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In this final part of our two-part conversation with the legendary Ultra Naté, we explore what it means to lead with heart and purpose — from building community and creating spaces of belonging to getting your hands dirty as a leader who serves. Ultra opens up about the importance of self-care, holistic health practices, and nutrition as the foundation for sustainable well-being — reminding us that caring for ourselves is the ultimate act of love and longevity. Join hosts Rahshek and Hernando as they wrap up this inspiring journey with a true pioneer who continues to embody freedom, authenticity, and joy in every beat. 🎶 Follow the I Am Just Gaying podcast wherever you listen — and keep loving out loud.

in Part 1 of this special two-part episode, global dance music icon Ultra Naté joins the I Am Just Gaying podcast to reflect on her legendary journey through music, love, and liberation. From her timeless anthem “Free” to her influence on the global house music scene, Ultra shares how intention, authenticity, and community have guided her artistry for over three decades. Rahshek and Hernando dive into the stories behind her creative process, the impact of the LGBTQ+ community on her career, and how writing helped her navigate moments of uncertainty and transformation—especially during the pandemic. Tune in for a conversation that celebrates freedom, resilience, and the power of art to heal and unite. 💫 Listen now and be inspired by Ultra Naté’s love letter to the world.

In Part 2 of Liberation Looks Like This: Mr. Dominus on Love & Life, the conversation goes deeper. Hosts Rahshek and Hernando continue their dialogue with Mr. Dominus as he shares raw and powerful reflections on self-mastery, redefining relationships, and the truth about polyamory—it’s more than just sex. Together, they unpack what it means to live authentically, embrace your full self, and create love on your own terms. From navigating boundaries to reclaiming joy, this episode reminds us that liberation isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s about honoring your truth and writing your own love story. 💌 Tune in, reflect, and keep the conversation going. Because liberation? It looks like this.

In this episode of the I Am Just Gaying podcast, we sit down with Mr. Dominus for a powerful conversation on authenticity, love, and what it means to live unapologetically. Together, they explore sexual liberation, community, and the complexities of polyamory, challenging misconceptions and centering communication, respect, and emotional connection. From the circuit scene as a space of joy and expression to the launch of his new podcast Freak'N See, Mr. Dominus opens up about identity, boundaries, and the mental aspects of sex. This intimate dialogue is a love letter to freedom, self-worth, and community.

Rahshek and Hernando spill the tea on World Pride—from nightlife highs to a canceled Shakira concert twist. With laughs, love, and community vibes, they celebrate belonging, friendship, and the joy of living authentically.

In this episode, we delve into the vibrant tapestry of queerculture and Pride celebration, exploring the powerful themes of joy and resistance. Join us as we celebrate the resilience and creativity that define the LGBTQ+ community, sharing stories what we thought World Pride 2025 was going to be - we will let you know what really happened during episode 2. Discover how joy becomes an act of resistance and how resistance fuels the spirit of joy. Welcome to season to Gaybabies!!!!

It’s a wrap on Season 1, babes! In this special finale, Rahshek and Hernando look back at the laughs, the tea, the vulnerable truths, and the pure joy that made this season unforgettable. We revisit your favorite moments, spill a little behind-the-scenes gossip, and share heartfelt thanks for riding along on this journey with us. From traveling while gay, to queer joy in music, to navigating love, identity, and everything in between — this season was truly a love letter to all of us. Plus, we’re teasing what’s to come in Season 2 (spoiler: it’s gonna be gag-worthy). Hit play, relive the magic, and let’s celebrate the fabulousness that is I Am Just Gaying. ✨ Listen. Laugh. Live your truth. #IAmJustGaying #PodcastFinale #Season1

In this powerful episode of I Am Just Gaying, hosts Hernando Rahshek is joined by Listener’s Choice winner Sofi Mari for a candid conversation about what it means to travel while queer. Together, they explore the joys and challenges of navigating the world as LGBTQ+ individuals — from safety concerns and gender dynamics to community support and the role of active allyship. Through personal stories and lived wisdom, Hernando, Rahshek and Sofi unpack the importance of character, preparation, and emotional intelligence when journeying through unfamiliar spaces. They offer real talk on the complexities of identity, the value of mindful travel, and how allies can meaningfully show up. Whether you're planning your next trip or reflecting on your own travel experiences, this episode is a heartwarming, eye-opening guide to queer travel, human connection, and the beauty of showing up for one another. Show links: https://www.milkshakefestival.com/events/milkshakefestival2025 How to find Sofi Mari https://linktr.ee/Sofimarimusic?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwK0tYpleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp4M7CPbCKL-XZCi4G-RtIKkvscKEfWr36brSwe6318l50tyWQ627Z1CYYoGY_aem_5-QOpxef0AM34QvZz216hQ Follow MC Chickaboo on IG https://www.instagram.com/mcchickaboo/?hl=en Follow Alexx Conroy on IG https://www.instagram.com/alexxconroy/?hl=en https://www.misterbandb.com/ https://purpleroofs.com/ https://www.history.com/articles/the-green-book-the-black-travelers-guide-to-jim-crow-america Stream Netsky - Everybody Loves the Sunshine

We’re back, baby—and sounding better than ever! 🌈🎶 Originally dropped on April 18th with some pesky technical glitches, this remastered edition of “Rhythms of Pride” is here just in time to kick off Pride Month the right way—with a celebration of the beats that move us, unite us, and tell our stories. Join us as we vibe through the rich musical legacy of Black and Latinx queer joy—shouting out the icons, the dance floor anthems, and the deep cuts that soundtrack our resilience, pleasure, and pride. 💿 Want the full experience? The official “Rhythms of Pride” playlist is available now!🎧 Follow us on social @IAmJustGaying to get the link and keep the celebration going all month long. 🎉 Press play, turn it up, and celebrate Pride with us like only we can.

In this episode of I'm Just Gaying, hosts Hernando Del Castillo and Rahshek plug into the world of artificial intelligence — but through a fabulous, queer lens. From playful drag queen name generators to real talk about algorithmic bias, they explore the creative highs and questionable lows of AI tech. Can a machine understand queerness? Is ChatGPT emotionally available? And who would your celebrity hall pass be? Along the way, the hosts dive into personal insights, hidden talents, life-changing books, and their unfiltered thoughts on joy, identity, and celebration in the queer community. Plus, a live rapid-fire session with ChatGPT delivers surprising, shady, and sometimes shockingly insightful responses you won’t want to miss. Whether you’re AI-curious or just here for the celebrity hall passes, this episode brings the laughs, the depth, and the data.

In this special teaser, the I Am Just Gaying hosts are handing over the mic — to YOU! That’s right, for episode 11 of the season, we’re letting our listeners choose the topic and inviting the winner to join us as a special guest. Got something gay, juicy, brilliant, or bold you want us to dive into? Now’s your chance to shape the show. Listen to this teaser, get the details, and send in your ideas.

Get ready to move your hips and your heart! 💃🏽🏳️‍🌈In this episode of I Am Just Gaying, hosts Rahshek Darnell and Hernando Del Castillo dive deep into the vibrant intersection of music, culture, and queer identity. From the underground house beats that sparked liberation to the reggaetón anthems that still set the floor on fire 🔥, we’re celebrating the Black and Latinx artists who shaped the soundtrack of queer joy. 🎶 Expect iconic songs, Beyoncé worship (of course), personal stories, a little bit of vulnerability, and a whole lot of love for the rhythms that raised us.We’re talking Sylvester, Crystal Waters, Big Freedia, Chappell Roan, Daddy Yankee—and how music gives us freedom, community, and the power to live mighty real. ✨ Plus: We're calling on YOU to help shape future episodes. What tracks move you? What stories do you want told? 🎙️ Episode 9 is your invitation to dance, dream, and stay mighty real with us.

Join us for a powerful and heartwarming episode of the I Am Just Gaying Podcast as we welcome Paula Boykin, founder of Paula’s Kitchen Mission. In this Women’s History Month spotlight, Paula opens up about her journey to launching a food justice initiative that addresses homelessness and food insecurity—rooted in the legacy of her grandmother’s open-door, open-heart philosophy. We dive into:🍲 The realities of food deserts and systemic food access issues🏘️ The interconnectedness of healthcare, education, and food security📢 The importance of local elections and policy change🌟 The impact of community care, personal stories, and small acts of kindness🍳 Comfort food, family recipes, and the joy of cooking for others This episode is a celebration of resilience, community, and the everyday heroes who feed more than just bellies—they feed souls.

In this episode of I Am Just Gaying, hosts Rahshek Darnell and Hernando Del Castillo dive into the meaning of community and its role in combating the growing loneliness epidemic, a concern highlighted by former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy. They reflect on their personal definitions of community, cultural influences, and the power of connection and support. The discussion expands to the triad of fulfillment—relationships, service, and purpose—unpacking how these elements shape a meaningful life. As they share their vision for the podcast as a space for building community, they also highlight personal moments of joy and purpose. Tune in for an insightful and heartfelt conversation on what it truly means to belong.

We’re back, baby! After a much-needed self-care break (aka lying in bed contemplating life while binge-watching reality TV), we’ve returned refreshed, recharged, and ready to cackle. This episode is all about laughter—the good, the ugly, and the nearly life-threatening (yes, we almost caused an accident mid-giggle, but let’s not dwell on that). Join Rahshek Darnell & Hernando Del Castillo as we unpack:🤣 Why laughter is nature’s best antidepressant (no prescription required)🌈 How comedy strengthens queer communities and keeps us sane🧠 The science of laughter (it’s called gelatology, and no, it’s not a new skincare trend)🚗 That one time we almost met our ancestors because we were laughing too hard So, if you need a break from doomscrolling, existential dread, or the chaos of it all—hit play and let’s laugh our way through life together. 💖 New episodes available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, & YouTube!📢 Follow us on social media (@iamjustgaying) for more unhinged fun! #IAmJustGayPodcast #LaughingOutLoud #QueerJoy #LaughterIsHealing #GayAndGiggles