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I have to say that Garrett and Madi Smith are the icon of what a desirable family looks like. We all want to feel loved, acceptable, happy, safe, and free. While visiting with the Smith's my wife and I felt all of these feelings. And it wasn't just one visit, it was multiple visits and every one had the environment of freedom and encouragement to be our best selves.  So how do you and I make this environment our new norm in dating and/or in our current relationships? Tune in to find out how. In today's episode we covered: - The importance of understanding and becoming aware of each other's needs, and then how taking a proactive approach to meeting each other's needs builds a powerful and lasting relationship. - We discussed how to meet in the middle on issues that are complete opposites - How to work with in-laws in the relationship - And how to communicate with each other in a way that creates this loving and safe environment that encourages growth. This episode has really encouraged me to love better and to be more proactive in how I care for my wife and children. Highlight for my single friends: The Smith's go over a lot of principles on how to make sure you are properly in love with someone BEFORE you get physical.  The principles taught in this episode are brilliant and I am a better person for being able to be a part of it. Connect with me on my other platforms: Couples Coaching and Coaching for singles in finding their Ideal Partner: makeyourbestrelationship.com (hover over the “Coaching” tab at the top) YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-your-best-relationship-podcast/id1560669269 Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3cZCbfI2bzqtWAGsCYNHlY

In today's episode I got to interview a friend I met from years ago - Laurie Howell! In the episode we talk about things we both do to strengthen relationships with our kids, but the principles can also be extended to anyone. In this episode we cover: - What to do when your child starts doing things that cause you disappointment - How to better love your children AND help them love you in return - And we talk about animals and their unconditional love that they can display to help people through trying times. I think this episode was amazing. I personally learned a couple of things to start doing in my family life to better my relationships with them. Connect with me on my other platforms: Couples Coaching for genuine and speedy improvement: makeyourbestrelationship.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-your-best-relationship-podcast/id1560669269 Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3cZCbfI2bzqtWAGsCYNHlY

in today's episode you will learn the Do's and Don't of how to heal yourself and your relationship when it has been feeling empty. You'll learn: - How to love yourself -How to create a better environment for yourself and your partner -And why what you're doing (and have been doing) isn't working Connect with me on my other platforms: Couples Coaching for genuine and speedy improvement: makeyourbestrelationship.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-your-best-relationship-podcast/id1560669269 Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3cZCbfI2bzqtWAGsCYNHlY

In this powerful episode you will learn: - How to tap into your positive side - How to stop addictions from ruling over you due to suppression - And how to love yourself in some powerful ways I got to talk with Founder of Single Mom's Thrive and Tribe, Sara Call. And yes, we are half siblings (although we have always viewed each other as full siblings because she is just awesome with her sibling love). Sara has some amazing programs that you may want to get involved with. She helps ladies from all walks of life learn how and implement their own transformations so they can enjoy a better life experience. After all, you only get this life once. I think this episode was so powerful because Sara brought some important principles to light that aren't discussed very much in the public setting. If you want to succeed in life, one powerful thing you can do is get outside help and coaches are known to get results fast.  To connect with Sara visit one of these links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saracall10/?fbclid=IwAR0cG1xkpuFWP5CVU1EtwgIH7Eu2bkJcW_lc-PrD8ANTINgH5iSgoBl8VUs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/saracall83/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/908862589647341 Connect with me on my other platforms: Your Free Guide to Effective Couple’s Communication: makeyourbestrelationship.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-your-best-relationship-podcast/id1560669269 Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3cZCbfI2bzqtWAGsCYNHlY

Do you get tired of your marriage situation sometimes? What if you could reset your marriage and have it be enjoyable, exciting, and fulfilling again? Well in today's episode, we talk about doing just that. The truth in life is that much of life is what we make of it. When we learn new life tools and start implementing them, that is when we start getting new results. This is how we start to make our current relationship our best relationship. Learn more about the Restart Your Marriage program here: https://makeyourbestrelationship.com/restart-your-marriage-mini-webinar/ To access your own DISC Assessment click this link: https://makeyourbestrelationship.com/behavioral-analysis-2/ Connect with me on my other platforms: Website: makeyourbestrelationship.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-your-best-relationship-podcast/id1560669269 Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3cZCbfI2bzqtWAGsCYNHlY

Do you or your partner view other things as more important than your relationship? Things like money, god or religion, politics, or personal beliefs? If so there has probably been wedges created that are in the relationship keeping you both from experiencing the best that could be experienced in your relationship. In this episode you will learn how to not only take those wedges out and make your relationship the most important thing, but you will also learn helpful tips to help you and your partner love each other more. Connect with me on my other platforms: Tired of your marriage being exhausting? Looking for a coach? visit makeyourbestrelationship.com to see if we can help you make a relationship that is enjoyable and fulfilling again. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-your-best-relationship-podcast/id1560669269 Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3cZCbfI2bzqtWAGsCYNHlY

When you learn to love and value yourself, you start to change your results in life. How you feel about yourself (i.e. your value, your self-worth and self confidence) will determine the kind of life, lifestyle, and relationship experience you get. It dictates so much in life. In today's episode I got to visit with Rebekah Bernier (pronounced Bern-yay) from the podcast Through These Hazel Eyes. In this episode, Rebekah tells her experiences of two previous marriages vs. the one she is in right now. She explains how her feelings about herself and learning how to communicate have affected her relationship she's in. Rebekah has been through two failed marriages, cancer, and an emotional and mental breakdown where she needed outside help to get her back onto her feet. She shares how important your own opinion of yourself is and how it affects your relationship. She shares what she has learned to make her best relationship with her husband. And the principles she shares are powerful and applicable to everyone. To listen to Rebekah on her podcast click this link here: https://anchor.fm/hazeleyespodcast To ask her questions or to get in touch with her, shoot an email to: [email protected] Connect with me on my other platforms: Your Free Guide to Effective Couple’s Communication: makeyourbestrelationship.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-your-best-relationship-podcast/id1560669269 Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3cZCbfI2bzqtWAGsCYNHlY

In today's episode I got to share how our goals really do determine the quality of our lives and especially our relationships. If you don't have goals, where are you going in life? If you do have goals, what is stopping you from reaching them?  For me, I needed some outside help at first. Now I use what I've learned and try to systematize it so it is who I am today. If you want to become great, what do you need to change? If you want to have a better relationship, what three things would need to happen to make your relationship more enjoyable? Connect with me on my other platforms: Your Free Guide to Effective Couple’s Communication: makeyourbestrelationship.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-your-best-relationship-podcast/id1560669269 Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3cZCbfI2bzqtWAGsCYNHlY

The Marriage Relationship is a huge thing. In today's episode I had the privilege to interview the beautiful Mrs. Jaecee Malan. Yes! She's my wife! And I am a very blessed man.  In today's episode I asked Jaecee to tell us about her views on hers and mine's marriage and the benefits she has gained being married. I also brought up some times before when we got into fights, disagreements, and disharmony. We talked about what we worked through, how we did it, and how we work together now.  This episode is full of knowledge and experience that will help any and all who are in a relationship discover the feeling of hope again in aspects of your relationship that may not be currently where you want them to be. As you learn and grow, you change your outer world, your outer reality. I wish you success today! And much love. Connect with me on my other platforms: Your Free Guide to Effective Couple’s Communication: makeyourbestrelationship.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/

This episode was very applicable to me, but I know it's applicable to everyone as well. Sometimes we just don't want to do things in our relationships or lives that we know we should. Sometimes we don't want to be proactive. I call this being lazy minded. And yes, I work with this too.  But in this episode I share from my own experience how mindset can affect outcomes and exactly what I use/do to help me do those things I maybe don't want to do, but know I should. Try the principles out and see if you don't start to make some drastic changes in your life. Much love! Connect with me on my other platforms: Your Free Guide to Effective Couple’s Communication: makeyourbestrelationship.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw1kN_-jd9ALbjq_jRGObpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MakeYourBestRelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesse.malan3/