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Season 6, Episode 793: 18+. Video of Ruan Willow reading sexy stuff, sexy snippets of fiction and erotic poems, while wearing red lipstick. Listen and fall into the juicy words Ruan reads. Celebrate eroticism and sex-positivity every day! Try out Wicked Sensual Care Simply Timeless Lube! (sponsored) Tried the stuff and love it! Get it at https://wickedsensualcare.com/products/wicked-simply-timeless-aqua-jelle-personal-lubricant https://wickedsensualcare.com/products/wicked-simply-timeless-aqua-personal-lubricant Try out my all time favorite toys from Bellesa BBoutique! (affiliate) https://tidd.ly/3Wml8qc I adore the rose pro, air, and whisper! Mind blowing! Pleasure heightening, and approved by Ruan! Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved. https://ruanwillow.subscribepage.io/ https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ruanwillowpaperbackbooks Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/audiobooksnarratedbyruan

Season 6, Episode 792: Why Sober Sex is WAY Better: A Chat with Dr. Frank Spinelli. Avoiding alcohol before sex makes a BIG difference, for you and your partner. Being sober for sex can help you be more present in your body, and help you enjoy it more. That's important! Sure it might be awkward at first, but push through that. Why? Because alcohol gives an anesthesia effect, which can alter or lessen your pleasure. Alcohol can also give you fake confidence, and alter your decision making. We also discussed shame and how to shed it in regards to sex, being gay, and even in talking about sex. Be authentic then you can show up in the bedroom (or wherever you may be!) as your authentic self. Your sex life, and your relationship with your partner, will thank you! Sober sex is better sex, and your body will prove it to you! Give it a try! Guest Bio:  Frank Spinelli, MD is a physician, certified health coach, and one of 95,000 survivors who filed claims in the Boy Scouts of America bankruptcy case. With over twenty years of clinical experience in internal medicine, he brings unique authority to trauma-informed recovery: medical expertise, lived experience of childhood sexual abuse and pandemic relapse, and active coaching practice implementing the C.O.M.P.A.S.S. framework with clients. Today, he works with hundreds of clients through the Reframe platform, helping individuals apply trauma-informed tools to navigate shame, addiction, and behavioral change. He is the author of The Shame Compass: A Radical Framework for Trauma Healing and Self-Acceptance, as well as PEE-SHY: A Memoir and The Advocate Guide to Gay Men's Health and Wellness. A former TV host and longtime health writer, Dr. Spinelli brings both clinical authority and media experience to conversations about recovery, resilience, and living with authenticity. Dr. Spinelli's links and books (affiliate book links): https://www.frankspinelli.com/ The Shame Compass: https://link.amazon/B0ec4s00H Dr. Spinelli also writes fiction books: Perfect Flaw https://link.amazon/B0gsUj2vZ No Angels Wept https://link.amazon/B00T0xV0a Precious Friends https://link.amazon/B00PdtYSP Podcast Host Ruan Willow's links: Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters. Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved. Audiobook In Scarlet's House, a paranormal lesbian witch short spicy story https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/inscarletshouseaudiobook https://ruanwillow.subscribepage.io/ https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ryze coffee, I love this coffee! Give it a try for a healthier option for caffeine and use code podna15 to get 15% OFF at (affiliate) https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/

Season 6, Episode 791: Finding Spiritual Truths in Sexuality with Suzannah Weiss. What if what has been expressed in mainstream religions by our society and current interpretations of the Bible about sexuality is all wrong? What if we were meant to enjoy our bodies and sexuality rather than hoard it, reserve it, "get" it and "take" it from others, and be shamed by it? If our creator gave us the capabilities and the equipment for pleasure, it's only logical that we were meant to enjoy our bodies, the sensations our g******s can produce, and sexual relations with ourselves and others. We weren't given taste buds to not taste food! This is ridiculous. We need to reevaluate our views and think outside the culturally and spiritually stagnant box we are in. Suzannah discusses alternate interpretations of sexuality from sentences from the Bible and examines them with a new lens, pointing out that perhaps they don't mean what has been propagated at all, but something entirely different, and more positive. She also discusses the idea of multiple messiah figures who are on a mission to save the world, radiating with the core thread of birthing a sex-positive Jesus inspired revolution. Other topics discussed include: feminism, patriarchy, pleasure, sex, anatomy, cultural views, hook up culture, adult films, sexuality, spirituality, Christianity, religion, relationships. Find out more about Suzannah's work http://www.suzannahweiss.com/ Suzannah's Books: affiliate links Eve's Blessing https://link.amazon/B0fas0q3l Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject https://link.amazon/B05ESw2vc Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters. https://ruanwillow.subscribepage.io/ All Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Books mentioned in the episode: Spring Break and Stranded https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbestfriendsbrothersplus6menlaylagetsraunchy Neighborhood Secrets:  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved.

Season 6, Episode 790: Haunted Hayride Erotic Improv, The Secret Meet Up on the Haunted Trail, by Podcast Host Ruan Willow. Enjoy an excerpt in honor of the new spicy Halloween audiobook coming out, Halloween Spice: Hot Short Stories for Spooky Spiced Listens. Get it on online audiobook sellers. EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway wins a FREE spicy toy or gift card for toys from the Bellesa Boutique! https://www.bbvibes.com/Ruan #bbpartner Get Ruan's spicy Halloween collection of spooky, spicy, hot and steamy Halloween themed short stories...witches, wizards, magic, enchantment, deception, and so much more! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/halloweenspiceaudiobook Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All rights reserved.

Season 6, Episode 789 (789 total over all 6 seasons): Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast interview with Queer Trans Adult Romance Author Cozy DuBois. We chatted about normalizing pleasure in romance books and in real life! (Please note the narration of the excerpt by podcast host Ruan Willow from the fiction book "For Luck's Sake" by Cozy DuBois is at the end of the episode).  Special Announcement! EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway wins a FREE spicy toy or gift card for toys from Bellesa Boutique! Visit https://www.bbvibes.com/Ruan bbvibes dot com backslash Ruan #bbpartner Author Bio: Based in Minneapolis, Cozy Dubois (they/them) is a queer, trans, and neurodivergent author of queer adult romance, full of sweet and spicy happily-ever-afters for everyone under the LGBTQIA+ umbrella. They hope to bring mor books into the world that represent the complex and entangled relationships between friends, lovers, and chosen family found in the queer community they love. http://cozydubois.com/ Find Cozy's book online, including this affiliate link: For Luck's Sake https://link.amazon/B0eFOIKdk Topics in this discussion include: Pleasure, discussion of including pleasure sex toys in fiction, self care, relationships, friendships, sexuality, sexual wellness, sexual health, the origin of intimate toys, the benefits of sex toys/tools for everyone and also specifically for the disabled community, sexual liberation, sex ed, spicy romance, queer romance, trans romance, non-binary rep, character development, intimacy, polyamory, fiction book fairs, romance book fairs, queer book events, LGTBQIA+ rep and characters in books, Indie authors, self publishing, purity culture, culture, society, writing books, special editions Podcast Host Ruan Willow's link: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters https://ruanwillow.subscribepage.io/ Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved.

Season 6, Episode 788: Finger Licking Good Threesome Roommate Rendezvous Hookup: Sam and Mariana are dating, and the roommate Jordan is prepping dinner with Mariana while Sam is at the gym. Jordan wants an opinion on his homemade sauce, and he offers his sauce-coated finger for Mariana to taste. She is a horny girl and gets a little carried away. The erotic aura burns out of their interaction and when Sam arrives home, things between the three of them heat up quick! Special Announcement Giveaway! EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway wins a FREE spicy toy or gift card for toys from Bellesa Boutique! https://www.bbvibes.com/Ruan #bbpartner Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Copyright 2025, 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.

Season 6, Episode 787: You can test for STDs in the privacy of your own home! No more embarrassing visits to the doctor, no shame filled eyes to endure. You don't even have to drive anywhere to get tested! You can conveniently test yourself at home and get the results within hours to a couple of days, which is way faster than going to the doctor anyway! There shouldn't be shame for getting an infection, but our culture has the bad habit of shaming such infections. Your sexual health matters to your sexuality, your fertility, and your overall health. Sexual wellness is important and Better Life Science, aka STD Hero, can help you achieve a healthier body and life. You can also share your results with other people from your phone's wallet. DON'T MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY! As a special promotion please read below! This is a sponsored episode. EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway wins a FREE spicy toy or gift card for toys from Bellesa Boutique! https://www.bbvibes.com/Ruan #bbpartner Learn more about Better Life Science, aka STD Hero: https://mybls.com/ Podcast Host Ruan Willow's link:  Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters  https://ruanwillow.subscribepage.io/  https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved. More on the episode: I chatted with the owner of the company and we chatted about how this amazing service is the kind of concierge service for sexual wellness that's the future. This is an easy way to get yourself tested and be sure you are healthy so you don't spread any illnesses/infections around. We had a fun chat! We talked, we laughed, and we brought up how we need to bust the stigma of std infections.

Season 6, Episode 786: Tarah's Unapologetic Take on Kink and ADHD plus the Pleasure of Sex Toys. Tarah is a Sexologist and Certified Sex Educator & Coach. EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway wins a FREE spicy toy or gift card for toys from Bellesa Boutique! bbvibes.com/Ruan #bbpartner Guest Bio: Tarah is the founder of Forbidden & Found, where she teaches the kind of sex ed most people never got — medically accurate, kink-aware, and refreshingly free of shame. From communication and consent to the intersection of ADHD and kink, she helps curious humans unlearn the cultural scripts that keep people quiet. As a certified sexologist and sex educator, her work spans kink fundamentals, the neuroscience of desire, and the art of asking for what you want. With equal parts candor and clarity, she makes the taboo feel unapologetically human. Tarah's Links: Website: https://www.forbiddenandfound.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forbiddenxfound/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@forbiddenxfound   Discussion Topics: Sex Education, Kink Awareness, ADHD And Sex, Consent In BDSM, Sex Positivity, Sex Toys, Taboo Topics, Sexual Pleasure, Communication In Relationships, Intimacy, Sexual Health, Neurodiversity And Sexuality, Erotic Literature, Sexual Wellness, Sex Educator, Empowerment Through Knowledge, Open Conversations About Sex, Pleasure-Focused Discussions, Breaking Sexual Stigma   Podcast Host Ruan Willow's link:  Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters. Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved.

Season 6, Episode 785: Dante of Red Bottom Productions Shares His Story of the Entrepreneurial Journey of Creating Adult Films. This is a replay of this interview to get the video version of the conversation onto podcast apps, for the improvement of listener satisfaction. What happens when you retire at 33, get bored, and accidentally stumble into founding a multi-brand entertainment empire? Dante, owner of Red Bottom Productions, shares his fascinating pivot from executive protection services to adult film production in this candid, and highly interesting, conversation. After selling his business and achieving financial independence, Dante discovered that early retirement wasn't the paradise he expected, social isolation and restlessness led him down an unexpected path. What began as helping friends film OnlyFans content evolved into running his own entertainment company covering various genres and fetishes. How exciting! Beyond the business journey, Dante opens up about challenging societal taboos around sexuality, the professional standards and extensive consent processes in adult entertainment, and how his industry mirrors Hollywood's casting and production methods. He addresses common misconceptions about performer autonomy and the stark difference between fantasy entertainment and real intimacy. He strives to meet his vision of creating a variety of types of content to meet as many viewers tastes as he can. The conversation also explores his current lifestyle philosophy of prioritizing travel and experiences over traditional work structures, especially for something that happened that reinforced the importance of creating memories while healthy. From budgeting tips to breaking down stigmas, this episode offers a surprisingly thoughtful perspective on entrepreneurship, personal freedom, and redefining success. Ruan's book mentioned in the podcast epsiode: Find out more about the book, Spring Break & Stranded at a Cabin with 7 Chosen Men, a dark romance, why choose, polyamorous book with BDSM, Dark Kinks, and Impact Play, the book mentioned at the beginning of this episode: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedatacabinwith7chosenmen Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at ⁠https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/ Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.

Season 6, Episode 784: Spicy Prison Visit Scene Excerpt from Seducing Her Best Friend's Ex. Janice and Lenny have a past...he wants more, she wants revenge but then something happens... Get the full audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriendbook1audiobook Find out more about the book, Spring Break & Stranded at a Cabin with 7 Chosen Men, a dark romance, why choose, polyamorous book with BDSM, Dark Kinks, and Impact Play, the book mentioned at the beginning of this episode: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedatacabinwith7chosenmen Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at ⁠https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/ Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.

Season 6, Episode 783: Replay for video version. Get ready to get hot, steam, and sizzle! This time with the tantalizing Meg Becker, an erotic romance author who spins tales that will leave you breathless and begging for more. We dive right into the steamy depths with an excerpt from her novel, "Give Me Butterflies," a story that flutters with passion and ignites your wildest fantasies. From the sultry pages of Chapter Eleven, witness Erin's bold pursuit of desire as she steps into a world where every touch is a promise of ecstasy, and every glance is an invitation to pleasure. With a red dress that screams temptation and a rendezvous that could set the night ablaze, Erin's encounter with Jacob is a dance of seduction where the stakes are as high as the heels she wears. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at ⁠https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/ Find Ruan at Booked Eau Claire this Friday signing and selling books! https://bookedeauclaire.com/pages/event-schedule Connect with Meg: http://linktr.ee/authormegbecker Give Me Butterflies (affiliate link, podcast may get a commission on purchases, which helps support this podcast, thanks!) https://amzn.to/4cu5sEK Copyright 2024, 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.

Season 6, Episode 782: Road Head Rage, an erotic romance, erotic fiction short story from the collection Tantalizing Teases. Get the full audiobook for all four stories: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/tantalizingteasesaudiobook Episode synopsis: Head Road Rage: After a party, Shayley and Paul are headed home. Both of their libidos can't wait, and their flirtations erupt into playful banter on the way to their truck. The steamy competitive race of edging each other to max heights is on as their hormones have them raging to get the other so hot they near explosion. Sexy fun on the road trip ensues and lands them in a prickly situation, but whew do they have a good time!   More about RUAN Willow Podcast Host: Get a FREE audiobook with an Audible Free Trial with my affiliate code: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0C15PBQ19/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-346187&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_346187_rh_us Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at ⁠https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/ Find Ruan at Booked Eau Claire this friday signing and selling books! https://bookedeauclaire.com/pages/event-schedule

Season 6, Episode 781: Madison Murray Embodying Erotic Reality and Sharing It With the World, Despite Censorship. Find Madison Murray on Substack at Pretty, Weird Girl and Instagram mygapingmasshole and madisonmrrrrrrr (that's 7 r's!). Madison is the author of "My Gaping Masshole". We had a great chat! We talked about creating spicy erotic content including images, memes, books, stories, and audio. We discussed about the challenges of being a creator with censorship rearing it's ugly head, and coined the phrase PTP for Puritanical Toxicity Pushers, which we both abhor! Listen in to our amazing and fun conversation if you also like content with sex, sexual innuendo, images, and writing, but HATE censorship. EFF censorship and EFF the puritanical toxicity pushers! Madison writes and posts on Substack. She also creates audio meditation, embodies erotic reality, she is an artist, a writer, and a creator. She shares where to find her books and content in the episode, tells her story about the Market Basket and her New England focus (her home in the US), Lady Gunn Magazine, and her other run ins with censorship. Find out more about Madison: https://substack.com/@madisonmurrrrrrr https://mygapingmasshole.com/ More about RUAN Willow Podcast Host: Get a FREE audiobook with an Audible Free Trial with my affiliate code: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0C15PBQ19/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-346187&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_346187_rh_us Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow

Season 6, Episode 780: 18+. An age gap erotic fiction story episode, hot sexy storytelling! This story is a part of The Work Threesomes Series, and it's called On the Farm Threesome: The Young Farm Hand, The Pastor, and the Baker. Gastone has turned 18 and he's had a crush on the 20 year old baker Olga for quite some time. He works hard on his family's farm and when Olga was hired as a baker, he was ecstatic. He thought long and hard about asking her out on a date. But before he gets to spill his question, Pastor Jeff stops in to see Olga for a visit. What Jeff finds them doing after he's carried in the freshly picked strawberries shocks him. But he doesn't stay dumbfounded for long because Olga wants him too! Get the full audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/groupfunatworkspicyunionsofthreeaudiobook Enjoy this erotica fiction, erotic romance entertainment arts episode to enjoy and expand your self care and relaxation time. Get a FREE audiobook with an Audible Free Trial with my affiliate code: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0C15PBQ19/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-346187&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_346187_rh_us Servicing the College Fence Builders, An Age Gap Hotwife Story audiobook:  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthecollegefencebuildersaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow

Season 6, Episode 779: Professional Domme, Educator, and Performer Lady Cinder Shares Hot Stuff, Secrets, & Kinks. The Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast welcomes guest Lady Cinder! Guest Bio: A neon-gothic dominatrix, hypnotic goddess, and fire deity — Lady Cinder is both performer and priestess. Her art fuses hypnosis, mindfuck ritual, and celestial theatre into acts of control and surrender. A master of psychological seduction and ritual performance, who transforms obedience into worship and an art unto itself. Award-winning, multi-nominated, and born, raised, and based out of Los Angeles, California— yet rarely contained by borders as a touring dominatrix whose presence is as coveted as it is rare. What is offered are not sessions, but experiences: immersive descents into desire, fear, and exquisite surrender. With years of my own experiences crossing vast spectrum of kinks and ritual, I specialize in transforming indulgence into torment, and torment into transcendence. If you like it, I'll torture you with it — until the boundary between agony and ecstasy dissolves into something unforgettable. Those fortunate enough to kneel before Me understand: this is not play — this is metamorphosis. I infiltrate your mind, lick your synapses, and rewire your hunger until you no longer recognize yourself — only your need for Me. Fly Me To You is available for the select few who dare to invite danger and luxury into their own domain. Whether in Los Angeles, on tour, or within the sanctum of your choosing, I deliver not just domination — but a life-altering experience you will never escape. Lady Cinder inks and social media: https://www.ladycinder.com/ https://msha.ke/ladycinder Loyal Fans loyalfans dot com/ladycinder https://x.com/ladycinder1110 https://www.instagram.com/lady_cinder1110 Bluesky ladycinder1110 https://bsky.app/profile/ladycinder1110.bsky.social Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Support the show Join for $3 to get exclusive content Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow