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"We are women that don't look our age, act our age, or identify with our age. We are curious, we mentor others, and we are forever blooming." Alyson Hoag What if the way you show up in the mirror is the deepest form of identity work? This week, we sit down with Alyson Hoag, makeup artist and beauty entrepreneur and newly promoted Tony Robbins trainer — for a wide-open conversation about what it truly means to author your own image. Alyson explores how visual identity, authentic self-expression, and midlife reinvention are inseparable — and why beauty for women over 50 is not about the makeup at all. This isn't about lipstick. It's about excavating who you are and letting her show up fully. Connect with Alyson Beauty: genuisbeauty.com Studio: myimagejourney.com Social @AlysonHoag — Instagram · Facebook · LinkedIn Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it. Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe! https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/

“Avoiding money doesn’t make you safe—it keeps you small.”  What if the problem isn’t your finances… but the story you’ve been telling yourself about money? In this deeply personal and powerful episode of The Girl Out of Order Podcast, Christine Gale opens up about her lifelong relationship with money—marked by shame, avoidance, and the belief that there would never be enough—and how that story quietly shaped her choices, her confidence, and her freedom. If you’ve ever said:  “I’m not good with money”  “I don’t understand finances”  “I’ll deal with it later” …this episode is for you. Because here’s the truth: You don’t have a money problem—you have a money identity problem. This is not a financial strategy episode. This is an identity shift. We walk through 3 simple, actionable steps to help you:  Identify and break the unconscious beliefs shaping your financial life  Rewrite your internal narrative around money (without forcing fake positivity)  Take one aligned action to begin building confidence, clarity, and control Through storytelling, real-life examples from her work as a family law attorney, and her own journey from avoidance to ownership, Christine invites you to stop playing small and start engaging with your financial life in a whole new way. Because money isn’t just about numbers. Money is freedom.  Money is access.  Money is choice.  Money is impact. And avoiding it? That doesn’t make you safe. It keeps you small. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it. Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe! https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/

“Your body will whisper… until it forces you to stop.” Lauren Wu In this episode, I sit down with Lauren Wu — attorney, former ballerina, and pulmonary embolism survivor — whose life changed in an instant during a work training when hidden blood clots were discovered in both lungs. Her recovery was long and brutal: months in a wheelchair, relearning to walk, and rebuilding her mind and nervous system from the ground up. Out of that season, Lauren created Heart Lead Leadership, a framework redefining how we lead, work, and live — rooted in humanity, alignment, and trust. This conversation will challenge everything you think about stress, success, and resilience — and invite you to rewrite your story from the inside out. Key Takeaways: Burnout is often a systems issue — not a personal failureYour identity can be rewritten, even after crisisTrue leadership starts with humanity, not performanceConnect with Lauren: http://linkedin.com/in/lauren-foster-wu/ https://www.heartledleadership.org/ Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it. Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe! https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/

"You don't have to know the whole story to refuse the one being written for you." What if the story that was written for you isn't the story you have to live? In this powerful episode, Christine kicks off the Rewriting phase of Season One with a raw, honest, and deeply personal reminder: wherever you are, whatever you've been through — this is not the end. Drawing from her own journey of childhood neglect and abuse, public professional humiliation, marital betrayal, and the challenges of raising children through mental health crises, Christine makes the case that your trauma is not your identity — and your past is not your final word. We explore 5 powerful Steps to Rewriting Your Narrative: Interrogate the story — Is it actually true, or was it given to you by people in pain?Separate your identity from your experiences — You are not what happened to you, and you are not the worst thing you've ever doneLook for the gifts — Even strangely wrapped ones, even the ones that take time to findWrite new evidence — Every act of courage and self-respect builds a new proof of who you're becomingStay a student of yourself — Stay curious, keep evolving, because the you that got you here isn't always the you that gets you thereSubscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it. Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe! https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/

"When you can balance your strength with your softness, it's game freaking on." This episode is tender. Honest. And long overdue. For years, many of us have lived in survival mode—learning to be strong, independent, and hyper-capable in order to succeed… and stay safe. And while that strength has served us, it has also come at a cost. Exhaustion. Disconnection. A quiet longing for something more. In this deeply personal and thought-provoking episode, Christine opens up about her own resistance to femininity and softness—and the moment everything began to shift. Through storytelling, reflection, and powerful reframes, she invites you to consider a new possibility: What if your softness isn’t weakness… but your greatest source of power? This is not about becoming less strong. It’s about becoming whole. Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe! https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/

"The good girl  survived. The grounded woman leads." For generations, women were praised for being agreeable, accommodating, responsible, and easy to be around. In other words… a “good girl.” But what happens when the very strategy that helped you belong begins to silence your voice, suppress your truth, and leave you emotionally exhausted? In this powerful episode, Christine explores the quiet but transformative moment many women experience in midlife—the realization that compliance may have kept you safe, but it also kept you small. This conversation is not about judgment, rebellion, or blowing up your life. It’s about something far more powerful: evolution. Because reclaiming your voice isn’t about becoming louder. It’s about becoming truer. Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe! https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/

“Reclaiming your health is not about aesthetics — it’s about agency.” Midlife is not decay. It’s recalibration. In this episode, Christine delivers a powerful love letter to the midlife woman — reminding her that reclaiming her health is not about dieting or shrinking. It’s about agency. Because when you neglect your body, you weaken your leadership. Christine breaks down five essential pillars for midlife vitality: Muscle is medicineProtein is not optionalSleep is a hormone strategyNervous system regulation is non-negotiableYour language shapes your healthYour body isn’t betraying you. She’s asking to be led differently. Reclaiming your health is how you reclaim your identity. The world needs you strong, rooted, and energized for what you are here to build. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale 

“Disappointment is human. Self-betrayal is optional.” What happens when the yes you felt so certain about becomes a no? In this episode, Christine shares a recent, very real leadership setback — a job offer she believed was aligned that unexpectedly fell through — and how quickly doubt crept in. But this isn’t just about disappointment. It’s about what happens inside your brain, your nervous system, and your identity when expectation collapses. You’ll learn: Why rejection activates the same part of the brain as physical painHow dopamine drops create the “gut punch” feelingWhat identity threat really is — and why it shakes confident womenThe difference between disappointment and self-betrayalHow to reclaim hope, focus, passion, energy, and self-trustClosed doors don’t mean you were wrong. They mean life involves other humans with agency. Reclaiming is not about avoiding the sting. It’s about recalibrating without collapsing. If a door recently closed in your life — this conversation will help you move forward grounded, steady, and aligned. 🎧 Listen in — and if it resonates, share it and leave a review to help us grow. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale 

"The fire horse energy — she's not quiet. She's not timid. She's about movement and conviction and choosing her own direction, even if that means leaving the familiar behind."  Today marks the first day of the Year of the Fire Horse — and whether you love astrology or have never given it a second thought, this episode is for you. It’s about powerful imagery to anchor your transformation.  It’s about a relatable archetype.  It’s about reclaiming the woman you were always meant to be. After completing the Releasing phase of Season 1, Christine opens the door to the next chapter: Reclaiming. This episode invites you to Stop: shrinking, performing, postponing the aligned decision. It's an invitation to start intentionally choosing the life you know you are called to live. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale 

“If we do not release the stories that were projected onto us, our lives will be stunted and our impact blunted.” Sister, today’s episode is the heartbeat of why Girl Out of Order exists. We’re closing out the releasing portion of Season One by going back to the very beginning — the moment I realized how much of my life had been shaped by expectations, stories, and projections that were never actually mine. In this conversation, I walk you through how unexamined beliefs — especially those handed to us by people we love or authority figures we trust — quietly become cages. I share how projections live not just in our minds, but in our bodies… and why midlife often becomes the moment we simply refuse to contort ourselves any longer. This episode is an invitation into clarity, freedom, and the deep self-respect that comes from choosing a truer story for your life. No spoilers here — but if you’ve felt restless, exhausted, or like you’re outgrowing an identity that once helped you survive, this message will meet you right where you are. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale 

“You don’t need to burn your life down to build something meaningful. You need patience, integrity, and a pace your life can hold.” What if the call to more doesn’t mean something is missing? In this deeply personal episode, I'm speaking directly to the woman who loves her life—and still feels a persistent tug toward something more. Recorded during the Releasing phase of Season 1, this conversation invites you to let go of guilt, comparison, and unrealistic expectations about pace, especially when you’re building a dream inside a full, beautiful life. This episode is for the ambitious woman who refuses to choose between presence and purpose—and wants to know what sustainable growth actually looks like in a busy season. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why feeling called to more does not mean something is missing in your lifeHow guilt and comparison quietly keep women stuckWhy pace matters when your life is already fullThe difference between sacrifice and self-abandonmentHow small, repeatable actions compound over timeWhy sustainable growth happens in circles, not silosTune in for inspiration and practical wisdom to help you release pressure, honor your season, and keep building—without abandoning your life or yourself. Join us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Because we are always stronger—and braver—together. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale 

“You don’t have to muscle your way into a new life. You just have to change the question.” What if the anxiety you feel, the pressure you carry, and the burnout you’re battling aren’t coming from your circumstances—but from the questions you’re asking yourself every day? In this deeply personal and powerful episode, we unpack one of the most life-changing concepts I've ever applied: the Primary Question—the unconscious question shaping your mindset, emotional state, decisions, and ultimately, the quality of your life. Through heartfelt stories from her own life, her work as a family law litigator, and a vulnerable conversation with her daughter, Christine reveals how poor-quality questions like “Am I doing enough?” or “What will they think?” quietly fuel anxiety, scarcity, self-judgment, and overwhelm. This episode is part of the releasing season—letting go of patterns that no longer serve you—and it offers practical, grounded tools to help you wake up, get honest, and rewrite the question running your life. In this episode, you’ll learn: What a primary question is and how it silently governs your thoughts and choicesWhy anxiety often isn’t about what you’re doing—but what you’re checking forHow poor-quality questions create pressure, judgment, scarcity, and burnoutWhy awareness is the key to releasing what no longer serves youHow to upgrade your questions to create calm, clarity, and agencySimple daily practices to create a true mind shift, not just positive thinkingJoin us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Because we are always stronger—and braver—together. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale 

“Overwhelm isn’t a capacity problem — it’s a clarity problem.” January is loud — full of goals, strategies, vision boards, and pressure to “start strong.” But for many women, January doesn’t bring inspiration. It brings overwhelm. In this episode, I offer a radical reframe for the new year: You don’t need a bigger vision — you need a clearer one. Clarity isn’t created by urgency, hustle, or perfectly mapped plans. Clarity emerges through honesty, timing, and feminine discernment — and it changes everything. We explore:  ✨ Overwhelm vs clarity (and why they’re not the same)  ✨ Why traditional planning burns women out  ✨ How midlife invites alignment over achievement  ✨ How to reduce noise and listen for truth  ✨ The surprising power of intuition + timing  ✨ Why clarity is the gateway to next-level growth Tune in for 3 simple, practical tools to move toward clarity in 2026 — without force, pressure, or perfection. If you’re craving direction without the noise, urgency, or comparison — this conversation is for you. Join us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Because we are always stronger—and braver—together. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale 

“A snake can’t grow new skin while clinging to the old one — and neither can you.” What if the new year didn’t require you to sprint? What if clarity, motivation, and vision don’t arrive on command January 1st — but show up after you let old versions of yourself fall away? In this powerful episode of the Girl Out of Order Podcast, Christine challenges the pressure women feel in early January to plan, manifest, vision-board, and “get it together.” Instead, she introduces a new frame: It’s still the Year of the Snake — there’s still time to shed. Drawing from spiritual symbolism, identity work, and her own year of expansion, Christine talks about how releasing old roles, relationships, expectations, patterns, and stories is required before you can design a new season with intention. This episode will help you: Exhale and stop rushing your becomingUnderstand why shedding precedes clarityNormalize slow, tender seasons of transitionLet go of what no longer serves who you’re becomingTrust your timing instead of forcing a timelineIf you’re still tender, unsure, grieving, re-evaluating, recalibrating, or quietly clearing old energetic closets — this episode will make you feel seen, normal, and right on time. Join us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforder Because we are always stronger—and braver—together. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale 

“Sometimes the most responsible thing a woman can do is stop talking long enough to hear herself again.” After a two-month pause, I am back behind the mic—and this episode explains why the silence mattered. This wasn’t burnout.  This wasn’t quitting.  This was a conscious, soul-led pause. In this powerful relaunch episode, Christine shares what happens when a woman stops long enough to truly listen—to herself, to God, and to the deeper call on her life. She recasts the vision for Girl Out of Order, clarifies what this space is and is not, and unveils an intentional, seasonal structure for 2026 designed to support women through real life transitions, identity evolution, and embodied growth. This episode is an invitation—not to rush, not to reinvent yourself—but to come home to who you are becoming. ❤️ If This Episode Resonated… Share it with a woman who might need permission to pauseLeave a review to help this community growJoin us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderBecause we are always stronger—and braver—together. Let's Connect! https://www.thechristinegale.com/ https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/ https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale