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CB16 - Shownotes: Peter Block – Community: The Structure of Belonging (Part 2)Title: 16: Peter Block – Community: The Structure of Belonging (Part 2) Welcome back to Create Belonging, the podcast where we explore the world through the lens of belonging.This is Part 2 of my conversation with Peter Block, author of Community: The Structure of Belonging. Where Part 1 laid out the framework, Part 2 took a turn I didn't expect. It got personal. We go deeper into leadership, dissent, curiosity, and eventually into the riskiest of the six conversations: gifts. Somewhere in the middle, I named my own gift out loud for the first time, and I can honestly say I'm not the same person I was when we started. If you haven't heard Part 1 yet, I'd start there, but if you want to jump in here, I'll catch you up. Who Is Peter Block?Peter Block is an author, a citizen of Cincinnati, Ohio, and co-founder of Designed Learning. Full bio and headshot at peterblock.com/media-kit. His books include Flawless Consulting, Stewardship, The Answer to How Is Yes, The Abundant Community, Activating the Common Good, and the book that brought him to this podcast: Community: The Structure of Belonging, now in its third edition. Key InsightsBosses, yes. Worship, no. A leader sets the rails; peers create the worldThe Leadership Industrial Complex: when we wait for a leader to save us, it lets us off the hookCuriosity is the breath of relationships, and the delivery system of well-being"If you can't say no, your yes means nothing" - dissent is what makes belonging realNaming your gifts is the riskiest conversation: once you name them, you have to do something with them"When you say it out loud, it changes your relationship to it"Break a group into threes and people realize "I'm not alone"In the absence of connection and belonging, we get violence, now normalized Timestamps00:05 Cold open - Peter on violence and the absence of connection 00:27 Welcome back; a recap of Part 1 02:10 Why Part 2 goes deeper; a note on the book 03:40 Interview resumes - the trouble with leadership 05:36 Peter on bosses, hierarchy, and "it lets me off the hook" 06:45 Mateo's breakdown: The Leadership Industrial Complex 08:59 Peers create the world; why Peter wants to stop the worship 13:52 Curiosity as the breath of relationships 14:33 Mateo's breakdown: Unpacking curiosity 16:55 Dissent, a camp story, and "if you can't say no, your yes means nothing" 18:01 Mateo's breakdown: The six conversations of community 19:30 Why gifts is the riskiest conversation of all 20:10 Peter on why naming your gifts is terrifying 22:34 Mateo names his gift out loud 24:44 Mateo's breakdown: What is your gift? 27:28 Saying it out loud changes your relationship to it 28:38 Why Mateo spent years brushing his gift aside 30:03 Groups of three, and the relief of "I'm not alone" 31:46 Gifts from the margin to the center 33:43 Mateo thanks Peter; why being a bystander isn't an option 34:29 In the absence of belonging, we have violence 36:26 Closing reflections - community as the structure of belonging Resources & LinksCommunity: The Structure of Belonging (3rd Ed): penguinrandomhouse.com/books/815995/community-third-edition-by-peter-block/ Peter Block's Substack: substack.com/@peterblock Designed Learning: designedlearning.com Peter Block on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/peter-block-238848a/ Designed Learning on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/designed-learning/ ConnectInstagram: instagram.com/createbelonging LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/create-belonging Email: [email protected] This is the second of a two-part conversation. If it moved you, share it with someone thinking about how to build something real in their corner of the world. And as always - go create belonging for yourself and for others. Acknowledgments: Music "Playing with Color" by Nullhertz via Pixabay. Thank you to the lovely people at Purple Space for your support. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

CB15 - Shownotes: Peter Block – Community: The Structure of Belonging (Part 1)Welcome to Create Belonging, the podcast where we explore the world through the lens of belonging.I sat down with Peter Block, one of the most original thinkers on community and civic life working today, and what came out was a conversation so rich I had to split it into two parts. In part one, Peter shares how he went from being a self-described wanderer to becoming a rooted citizen of Cincinnati, and why he believes that belonging isn't something we find inside ourselves alone. It emerges through how we gather, the questions we ask, and the structures we create together. Who Is Peter Block?Peter Block is an author, a citizen of Cincinnati, Ohio, and co-founder of Designed Learning, a training company that offers workshops and learning experiences built around the ideas in his books. He's part of the Common Good Alliance of Greater Cincinnati and was a member of his local neighborhood council. You can find his full bio and headshot at peterblock.com/media-kit. His books include Flawless Consulting, Stewardship, The Answer to How Is Yes, The Abundant Community, Activating the Common Good, and the book that brought him to this podcast: Community: The Structure of Belonging, now in its third edition. Main Topics CoveredPeter's personal journey from wandering to choosing rootedness and citizenshipWhy inner work alone isn't enough, and why community is where belonging actually emergesHow the form of a gathering shapes whether connection happens or notThe critique of inherited structures like Robert's Rules of Order and forward-facing roomsDesigning gatherings where people become agents of their own experienceWhy questions unite us and answers divide usPeter's surprising claim: the opposite of love isn't hate - it's certaintyKey InsightsCommunity is where belonging emerges - not through prescription, but through the conversations and structures we chooseInner work and community work aren't either/or - Peter argues we need a group to do our inner work, and anyone who claims victory on self-work "isn't paying attention"All transformation is linguistic - the conversations we design change us and change the worldThe small group is the unit of transformation - breaking people into groups of two or three shifts them from passive audience to active agents"If you argue with me, I'm taking your side" - Peter's approach to resistance: instead of convincing skeptics, agree with them and let them reckon with themselvesQuestions bring us together, answers keep us apart - when someone gives an answer, the room splits into agree and disagree; a shared question draws people closerThe opposite of love isn't hate, it's certainty - one of Peter's most provocative reframes, and a thread worth sitting withResources & LinksCommunity: The Structure of Belonging (Third Edition) by Peter BlockThe Abundant Community: Awakening the Power of Families and Neighborhoods by Peter Block & John McKnightFlawless Consulting by Peter BlockActivating the Common Good by Peter BlockPeter Block's Substack - Peter's latest thinking and writingDesigned Learning - learning experiences designed around Peter's workPeter Block on LinkedInDesigned Learning on LinkedInConnectInstagram: instagram.com/createbelongingLinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/create-belongingEmail: [email protected] tuned for Part Two, where Peter and I go deeper into the practical side - how these ideas about structure, questions, and agency show up in everyday community life. If this episode sparked something for you, please share it with someone who's also wondering about belonging in this world.  And as always - go create belonging for yourself and for others. Acknowledgments: Music "Playing with Color" by Nullhertz, obtained royalty-free from Pixabay. Thank you to the lovely people at Purple Space for your support. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The 3 Dimensions of Belonging: A Framework for Understanding How We ConnectBelonging is one of those catch-all terms that everyone talks about, but we're often describing completely different experiences. On this episode, Mateo explores a framework that breaks belonging into three distinct dimensions - not as a prescription to follow, but as a compass for understanding the different ways we can experience connection. What Mateo Covers:The three dimensions of belonging: Self, Others, and UniversalWhy most conversations about belonging get stuck focusing on just one dimensionHow belonging with yourself creates space for more authentic relationshipsThe science behind our innate connection to nature and something larger than ourselvesWhy exclusion registers in our brains the same way physical pain doesHow to use these dimensions as pathways when you're feeling disconnectedThe Venn diagram approach: mapping the seven different states of belongingKey Ideas Explored:Brené Brown's True Belonging and what it means to stand alone in the wildernessThe biophilia hypothesis and why we're wired for nature connectionUbuntu philosophy: "I am because we are"How authenticity and social connection can sometimes work against each otherWhy these dimensions aren't hierarchical - just different landscapes to exploreResources: Mateo has created a free Venn Diagram PDF mapping out all seven belonging states, complete with research notes and book recommendations. Reach out at [email protected] or connect on LinkedIn to get your copy. This isn't about optimizing your belonging or checking boxes. It's about recognizing the different pathways that are always available and learning to trust your own internal compass. Enjoying these conversations? Please subscribe, rate, and review wherever you're listening - it helps more people discover these explorations of belonging and connection. Thank you for being part of this community and for doing the work of creating belonging for yourself and others. Acknowledgments:Music “Playing with Color” by Nullhertz obtained royalty-free from Pixabay Thank you to the lovely people at Purple Space for your support ——————————- Thank you for listening!  I would love your Feedback: Please send me an email at [email protected] and let me know what you thought of the episode.  You can also follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createbelonging/ or on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/create-belonging Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After nearly two years away, I'm back! This is a short update on where I've been. I stepped away to work on my mental health, handle professional commitments, and wrestle with procrastination and imposter syndrome. During this time, I've learned that sometimes stepping back is necessary, and that belonging to yourself comes first. I've also been thinking about what Create Belonging can offer in a world where anyone can start a podcast and AI generates content instantly. I'm returning not with a polished plan, but with curiosity and the same commitment to exploring what it means to truly belong. The format might evolve, but the core mission remains: creating space for authentic conversations about belonging. Ready to continue this conversation about belonging? Subscribe to Create Belonging wherever you listen to podcasts, and join a community committed to exploring what it truly means to belong in this world. Acknowledgments:Music “Playing with Color” by Nullhertz obtained royalty-free from Pixabay Thank you to the lovely people at Purple Space for your support ——————————- Thank you for listening!  I would love your Feedback: Please send me an email at [email protected] and let me know what you thought of the episode.  You can also follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createbelonging/ or on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/create-belonging Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For Episode 12 of Create Belonging - we explore CREATIVITY and FACILITATION with Jenny Theolin.  Did you know that creativity is one of the keys to finding your belonging? Creativity is about taking what we know, what we imagine, and what surrounds us and making something significant, something that may not have existed otherwise.  We all have the potential to be creative and, in many ways, creativity is something that is deeply human and something that requires action and courage. If we are trying to discover our belonging or if we are trying to help others belong, then creativity is one of the necessary skills that one will need.  And when it comes to understanding how creativity can be used for belonging, I knew I wanted to speak to Jenny Theolin.  Jenny Theolin is a renowned expert who helps people learn more effectively. Calling upon her wealth of experience from around the world and background in design, she creates effective, engaging, and memorable learning experiences for organisations, schools, and non-profits. Jenny grew up as a world citizen, where she developed a high cultural intelligence and understanding of the humanity that connects us all.  This conversation explores the power of facilitation and how this skill is often overlooked. Jenny’s latest book is “Dare to Facilitate” a collaboration with expert facilitators sharing their insights on how to properly embrace facilitation as the skill that helps individuals and companies collaborate better and tap into people’s true potential.  This was a very FUN, insightful, and generous conversation with a creative human who creates belonging in all her projects.  I was inspired by this conversation, and I hope you too will be inspired.  Resources to continue exploring: Jenny’s personal website, Instagram, X, LinkedInStudio Theolin’s websiteHer New Book “DARE TO FACILITATE” book websiteDownload: “How to be an Alien” by George Mikes (1946) inspired one of Jenny’s previous art show called “Alienation”. You can download the full book in PDF here. Elizabeth Gilbert on Distinguishing Between Hobbies, Jobs, Careers, & Vocation from Acumen Academy Youtube Support Create Belonging: Subscribe on iTunes or Spotify.Get in touch and Please send us your feedback: www.createbelonging.com/contactShare this episode with a friend! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Pia Lauritzen, Ph.D. is a philosopher whose body of work revolves around uncovering the nature of questions and why they may just be more powerful than one may think. Indeed, questions are everywhere, and yet few of us know just how powerful they can be in changing our world.  “We know that after a question is asked, the world may never be the same afterward”. Pia Lauritzen Ph.D.Pia is also someone who believes all questions are valid, and that we shouldn’t put too much emphasis on asking questions for the sake of getting answers - rather, we should just look into what the question is trying to tell us.  This was a jam-packed, condensed conversation with a wonderful, insightful, and thoughtful human. I hope you enjoy this episode, and please don’t forget to connect with Pia Lauritzen on LinkedIn, and check out her upcoming book published with John Hopkin’s University Press.  Resources to continue exploring:Pia's LinkedIn Pia’s book published on John Hopkins University Press: Question: A Brief Book about Big Ideas Pia’s Blog: Pia’s Questions Pia’s free tool for education and educators: Question Jam Pia’s consulting tool for companies to tap into the power of questions: qvest.io Support Create Belonging:Subscribe on iTunes or Spotify. Get in touch and Please send us your feedback: www.createbelonging.com/contact Share this episode with a friend!Acknowledgments: Music “Playing with Color” by Nullhertz obtained royalty-free from Pixabay Thank you to the lovely people at Purple Space for your support ——————————- Thank you for listening!  I would love your Feedback: Please send me an email at [email protected] and let me know what you thought of the episode.  You can also follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createbelonging/ or on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/create-belonging Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to Episode 10 of Create Belonging. I sit down and talk with the amazing Lola Akinmade about her life, work, books, and her views on Belonging in a world that tries to put you in a box. I loved this conversation and I hope you do too. Show NotesKey ideas we explore in this episode:From Programmer to Photographer: Lola’s incredible range of experienceLola’s concept of home: “A Space where I can exist without explanation” where one is celebrated for just “existing”, without judgment. Why she doesn’t believe in first impressions. She tried not to judge anyone until after 10 minutes. Instead, we should look for depth in people. How the Swedish concept of Lagom works as a personal value but fails as a societal rule. We discuss the importance of being a role modelTokenism - how it can be done right, and when should we call companies out? The responsibility of opening the doors for others. Resources to continue exploring:Lola's Homepage and Blog. Lola’s Tedx TalkLola follows the examples of some very prominent Nigerian Authors: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chimamanda_Ngozi_Adichie Lola’s Slate Article on Lagom: “Why are Swedes so Quiet”Book: Lagom: The Swedish Secret of Living Well - the book that was published in 18 different languages, except in Swedish! Trevor Noah’s final thoughts and highlighting the importance of honoring black women Book: In every Mirror She’s Black and Sequel Everything is not enough Support Create Belonging:Subscribe on iTunes or Spotify.Get in touch and Please send us your feedback: www.createbelonging.com/contactShare this episode with a friend! Acknowledgments: Music “Playing with Color” by Nullhertz obtained royalty-free from Pixabay Thank you to the lovely people at Purple Space for your support ——————————- Thank you for listening!  I would love your Feedback: Please send me an email at [email protected] and let me know what you thought of the episode.  You can also follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createbelonging/ or on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/create-belonging  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome once again to Part 2 of my conversation with writer and meditation teacher Sebene Selassie. While part 1 was all about how we belong first and foremost to ourselves, this second part is about belonging with others.   We start the conversation by talking about the illusion of power dynamics in society. Sebene flips the script that society is a struggle towards the middle where there is access to resources and power. She does that by reminding us that those in the margin - have a richness of perspective and access to fluidity and other ways of belonging that those in the middle might not.  This part two of the conversation was a lot more personal and open, and one where I really got to express my deep gratitude for Sebene’s contribution to our understanding of Belonging.  Key ideas we explore in this episode:Get into Power dynamics - and how we have the idea that society is structured in concentric circles where the Powerful stand in the middle, holding onto power and status. While those in the margin have a richness of perspective and a more holistic view based on a deeper knowledge of understanding.  Context Switching - Fluency vs Semeiotic Vigilance - and why this can lead many of us to fatigue of belonging. And how Affinity Groups can offer minorities some respite from constantly being “Vigilant and monitoring” whether we belong or fit in.  We look into the efficiency of Affinity groups - like female only, on black only groups. And how they create the space for much of the “work” that can be done so that the conversations and the network can be explored in a more profound and direct way. She answers the questions about her vision of the future with “how she would like to feel in that future”, and gives us some clues on the type of world we should all be striving towards.  And much more…Resources to continue exploring:The ideas and media related to this episode Wikipedia on “From Margin to Center” - by Bell Hooks Sebene’s book You Belong: A Call for Connection Subscribe to Sebene’s newsletter Follow Sebene on Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Belonging is TRUE, it’s not up for debate, it’s a fundamental fact that we all belong to everything” - Sebene SelassieWelcome to Part 1 of the long-awaited interview with writer and meditation teacher Sebene Selassie. We introduce her book “You Belong - A Call for Connection”  and her motivations for writing it. We discuss the fundamental fact of belonging and the paradox of belonging. We later go on to look at the way that the world seems to be suffering from a “Delusion of separation” and how the way to wake up from that reality is to look inwards.  This was a very rich, insightful, and enlightening conversation about belonging with one of the world’s leading thinkers on the matter.  Key ideas we explore in this episode:How her book is not a map to belonging, but rather a “map key” where each one of us is expected to make our own maps. The Paradox of two truths: Even though we are not separate, we are not the sameThe delusion of separation: forgetting that we are all interconnected and part of the same realityWe touch on some of the systemic issues that have led us to forget the fundamental truth of belonging‘Mana’ the comparative mind and how it keeps ups in the delusion of separationWhy we must start with grounding ourselves BEFORE we can begin to know ourselvesHow cultivating “embodied awareness” can help us find our way back to belongingAnd much more… Resources to continue exploring:The ideas and media related to this episode: Hurry Slowly interview with Sebene on the Delusion of SeparationSebene’s book You Belong: A Call for ConnectionSubscribe to Sebene’s newsletterFollow Sebene on Instagram AcknowledgmentsMusic by Ergy, aka Hugues Coudurier, Facebook ——————————- Thank you for listening!  I would love your Feedback: Please send me an email at [email protected] and let me know what you thought of the episode.  You can also follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createbelonging/ or on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/create-belonging  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to Part 2 of our conversation with  Kristín Grímsdóttir . This is the follow-up episode where the conversation starts exploring the topic of Authenticity. Naturally, this conversation offers a very personal look at Kristín’s own story with authenticity. She offers some practical insights on how she experiences authenticity with herself and with others.  We are extremely grateful for Kristín’s vulnerability in talking about her journey to find her belonging.  In this Episode one we cover the following topics: Kristín’s path to authenticity, starting from a small fishing village in Iceland The early days of living up to external expectations were the antithesis of living authenticallyHow this one TED talk changed her foreverHer 12-year journey of living from vulnerability to authenticityThe slow, tough, and uncomfortable journey of living in vulnerabilityTrusting the process, and taking risks in big life decisions - following the feelingHow to identify authenticity in others - “It’s a feeling in your body” Helping others discover their values and live more authentic livesHer approach to helping her children discover and live in accordance with their valuesUnderstanding your values and your energy has an effect on other peopleHow living authentically can help one take responsibility for one’s actionsWhat Create Belonging means to Kristín If you haven't already, I highly recommend giving this episode a listen to gain valuable insights into living a more authentic life. Tune in now to Create Belonging, available on your favorite podcast platforms. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For this episode, we sit down with the amazing and wonderful  Kristín Grímsdóttir for a two-part conversation where we bridge Belonging with Authenticity. Part one starts with a discussion on the book "You Belong" by Sabene Selassie. During the podcast, Kristin shares her insights on what belonging means to her and how it ties into the work she has been doing for the past 15 years. She is an expert in helping others discover their authentic selves and use that awareness to empower their lives.  In this Episode one we cover the following topics: How we should think of identity as flowing and how one wears many hats (5:00)Why “You Belong” by Sebene Selassie is the first book she starts and finishes in a long time (7:25)Why belonging is not connected to a place (9:45)How Biking she never felt lonely despite the fact that she traveled solo on a bike across Europe for 120 days (10:14)How acceptance and sensing ourselves can lead us to realize that we already belong (11:25)How Belonging can be a compass to authenticity (13:50)The two types of Belonging: individually and universally (15:25) How disconnection and not-belonging are hurtful (17:20)The opposite of Belonging is to “Fit-in” (17:45) How we should lean into the pain of feeling like not belonging and it can give us clues to our values (20:00) Kristín talks about the work she is doing with building tools to help people better understand themselves (21:00) Short Bio: Kristín Grímsdóttir has lived many lives. She is guided by her values, which one day led her to quit her job and cycle solo across Europe for over 120 days. She planned to meet over 100 strangers, and this lead her to write a memoir about the experience in the book “Real: a story I tell myself and choose to believe.” Aside from being an adventurer, she is also a mother, partner, and entrepreneur. She is a sustainability and leadership expert with over 15 years of experience in understanding human behavior and decision-making within the context of sustainability. She has been a startup founder and CEO, a project manager in a public company, and has led the sustainability agenda during digital transformation times in a large, international company. Kristin's passion for creating enabling conditions for sustainable development through vertical development has led her to specialize in conscious leadership, emotional intelligence, building trusted relations, strategy, sustainable business design, sustainable development, vertical development, culture and values, brand development, facilitation, project management, coaching, deep and genuine listening, co-creation, and navigating complexity. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hi! I'm back! I recently overcame some struggles in 2022. So for 2023, we are re-launching the podcast. We will be releasing new episodes really soon. So please watch this space! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 5 - Belonging to our Cities: a Conversation with Urban Planner, Mustafa Sherif In this episode, I sit down with Mustafa Sherif (LinkedIn, Instagram). He is the creator and host of the URBANISTICA podcast. He is also an Urban Planner working at AFRY in Stockholm, Sweden.  Mustafa was born in Bagdad and came to Sweden with his family at age 17. He received a degree in architecture and later when on to complete a Masters in Urban Planning and Design from the Royal Technical Institute (KTH). This is a wide-ranging conversation with someone that has given a lot of thought to how cities should be designed and how do these decisions affect people. We cover a lot of topics including how he defines the concept of “home”, what makes a good city and how Urban Planning has changed over the years to become more inclusive.  I hope you enjoy the joy of this fascinating interview about belonging to our cities.  Please visit www.createbelonging.com for the complete show notes. Thank you for listening. Please don’t forget to like and subscribe!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

My guest today is a spoken word Artist named Kerone Campbell Kerone was born in Jamaica, raised in Brooklyn, NYC, and has been living in Stockholm for 6 years. Kerone, like many of us, is someone that has given a lot of thought to Belonging. Through his words and his Art, he is able to communicate wholeheartedly, in a way that very few of us can.  However, can all relate to the emotions that his work evokes.  Kerone is has been a creative person who was born in Kingston, Jamaica. Immigrated to New York City (Jamaica Queens) when he was 10 years old Where/when does Kerone belong?Kerone belongs in the present, but it was never that wayThroughout his life, he never felt like he truly belongs. He found his belonging in Stockholm - when walking to the supermarket The disillusionment of not fitting into ideals as a child immigrant.  Life lesson: When you immigrate to a place, you can be anyone you want to be.  Q: What’s it like being back in Sweden, compared to being black in New York?In Sweden, racism is more subtle. The only time race and other forms of discrimination are talked about is at the extremes. Upon explicit forms of racism and discrimination, Swedes tend to say “Well, I’m not like that, we are not THAT racist”. They are quick to point at these extreme examples and claim the higher road without acknowledging that they might act on their bias or engage in other forms of exclusion.Instead, racism is subtle. Kerone came to the realization that racism is their problem, not his. There is little he can do to change others' opinions, other than just living his truth and living his life. Book: Subtle Acts of Exclusion but Dr. Tiffany Jana, and Michael Baran.  Why it is important for him to bring to the surface the issue of slavery and other traumatic events of the past.  How did he get started with Spoken Word? Keron discovered Spoken Word in 2003, however, he would not find his voice until he came to Stockholm. He started writing following a painful breakup. Today he writes on many topics including family, society, and relationships. What happens when you don’t feel as you belong?How he found his own belonging. Why belonging is much bigger than what anyone else thinks or does to you.  The importance of realizing that you are on your own journey, charting your own path.  Do you have any tips or practices for healthy belonging? it’s important to follow curiosity Sebene Selassie - “You Belong” - talks about the importance of curiosity for finding belonging.   Here is how to get in touch with Kerone:Website: https://keronecampbell.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keronecampbell Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/keronecampbell/ Acknowledgments: Music by Ergy, aka Hugues Coudurier, Facebook ——————————- Thank you for listening!  I would love your Feedback: Please send me an email at [email protected] and let me know what you thought of the episode.  You can also follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createbelonging/ or on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/create-belonging  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to Create Belonging! In this episode, we speak to Chris Hovde(Linkedin, Instagram, Facebook).  A self-proclaimed “Urban Monk”, Chris is unapologetically living a life where he strives to make sure his behaviors are in accordance with his values. He is one of the people leaders at Telia, one of the largest telecoms with 21000 employees across the globe. He holds many roles and responsibilities, including employee wellbeing, diversity and inclusion, and promoting self-leadership.  Chris sits on the boards of many companies and is very involved in many initiatives concerning the environment, technology, and issues around racial and gender inclusivity. You can check out his meditation and well-being initiative here: regenerativemonks.com/  He is someone that leads by example and is on a mission to helping people live their most authentic selves.  So at this point, you may be wondering why I invited an Urban Monk to be on a podcast about belonging?!  Chris is someone that belongs to himself first and foremost. He understands that in order to inspire and help others, we must first live our own truths. Chris is not one for excuses. And in this podcast, he challenges us to stop lying to ourselves and to start the journey to our authentic selves.  Topics Discussed: Cognitive Dissonance and how we tend to respond to it. The 3 dimensions of belonging (According to Mateo): Belonging with the Self (the theme that this podcast episode is based on)Belonging with others (includes belonging with our partners, family, groups, community, nations etc., and any kind of inter-personal belonging). Belonging to the planet or universe (understanding that we belong to this planet, with all living things and objects, including the wider universe). Singularity University SummitMinimalismClarity and doing less is key to making an impactGreta Thunberg is someone that is living true to her values. She doesn’t do too many things, just the necessary to make an impact. Finding peace with what matters to you, then anyone else’s opinion is not necessary. Change starts with knowing your personal values and purpose in lifeIndifference is a trap, it’s better to have people hate you than to have them be indifferent. Being discriminated against for being gay helped him to connect with others that are also marginalizedProfessional is a mask. Acting professional prevents people from being their true selves. Link to post, showing why it's important to be vulnerable and share your story. The importance of stop lying to ourselves. We need to be true to our word. How to do a gratitude journalThe importance of walking the walkHis work at Telia, and how he is helping in setting up a more fair recruitment processWhat makes Chris so special: he is not ruled by fear. What he wants is always more powerful than the force of fear. His mother had high expectations of him as a childReframe, from “hard work” to “smart work”. We should get off the hamster wheel of producing volume, and instead focus on what one truly wants to achieve in a quarter. We can have a bigger impact with less. Creating diversity and inclusion conferences online is an example. The Pareto Principle AKA, "the 80/20 rule”Systems Thinking as a way to understand where to focus efforts How the pandemic was a gift, a sort of “reset” that Chris has been longing for, as a catalyst for societal transformation. Chris’ Summary of the conversation in 2 points: Start being honest with yourself? Change can happen with small changes. Try to find meaning where you are. Start backing up the things you say you care about with actions.  Reach out and connect with Chris: (Linkedin, Instagram, Facebook).  “Regenerative Monks” - Where you can find his dinners and meditation services Acknowledgments:This podcast is created, produced, and edited by me, Mateo Bornico Music by Ergy, aka Hugues Coudurier, Facebook ——————————- Thank you for listening!  I would love your Feedback: Please send me an email at [email protected] and let me know what you thought of the episode.  You can also follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createbelonging/ or on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/create-belonging  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.