed video about pegging on afterglow. The film was fun, engaging and without frills. At this moment I knew I had to snag her for a podcast chat.  In this episode, we dive into it all, no agenda, just real talk. Lola shares details on navigating desires, respecting boundaries, and how to navigate through consensual breath-play. This one's about finding your limits, keeping it real, and having a damn good time. Tune in for a no-frills conversation that's as insightful as it is entertaining. Episode navigation: 00:01:14 - Lola Jean's journey into sex education 00:04:17 - Squirting: control, challenges, and misconceptions 00:09:57 - Exploring reasons for intimacy 00:11:25 - Intention in self-pleasure 00:21:44 - Sex education without frills 00:23:27 - Power dynamics and communication in relationships 00:25:00 - Individuality in professional and personal life 00:27:30 - Challenges in communication 01:15:12 - Psychology in BDSM practices 01:16:13 - BDSM and personal preferences 01:19:51 - Domination and subspace 01:33:13 - Learning about BDSM by exploration 01:40:35 - Lola Jean's educational projects and contact info Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Trained as a sex educator, psychologist, and certified clinical sexologist, Camille Bataillon brings rich expertise to the realm of sexual wellness. In 2019, in the heart of Brussels, she co-founded a centre dedicated to this cause. By 2021, she expanded her reach and started working as a sexologist on the first teleconsultation platform dedicated to women's sexual well-being. Apart from her hands-on therapeutic work, Camille has penned a book about sexuality after childbirth, offering her readers invaluable insights, which she also shared on this podcast episode. Working with individuals and couples worldwide, her mission is clear: to foster understanding and deepen the joy in their intimate lives. Camille Bataillon’s website & podcast Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Intro: In this episode, I spoke with Maria Bettina, a former competitive rower who became an adult media entrepreneur. She founded Freyja, a platform that combined adult content and sex education. Maria shared with me her journey and the challenges she encountered along the way. Because she ran XXX company, she faced various difficulties, including having her bank account closed, and struggled with marketing her site due to social media restrictions. But every limitation breeds creativity, and so Maria came up with a funny way to captivate the audience and promote her content across the platforms. Also … she turns her favourite social media insults into statements on mugs. Maria addressed the lack of proper content moderation, not only within adult platforms but across social media in general. And we dived into how Freyja has implemented effective moderation practices. Moreover, Maria emphasises the significance of sex education and porn literacy. And we spoke about who bears responsibility for creating a safer and more inclusive industry for both insiders and consumers. If you enjoy it, share it with your friends or on social media, and don’t forget to tag: @redcheeksnoshame Episode Navigation: 00:01:00 Watching porn  00:05:30 Social media banns and influencers marketing  00:20:50 Harmful regulations 00:26:16 Starting a site with adult content  00:32:00 Overcoming issues with banking  00:36:10 Ethical porn and verification system  00:46:30 Licensing content vs content being uploaded  00:50:20 Age verification  00:57:30 Values  00:59:20 Student-teacher porn 01:13:30 Reporting content Links: Freya Education  Maria's Substack  Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

*This episode is in the Polish language* Od jakiegoś już czasu chciałam nagrać odcinek podcastu po polsku. Było trochę strachu ze zapomne jak coś powiedzieć w moim języku, ale okazało się że nie było aż tak źle :) No ale druga rzecz jest taka że ja miałam wspaniałych gości w tym odcinku, i w dużej mierze dzięki nim wszystko poszło gładziutko. So … without further due :) Aga i Żwirek - twórcy Warszawskiego Festiwalu Filmów Post Pornograficznych! W tym roku (2023) festival po raz drugi odbędzie się w Polsce. I moim zdaniem jest to niesamowite że coś tak wspaniałego udało się zorganizować w naszym kraju. Duzy szacun! Episode navigation: 00:04:40 “Natural Pleaser” 00:14:40 Czym sa filmy postpornograficzne 00:24:10 Widzialność, opór i przyjemność 00:36:00 Pornografia i edukacja seksualna 00:42:47 Tworzenie festiwalu, perypetie i przemeblowanie życia 00:52:11 Radykalna Troska Links: Oficialna strona festivalu: Post Porn Festival Warsaw  Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Briana, aka ThatSexLady, has always been fascinated by the nuances of sex but only decided to become a full-on Sex Educator when giving a menstrual talk to some high school girls and one student raised their hand and asked, “But if you use a tampon, how will you pee?” And then again, it was reaffirmed when giving a talk on consent and safer sex when yet another one of Briana’s students asked, “Standing up sex is safe sex, right?” She knew then and there that she had to reach the world with her knowledge of sex and dive deeper into researching all things sex-related. With a background in education, a Master in Psychology, and a Neuroscience of Mental Health from King's College of London, Briana buckled up and decided to pursue a Certificate of Sex Education from The Sexual Health Alliance. Episode navigation: 00:01:44 Porn addiction 00:15:10 Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) 00:30:10 Pivoting point to become a sex educator 00:36:49 Tips for exploring sexual pleasure 00:41:53 Safe space 00:50:48 Confidence and pleasure 01:06:39 Meaning of intimacy 01:10:16 Psychodrama 01:20:40 De-rolling rituals 01:26:48 De-rolling in porn Links: Getting in touch with Brie: Web: ThatSexLady.com Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Alison Boden is a veteran adult entertainment industry executive currently serving as an  Executive Director for FSC (Free Speach Coalition). She has worked in the industry since 2003 in various roles. From the project manager and marketing director through the software engineering and technology executive. One of the places she worked was Kink.com, where she ensured the professional treatment of performers and an ethical approach to the production of the scenes.  Alison holds a bachelor's degree in Sociology with a concentration in Women’s Studies from the University of Pittsburgh. Recently she was voted XBIZ’s Community Figure of The Year.  With her work, Alison supports and advocates for marginalised groups and people’s fundamental rights. Episode navigation: 00:01:40 - Blow-up doll costume  00:08:40 - Growing up 00:15:51 - Selling sex toys  00:24:21 - Sociatey and sexual pleasure  00:27:28 - Free pornography and its impact on the industry  00:35:25 - SESTA - FOSTA and social media 00:46:25 - Adult content and sex-ed 00:56:37 - Porn and values  01:00:55 - Bodily harm, consent and filming kink 01:05:08 - Ethical process 01:08:28 - The motivation 01:11:18 - Abortion  Links: Alison’s Twitter Alison’s website FSC  Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Are we born with a heterosexual desire, or do we simply end up with it? Is addiction to porn real? How may fear turn into sexual arousal? Why do men like to send d*ck pics? These are some of the topics Frederick Toates and I discussed in this podcast episode.  Frederick Toates is an Emeritus Professor of Biological Psychology at The Open University in England and Vice-President of the Open University Psychology Society. He is well known for his work on sexual desire, which he published in a book: How Sexual Desire Works: The Enigmatic Urge - a great read, dense in information and research findings from fields like psychology and neuroscience. Recently he explored why some people engage in serial killings for sexual pleasure, and in 2022 he published a book on this topic: Understanding Sexual Serial Killing.  Tune in for this in-depth, highly educative conversation and let us know your thoughts.  Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Is having sex empowering? Where is the limit when it comes to filming more hard-core scenes? Is showing consent in adult films sexy or a turn-off? These and many more topics we tackled in the conversation with Bea Bleu - a wonderful human being and a great filmmaker.  Bea is a Viennese filmmaker based in Berlin. Her adult movies aim to show authentic forms of sexual pleasure, exploration and play. She is dedicated to creating adult media where everyone feels safe and respected. Follow her work @__beablue in Instagram or Twitter. Time codes: 00:00:10 - amateur performers  00:04:25 - aftercare 00:07:00 - director’s vision and being flexible  00:14:45 - having the right sex  00:17: 38 - dating, and personal relationships 00:22:00 - showing kinks, BDSM and different forms of hard-core sex in porn - where is the limit 00:25:40 - how porn can show consent  00:36:40 - Ethical adult media  00:40:20 - Language 00:47:44 - are the films you produce part of your personality or do you separate it 00:50:40 - fantasies  00:57:00 - Cancel Culture  01:01:00 - sexual scripts  01:03:40 - growing up and intimacy 01:05:45 - power 01:07:18 - why porn Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Are we privileged with our accessibility to sex and pleasure? What is sexcare? Can pornography help disabled people with exploring sexual pleasure? These and many other topics I discussed with Sofie van den Haak. Sofie van den Haak is an applied psychologist who works with different organisations that help disabled people explore intimacy and sex. She started working at the age of 15 in health care. First, she worked helping people with dementia, and for the last three years, she focused on people with disabilities and their need for intimacy and sexual expression. Her mission is to help vulnerable people in society to feel more heard, seen and loved.    Episode navigation: 00:00- How it all started 00:08 - defining terms like disability and sex-care 00:18 - exploring intimacy, communication, and aspect of coaching in sex-care 00:27- consent and boundaries 00:31 - ethics 00:42 - the process - intake, matching, preparation 00:48 - activities provided by sexcarer during the appointment 00:53 - pornography and disability 00:58 - sexcarer's boundaries 01:02 - becoming a sexcarer 01:06 - sexcare globally Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Intro I met Doortje when she was giving a lecture at the University of Amsterdam. She spoke about sexual pleasure not being a luxury but rather a fundamental human right that everyone deserves to experience. After the lecture finished, I left craving more. I wanted to hear what else she had to say, and I knew I needed to record a podcast with her so others could enjoy her wisdom and positive attitude. Despite way too many “precisely” from my side, I hope you will enjoy this episode as much as I did. About Doortje Doortje Braeken van Schaik has more than 35 years of experience in adolescent sexual reproductive health and rights. She is the co-author of the International Sexuality Education Guidelines by UNESCO and a board member of the Global Advisory Board on Sexual Health and Wellbeing. In 2014 she received the golden medal from the World Association for Sexual Health for her contributions to Comprehensive Sexual Education. Doortje worked on guidelines for the sexual reproductive health of young people for WHO. She is the author of seven pleasure principles for The Pleasure Projects.    Time codes 00:03:51 - Including pleasure in sexual health education 00:10:32 - What is sex, how do we define it and what falls into this category 00:13:55 - Language and sexual expression  00:20:50 - Pleasure meter, human rights aspect in sexual pleasure 00:36:18 - Educating sexual offenders  00:41:24 - Intimacy and sexual satisfaction after menopause  00:46:35 - Depiction of sex in media  Support the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to: 🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way 🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics 🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set 👥 Gain confidence in your people skills 💼 Do more meaningful work 🔄 Change your mindset Roll up your sleeves and prepare for: ✅ 5 weeks of intensive learning experience ✅ making meaningful connections ✅ 1-on-1 coaching sessions ✅ Guest talks by industry experts ✅ Ongoing support after the workshop Apply on RedCheeks Academy.